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MtnBikerChk
09-25-2002, 06:35 AM
Other women: the secret of monogamy

A new study from the Gestalt Institute in Italy confirms what we’ve always suspected about European men: they’re dogs. The survey of 1,000 Italian men concluded that an overwhelming 72 percent have a flirtatious bond with at least one co-worker. But here’s the catch: all that flirting actually strengthens their relationships with their partners.
"There are a number of reasons frequent flirting at work can be good for you," says Isadora Alman, of www.askisadora.com. First of all, it promotes what sex therapists call simmering, meaning it helps to keep you sexually excited all day long. So you're more eager to have sex with your partner once the workday is over. It can also help to reduce workplace stress and anxiety.
But the biggest reason flirting is good for men, according to Alman, is because it helps to boost our egos. "Being able to flirt successfully is a great boost to a person's self esteem," says Alman. "If you feel good about your self, and can flirt without crossing borders your partner has set (or jeopardizing your job), you're going to become more confident and self-assured. And that boost in confidence and sexual energy can make you more attractive and more desirable to your partner," she says.

Dr. Pain
09-25-2002, 06:39 AM
What about flirting and women? :thumb:

DP

w8lifter
09-25-2002, 07:42 AM
This is a good post MBC...as a former "flirt" I can tell you it does promote "simmering" (good term :p ) and lack of it is noticeable.

First of all, it promotes what sex therapists call simmering, meaning it helps to keep you sexually excited all day long. So you're more eager to have sex with your partner once the workday is over.

This statement says it all!

Leethal
09-25-2002, 08:05 AM
Your mate is on ice all day long!!

mmafiter
09-25-2002, 01:08 PM
Originally posted by w8lifter
This is a good post MBC...as a former "flirt" I can tell you it does promote "simmering" (good term :p ) and lack of it is noticeable.

First of all, it promotes what sex therapists call simmering, meaning it helps to keep you sexually excited all day long. So you're more eager to have sex with your partner once the workday is over.

This statement says it all!

Flirting is ok, but there is a line that many people cross and then wonder why thier significant other gets upset.:finger: :rolleyes:

As for the second statement, yeah right.:confused:

Trap-isaurus
09-25-2002, 08:05 PM
I have read another study that surveyed italian men over the age of twenty, the survey was about using the services of a "Proffesional" something astonishing like 72% said they had in fact been with a prostitute at one point or another.