been glancing back and forth for a couple weeks,smiles,etc...
started saying hello a few days ago and slowly building up to more convo....
now im 29 keep in mind.......
so we sit next to each other throw some more smiles back and forth during class,etc...whisper a word here and there as professor is talking.....
problem is I cannot get more then a 20 sec convo going,she is talking to a friend outside every class till professor walks in and leaves right after...
~normally I would say she is closing herself off,but she could smile once and not look in my direction..... etc etc... even does the hair flip once and a while...
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today I finally said forget this,and basically after class just said "hey have a minute?" she said sure........
I said,you don't have class? she said no. I said ok so how are you with the material? she said very well,I said would you like to get together and study for everything,kind of review...since the professor did not do much....
she said "sure,when?" she told me her schedule and we pretty much set something up for friday since we both have classes rest of today and neither one of us has classes on monday....
so we are walking out and just kind of talking... she is telling me about this other class she has later and im telling her about a class I had earlier..as we are walking out I told her about a similar class I had in undergrad...*now keep in mind im not really seeing big IOI's here..(hair flips,light touching,etc...) def a lot of eye contact,thats about it...
~so then she goes,"wait,how old are you?" im like how old do I look? she thought I was 22,shes like are you in 20's or 30's..etc? I said I just turned 30... no real reaction,keep talking as we are walking out of bldg....
***soo then I asked how old she is,thinking 19-23 .............
she said " im 17" lol my jaw dropped basically,one because she is taking calc 2 basically out of hs and two bc im like hmmmmm that kind of changes things lol....
cliffs::: even if she was older,she didn't seem AS interested as I thought,however she could have just said she is busy or said she had to run after class,etc etc...
she then asked for my #....so I said oh great she must like me somewhat, OR im thinking maybe she wants mine so she just does not call???
by then I was nervous as all heck,so I said just email me on the school website lol
**** NOOOOOO idea what to do,I mean shes really cute and she could turn 18 soon but geeze lol.... plus im not even sure what the deal is on her end....
so any thoughts,advice,etc etc would be appreciated!!!!!!!
Posted by: ebn2002
fuk her on 18th bday and send me pics. GICH!
Posted by: ALBOB
You're thinking way too much. Forget about the age difference. Treat her like you would any other woman. If it works out, great. If not, move on. Relationships are already complicated enough, don't make them any MORE complicated.
Posted by: Dale Mabry
By law you can only finger her until she turns 18
Posted by: Hench
Originally Posted by ebn2002
fuk her on 18th bday and send me pics. GICH!
This.
Posted by: IronPotato
Originally Posted by ebn2002
fuk her on 18th bday and send me pics. GICH!
lol I knew id get some of those....
first question I guess is do I email her back to study? bc I know if I do I will end up chatting her up,etc....
and 2nd, from what I wrote,is she interested? I mean she could be but just shes young and naive and not a big flirter... lot could be read into this HOWEVER it is all contingent on what I want to do in the first place...
nothing = nothing to think about...
something, A lot to think about or a little.....
Posted by: REDDOG309
Lets just say you are closer to her Dads age than you are to her age and she will probelby tell you that on friday.
Posted by: Big Pimpin
Originally Posted by Dale Mabry
By law you can only finger her until she turns 18
Unless he's in the south.
Posted by: oufinny
Play with titties, let her give you some head and call it a day until she turns 18. All I can say is the moment you get her clothes off you are screwed since you will uncontrollably want to hit that ridiculous body I am sure she has at 17.
Posted by: IronPotato
Originally Posted by oufinny
Play with titties, let her give you some head and call it a day until she turns 18. All I can say is the moment you get her clothes off you are screwed since you will uncontrollably want to hit that ridiculous body I am sure she has at 17.
not even going there,at the very least...I would not even ask her out for some coffee till I knew she was 18 lol
that is if I even want to keep this study date w her on campus..although blowing her off isn't nice either since she was nice enough to say yes...
~even if she is just being nice or flirty.... interesting lil situation here,I suppose I could just say forget it all and go back to somewhat normal situations w women lol.... she might not even be interested at this point,who knows... or at the least maybe she could help me in the class,I actually could use the help... ahhh either way whole thing is amusing lol...
thanks for replies so far!
Posted by: ebn2002
If you pussy out PM me her number I'll deliver pics. Tell her I'm an expert in whatever dumb class it is. Im detroit too. Wayne state?
Posted by: MegaTron
Dude she is 17, you guys will have nothing in common, i would just fuck her and keep her as side piece, but whatever you do dont get into a relationship... If you were 35 and she was 25 its diffrent but when your 30 and she is 17 its just odd age, try to hit it thou.
Posted by: IronPotato
Originally Posted by MegaTron
Dude she is 17, you guys will have nothing in common, i would just fuck her and keep her as side piece, but whatever you do dont get into a relationship... If you were 35 and she was 25 its diffrent but when your 30 and she is 17 its just odd age, try to hit it thou.
lol whatever im doing,im not doing now..shes 17 lol...
that is if she is not creeped out by me being older,then again who knows could go either way...if she was much older I would say she would not have agreed to meet on campus or have asked for my phone number,then again like I said she might have asked so she could not call me lol,that might have been best thing...
when she said 17,in my head I said aw hell no she is not getting my number on the chance she is interested and gets clingy...that is when I said I will email you on the school website...
Posted by: ANIMALHAUS
Run away.
Posted by: IronPotato
I suppose that is a leading option.... could learn a thing or two (serious) however it could be trouble,actually I suppose aside from her being 18 or over the next best thing would be that she was a little weirded out by me being older then she thought and just have a good tutor so to speak,since I could use help in this one class..........
so many choices.... if she was 18 or I didn't care about morals and doing the right thing there would not be as many choices or trouble lol...
I have this 3 hr gap to think about how I want to approach it plus get some work done for next class and off to work for a little tonight.I suppose I could let it wait till much later tonight.... well see
appreciate all the posts/advice so far... you would think I have major issues w the ladies right? lol I walked away,I was like son of a B*tch out loud,people were starring lol
Originally Posted by ebn2002
