Create touching moments. Don't wait until you're tearing open the condom wrapper with your teeth before making that initial physical contact. Whether it's resting your hand on her leg while you're driving, or carefully pulling that loose strand of hair away from her face, a touch here and there will pay off big later. "Do this enough and she'll be jumping on you and wanting to have sex," says Marilyn Fithian, Ph.D., a sex therapist in Long Beach, California.
