Thread: venting

JEALOUSY! That's all it is and all it will ever be. People tend to notice things more when they aren't it themselves. Just smile knowing that you are doing things right, and most importantly, better then they are...

Keep it up, you look amazing! Don't let anybody bring off you pedestal...

Originally Posted by Ezskanken

JEALOUSY! That's all it is and all it will ever be. People tend to notice things more when they aren't it themselves. Just smile knowing that you are doing things right, and most importantly, better then they are...

Keep it up, you look amazing! Don't let anybody bring off you pedestal...

Gotta agree

Actually for me it is the heavy ones in my family that get mad cause I wont go eat some greasy food with them. I will offer to cook them food and usually get I want my food to taste good, I just smirk.

Dont let them get you down you look great!

Just do YOU! Little do you know you are setting an example. Maybe, just maybe, sometime down the road someone may tag along with you to the gym.

Originally Posted by lymbo

is it me? why does my family friends and co works always have so much so say about how i eat and going to the gym! and it is always the ones who dont work out or care what they eat..on and on all the time...its sunday why did you go the the gym! whats that you're eating! your going to wearing that!...uhhh Ya! because I can...my mother & 2 sisters are worst.. who are coming up from NC and already started on me about going to the gym while they're here... who wont be up when i go anyway...just sick of it some time...

Ignoring them is always a good option.

Originally Posted by lymbo

is it me? why does my family friends and co works always have so much so say about how i eat and going to the gym! and it is always the ones who dont work out or care what they eat..on and on all the time...its sunday why did you go the the gym! whats that you're eating! your going to wearing that!...uhhh Ya! because I can...my mother & 2 sisters are worst.. who are coming up from NC and already started on me about going to the gym while they're here... who wont be up when i go anyway...just sick of it some time...

Just do what you do. My wife and I get the same shit from her family.

Originally Posted by lymbo

is it me? why does my family friends and co works always have so much so say about how i eat and going to the gym! and it is always the ones who dont work out or care what they eat..on and on all the time...its sunday why did you go the the gym! whats that you're eating! your going to wearing that!...uhhh Ya! because I can...my mother & 2 sisters are worst.. who are coming up from NC and already started on me about going to the gym while they're here... who wont be up when i go anyway...just sick of it some time...

As much as they harp about it they are simply envious. You have the will and self-control to get yourself in shape and stay that way. Sometimes you might have to retaliate, though. "Oh my God! Do you know how many calories are in that? How many grams of fat? No wonder you don't even fit in spandex anymore!"

I get the same thing. People just don't understand how good it feels to feel good, and they think you're wasting your time/energy/money doing what seems like pointless exercise... you're already in good shape, why are you so nuts about it? I really think they don't understand that it's actually fun. Just make yourself happy.

Originally Posted by lymbo

is it me? why does my family friends and co works always have so much so say about how i eat and going to the gym! and it is always the ones who dont work out or care what they eat..on and on all the time...its sunday why did you go the the gym! whats that you're eating! your going to wearing that!...uhhh Ya! because I can...my mother & 2 sisters are worst.. who are coming up from NC and already started on me about going to the gym while they're here... who wont be up when i go anyway...just sick of it some time...

When you put all your focus and energy on you, will you be able to see the real you...

not really nuts about it or i would have posted on my facebook..they all just critique everything i do and god for bid i say anything about them and I never would anyway...I only offer help when asked..my sisters and I went out last night and I changed my top 3 times before they were happy..what ever it takes i guess...one good thing none of them can wear my clothes...

i know redneck but my focus is on my two little ones most of the time...I get mine...the gym is my happy Island get away