Why won't she listen?

**Katia7** · 03-16-2005, 09:14 AM

The woman I'm renting with keeps on trying to feed me these donuts. Yesterday she brought it into my room and insisted on leaving it there. She was like "Come on help me out or I'll eat them all." But I trashed it as soon as she left. If she doesn't want them why woesn't she just throw them out instead of trying to feed me? Then today I wake up and she put 2 of them all pretty on the plate and is like "Those are for you." I'm NOT eating those dounuts!!! Don't even like them and I know they'd give me stomach problems. Why is she pushing them on me so much???!!! grrrrrr

**shiznit2169** · 03-16-2005, 09:27 AM

because people like her dont understand the strict diet we maintain to be in good shape. A lot of people think we are wasting our lives lifting and not eating all the sweets and sugars that they do.

Well i got something to say, 5-10 years down the road you can show her your body and compare it to a guy who ate donuts everyday. Then she'll understand.

**seven11** · 03-16-2005, 09:29 AM

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

because people like her dont understand the strict diet we maintain to be in good shape. A lot of people think we are wasting our lives lifting and not eating all the sweets and sugars that they do.

Well i got something to say, 5-10 years down the road you can show her your body and compare it to a guy who ate donuts everyday. Then she'll understand.

yup exactly i agree with u

**BritChick** · 03-16-2005, 09:39 AM

I would insist that she NOT leave them and that if she does they will only end up in the garbage, if she still insists put them in the garbage while she is still there... she'll get the hint eventually.

**Yanick** · 03-16-2005, 09:57 AM

Originally Posted by BritChick

I would insist that she NOT leave them and that if she does they will only end up in the garbage, if she still insists put them in the garbage while she is still there... she'll get the hint eventually.

exactly.

she might get mad, but unless she's a moron she'll understand that its nothing personal and if we could all stay healthy eating crap all the time we would but we can't so we don't (that sentence got me dizzy, lol).

**BulkMeUp** · 03-16-2005, 10:11 AM

Originally Posted by Katia7

The woman I'm renting with keeps on trying to feed me these donuts. Yesterday she brought it into my room and insisted on leaving it there. She was like "Come on help me out or I'll eat them all." But I trashed it as soon as she left. If she doesn't want them why woesn't she just throw them out instead of trying to feed me? Then today I wake up and she put 2 of them all pretty on the plate and is like "Those are for you." I'm NOT eating those dounuts!!! Don't even like them and I know they'd give me stomach problems. Why is she pushing them on me so much???!!! grrrrrr

Coz misery loves company! Prolly she is not happy with her bod and is trying to drag you down with her.

**Flex** · 03-16-2005, 10:22 AM

grab a donut off the plate, drop it on the floor, then pee on it.
then i think she'd get the point.

**BulkMeUp** · 03-16-2005, 10:24 AM

..or for $25 FLEX will make your doughnut lady disappear!!

**Flex** · 03-16-2005, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by BulkMeUp

..or for $25 FLEX will make your doughnut lady disappear!!

it's $50

**Katia7** · 03-16-2005, 10:36 AM

Eh.. I don't want to be rude... So far they're just laying on that "pretty plate" and getting all hard and spoiled lol Soon there will be ants crawling all over them.. maybe then she'll get the hint that I'M NOT GONNA EAT THEM!
Ofcourse if it was something I liked, it would've ended up in the garbage a long time ago and I'd pretend like I ate it lol But these don't apeal at all to me so I'm gonna be mean and leave them there for her to look at until she gets the hint.

**Kracin** · 03-16-2005, 10:43 AM

omg, when i was losing weight i had the same problem. friends wouldnt quit trying to offer food and give food. thinking "hey come on, its just one, you can have it" and every time you say no and go eat something healthier all you get is weird looks. the best way is to just be forward with them. i had to resort to force one time though to get the point across lol.

as for the doughnuts, i say go with the ideas, toss em in the trash while she in in the room if she keeps insisting you eat them with her and you already said no

**BulkMeUp** · 03-16-2005, 10:45 AM

Originally Posted by Katia7

Eh.. I don't want to be rude...

You could also give her some lame excuse about your 'blood sugar' levels and how you must 'avoid certain foods for health reasons'.

**JLB001** · 03-16-2005, 01:01 PM

Tell her you don't want to look like a fatazz.

**JLB001** · 03-16-2005, 01:17 PM

Have you ever seen a donut that has been sitting out for a week? The look like bricks. You could throw them and they would shatter into pieces.

**maniclion** · 03-16-2005, 02:21 PM

Make a tuna shake for her everyday and see how she likes it.

**GoalGetter** · 03-16-2005, 02:45 PM

Maybe she is being so persistent because the donuts are laced with rat poison.

Have you upset her in any way?

Seriously though, just tell her flat out. It's not rude of you to tell her thank you but you are on a strict diet and also you don't like them. It is more rude of her to be so persistent though you have clearly not been responsive to her offer in the past. You've gotta tell her flat out what the deal is.

**Missfit4all** · 03-16-2005, 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by BulkMeUp

Coz misery loves company! Prolly she is not happy with her bod and is trying to drag you down with her.

That's funny!!

I was thinking the EXACT same thing! "Misery loves company" I believe is true! Unfortunately, those types of individuals don't want You any better off?

B on the lookout 4 People of Misery...100% agreed upon!!!

"Here little darlin'...you been working out awfully hard lately....why not try one of these sugar pie?" When she walks away... she is doing one of these....

LOL!

**ihateschoolmt** · 03-16-2005, 05:34 PM

My mom does the same thing to me.

**sara** · 03-16-2005, 05:46 PM

Tell her the truth

Nothing wrong with that

**musclepump** · 03-16-2005, 06:13 PM

She's trying to kill you.

**Missfit4all** · 03-16-2005, 06:55 PM

wonder how many Calories R in 1 donut? I read not long ago there was 500 Calories in 1 lg muffin!!! Could U imagine the donut? Probably 1000?

**Little Wing** · 03-16-2005, 08:34 PM

Originally Posted by maniclion

Make a tuna shake for her everyday and see how she likes it.

i like this idea. i don't really know what a tuna shake is but even tho i love tuna it sounds bad.

**Witmaster** · 03-16-2005, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by Missfit4all

wonder how many Calories R in 1 donut? I read not long ago there was 500 Calories in 1 lg muffin!!! Could U imagine the donut? Probably 1000?

It's loaded with fat

**ReelBigFish** · 03-16-2005, 08:49 PM

shit not Krispy Kreme, they are like 240 for one i believe and thats reg. glazed.

edit: okay its 200 cals.

**Missfit4all** · 03-17-2005, 08:03 AM

Wow! looks like 1 donut has High everything!!!

High Calories -- 192
High Fat -- 10g.
High cholesterol -- 14mg
High Sodium -- 181mg
High Carbs --23g.

now x that by 2 donuts?

Calories = 384
fat = 20g
cholesterol = 28mg
sodium = 362mg
carbs = 46g

Gee thanks! I always wanted 2 know what was in 1 of those Delicious highly addictive overly plump sized Morsals!

lol.

**Katia7** · 03-17-2005, 10:31 AM

Eh.. I tried all different things (the donut situation was not the 1st.. she always tries to feed me). I tried telling her that I like to eat only healthy food. I tried telling her that I have stomach problems and I have to eat only healthy food (which is truth also). NOTHING works. She's a nice lady, but I don't know why she doesn't understand "No thank you!"

**sara** · 03-17-2005, 10:46 AM

How old is she?

**Velvet** · 03-17-2005, 01:08 PM

Originally Posted by Missfit4all

wonder how many Calories R in 1 donut? I read not long ago there was 500 Calories in 1 lg muffin!!! Could U imagine the donut? Probably 1000?

287 for a Timmies Boston Creme Donut

**Katia7** · 03-17-2005, 02:18 PM

Originally Posted by sara

How old is she?

in her 60s I think

**SlimShady** · 03-17-2005, 02:20 PM

If it were me, I'd have just thanked her, then thrown the donuts in the trash. Donuts aren't free and she won't bring them everyday. Just be thankful you have someone who cares enough to bring you some treats.

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