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rebel
11-11-2002, 06:40 PM
in no way am i trying to brag or sound macho, but my wife and i have a serious problem. we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life. every time after we have sex her vagina becomes raw and irritated and causes her much discomfort. we've trying using extra lubrication but it never remains moist. just wanted to know if anybody has ever experienced anything like this before or could offer any suggestions. she's offered to continue having sex but there is no way i could ever hurt her like that. please help us both!!!

Pianomahnn
11-11-2002, 07:10 PM
Originally posted by rebel
but it never remains moist.

Curious...if a "marital aid" (dildo) were used, does the same thing happen? Because from what you wrote, it doesn't seem like a size issue, but more like a lube/chafing issue. Have you tried other lubes, or even using condoms? Latex is smoother than the skin, and most likely would slide better.

Also, I've read and see specials on women who just can't have sex without irritation. It was quite a long time ago, and I cannot recall the name it was given, but I do recall it being similar to your situation. Sever discomfort during/after sex.

How about the doctor? Gyno? He/she should be able to offer much better opinions than me.

SteveDeBeave
11-12-2002, 11:22 AM
I would try different types of lubrication. Did you try KY?

Prince
11-12-2002, 11:26 AM
I agree, this sounds more like a lubrication issue.

Dr. Pain
11-12-2002, 11:52 AM
Well, there is such a thing as too big, (can't belive I said that).........I hear from women about that "Mambo Ear of Corn"...the one the looks good, but just doesn't fit. I have a friend in San Diego, a fitness competitor....she dreds sex with her husband.........what she calls "Two beer cans end to end" Her solution is to relax with some alcohol and ibuprofen.


DP

The Berg Master
11-12-2002, 12:14 PM
Cheer up mate. Would have been worse if it had been too small, ye? Lubrication is important especially if the woman is the dry type ;)

CLPgold
11-13-2002, 03:17 PM
I had the same problem with my ex, and he was not too big and lubrication was not a problem. I have cum to the conclusion that one can actually develop an allergic reaction to their mates semen (secretions, whatever). One friend of mine a few years ago had the same problem with her man. She's now been with another man for a few years and no problem. I've also had no problem with anyone else (when I actually do get sex), no matter how big they may be.

Must be some kind of irritation that develops. Could be wrong, but that was my experience.

Robboe
11-13-2002, 03:25 PM
Get a knife and lop a few inches off.

That ought to sort it.

Prince
11-13-2002, 03:31 PM
you find a new mate.

see, there are males that have small, average and large units, and there are also females that have small, average and large units.

if you put a large unit with a small unit in either case (male or female) you are going to have problems.

this sounds like a case of a large unit with a small unit, if it was a average unit with a large unit it would probably be okay.

make sense?

urso8up
11-13-2002, 05:33 PM
I'll have to go with trying different lubrication and see how that works

Duncan
11-19-2002, 10:33 AM
Originally posted by CLPgold
I have cum to the conclusion that one can actually develop an allergic reaction to their mates semen (secretions, whatever).

Must be some kind of irritation that develops. Could be wrong, but that was my experience.

Maybe this is why I am always irritated when I wake up and they are still there in the morning.

I guess it isn't just me after all. ;)

irontime
11-19-2002, 10:39 AM
:haha:
Is there any cream to make them go away?:lol:

Duncan
11-19-2002, 10:40 AM
Yes, it is called poverty. :D

w8lifter
11-19-2002, 10:44 AM
:haha::haha::haha:

I Are Baboon
11-20-2002, 07:06 AM
Originally posted by rebel we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life.

I do not have this problem. No, definitley not. :D

ZECH
11-20-2002, 07:20 AM
Originally posted by I Are Baboon
I do not have this problem. No, definitley not. :D
Too much info! Now CLP on the other hand, I would love to hear more from!!:D

chadstallion
01-22-2015, 12:42 PM
in no way am i trying to brag or sound macho, but my wife and i have a serious problem. we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life. every time after we have sex her vagina becomes raw and irritated and causes her much discomfort. we've trying using extra lubrication but it never remains moist. just wanted to know if anybody has ever experienced anything like this before or could offer any suggestions. she's offered to continue having sex but there is no way i could ever hurt her like that. please help us both!!!

if she can't handle it in her vagina then put it in the butt. If a butt can handle all those dildos, hands and fists, then a large penis shouldn't be a problem. It seems that the butt stretches more.

murf23
01-22-2015, 10:41 PM
^^^^^^^ Thread is 13 years old bro ....Guy with the big dick not around here anymore .. Only guys with small dicks are allowed here now .. We change the rules ... No big dicks allowed ...So you are welcome to stay :winkfinger:

chadstallion
05-22-2015, 04:33 PM
whew;I was afraid i'd have to take my 8 incher and leave. glad I can stay.

melochai
08-17-2015, 03:36 AM
Watch a Child Birth , then tell us how you're too big... LoL

BFG
11-22-2016, 10:37 PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bvRc7pwnt0U You should use Vaseline... :D

Pumper23
12-22-2016, 01:17 PM
Lol, #bigdickproblems

Prince
12-22-2016, 01:53 PM
I agree, this sounds more like a lubrication issue.

posted this over 14 years ago! :nail:

Pumper23
12-22-2016, 02:31 PM
posted this over 14 years ago! :nail:

still big problem ;)

Prince
12-22-2016, 06:40 PM
I wish it were my problem! lol

Zaphod
01-01-2017, 02:21 PM
Not an issue for me. Normally I take a magazine and roll it up around my dick, sleeve it up a couple sizes.

GearsMcGilf
01-05-2017, 04:36 PM
If a broad can squeeze a fucking 8lb baby out of her pussy, then she can certainly fit your gigantic pornstar-sized e-penis. It sounds like she's just not getting aroused by you very much at all. There are precisely two options here.

Firstly, you can let her go (as she is obviously not in love with you) so that she can find a guy who "does it for her."

Second option: use astroglide or another good lube to keep her well lubed, both before and while fucking her.
3. Lastly, and the most reasonable IMHO since she is your wife, you should force it ALL the way in there, as deep as YOU wish, wet or not, and the more she complains, the harder and deeper (and dryer) you should pound it. After all, she is your wife and is supposed to accept you and make you happy even when it inconveniences her.

This being said, it sounds like she is just not aroused by you and you need to let her know that the burden is on her to make you feel good, not the reverse. Be a man, not just a big dick.


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meanstreek
01-11-2017, 12:09 AM
:roflmao:

botamico
09-11-2017, 03:18 AM
It can be an arousal problem or I heard people say too much hair down there can cause that problem too.

JODER
10-30-2017, 04:53 PM
That's a nice problem to have.

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