personally from me, a guy point of view, i wouldnt date someone who had implants, i have but its doesnt feel natural. not putting u down but just do gear first then if you want get them. but maybe your chest might be better with bps i dont think so though but give gear a try first then you can decide. and i dont know if you had kids yet but a womans breasts increase in size after child birth. but iam not a woman so iam only one man giving my honest opinion, they dont feel normal, well at least the ones ive touched. there hard and i dont know, but no disrespect thats not my intention ok. good luck wat ever way u go.