in no way am i trying to brag or sound macho, but my wife and i have a serious problem. we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life. every time after we have sex her vagina becomes raw and irritated and causes her much discomfort. we've trying using extra lubrication but it never remains moist. just wanted to know if anybody has ever experienced anything like this before or could offer any suggestions. she's offered to continue having sex but there is no way i could ever hurt her like that. please help us both!!!
Posted by: Pianomahnn
Originally posted by rebel
but it never remains moist.
Curious...if a "marital aid" (dildo) were used, does the same thing happen? Because from what you wrote, it doesn't seem like a size issue, but more like a lube/chafing issue. Have you tried other lubes, or even using condoms? Latex is smoother than the skin, and most likely would slide better.
Also, I've read and see specials on women who just can't have sex without irritation. It was quite a long time ago, and I cannot recall the name it was given, but I do recall it being similar to your situation. Sever discomfort during/after sex.
How about the doctor? Gyno? He/she should be able to offer much better opinions than me.
Posted by: SteveDeBeave
I would try different types of lubrication. Did you try KY?
Posted by: Prince
I agree, this sounds more like a lubrication issue.
Posted by: Dr. Pain
Well, there is such a thing as too big, (can't belive I said that).........I hear from women about that "Mambo Ear of Corn"...the one the looks good, but just doesn't fit. I have a friend in San Diego, a fitness competitor....she dreds sex with her husband.........what she calls "Two beer cans end to end" Her solution is to relax with some alcohol and ibuprofen.
DP
Posted by: The Berg Master
Cheer up mate. Would have been worse if it had been too small, ye? Lubrication is important especially if the woman is the dry type
Posted by: CLPgold
I had the same problem with my ex, and he was not too big and lubrication was not a problem. I have cum to the conclusion that one can actually develop an allergic reaction to their mates semen (secretions, whatever). One friend of mine a few years ago had the same problem with her man. She's now been with another man for a few years and no problem. I've also had no problem with anyone else (when I actually do get sex), no matter how big they may be.
Must be some kind of irritation that develops. Could be wrong, but that was my experience.
Posted by: Robboe
Get a knife and lop a few inches off.
That ought to sort it.
Posted by: Prince
you find a new mate.
see, there are males that have small, average and large units, and there are also females that have small, average and large units.
if you put a large unit with a small unit in either case (male or female) you are going to have problems.
this sounds like a case of a large unit with a small unit, if it was a average unit with a large unit it would probably be okay.
make sense?
Posted by: urso8up
I'll have to go with trying different lubrication and see how that works
Posted by: Duncan
Originally posted by CLPgold
I have cum to the conclusion that one can actually develop an allergic reaction to their mates semen (secretions, whatever).
Must be some kind of irritation that develops. Could be wrong, but that was my experience.
Maybe this is why I am always irritated when I wake up and they are still there in the morning.
I guess it isn't just me after all.
Posted by: irontime
Is there any cream to make them go away?
Posted by: Duncan
Yes, it is called poverty.
Posted by: w8lifter
Posted by: I Are Baboon
Originally posted by rebel we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life.
I do not have this problem. No, definitley not.
Posted by: ZECH
Originally posted by I Are Baboon
I do not have this problem. No, definitley not.
Too much info! Now CLP on the other hand, I would love to hear more from!!
