Thread: Sex and Pain

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yup.. but its not pain its a pleasure....

I've never felt pain having sex with a woman.

What guy would feel pain?

Maybe if your cock is raw from so much fucking I could see how it could hurt after a while...

This is an interesting topic. I have read this before in science journals. Many scientist believe it has to do with gender roles more than anything else. If you believe it doesn't hurt, your mind will make it true much of the time. Men are taught that you are suppose to be tough. Out of fear of not being a strong man, many will trick themselves into not feeling the pain, or at least not as much.

When I read that, I knew it was true. I lived with my parents for 17 years, and the entire time I never saw my dad ever show signs of pain. I asked my mom why that was, and she said he had too much pride to show weakness. I know his body felt the pain, but his mind blocked it out. I never once heard him say "ouch" I never heard him curse if he busted his knuckles when a wrench slipped.

To a huge degree, he was absolutely fucking nuts. But he had the gift of blocking out pain, and it had nothing to do with his physiology. It was mostly in his head.

Originally Posted by sprayherup

Maybe if your cock is raw from so much fucking I could see how it could hurt after a while...

lol true and you can block that out for a while but it only gets worse.

I had a full on nympho GF and as good as is was there comes a time when I had to say enough was enough although it fall on deaf ears. I ended up popping morphine tabs with viagra and manning up to the situation.

The Situation was well pleased.

Originally Posted by KelJu

This is an interesting topic. I have read this before in science journals. Many scientist believe it has to do with gender roles more than anything else. If you believe it doesn't hurt, your mind will make it true much of the time. Men are taught that you are suppose to be tough. Out of fear of not being a strong man, many will trick themselves into not feeling the pain, or at least not as much.

When I read that, I knew it was true. I lived with my parents for 17 years, and the entire time I never saw my dad ever show signs of pain. I asked my mom why that was, and she said he had too much pride to show weakness. I know his body felt the pain, but his mind blocked it out. I never once heard him say "ouch" I never heard him curse if he busted his knuckles when a wrench slipped.

To a huge degree, he was absolutely fucking nuts. But he had the gift of blocking out pain, and it had nothing to do with his physiology. It was mostly in his head.

Someone actually looked at the article.

Anyhow, I agree with your phenomenal insight and humbly ad.... that women express how they feel more than men.

this is interesting topic.

Originally Posted by ruster87

yup.. but its not pain its a pleasure....

agree

This was very informative articles. Who would l have thought right?! I am sorry for all the women out there.

Originally Posted by vortrit

I've never felt pain having sex with a woman.

You've never been on the recieving end have?
Have you?

All of us experience pain when we do first times ex with a virgin partner.I agree with you guys that women experience more pain than men.For women,If thrusting is the problem you may want to be on top so you control the thrusting. Doggy style also may be better because this position encourages G-spot stimulation rather than the cervix which is much more pleasurable.

Originally Posted by ross07

All of us experience pain when we do first times ex with a virgin partner.I agree with you guys that women experience more pain than men.For women,If thrusting is the problem you may want to be on top so you control the thrusting. Doggy style also may be better because this position encourages G-spot stimulation rather than the cervix which is much more pleasurable.

FALSE!!!!! No such thing as the G Spot!! The G Spot was made up by women to make men like me feel inferior because I can't find it! Its a bit like the word RAPE! Made up by the media to sell newspapers. The real term is "Suprise Sex". As in Suprise i just blew my load inside you!! BOOM!!

Originally Posted by yeksetm

FALSE!!!!! No such thing as the G Spot!! The G Spot was made up by women to make men like me feel inferior because I can't find it! Its a bit like the word RAPE! Made up by the media to sell newspapers. The real term is "Suprise Sex". As in Suprise i just blew my load inside you!! BOOM!!

I have to disagree with you, I am most certain I know where it is.

I used to know where it is, am married now and well lately the old girl just doesn't want to let me look for it . Hey at least I know where my G spot is...........

I think there is a cultural bias. Us asian women don't whine and complain about pain. My mom broke 13 ribs in a car accident and kept going to work in the rice fields. I've broken or dislocated two collar bones, dislocated shoulders, tibial fractures , end plate fracture of of the radius and kept racing or training.( mountain biking). I never put myself in a figure 8 sling after my two collar bone dislocations since it meant 8 weeks off the bike. So now it hurts like hell to put on a shirt over my head and it sticks out like a gruesome alien thing but who cares.

By the way, women can climax from the clitoris, a deep "g" spot and from anal sex alone. Don's ask if this is professional knowledge or personal, I am not going to tell....

It depends upon the circumstances in which the act is happening. It might cause more pain to women sometimes but not always.

I've heard of women experiencing intense vaginal paid during vaginal intercourse for various reasons. It would certainly make sense if her man is hung like John Holmes. Particularly, I could see anal being quite painful. Most I know said it was very uncomfortable initially, but not so bad after that. Still prefers conventional intercourse though. If I could find a woman who could cum from anal, I'd probably propose to her.lol

Originally Posted by min0 lee

You've never been on the recieving end have?
Have you?

I'm proud to say that I have not been.

When my wife is down around 110 lbs i can hit her pelvic bone, um....it stings a little

Originally Posted by Prince

I have to disagree with you, I am most certain I know where it is.

Yup, took me a while to find it but now it's game over every time for my better half...