Powerlifter_123
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Well I'm 16 years old and I just started seeing this girl just recently, and she seems really nice. It's just like when were together, nothing else matters. We can just hold hands, cuddle, kiss and talk. She's told me that she loves me, and I feel the same way about her. I know you guys are probably like, this guys only 16 years old and it's just a crush and he???ll get over it, and probably think I'm just wasting your time, but I'm not. You see, I've only had one serious relationship up to now and it lasted about nine months. She's only had one serious relationship and it almost lasted 2 years. The thing Is that I'm a virgin, and I was talking to a friend of mine last night and he told me that her ex-boyfriend had told everyone that he had slept with her after they broke up. I didn't know about this and I've just been going crazy. I mean I just can't think of her and help but knowing that this other guy got the best of her. I actually know the guy and we used talk, because I used to workout after school at the weight room with his older brother, and he???s the type of guy I can just see taking advantage of her. The thing is I don't know if he was just talking or if it really happened. I mean her and me seem really close. The day we started being boyfriend and girlfriend I could hold her hand and hug her and walk her to all her classes and we would skip classes so we could just spend time together hold each other sitting on a bench. Then after a few days we already kissed. I Mean if we got that close after only a week, imagine what they did over the course of those almost 2 years. Anyways, I don't know how to talk to her about it. What should I tell her, should I tell her how I really feel? Should I even ask? Should I forget what my friend told me? I'll just be straight out, I feel really bad because I can really see this relationship going somewhere, and I just know that???s heading in the direction of us having sex, but I feel horrible because when I think of us and how much we love each other and us being together, I can't but help thinking of how much more special it would be if our first time was together. I just want to know how to bring up the subject or find out the truth. I was thinking of just casually bringing up her old boyfriend, then asking how far they got, but didn???t really know what to do. If she wasn't a virgin should I even think anything about it? I mean, maybe I'm just being weird and overprotective and paranoid. I just feel straight out bad that I know this now that I've got to really know her and not before we started going out. At least it would have been out of the way and in the past. In fact I just wish I would have known period, or that she would have told me herself. I guess I just hated hearing it from my friend. I'm sorry if some of this doesn't make sense but I'm just trying to get this down as fast as possible so I can get some help.