
Originally Posted by
sassy69
Generally if you're just getting started at it, the most important thing is to establish a program that you will follow - i.e. it fits into your lifestyle. IMO the least important thing to fixate on is "how fast" and "how much" you can lose. The more important thing is to get the program established and be consistent about it. The gains (or "losses") will be more maintainable instead of a dramatic loss based on starvation after which you will stall out and then rebound. You'll be happier just seeing the progress than being driven by obsessing on not being at the extreme goal you want.
Its the journey, w/ small wins along the way, that make the trip to the destination more satisfying than fixating on the destination. (Because the challenge once you reach a goal, is to either maintain it or make a new goal!)