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POLL! Cybering #2: The Physical Meeting

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Posted by: david

Although we all see commercials of this and cartoons but I just received an email from one of my friend's. He said that, his friend who has been cybering and pouring his heart out to this gal finally met her and she was 175 lbs. 5'3" and older than she stated. All over exagerrated info. Keep in mind, he did love her with all his heart and learned to love her personality.

He told the chick that he HAD to finally come down and drove from Central Florida to South Florida, (3 hours) knocked on her door, she opened it and he turned around, walked away not saying a word!

Do you think this is right after months of pouring his heart out.

It's a double lie in this situation.

What would you have done?


Posted by: david

Damn right I'd be crying and I'm admitting this!


Posted by: CRASHMAN

Dam right i'd be getting the shotgun and i'm addmitting this lol

sorry i had to vote that.......the whole internet dating thing kinda sucks went through that with my ex's friend....ya i had nothin to do lol. lucky me she was hot but i don't know think if it's the wisest move to put all your heart into somethin that could be a lie


Posted by: kuso

Why would you want to continue a relationship based on lies?


Posted by: CRASHMAN

he was in "love" but it sounds like he couldn't get any, so he had to date over the internet no offence to anyone


Posted by: david

Originally posted by kuso
Why would you want to continue a relationship based on lies?
For me, the "crying" descritptive is not from a broken heart but for being the biggest idiot on the planet! He didn't cry though but it certainly was a shitty drive home from what I was told. Kinda like humility and anger!

Continuance! Never! But some would.... I think??!?!?


Posted by: Mudge

Yes and no, if she lied then she is a liar, by definition, not cool.

At the same time, it almost makes it seem as if it meant nothing too him, but yet again, she was a liar, and that is tremendously fat. I knew someone who was 5'3" 130 and I thought she was huge, unless she lied about her weight, dunno.


Posted by: david

It's amazing why someone would cyber, claim that their this and that and then, when it comes time for the truth, WHAM!!!!!!!!!!!!


Posted by: butterfly

One of my brothers met his wife over the internet. They have been married for 2 years now, have a beautiful son together and we all think she's THE best thing that ever happened to him!!!

Of course, they didn't lie about themselves.


Posted by: david

Then again, on the other hand, their are some successful stories.

Web cams are great. That way when it's live, it's hard to fake something!


Posted by: Scotty the Body

True, I've heard a couple great stories of people meeting over the web, you just have to be smart about it.


Posted by: Mudge

I met my lady in a chat room about 3 years ago, I admit it Nobody was looking for anything, just chatting as friends, and so on and so on.


Posted by: david

Did you get to meet her and did you cyber?


Posted by: lean_n_76er

Walk away, Yes. Say nothing, no fukin way! I'd of gone off on the bitch!


Posted by: david

Originally posted by lean_n_76er
Walk away, Yes. Say nothing, no fukin way! I'd of gone off on the bitch!
Don't forget to add crying bc/ like most of us, we knew we've been had!!!!!


Posted by: crazy_enough

Give the biatch tons of shit (just to unwind and feel better!! I know, its selfish and pointless, but its what I would have done, just beiong honest!lol) and then reason!

If he fell in love with her "personality" tho, while it sux to be lied to, reconciliation should have been a possibility...

Its really hard to say, that would be a shitty situation!!


Posted by: Little Wing

maybe her mother answered the door?


Posted by: crazy_enough

Quote Originally Posted by rockgazer69
maybe her mother answered the door?
LOLOLOLOLOL


Posted by: Little Wing

she should have told him the truth. even if she believed he'd love her despite whatever she should have told the poor guy before he drove there. when you are talking online tho you need to realize that much could be illusion. find ways to erase doubt before you meet.


Posted by: Little Wing

i dunno tho i think he should have at least talked to her. if someone i was talking to hid things they were afraid to tell me it doesn't mean they invented their personality. tough call.


Posted by: crazy_enough

Quote Originally Posted by rockgazer69
i dunno tho i think he should have at least talked to her. if someone i was talking to hid things they were afraid to tell me it doesn't mean they invented their personality. tough call.
I agree with this....then again, how do you separate truth from lies after this...Starting a relationship with doubts is never very productive! Man oh man this type of situation would suck!!!lol The wonders of technology!!


Posted by: Little Wing

well even men you meet face to face there can be a lot that never meets the eye. my kids dad hid the fact that he was having affairs with men for years. i have too really beautiful babies but looks are not everything. maybe his looks blinded me to things i should have noticed.


Posted by: Little Wing

how old was she really? how old did she say? n what did she say her body was like? i can't believe she would just let him drive down there and be blindsided... it's kind of too weird. n how did he know it was her if he never said anything? what if it was her mother or sister a neighbor playing a joke? this is too interesting i want the rest of the story.


Posted by: maniclion

I chose stay just to be different, but to be honest I'dve never given her the time of day if she was stupid enough to trust a stranger over the net with her physical address, how dumb is that? He could've been lying about everything and really showed up at the door with a shotgun.


Posted by: Little Wing

i have given my address to people online. i think if you have talked for months or hundreds of hours in some cases, add phone conversations once you know them better you can feel secure. i did think what if he was a psycho and had showed up with a knife but that can be the guy you sit next to at work just as easily.

my grandfathers parents courted through letters and never met till long after they were in love. words will tell you more than looking at a person will. internet couples talk far more than some people who live together do and probably as a result some know each other better.


Posted by: Little Wing

plus shae is really not scary. i think i can take her.


Posted by: maniclion

Quote Originally Posted by rockgazer69
i have given my address to people online. i think if you have talked for months or hundreds of hours in some cases, add phone conversations once you know them better you can feel secure.
Please be very careful, if you haven't noticed folks can pretend to be whomever they wish for years on these boards. I think meeting at a public place for the first few times would be a much safer route.


Posted by: Little Wing

thats a good idea. and since talking to vanity i'm far more cautious, he knows of some scary things that have happened to people who were too trusting. thanks.


Posted by: Maynard Keenan

Try trusting my wife.....id trust a stranger on the internet more then her.


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