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Posted by: secdrl

My 1 year anniversary is coming up in March and my wife's grandmother gave us 1500.00 towards a Carnival Cruise. The total cost is 2100.00 so I was pretty stoked that she was giving us this money.

Anyhow, my wife told me she was going to take care of the deposit to reserve our spot. I called Carnival this morning to verify that the room was reserved and of course, he has no idea what I'm talking about.

I call my wife and she says "we'll talk when I get home." She gets home and tells me she spent the 1500.00 on "some really nice purses and a beautiful sundress." I don't think it's necessary to tell you what my reaction was. (I'm not even on Tren and it was bad)

I was thinking about booking the cruise for 1. Just me. And not letting her know about it. What's my next move?



Posted by: SRX

Take the sex favors for a year



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by SRX View Post
Take the sex favors for a year
Since I'm only coming up on a year of marriage, the sex is still pretty frequent. This could be an option.



Posted by: gearin up

book a cruise with her sister lol



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by gearin up View Post
book a cruise with her sister lol
lol..it's just her and a brother. He's all into that "art stuff,' he may even be a tranny. If so, he could definitely come with me.



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Posted by: secdrl

lol...if she wasn't working when I found out, I mighta caught her right between the running lights.





Posted by: troubador

Make her return that shit.



Posted by: Little Wing

the gift was for both of you she had no right. make her return it.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by troubador View Post
Make her return that shit.
That's what I said, bro. I told her to return it. Torques me up 'cause the money was supposed to be for our trip. I've never been this mad at her. I was seriously just not gonna say anything to her and pay for just myself to go.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
the gift was for both of you she had no right. make her return it.
That's what I've been trying to explain to her for the past 3 hours. She's sitting next to me watching me type this. She said, "yeah, get some advice from your steroid buddies." lol



Posted by: Little Wing

tell her you saved up $1,500 to get her a ring. when she asks on christmas about the ring tell her you changed your mind n spent it on some really nice gear.



Posted by: Little Wing

i'm a girl i don't do steroids but that was a very low thing to do to your partner. a real selfish bitch move.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
tell her you saved up $1,500 to get her a ring. when she asks on christmas about the ring tell her you changed your mind n spent it on some really nice gear.
She would be steamed if I did that...



Posted by: Little Wing

tell her i said, "come at me bro."



Posted by: Little Wing

tell her to lift up her skirt. i wanna see her balls.

she must have quite a set to assume a gift for the both of you was hers to blow on purses.



Posted by: secdrl

LOL...



Posted by: Little Wing

buy a 12 pack of your favorite skunky beer get hammered n pee in her new pocketbooks.



Posted by: Little Wing

and tell her every time she wears the new dress it's anal night.



Posted by: Little Wing

bro, she mad?



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
and tell her every time she wears the new dress it's anal night.
LOL..I just let her read that and she left. She wants to know who "little wing" is.



Posted by: Little Wing

a chick with a strong sense of fair play and a penchant for anal.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
a chick with a strong sense of fair play and a penchant for anal.
Wow. I'll keep checking my inbox for pics..



Posted by: Little Wing

i want pics of these purses. i've done some serious mooning over shoes but never lost my head over a purse.



Posted by: meow

Welcome to married life. that was quite selfish of her btw..



Posted by: troubador

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
That's what I said, bro. I told her to return it. Torques me up 'cause the money was supposed to be for our trip. I've never been this mad at her. I was seriously just not gonna say anything to her and pay for just myself to go.
I couldn't even begin to imagine having that conversation. If you hadn't posted this asking for advice I'd keep my mouth shut but she's dumb. That was a really stupid thing to do. Either she wasn't smart enough to realize the obvious (you'd be insanely pissed) or you're a push over and she still isn't smart enough to see it hurts her in the long run. Following that line of reasoning, I would suspect talking to her to be a waste of time. I'm sorry.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
i want pics of these purses. i've done some serious mooning over shoes but never lost my head over a purse.
I'll post pics when I can...she isn't back yet.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by troubador View Post
I couldn't even begin to imagine having that conversation. If you hadn't posted this asking for advice I'd keep my mouth shut but she's dumb. That was a really stupid thing to do. Either she wasn't smart enough to realize the obvious (you'd be insanely pissed) or you're a push over and she still isn't smart enough to see it hurts her in the long run. Following that line of reasoning, I would suspect talking to her to be a waste of time. I'm sorry.
Here's the thing..she is a psychologist and makes 105K/year. But, we have A LOT of bills. Both have brand new cars, nice house, nice things, etc. The fact they her aunt have us the 1K was the only reason we'd consider going. Don't know what we're gonna do now..



Posted by: Vibrant

damn, little wing is harsh but right.

just book a singles cruise for 1 and tell her that you'll be really jerked & tan by then.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Vibrant View Post
damn, little wing is harsh but right.

just book a singles cruise for 1 and tell her that you'll be really jerked & tan by then.
That's my plan..



Posted by: cg89

I mean you could murder her...thats the best option i would say, then turn yourself in so we don't have to deal with your shenanigans



Posted by: troubador

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
Here's the thing..she is a psychologist and makes 105K/year. But, we have A LOT of bills. Both have brand new cars, nice house, nice things, etc. The fact they her aunt have us the 1K was the only reason we'd consider going. Don't know what we're gonna do now..
Call Dave Ramsey



Posted by: troubador

and there's no way going on a cruise by yourself will help your marriage.



Posted by: Little Wing

if she's a psychologist you should be even more pissed. that means she knew better but just didn't give a shit. it was not just selfish it was unacceptable. it doesn't matter if the purse made her weak in the knees it was a bullshit move. i'd have a complete tantrum till it was made right. she needs to return the crap she bought and put the money toward the cruise as agreed. and fast. if you let her do this she will always walk all over you and she knows that's exactly what she did and what she is counting on you to tolerate. don't.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by cg89 View Post
I mean you could murder her...thats the best option i would say, then turn yourself in so we don't have to deal with your shenanigans
I could. I just got finished watching "Locked Up Abroad" on NatGeo. Last thing I need is a set of handcuffs.



Posted by: troubador

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
if she's a psychologist you should be even more pissed. that means she knew better but just didn't give a shit. it was not just selfish it was unacceptable. it doesn't matter if the purse made her weak in the knees it was a bullshit move. i'd have a complete tantrum till it was made right. she needs to return the crap she bought and put the money toward the cruise as agreed. and fast. if you let her do this she will always walk all over you and she knows that's exactly what she did and what she is counting on you to tolerate. don't.




Posted by: secdrl

I've learned over the past year that psychologists have more issues than the ppl they're trying to help. She does no wrong. Ever. I think she'll feel bad eventually, but I know how she is, she'll wanna compromise and ask if she can keep one of the things.



Posted by: Vibrant

I gotta ask though: has she ever done anything like this? Maybe shes testing you on how you react, women are sneaky like that and shes a psychologist.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Vibrant View Post
I gotta ask though: has she ever done anything like this? Maybe shes testing you on how you react, women are sneaky like that and shes a psychologist.
This is a first. We've never had anything given to us mutually where she took it for herself. Usually, I let her spend whatever/whenever...what can I say? She makes over 100K and I make less than half of that in the military and work.



Posted by: Little Wing

she's a grown woman not a child do not treat her like a child. right and wrong black and white NO reward for her behavior. the stuff goes back and the money goes toward a cruise. if you let this slide it will be a pattern and you will have a selfish and irresponsible partner the rest of your life.... or marriage at least.



Posted by: Dark Geared God

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
Since I'm only coming up on a year of marriage, the sex is still pretty frequent. This could be an option.
Lose her ...thats fuck up she didn't even tell you until she spent it..Of course she might say it was from her family so...well think of a good lawyer i think we have and interweb one her named Gershawn



Posted by: Dark Geared God

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
tell her i said, "come at me bro."
yea tell her to cum at me and i'll cum at her



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Dark Geared God View Post

yea tell her to cum at me and i'll cum at her
lol...



Posted by: secdrl

Little Wing, are you free in May for a 7 day cruise? I'll get bunk beds.



Posted by: Vibrant

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
Little Wing, are you free in May for a 7 day cruise? I'll get bunk beds.
Take the offer LW, no one says no to a free cruise.



Posted by: maniclion

She spent $1500 on several purses and dresses? I'll trade you, my woman will blow over $1500 on one purse, pair of shoes or jewelry.



Posted by: Little Wing

and it does not matter AT ALL that she makes more. you deserve to be treated with respect and this was a low, sneaky, shitty thing to do. she knows that.

tell her you're taking all your steroid buddies on a cruise. n she's paying.



Posted by: Little Wing

cum in her eye "accidentally" it really hurts.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by maniclion View Post
She spent $1500 on several purses and dresses? I'll trade you, my woman will blow over $1500 on one purse, pair of shoes or jewelry.
Got pics??



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
and it does not matter AT ALL that she makes more. you deserve to be treated with respect and this was a low, sneaky, shitty thing to do. she knows that.

tell her you're taking all your steroid buddies on a cruise. n she's paying.




Posted by: SloppyJ

I thought I was whipped....


But I'm really let down that no one has even brought up a good raping!



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by SloppyJ View Post
I thought I was whipped....


But I'm really let down that no one has even brought up a good raping!
Stay Tuned..I'm hiding behind the dumpster waiting for her to get back.



Posted by: cg89

So from this thread all i have came to the conclusion that secdrl's wife is selfish and he is having a e-affair with LittleWing...correct? PICTURES NOW



Posted by: SloppyJ

Do y'all have a joint bank account?



Posted by: D-Lats

She got any hot friends? Trades for an anl threeway hd cam involved



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by D-Latsky View Post
She got any hot friends? Trades for an anl threeway hd cam involved
She's got one you'll really be in to..shes about 5'5, triple and a dime. Name's Cara. Set it up?



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by SloppyJ View Post
Do y'all have a joint bank account?
No joint bank account. But, the money was for BOTH of us. At the very least, she should've given me 500.00 if she just wanted to spend it.



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Or





Posted by: D-Lats

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
She's got one you'll really be in to..shes about 5'5, triple and a dime. Name's Cara. Set it up?
Set it up



Posted by: secdrl

I'll post pics of the purses and dress later..this is her after a long, hard day shopping and eating at high-end restaurants.



Posted by: D-Lats

Any nudes bro? Tits or its not your wife.
Lets see Cara.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by D-Latsky View Post
Any nudes bro? Tits or its not your wife.

LOL..bro, I used to have a bunch on my phone, then got freaked out when I had to drop my phone off for repair and I deleted 'em all. If I posted pics of Mila Kunis, I'd be skepticarl..but come on, bruh, she looks good either way..



Posted by: D-Lats

Lol ya shes hot
I just like to see nudes



Posted by: secdrl

She's in the glasses..(Cara) Her sister is in the yellow.



Posted by: D-Lats

Not bad. Dont know if my wife would be cool with it... Its easier to beg for fogiveness than ask for permission though right.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by D-Latsky View Post
Not bad. Dont know if my wife would be cool with it... Its easier to beg for fogiveness than ask for permission though right.
lol



Posted by: ExLe

Quote Originally Posted by Dark Geared God View Post
Lose her ...thats fuck up she didn't even tell you until she spent it..Of course she might say it was from her family so...well think of a good lawyer i think we have and interweb one her named Gershawn
^^^

Bro...

Did you read the post where he said she makes six figs...

Double what he is making?...

I say fuck it... Just take it out on the weights and tell her you are going out on a guys night out...

Get a good whore and bang her in the ass...

That should take care of everything...

Don't forgett to tell her grandma or who ever it was that gave you that money for a cruise what sneaky move she pulled and how dissapointed you are to embarrass her...

And stiff her for Christmas... Tell her you were short on cash since you had to re-stock on gear or that your were scammed by Raws...



Posted by: Ezskanken

She's a Psyhologist and pulling this kind of stuff? She's definitely testing the waters bro, don't let her fuck with your mind like that. Do exactly what you wanted to do and not show her anymore that it is bothering you, in fact make it seem like it's water under the bridge. Then the day before you leave for the cruise leave your riecite out so she can see. Then when she calls you you asking about it, tell her, "we'll talk when I get home...".



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by ExLe View Post
^^^

Bro...

Did you read the post where he said she makes six figs...

Double what he is making?...

I say fuck it... Just take it out on the weights and tell her you are going out on a guys night out...

Get a good whore and bang her in the ass...

That should take care of everything...

Don't forgett to tell her grandma or who ever it was that gave you that money for a cruise what sneaky move she pulled and how dissapointed you are to embarrass her...

And stiff her for Christmas... Tell her you were short on cash since you had to re-stock on gear or that your were scammed by Raws...




Posted by: bdeljoose

I have to say get use to it secdrl. You will have a lifetime filled with her doing stuff like that. Women will always do what they want and never give in. With that kind of money I would grin and take it. This is why I probably will never get married, Im too stubborn to take it.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by bdeljoose View Post
I have to say get use to it secdrl. You will have a lifetime filled with her doing stuff like that. Women will always do what they want and never give in. With that kind of money I would grin and take it. This is why I probably will never get married, Im too stubborn to take it.
Bro, that's how I think. I won't lie, she takes care of me..hooked me up with a nice house and nice car..I'll just try to make her feel bad about spending our cruise money until she buys me something to make up for it.



Posted by: bdeljoose

She won't be able to complain about the money you spend on gears and training now.Purse compare to your body. I think you win .Ha Ha.



Posted by: DOMS

Quote Originally Posted by bdeljoose View Post
She won't be able to complain about the money you spend on gears and training now.Purse compare to your body. I think you win .Ha Ha.
This brings an interesting question: doe anyone here do gears and actually gets support from his woman?



Posted by: bdeljoose

My girl didn't like it at first. She is cool about it now. Roid rage is a myth and I can fuck 6 times a day.Without gears we fuck once a week.



Posted by: Vibrant

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
Bro, that's how I think. I won't lie, she takes care of me..hooked me up with a nice house and nice car..I'll just try to make her feel bad about spending our cruise money until she buys me something to make up for it.
like MOAR GEARZ!!! and whores of course



Posted by: DOMS

Quote Originally Posted by bdeljoose View Post
My girl didn't like it at first. She is cool about it now. Roid rage is a myth and I can fuck 6 times a day.Without gears we fuck once a week.
The did a study in regards to 'roid rage. They had a sampling size of 100 people. They gave half steroids and the other half a placebo. The study was double-blind (not even the person administering the injections knew if it was 'roids or not).

50% of each group exhibited signs of 'roid rage...



Posted by: bdeljoose

I'm normally miserable and pissed off. On gears I feel happier. I must have naturally low t.



Posted by: ebn2002

So you could freak out or whatever, but whats done is done. Main thing is to remember this shit when you have the opportunity to help "the couple" or just yourself, obviously she puts herself first and you should too.

You can use this as your opportunity to buy whatever you want, whenever you want to. And you can just use this story to justify whatever lavish shit you buy.

But honestly your girl sounds really selfish, and I hope you two are doing well in this economy for her to spend $1500 on BS.



Posted by: REDDOG309

I would flip the fuck out about this, And it has nothing to do with the 1500 bucks. It has to do with the way she put you second. I would have a problem with this. If you don 't deal with this now you will be a second rate citizen in your house for ever. Money does not dictate who the leader of the house is. But she didn't even consider you and thats gonna make for a long marraige, which if I was in the same situation it would make for a short marriage. good luck........



Posted by: Cgrant

Not saying your marriage is going to last for another year anyway, but.... if you take off on a cruise without her, that's a guarantee that you'll get divorce papers soon.. maybe delivered to the boat lol.

Sorry you're gettin hosed like this bro. Worst case, if you get divorced, you'll get alimony! Lol



Posted by: DOMS

Quote Originally Posted by Cgrant View Post
Sorry you're gettin hosed like this bro. Worst case, if you get divorced, you'll get alimony! Lol
I don't think it's legal for a man to get alimony. That's for women only.



Posted by: cottonmouth

Holy shit, she needs a real strong "correction" lol

There is no way that should be allowed to fly. Not just because of the amount, but the lack of respect. your married, so its 50/50. she was clearly not thinking of you when she made the decision, or she was and figured your just either be a push over or she was worth more in the relationship.

and figuring her profession she has to know a little bit, leading me to believe she thinks she is better than you or "worth more". either way its not good.



Posted by: IronAddict

That's truly messed up. Yeah, you're married, if she was gonna go off and spend that cash on anything other than what it was intended to be used for, it should have went to a stove, or a fridge or even a sofa. Something for the household. But to capriciously go out spend that cash on purses is very selfish among other adjectives I could use.

Dude, correct this shit or more of this will happen in your future. Women have to set boundries to see what they can and cannot get away with. It's not too late to make her return that shiite.



Posted by: Witmaster

The problem I have with this is the complete disregard she had for the trust you placed in her. The money was given to YOU to pay for a cruise for both you and your wife. You then, placed faith in your wife to spend the money as it was intended. She (obviously) had other intentions.

The issue here is not $1500. That’s hardly a tangible reason to dissolve a marriage over. The issue is her complete abandonment of the faith and trust you placed in her. She instead, chose to pursue her own selfish interests and blow the money on frivolous items rather than invest it in a vacation the both of you would enjoy.

Sure, I can see a spontaneous shopping spree. But she KNEW what the money was supposed to be intended for and chose to do otherwise. This is no bueno.

It would be unfortunate if your relationship dissolved over this. ESPECIALLY for her grandmother who gave you both the money in the first place. Dear ole Grandma gave you guys the cash as an investment into your relationship and, instead, it has become an object of clear division.

I’d go with Little Wing’s recommendation and make it a rule that every time she wears the dress, it’s anal night… then I’d go out and by a dozen more just like it and replace her wardrobe.



Posted by: oufinny

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
she's a grown woman not a child do not treat her like a child. right and wrong black and white NO reward for her behavior. the stuff goes back and the money goes toward a cruise. if you let this slide it will be a pattern and you will have a selfish and irresponsible partner the rest of your life.... or marriage at least.
This is the absolute fucking truth. If you let her win this, you will never ever be in a fair relationship. Give her 24 hours to make it right or get a divorce lawyer, that will save you tons of shit down the road. Money doesn't buy happiness and this will destroy your marriage as it will never get resolved, resentment will build and she undoubtedly knows with with her education.



Posted by: oufinny

Quote Originally Posted by DOMS View Post
This brings an interesting question: doe anyone here do gears and actually gets support from his woman?
I have never got one complaint from mine. She gets a little annoyed if my libido tanks but I just pop a cialis and fuck her silly. Secdrl, that chick just looks like a spoiled bitch. Also, tell her next time she wants to waste your money, go get a set of tits or stfu!



Posted by: REDDOG309

Quote Originally Posted by oufinny View Post
This is the absolute fucking truth. If you let her win this, you will never ever be in a fair relationship. Give her 24 hours to make it right or get a divorce lawyer, that will save you tons of shit down the road. Money doesn't buy happiness and this will destroy your marriage as it will never get resolved, resentment will build and she undoubtedly knows with with her education.
^^^^True this, once your balls are in the cookie jar they are tough to get back.
YouTube Video


45 seconds in it starts to get to the point



Posted by: myCATpowerlifts

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
I'll post pics of the purses and dress later..this is her after a long, hard day shopping and eating at high-end restaurants.
She looks like a girl I know...

Does she have a high-pitched/nasally voice?

Looks like it.

Bro how is this situation not taken care of already?

Don't treat her like a little girl. Talk to her like an adult.
Make her feel ashamed.



Posted by: gearin up

I make just into the 6 figs so I know what she brings in. Every 2 weeks she gets just about twice that amount so she can easily catch you up on your half. Im surprised she needed to take any money at all.



Posted by: SupaSwole

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
Here's the thing..she is a psychologist and makes 105K/year. But, we have A LOT of bills. Both have brand new cars, nice house, nice things, etc. The fact they her aunt have us the 1K was the only reason we'd consider going. Don't know what we're gonna do now..
You should ask her how her boyfriend liked the purse and dress. Because if she is a psychologist then she knew exactly what she was doing and obviously doesn't give a fuck.. You need to get some hand in that relationship bro . I suggest a weekend with the fellas , a strip club or 2, an ounce of blow and some hookers.. But that's just me

Oh yea grab her by the shoulders and shake the shit out of her



Posted by: secdrl

I hit her this morning whenever she came home..I think she gets it!



Posted by: Vibrant

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
I hit her this morning whenever she came home..I think she gets it!





Posted by: oufinny

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
I hit her this morning whenever she came home..I think she gets it!
All laughing aside I hope you didn't hit her but at least put that bitch in her place... on her knees with your dick jammed down her throat.



Posted by: Vibrant

secdrl, I posted this in another thread but I think it applies to you as well. be careful your woman doesnt do this to you:



YouTube Video




Posted by: Little Wing

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
I'll post pics of the purses and dress later..this is her after a long, hard day shopping and eating at high-end restaurants.

just to make her hate "Little Wing" even more..... she should have put a down payment on some tits. no one gives a rat's ass how cute her purse is.



Posted by: Vibrant

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
just to make her hate "Little Wing" even more..... she should have put a down payment on some tits. no one gives a rat's ass how cute her purse is.
+1 on the but I will need pics post-op as proof



Posted by: oufinny

Quote Originally Posted by Little Wing View Post
just to make her hate "Little Wing" even more..... she should have put a down payment on some tits. no one gives a rat's ass how cute her purse is.
That is what I said earlier, she isn't filling out that dress too well and should be thinking about getting a real set instead of a fucking purse that makes her look like a pretentious whore. I am already convinced she is cheating on you...



Posted by: secdrl

I don't know why, but I've been thinking about LW all morning. Can't get her outta my mind...



Posted by: oufinny

Quote Originally Posted by secdrl View Post
I don't know why, but I've been thinking about LW all morning. Can't get her outta my mind...
Get her naked and take pics, post up here and say that's what you get bitch...



Posted by: SloppyJ

Post noodz of her....for all of IM to LHJO to.



Posted by: secdrl

Quote Originally Posted by SloppyJ View Post
Post noodz of her....for all of IM to LHJO to.
Lol



Posted by: Dark Geared God

Quote Originally Posted by ExLe View Post
^^^

Bro...

Did you read the post where he said she makes six figs...

Double what he is making?...

I say fuck it... Just take it out on the weights and tell her you are going out on a guys night out...

Get a good whore and bang her in the ass...

That should take care of everything...

Don't forgett to tell her grandma or who ever it was that gave you that money for a cruise what sneaky move she pulled and how dissapointed you are to embarrass her...

And stiff her for Christmas... Tell her you were short on cash since you had to re-stock on gear or that your were scammed by Raws...
Shit tell that knigga to take half of what she earns



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