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bigedawg23
01-30-2011, 04:13 PM
For as long as I remember I've had this problem. I'm not bragging but I've def. never had any problems getting laid. My problem was ans still is, My dick's hard 20 minutes before we even have sex so by the time I put it in her I pump a few times and bam,it's over.Guys make jokes like i wish I could get it over with that quick. But imagining picking up that1 hot chick at the bar and getting her home getting down to business and it only takes 2 mins!!!! She may not say it but you know she's thinkinh"I took my clothes off for that"??? Or since i'm in a relationship i have to spend-45 mins 4 play getting her off just so I don't feel so ashamed for my 2 pump chump. Also, I'd love to make love to her for a long period of time but I can't due to my problem. I've tried masturbating in the bathroom 1st, cock rings but no help. It's like after I get off that 1st time the desire to have sex isn't that strong anymore and I don't care about getting off again.
Any Help!!!!! p.s no problem getting it up just nutting 2 fast, I can get it back up 5-10 minutes later but that overwhelming desire is gone,

SilentBob187
01-30-2011, 04:34 PM
Could be sensitivity, could be mental. I'd think that with the frequency that you're bringing home the ladies that it would gradually resolve itself as you had more sex.

In any event, there are desensitizing topicals out there (dunno how that would work/if it would do the same to the girl as well,) which kinda numb your goodfella. There are also books and Tantric sex. Also, you could LHJO up to just before climax (yes, blue balls indeed,) which could help you to last longer as well.

That's all I can think of atm.

Work IN Progress
01-30-2011, 04:43 PM
First of all dont ever call it MAKING LOVE again.

Guys dont make love, they fuck, bone, dick down, or plow.

Second, once you pop, just keep on going. If you dont give your man time to get soft then it wont.

Its not rocket surgery. Just fucking. The girl will be more impressed by your willingness to give her 2 loads instead of just one and all the while shes getting more penis than she had bargained for.

GFR
01-30-2011, 04:45 PM
I always jacked off at least 5x a day ( true story) I can and could fuck for hours.

My advice, jack off as much as possible and be rough about it....force it to last.

malfeasance
01-30-2011, 06:30 PM
The solution if you cannot keep going twice in a row (which ability goes away with age) is to turn 40. Then it takes too long. There is a short period in your 30s when it seems to take just the right amount of time.

Blktaws6
02-01-2011, 10:49 AM
[with the frequency that you're bringing home the ladies that it would gradually resolve itself as you had more sex.
QUOTE=SilentBob187;2169027]Could be sensitivity, could be mental. I'd think that
In any event, there are desensitizing topicals out there (dunno how that would work/if it would do the same to the girl as well,) which kinda numb your goodfella. There are also books and Tantric sex. Also, you could LHJO up to just before climax (yes, blue balls indeed,) which could help you to last longer as well.

That's all I can think of atm.[/QUOTE]

these definitely do work. we got the wrong kind one time and i couldn't feel my dick after a while. sucks cause I got no pleasure feeling anymore, i was just working out while my wife was enjoying it.

Big Pimpin
02-01-2011, 11:07 AM
Are you less sensitive with a jimmy hat on vs bare back?

bigedawg23
02-06-2011, 06:46 AM
Are you less sensitive with a jimmy hat on vs bare back?

Nope,same thing. I'm gonna try some of the desensitizing cream the guy was talking about. Not being able 2 feel my dick may be a good thing. I don't care as long as she's getting off. I get as much pleasure listening to them moan, and watching their facial expressions as much as I do getting off. But I don't get enough time to listen/watch if when I put in I blow 2 mins later. I've also tried waiting to cum to. like i'll get to the point where I know i'm going 2 get off if I keep going,pull out.wait a few minutes & then repeat but that only lasts so long. I even tried Viagra thinking erectile dysfunction well my dick's not doing what I would like 4 it 2 be doing so I guess it could be that. It didn't help.My penis is best described as 1 of those things u find in nature I think they are called "touch me nots" because they are a small plant thing and there is 2 halves 2 it that stay together until something touches it then it pops open. Oh well.guess it could be worse/ I was thinking about trying cialasis but I heard it's the same as viagara. Any ideas???

SilentBob187
02-06-2011, 11:55 AM
Nope,same thing. I'm gonna try some of the desensitizing cream the guy was talking about. Not being able 2 feel my dick may be a good thing. I don't care as long as she's getting off. I get as much pleasure listening to them moan, and watching their facial expressions as much as I do getting off. But I don't get enough time to listen/watch if when I put in I blow 2 mins later. I've also tried waiting to cum to. like i'll get to the point where I know i'm going 2 get off if I keep going,pull out.wait a few minutes & then repeat but that only lasts so long. I even tried Viagra thinking erectile dysfunction well my dick's not doing what I would like 4 it 2 be doing so I guess it could be that. It didn't help.My penis is best described as 1 of those things u find in nature I think they are called "touch me nots" because they are a small plant thing and there is 2 halves 2 it that stay together until something touches it then it pops open. Oh well.guess it could be worse/ I was thinking about trying cialasis but I heard it's the same as viagara. Any ideas???

Try not to think about that while you're APing. I think that you may be letting your mind work against you.

Iohnwood
02-07-2011, 09:38 PM
You developed a mindset. Avoid thinking those things while getting laid.

Good Grip
02-08-2011, 12:52 AM
Id try looking at more porn on the net. If you can get like the guy who hits it 5 times a day then you will be ready.

SFW
02-08-2011, 12:58 AM
Tren will cure all of your premature ejaculation needs.

bigedawg23
02-08-2011, 05:02 AM
thanks 4 the solutions guys. As for the porn thing,done that already,no help.
It's hard not to think about it!!! I have been able to think of something else long enough to make sure she gets off luckily she's about as fast as I am! I may try the tren,1st I've heard of that. Some guys have problems with not getting it up and I thought maybe the deca would slow me down some but havn't tried it yet...

sprayherup
02-08-2011, 01:45 PM
Fuck a fat nasty chick, see if you have the same problem.

SilentBob187
02-08-2011, 08:59 PM
I may try the tren,1st I've heard of that.

Fantastico, the problem solver.

sulli174
04-02-2011, 10:48 AM
take four vicodin you won't cum all night

brdjame
04-13-2011, 12:10 AM
Traditionally, premature ejaculation has been regarded as having a psychological cause, usually some form of anxiety. More recently there has been interest in looking for microbiological causes, such as increased penile sensitivity and lower ejaculatory threshold. In any particular man it may be impossible to be certain about the cause.

There are many types of anxiety that may cause a man to ‘come’ too quickly, such as anxiety about his performance while having sex, fear of being caught in the act, concern about making his partner pregnant, or worry about catching a sexually transmitted disease (STD).

HACC
04-13-2011, 12:40 AM
Pop a few Viagra before you get her home, bitch will be happy for hours:ohyeah:

manmeet008
04-20-2011, 03:41 AM
The best thing which can serve this purpose is by taking Regenerect capsules.

M4A3
04-20-2011, 04:21 AM
Nope,same thing. I'm gonna try some of the desensitizing cream the guy was talking about. Not being able 2 feel my dick may be a good thing. I don't care as long as she's getting off. I get as much pleasure listening to them moan, and watching their facial expressions as much as I do getting off. But I don't get enough time to listen/watch if when I put in I blow 2 mins later. I've also tried waiting to cum to. like i'll get to the point where I know i'm going 2 get off if I keep going,pull out.wait a few minutes & then repeat but that only lasts so long. I even tried Viagra thinking erectile dysfunction well my dick's not doing what I would like 4 it 2 be doing so I guess it could be that. It didn't help.My penis is best described as 1 of those things u find in nature I think they are called "touch me nots" because they are a small plant thing and there is 2 halves 2 it that stay together until something touches it then it pops open. Oh well.guess it could be worse/ I was thinking about trying cialasis but I heard it's the same as viagara. Any ideas???

You should try the "get drunk" strategy.

If I'm drunk, I can't nut at all. I can still get hard, but I can't feel a damn thing. Seriously, when I'm like this, I couldn't shoot my load if my life depended on it. LOL.

If I want to impress a girl, I let her drive, and get a good amount of whiskey in me.

I find fucking for two hours, with no pay off for me, not that fun though. So, the girl has to be extra hot for me to do this.

Good luck bro.