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Posted by: naturaltan

it is scary changing jobs ... it's hard to think about leaving the security of a job, but sometimes it can be a blessing in disguise!

At the very least, you could meet with these people and listen to what they got to say and then decide from there. I'd check with the labour laws to see if they can cut your pay that much without notice. Going from $4000 after taxes to 2500 before taxes is like a BIG cut.



Posted by: hikerchick

OMG Stacey! That completely sucks!! But you are doing the right thing. Shorty is right, kill them with kindness in case you need a good recommendation, don't burn any bridges, then get the heck out of there as soon as you can! It is not worth it to be working somewhere that does not appreciate you, that is why I left my old company to be a stay at home mom for now.

BTW the company I used to work for did manufacturing and I hired CNC machinists all the time! I would have never known what one did before now.



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by dvlmn666
How did you know that's what I always do when I leave a company.

Well looks like you have some great prospects. And have the attention of your boss to. So think prositive and see what you can get.
Really..you do that too..great minds thing alike!!! Hey I didn't build my relationship w/ all these people for nothing right!

Yea I do have a few good prospects! (one HUGE one)

I'm really really trying to stay positive & kill everyone w/ Kindness like SS said. I tell ya.. I had a kickass bicep workout last night b/c I was SO PISSED!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Dvlmn~ I didn't know that it takes that long for a dog to be full grown..I hope Cody dosen't grow anymore!!! I love holding him!

Yep, I am going to have to wait on Leptigen.. thank god I didn't order it tuesday when I was bored at work!

Thank you about my legs..but ummm. yea right..hehe!!



Posted by: Stacey

NT- Your right, thats what my mom is checking on..to see if it is allowed for them to do this to me.

It will be hard to change jobs..but I do believe its TIME!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by hikerchick
OMG Stacey! That completely sucks!! But you are doing the right thing. Shorty is right, kill them with kindness in case you need a good recommendation, don't burn any bridges, then get the heck out of there as soon as you can! It is not worth it to be working somewhere that does not appreciate you, that is why I left my old company to be a stay at home mom for now.

BTW the company I used to work for did manufacturing and I hired CNC machinists all the time! I would have never known what one did before now.
Thats too cool that you know what a CNC machinist is.. Matt knows sooo much about machines- its crazy!

Yep it really really does suck!
I'm meeting with my boss at 1pm..but I doubt He will tell me anything I want to hear!




Posted by: hikerchick

Let's see, 1:00 your time, that's 11:00 my time. I'll be thinking about you then and sending lots of good thoughts your way.



Posted by: butterfly

Well, girl??? What happened at that mtg with your boss???

There are alot of resources in Houston to help you find a job. I'll find the internet sites and post them for you. I'll be glad to help you search too. You just need to email me with the specifics about what you know how to do in order to pull up good prospects.

Unfortunately, I think it is totally legal for them to cut your pay. They are probably doing it to give someone else more $ to stay and they know if they lay you off they'll have to pay unemployment.



Posted by: Stacey

Hickerchick, Your so sweet to think of me at that time!! Thanks girlie!

Butterfly.. Ya houston does have a ton of ways to look for jobs. I am going to start this weekend on my moms computer, and in the newspaper.
Your exactly right about them cutting my pay to pay someone more. They hired another processor and had to give her a salary.

At the meeting yesterday w/ my boss he explained to me why they did it. And he told me that he voted not to do it to me. But he was out voted by the other 3. The main reason they did it is b/c I was making more money than the Accountant here, and some others. My boss told me that he thinks I deserve making what I did.. and thats why He paid it to me. But now that we merged from the small the mortgage company we were, to this big private banking place everything is changing and unfortunatley that included my pay. Because according to Tina, the HR lady... I'm making more than other people with my job in the business. But thats Crap. I have been here for 6 years..but that didn't matter Mike said. He fought for me, and I believe him. He said that he would walk out the door right now, and start up that small mortgage company again..but he can't because he has $400,000 invested in this company.. That he gave the head man. SUCKS. Anyway... he told me that it will make him sooo sick if I quit because he has watched me grow up and we are friends, but he DID say that if He were me.. he would stay here, learn as much as I can from the HR/operations manager about processing loans, and everything she will teach me...and then quit in 3-4 months and go somewhere that will Pay me what I deserve. Or that maybe she will match what another co. would pay.

This is just really bad. I Feel like all my hard work here has gone down the drain. Although my boss said it had NOTHING to do with ME, personally, just that I was making too much money for what I do....according to Tina (Hr Lady) NOT according to Him, or the lady who I assist! WHATEVER.

I have been sooo depressed since this happend. I am crying all the time at home and just soooo frustrated!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

OHHH and to Top things off... Yesterday Matt found out that hes going back to the night shift (2pm-10pm) !!!! SOOO PISSED! Starting Monday!

just waiting for something else to happen.



Posted by: shortstuff

I am so sorry to hear all this, but listen to your old boss, learn as much as you can and take clients with and find a new and better job with an even better company. Yes you may be friends with your old boss but you have to watch out for yourself and your family and your best interest. You will be ok, and I am so sorry about Matt. That is awful, cross your fingers and that will be the last bit of bad news.



Posted by: naturaltan

Dear Stacey ... in this particular situation I can only offer you a shoulder to cry on and an ear to bitch.



Posted by: Stacey

Thank you Nt!! I need it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your so wonderful to me!



Posted by: Stacey

SS~ Hey honey! Thank you soo much. I am hoping this is it too. I am going to listen to my old boss.. and he told me that if there is something bigger & better out there for me, don't worry about him! And Ohhh I won't! (we can still have lunch!)



Posted by: Stacey

On a good note.. Cody & I went for a 3 mile speedwalk last night at 9pm (after I tanned)...then I did 3 sets of 20 Lunges w/ weights.
Also did Pile' squats- 4 sets of 20 holding 2 12lb. dumbbells
calf raises w/ weights at shoulders - 3 sets of 25

& I did my abs!



Posted by: Stacey

OH and the old me probably would have gotten a yummy dinner last night.. BUT I made me Protein pancakes (used 7 eggwhites, 1 yolk, 1/3 c. oats, 2 packets of splenda, drizzle of baking soda, and a teaspoon of vanilla!
YUM!
w/ 3tbsp. of sugarfree syrup



Posted by: shortstuff

oh that sounds so nummy statec you and your puppy are so cute, i want a puppy now



Posted by: dvlmn666

so if you raced who would win, hhahaa you or cody?

sorry to hear about the job sounds like your old boss does care but sometimes there hands are tied, which really sucks.

I wish you the best and like everybody has said, learn everything you can and then move on. Well that or give that one person you'd mentioned who really needs a processor a call.



Posted by: Stacey

SS! Thanks! I just love Cody sooo much! Hes very special to me, and I treat him like hes my child. Every friday Morning I drop him off at "grandma's" (my moms) so he can play outside with her 2 collies. He Loves them! And I pick him up after work.. doggie daycare hehehehe

I love those Protein pancakes!!!! I'm hooked (and I'm outta eggs now )



Posted by: Stacey

Dvlmn~ Hey babe!! How are you today?? Whatcha doing this weekend??

Ummm.. I think Cody would win..he Can RUN SOOO FAST!!!!!
haha!

I know your right..my boss feels sooo bad about whats happend!!!
I just don't know about that other Mortgage place.. I couldn't Grow with them b/c its a small place.. sooo I really would like a bigger company..maybe.?!



Posted by: dvlmn666

Gonna pack on saturday, and then go to disneyland on sunday.

Then monday I get the truck and we load it up and move. I think I'm going to start my job a couple days early since we're going to have to put everything in storage. Christie found a really nice place but it isn't available til Oct. 1. I'm excited and nervous about my new job. lol

oh yeah i bet cody is a little speed demon to.
on the job, just from personal experience. The smaller companies pay better, however there isn't much room to grow. The bigger companies follow the BS rules about this guy has to earn more than this guy, kinda like what they are pulling on you. However you have a chance to climb the so called ladder at the bigger places. The whole thing is a hard decision. I got lucky and finally have an awesome job that pays great. But took me 9 yrs and 7 companies to find it.



Posted by: hikerchick

awww honey, I'm so sorry. This situation really sucks. I don't know what to tell ya. I'm sending you a hug.



Posted by: Stacey

Thanks for the hug!!! YOUR The best !!!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: hikerchick

Hey dvlmn!! Your sig has a quote from "night of 1000 corpses", is that a good movie? I was at the video store yesterday looking at it but I seriously could not rent it because it WOULD SCARE ME TOO MUCH!! I love scary movies, but I can't watch them anymore. They freak me out too much! So, how was it?



Posted by: butterfly

Fade and I took our 15 yr old son to a Rob Zombie concert a year or so ago... "Night of 1000 Corpes" is his movie and he had it playing up on those big TV screens and let me tell you... it was one demented, sick piece of work!!!

Fade, of course, wants to see it but I'll never watch it



Posted by: Stacey

OMG.... NO WAY COULD I WATCH A SCARY MOVIE..



Posted by: hikerchick

LOL, me either, I can't handle them anymore!

Stacey, I keep forgetting to tell you how cute Cody is! What a little sweetie! I am going to post a pic of my puppy for you in my journal so you can see her. She's such a good dog! Although I took her swimming this morning and she really stinks right now, I need to make my husband give her a bath!



Posted by: Burner02

hey you!
Happy Monday!
How was your weekend? Do anythng exciting?
Me? Fine..worked all weekend..noting too excinting here..another day..
oh, looks like my loan ISgoing to happnen!
wahoo!
Have a great day!



Posted by: Jenny

Hey Stace!

How was the weekend? some quality time with your honey? I need some quality time with my honey too

Have you started looking for a new job yet? I hope so, cause you deserve something better

How's the diet and training going?


Jen



Posted by: shortstuff

Morning Statcey I have some cookies sitther that need to be sent to someone who will love them, and I ate NO Dough, which is a second, first was when I made j'bo's LOL So if you want them.......................chat later babe I have class in two hours and it will take me an hour to get there



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by hikerchick
LOL, me either, I can't handle them anymore!

Stacey, I keep forgetting to tell you how cute Cody is! What a little sweetie! I am going to post a pic of my puppy for you in my journal so you can see her. She's such a good dog! Although I took her swimming this morning and she really stinks right now, I need to make my husband give her a bath!
Hey girlie! How was your weekend?
Thanks for saying Cody is a cutie!! He's my baby!
I would love to see a picture of your dog!
Does he like taking baths? Codys gotten pretty good at them.. he gets them weekly!



Posted by: Stacey

Ohhh SS Your cookies sound soooooooooo GOOOOOD--but I really shouldn't be cheating right now..but But But.. LoL!!! I don't know honey!!! LoL!!! I DO WANT THEM..But I don't NEED them..ya know!

Ohhh Good Morning toooo!! Have fun at school!



Posted by: Stacey

Hey Burner.. Happy Monday to you! (not sooo happy here.. lol..I'm at work..yuck!!!!)

Thats great about your loan! Yeah!! How have ya been? Did you see my pics ..on page 12 or 13??

Have a great Colorado day!



Posted by: shortstuff

It is ok stacey, if you don't want them, I have plenty of guys that will goblle them up no questions asked chat later babe



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by Jenny
Hey Stace

How was the weekend? some quality time with your honey? I need some quality time with my honey too

Have you started looking for a new job yet? I hope so, cause you deserve something better
How's the diet and training going?


Jen
HEY JENNY! How are you sweetie? I Know your wishing for some quality time with your sweetie!!!
I did spend some time w/ Matt on saturday and just sunday night. Saturday night (he worked saturday 6am to 2pm) then we went to a birthday party for one of his coworkers from 5pm to 9pm.. had to leave early b/c Matt had to wake up at 4am for work Sunday morning. Sunday I hung out with my Mom --went grocery shopping..then out to eat w/ Matt & my brother that night! Then faught w/ Matt last night --about crap!! He gets Mad when I take the bills of the counter (I hate hate hate having papers on the kitchen counters...so I put them in the drawer) Well He couldn't find a bill.. still can't..and of course its My fault..whatever.

Anyway.. I did look in the newspapers yesterday for jobs..and theres not much..but I'm gonna keep looking!

How was your weekend Jen??? Hopefully good!
My diet and Meals are You would be so proud!
Friday night I went rollerblading with my Friend (lives by me) for an hour (at night) it was fun!!!
Then Saturday she and I met at the gym at Noon and worked out until 1:30! Then we went and tanned. It was cool! I have a new workout buddy!!!
We are going to keep each other motivated.



Posted by: naturaltan

Morning Stacey ...

I put pics of the newest braided hair colours in SS journal if you're interested.



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
It is ok stacey, if you don't want them, I have plenty of guys that will goblle them up no questions asked chat later babe
I know But I FEEL BAD.. You took time to make them & everything.. I DO WANT Them..but I can't cheat for 2 wks.

what to do, what to do???~


unless.... you just tell me they are fatfree/sugarfree..haha



Posted by: Stacey

MORNING NT!! Hell ya Of course I'm interested~!! WooHOO!!! PICS OF NT!!



Posted by: Stacey

I have a stupid meeting now w/ the processors and the mean bitch Human resource lady..yuck.. I hate these meetings.. every week!! starts at 9:30~ gotta jet!!!!



Posted by: Jenny

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
HEY JENNY! How are you sweetie? I Know your wishing for some quality time with your sweetie!!!
I did spend some time w/ Matt on saturday and just sunday night. Saturday night (he worked saturday 6am to 2pm) then we went to a birthday party for one of his coworkers from 5pm to 9pm.. had to leave early b/c Matt had to wake up at 4am for work Sunday morning. Sunday I hung out with my Mom --went grocery shopping..then out to eat w/ Matt & my brother that night! Then faught w/ Matt last night --about crap!! He gets Mad when I take the bills of the counter (I hate hate hate having papers on the kitchen counters...so I put them in the drawer) Well He couldn't find a bill.. still can't..and of course its My fault..whatever.

Anyway.. I did look in the newspapers yesterday for jobs..and theres not much..but I'm gonna keep looking!

How was your weekend Jen??? Hopefully good!
My diet and Meals are You would be so proud!
Friday night I went rollerblading with my Friend (lives by me) for an hour (at night) it was fun!!!
Then Saturday she and I met at the gym at Noon and worked out until 1:30! Then we went and tanned. It was cool! I have a new workout buddy!!!
We are going to keep each other motivated.
Hey Sweets!
I'm glad your weekend was good! Sounds like fun. I'm sorry you and Matt faught, especially about silly not so important things You want to keep it nice and clean and mean well, there's no reason for him to yell at you for that!
My weekend was good! Relaxing and nice. Had some great workouts! Tried Kickboxing yesterday and it was SO much fun!
Kicked back with friends watching movies and stuff. And were chatting with Justin a lot That always makes me happy!

Yeah, keep looking for jobs, it can take time sometimes!

I'm glad your meals and workouts are going well! Good job honey!! I'm doing good to, since I was able to get back in the gym again my motivation has grown a lot!

Yeay, a new workout buddy! I need that too

Have a nice Monday sweets, I'm off to teach a spin class now!





Posted by: Stacey

Hey Jenny~ Sounds like you had a great weekend! I LOVE kickboxing.. I wish our neighborhood gym would offer it.. they have step, and regular aerobics & yoga.. .hoping for kickboxing soon.. I know they did it last year! I bet you had fun!!

I'm glad your meals are good toooo..they always are honey



Posted by: Stacey

Meals Today- September 8, 2003

1. Protein pankcakes (6 eggwhites, 1 yolk, 1/3c oatmeal, 2 packets splenda, 1 tsp vanilla extract)

2. 4 slices of turkeybreast, 15 saltfree peanuts, 8 red grapes

3. 2 scoops protein pwd.(I think a little more than that..oops)
mixed w/ water.
5 strawberrys
10 saltfree peanuts

4. 6 oz. chicken breast, 1cup greenbeans, 1 tbsp pb

5. 2 scoops protein pwd. w/ water.



Posted by: Stacey

I had protein pancakes for breakfast saturday & Sunday.. I am SO hooked on them.. (cept I used 7 eggwhites, 1 yolk both days)

I LOVE THEM!!!!!! I went through a carton of eggs this weekend.. starting to feel like I'm thinking right about my foods to get the body I want! Yeah!!!



Posted by: shortstuff

stacey you are soooooo cute I keep looking at your avi with you and cody and it makes me so happy



Posted by: Stacey

awww thank you honey soooo much!! You just made me smile So Big Sitting here at work!!!!! I think you made my day!!!


Your sooo sweet!!!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

I need to post my workouts for the weekend.. They were great!

Friday night I rollerbladed with my friend (and her dog- a ? something Husky ...BEAUTIFUL Dog.. Cody couldn't go.. I think he will pull me wayyyyyyyyy toooooooooooo fast.. LMAO) we had fun-for an hour! Then did abs at home, and had a protein shake when I was done (even though I wanted a beer.. I did goooood..and I didn't snack while watching a movie by myself! )

Saturday I got up had protein pancakes, cleaned a lot, then worked out..

I did 15 minutes on elliptical, and 17 minutes running on treadmill w/ incline from 4% to 8%. Was sweaty~
Then I did trained my arms. Lots of different moves since I was at the Real Gym! Did that Rope tricep pushdown, then switched to a bar (that V's out) for a tricep push down.
Then used the bar again (all on that pulley thing)
for Bicep curls
Did Regular Bicep curls w/ 17lb dumbbells.. 3 sets of 10, then used
15lb db. for Bicep curls (did 15 reps)

I did tricep extentions w/ dumbells (w/ one hand resting on bench.) using 12lb. db

Did My abs on the inclined bench. (LOVE THOSE) I think I did about 200 reps because I would do them in between arm breaks.)

Also Did more..just can't remember. I'm going to start taking a journal w/ me!

AND Oh Ya.. I did calf raises on the leg press! Turning my toes different ways!



Posted by: butterfly

Definitely get a journal to record your workouts!!! We use those daily planners. If I didn't write down what I do I'd never remember!!! I have to right down the wt and reps after each set or I totally forget 2 sec later



Posted by: butterfly

This is the one I use...

workout journal



Posted by: Stacey

awesome!! THANKS BUTTERFLY!!!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: hikerchick

Stacey, your workouts and food look GREAT!! You are so close to getting that bod you want! I think you look great already but since you dont I'm humouring you!!



Posted by: Stacey

LoL --Thank you soooooo Much HiCker.. HAHA.. I'm kidding.. thanks hiker!

GUESS WHAT?!!! I'm getting COOKIES From SS!! YEAH!!! can't wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
Of course I will SHare W/ Matt....maybe!



Posted by: hikerchick

Staecie (hee hee ) Hey I want coookies!! No, actually I don't need them. We are having an early birthday party for Riley this weekend and I will be eating TONS of ice cream! Don't share with Matt, you need them more!! Hey guess what, I got some good news today, my dh is only leaving for 8 weeks - not 10!! May not seem like a big difference but it is!



Posted by: Stacey

Hickerchick!!! Hey babe! Oh That is wonderful news about your DH! YEAH!!!!! That will make a difference, I know honey!! Thats awesome!

How old will Riley be? A year right?!



Posted by: shortstuff

How are doing stacey, I almost ate one of your's and NT's cookies, but no worries they are all still there, I will mail them later today. I forgot them on my way to work LOL



Posted by: butterfly

Morning Stacey!!! Isn't it beautiful today!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
How are doing stacey, I almost ate one of your's and NT's cookies, but no worries they are all still there, I will mail them later today. I forgot them on my way to work LOL
no cookies for you missy..you have a comp soon!!! Just kidding!!!!!!
I can't wait to get them!!! I was telling my mom about them yesterday!

Thank you sooooo much!



Posted by: Stacey

Good Morning Butterfly!! YES IT is a beautiful day!!!!! Can't wait for lunch time to get out of this office & enjoy!



Posted by: shortstuff

So stace did you go out and get some sun for me on your lunch????

How is the day giong????



Posted by: Stacey

HEY SS-- Yes mam.. all I did was drive around for 30 minutes w/ my T-Tops off!

Today is a HORRIBLE DAY!! I am really trying hard not to QUIT!!! I hate this place!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Hows your day going SS



Posted by: hikerchick

I'm sorry your job is sucking. Great that you got some sunshine though, we're having none of that here.



Posted by: shortstuff

Besides it raining and it being cold I HATE THIS!!!! But it does make going home to do homework easier, I am kinda irritated, the guy who no showed yesterday isn't here again today so I have to wait for everyone to get back from lunch before i can leave. And I have been covering his ass all day and doing my work Otherwise as soon as I leave here I will be swell!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

sorry no sunshine there! It rained here a lot the past 2 weeks so I know how you guys feel!!!
Omg.. ss.. you poor thing. I hate having to cover for people who are no shows!! Sorry honey!!!!!

Hi Hickerchick how are you sweetie?



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
HEY SS-- Yes mam.. all I did was drive around for 30 minutes w/ my T-Tops off!
I had to read this twice to make sure it was a car that you were driving in. Driving with my T - tops off ... all I saw was driving tops off.



Posted by: Stacey

MEALS TODAY 9-9-03 ( I HAVE been married for a year and 6 months today )

Meal One: 1/3c oats, 5 eggwhites, 1 tbsp pb

Meal two: 4 slices of turkey breast, 15 sf peanuts, 10 red grapes

Meal three: 2 scoops whey, 5 strawberries, 10saltfree peanuts

Meal four (will be at home): 6 oz. chicken breast, 1 cup greenbeans, 1 cup ranchstyle beans

Meal five: 1.5 scoops whey w/ water

TONIGHTS Will Be LEG/Calf/AB Workout at the Gym!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by naturaltan
I had to read this twice to make sure it was a car that you were driving in.




Posted by: naturaltan

I was just about to phone and find a quick flight to see that!!



Posted by: Stacey

Lmao... ONLY You would!!

How r ya sweetie?



Posted by: naturaltan

I"m great, and you?



Posted by: butterfly

Think since I came in early to work 7:30am! I'm going to leave early



Posted by: Stacey

LUCKY BUTTERFLY!!! I Am Promising myself that one day soon I'm calling in sick!!!!
Butterfly--hope you have a great night!



Posted by: Stacey

I'm glad your doing good NT.

I have a bad additude today, and I'm just in a pissy mood..ya know.. only b/c of this place.. WORK..in 20 minutes I'll be better!!!

Thanks for asking!



Posted by: hikerchick

yeah Stacey, I didn't talk to you today at all! I have not been on the computer much the past couple of days, how are you doing hotstuff? It sounds like you need to use up your sick time now!



Posted by: Stacey

Hiker I KNOW I missed you!!!!!! But I haven't been on much this week either
I'm okay.. your right.. I'm sooo using up my sick time!! I may call in tomorrow.?? not sure yet!! Hell I should have today.. it took me an hour and 30 minutes to get to work

Whats new w/ you babe? Hows your little angel doing??



Posted by: J'Bo

Hi hot stuff



Posted by: Stacey

Morning Sexy!!!

GUESS WHAT?! I'm getting cookies from SS today!!!! Or tomorrow.. I cannot wait!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks to you I had the craving for them..lol!



Posted by: J'Bo

Opps sorry...believe me your not gonna want to share them



Posted by: naturaltan

morning Stacey!



Posted by: Stacey

LoL-- I know J'Bo--thats what I heard!!!! I'll just call it my cheat..and then not cheat on Sunday! I CAN'T WAIT!!!!!!!!!

I think NT is getting some toooo!!!

Good Morning NT!



Posted by: shortstuff

Yezzzzz, miss stacey and NT are getting cookies,



Posted by: Stacey

Yeah!! I cannot wait!!!





Posted by: Stacey

Last nights workout--at the real gym!

20 Minutes HIT on elliptical ( I had incline all the way up, and my setting for how hard was set on 8 & 9.. sometimes 7.. Killer for me!!

Leg Extentions: 4 sets of 15 55# then switched to 65#
Leg Curls: 4 sets of 12 with 65#
Leg Press: 3 sets of 12 (feet shoulder width apart) @ 80#
2 sets of 12 (feet More than shoulder width apart & turned out a little) using 80lbs.
2 sets of 15 Pile' (On the leg press..hehe) 75#

Calves on leg press Toes Turned out: 3 sets of 10 w/ 65lbs
Toes turned IN: 3 sets of 10 w/ 65lbs
Toes straight: 3 sets of 10 w/ 70Lbs.

also did abs on Incline bench: 4 sets of 25 holding 10lb weight
V-crunch abs: 3 sets of 20
oblique crunch 3 sets of 15 (on each side)
regular crunches 2 sets of 25



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
Yezzzzz, miss stacey and NT are getting cookies,




Posted by: Stacey

Yum YUm YUM!! I wonder when they will come??!! I cannnnot waiiiiiiiit!!!!



Posted by: butterfly

You're such a little ab crunching machine Wish I had that much dedication to my abs



Posted by: hikerchick

Yeah, good job rockin those abs! I can see that six pack busting out!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
You're such a little ab crunching machine Wish I had that much dedication to my abs
LoL.. Thank ya sweetie!! Guess I'm on a mission to see that six pack again!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

THANKS HIKER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

I am such a dork. I went and asked the recep. if she had gotten a package for me yet....lol.. (like it would come that fast huh SS).. I told her its personal and to please not open!!

Now I'm thinking its coming tomorrow..and I was gonna call in sick..but not if theres Cookies coming!!!



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
LoL.. Thank ya sweetie!! Guess I'm on a mission to see that six pack again!!!!!!!!!
that's what it's all about!



Posted by: shortstuff

it will be there monday stace that is what the shipping place told me



Posted by: Stacey

Thats Right NT!!!


Ohhh man... I HAVE TO WAIT TILL MONDAY..

hehehehe..I'm sooo craving a cookie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sure they are soooo worth the wait!



Posted by: Stacey

Meeting my friend at the gym at 9pm tonight (big brother4 comes on at 8pm...can't miss that..lol!!)

Will do cardio & Bicep/tricep/abs.

Meals were great today..umm...except for 5 little bites of sour patch kids..those things are great..but I know sugar sugar sugar!!!!

Meal one:
6 eggwhites, 1 yolk

Meal two:
2 scoops whey, 15 peanuts, 5 strawberries

Meal three:
4 slices of turkey breast, 10 redgrapes

Meal four (will be at home)
6 oz. chicken breast, 1c. green beans, 1/3c ranchstyle beans

Meal five
1.5 whey w/ water
1 tbsp pb



Posted by: Stacey

leaving work now..FINALLY..ONE CRAZY Day!! I'm sooo worn out, and my feet hurt from these High heels!!!!!!!!!
its almost 6pm..yuck!!


Night guys!



Posted by: Burner02

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
Lmao... ONLY You would!!

How r ya sweetie?
no..er..I was kinda hoping for the same thing...
let's see..hot, young Texan driving around with her top off....
that paints one helluva visual!

Hey! Congrats on the 1.5 years! Are you going out to do a mini-celebration?

Any luck with a new job?



Posted by: Stacey

Heya Burner....your too funny!!
I got your emails to my hotmail..will email ya back soon

Thanks on the congrats! I wish we were going to celebrate but Matt is working 12 hour shifts till next tuesday or longer?!

Nope..no luck yet.

Hope your doing good honey!



Posted by: hikerchick

Hi! Have you eaten your sour patch kids yet today??



Posted by: Stacey

yes.. I feel so weak today (as in craving everything)
I had 4 sour patch kids



Posted by: hikerchick

LOL I know what you mean. I want, let's see, a root beer float, peanut butter cups, chocolate peanut butter ice cream, not neccessarily in that order!

My honey and I are having a date tonight, we're going to the movies and I am going to have peanut butter cups!! Maybe. I'm always so good when we go out that I just want to have something for once and not worry about it and not feel guilty!!



Posted by: Stacey

LoL~~ YUM Those sound so yummy too!!!!! I love penut butter cups. I bought the sugar free kind 2 wks ago...and I was having one little one every other day.. (bitesize)..they are good..taste like the REAL ones!

Ohh cool a date w/ the hubby!! Have fun honey. I'm like you..normally Matt gets the popcorn w/ LOTSA butter & a red ICEE slush---then I'll get a water----sooo borging.

You need to enjoy something .. you have been doing great.

Of course don't listen to me.. I just ate a tiny chocolate chip cooke (the soft batch kind) sooooo I'm just wanting someone to cheat with me..haha!!!)



Posted by: Burner02

hey!
kinda funny how Matt can eat anything he wants and you ave water...
I usually get a thing of Hi-c..I know..sugar, hopefully not as bad as a soda..but need something w/ taste to suck on while watching.

Keep your chin up, babe-
with your abilities and the market the way it is..(every body refinancing and buying...there should be several opportunities out there for you!

Kris keps telling me I 'look fine'..I think she is plotting on me. I think she wants me to fatten up so other women won't look at me...




Posted by: Burner02

Good morning, Stacey!
havea great weekend!



Posted by: Stacey

Thanks Burner!! Hope you have a wonderful weekend too darling!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by Burner02
hey!
kinda funny how Matt can eat anything he wants and you ave water...
I usually get a thing of Hi-c..I know..sugar, hopefully not as bad as a soda..but need something w/ taste to suck on while watching.

Keep your chin up, babe-
with your abilities and the market the way it is..(every body refinancing and buying...there should be several opportunities out there for you!

Kris keps telling me I 'look fine'..I think she is plotting on me. I think she wants me to fatten up so other women won't look at me...
Thanks so much! Your sooo sweet!
I will keep my chin up! I'm actually going to a Mortgage Womens seminar in October (3 days) it is about processing...so I'm excited about that!!

Thats funny about Kris telling u that... haha.. don't u go fatten up though cutie pie!!!

I'm sure you will be just as sexy though if you do!



Posted by: Stacey

Last nights workout at the gym was GREAT! I picked up my neighbor/friend and we went to the gym right at 6:15pm --
(instead of my usual waiting till 8:30)

15 minutes on elliptical w/ incline all the way up.. and set on 8 for how hard it was.

12 minutes on Treadmill..running every 2 minutes. Incline at 8 while walking fast & at 3 when running..felt great!!!

Rope tricep extention- 3 sets of 15 @ 40# (I think.)
Tricep Extention holding 10#db. 3 sets of 15
Overhead extention holding 17# db 3 sets of 20
Bicep curls w/ 17# db. 2 sets of 10
w/ 15# 2 sets of 12
Hammercurls 3 sets of 12 w/ 12# Dumbbell
Tricep Machine - 3 sets of 15 @ 35#

Leg press (light weight)
3 sets of 20 reps- 80lbs.
Leg Curls (light weight)
3 sets of 15 reps- 50lbs

Incline Crunches- 2 sets of 30
Reverse Curls- 3 sets of 15
Twisting Crunch- 3 sets of 16




Posted by: dvlmn666

hi there Figured I'd check in while I ate. This new job is hectic so far, but I'll get it calmed down soon.





Posted by: Stacey

Hey sweetie
I bet it is crazy right now..hang in there sweets..your gonna do great there!!!!!!

Have a wonderful weekend!!

OH & Guess what..come monday I'm on a mission. I spoke with a Fitness model this morning (my bosses wife) and she said she will do my makeup, help me prepare, and Hook me up with all of her contacts when I'm ready!!!!! I'm SO excited!!!! I'm On A REAL mission now!!!$$!!



Posted by: butterfly

WOW! That's great!!! Make sure you tell us when your first comp is so we can come cheer you on!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Well I'm not going to do the Comps.. too chicken ~~I just want to do fitness magazines/model for clothing....etc..etc..!!

This girl--she was MS. METRX, a hawaiian tropics girl, was on about 10+ covers of Muscle Magazine... Never did a comp. I want to do that sort of stuff..



Posted by: butterfly

Yeah, that does sound like more fun!

Wish I could but my stretch marks from being pregnant are way too bad



Posted by: Jenny

Yeay honey!! Before we know it our Stace will be on the cover of M&F Hers! That would be so cool!

How was your weekend? Mine was good, I was just relaxing after an exhausting week

Have a great monday babe!



Posted by: naturaltan

don't forget us little people when we come to get a magazine autographed.

I know that you aren't that far off Mrs.Hawaiian Tropics, Mrs. Budwiser, etc ...



Posted by: shortstuff

morning Stacey So how was the weekend????? You better let me know if something comes today



Posted by: Burner02

Quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
Yeah, that does sound like more fun!

Wish I could but my stretch marks from being pregnant are way too bad
i thought a little plastic surgurey would fix that?



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
Yeah, that does sound like more fun!

Wish I could but my stretch marks from being pregnant are way too bad
let us be the judge of that ...



Posted by: Burner02

Listen to the Wise One:NT



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by Jenny
Yeay honey!! Before we know it our Stace will be on the cover of M&F Hers! That would be so cool!

How was your weekend? Mine was good, I was just relaxing after an exhausting week

Have a great monday babe!
Hey Jenny! I had a pretty good weekend.. lots of relaxing! I'm glad you got to relax too!! Hows school going for you?
have a wonderful day!!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by naturaltan
don't forget us little people when we come to get a magazine autographed.

I know that you aren't that far off Mrs.Hawaiian Tropics, Mrs. Budwiser, etc ...
aww how could I forget my SPECIAL FRIENDS HERE!! No way dude!! I love all of you!!! This goal of mine may take me 8 months to a year.. but I'm soooo going to try hard!!
I only wish I could be on the cover of M&F for hers!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
morning Stacey So how was the weekend????? You better let me know if something comes today
Hey girlie~~ I was off yesterday and just got here.. & Theres COOKIES on my desk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your sooo SWEET!!! I tasted one of them.. OMG!!!!
THEY ARE AWESOME!!! now How am I gonna keep my fingers outta that box all day today.. haha.. Girl They are YUMMY!!!!!!!!
THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH!!
And Thank you so much for the sweet card!!! Your the best!!!!!!!

ps.. now I have your address... don't be suprised if you don't get a lot of cards from me in the mail.. I LOVE sending cards

Thank you Pam!!!!!!!!



Posted by: shortstuff

YEAH!!!! I am so glad you got them, that just made my day That makes me so happy!!!!!!!! I love sending people things and stuff like that!!!! So did you take a sick day yesterday missy???? We missed you.



Posted by: Stacey

I LOVE sending people stuff too.. sooo I know how you feel!! You definatley made my day today---it was great having a gift for me on my desk when I got here.. I really really appreciate it honey!!!!

yep, I took a sick day yesterday!!!! It was a well needed one..but what sucked was I am actually having bad cramps since Sunday. & I'm bleeding .. like as if Aunt flo is here..but I just had her 2 weeks ago?! I know its a symptom of Endometreosis though, So I'm not to worried!!
I took it easy yesterday..took Cody to the vet to get his Parvo shot, Rabies, and annual checkup..he was soo scared!! I took him to Petsmart afterwards and got him some goodies for being such a good boy!! I pretty much spent the day with cody! Then I came home and did PILATES for 40 minutes..thinking it may help my tummy..it kinda did! And I also took a short 15 minutes fast walk w/ Cody after dinner!

I MISSED YOU GUYS TOO!!! I sooo Wanted a computer yesterday!



Posted by: dvlmn666

How much can you spend? I do purchasing here maybe I can build one up and buy it, then you could pay me back. We get some pretty killer discounts.

Good morning. I hit the gym today. I'm finally back at it.



Posted by: Stacey

HEY D!! ARE you serious?? Omg -- I could never do that to you!!! I have one..its just broke.. real broke~! So we were going to get a new one after christmas..
your sooo sweet!!

I'm glad your back in the gym!!! Yeah You!!!



Posted by: dvlmn666

Well when you want one for christmas let me know. Yes I can do that. heheheeh I'm in charge of buying everything for integration here at this new job. and the manager already said I can buy stuff for personal use cheap if I want to.



Thanks, I'm sore already. roflmao

you gonna do that competition thing fire is talking about? I'm considering it. lmao



Posted by: Stacey

YOU ARE SO SWEET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Will THINK Of that when its time.. THANK YOU SOOOMUCH!!!!



Posted by: dvlmn666

Not a problem smiley.



Posted by: Stacey

I know why I have cramps.. duh!! Aunt Flo is here (came yesterday) FUN!!!
man shes an evil person...



Posted by: dvlmn666

dat sucks.

So your gonna be a model and you have hookups? Kick ass, that's awesome for you.



Posted by: shortstuff

Mine lasted 4 days last time LOL I love having whacked out hormones sometimes.



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by dvlmn666
dat sucks.

So your gonna be a model and you have hookups? Kick ass, that's awesome for you.
well hopefully next year at this time I will be one



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
Mine lasted 4 days last time LOL I love having whacked out hormones sometimes.
ME TOOOOOOOO!!



Posted by: Stacey

umm I just finished my first cookie.. I have been working on it all day.. theres a tad peice left.. Girl. these are SWEET!



Posted by: dvlmn666

were's my cookie.

now i'm jealous



Posted by: Stacey

sorrrrrry I would send you the some but by the time you get them they won't be fresh. I'll send you some in 5 weeks when I make Shortstuff some toooo~

I made them for Matt on friday night and took the rest to my moms.. She said it was the best batch I have ever made!



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
sorrrrrry I would send you the some but by the time you get them they won't be fresh. I'll send you some in 5 weeks when I make Shortstuff some toooo~

I made them for Matt on friday night and took the rest to my moms.. She said it was the best batch I have ever made!
I think she meant to say, when she makes some for Shortstuff and Nt. :giggle:



Posted by: shortstuff

OK Stacey you can send those cookies NOW!!!!! Long story but we are postponing the comp until May/June. Giving me some time to add some major muscle and give my body and mind a rest.



Posted by: Stacey

are u serious?? I think your doing soooo good though girl.. But I totally support any decision~!!!!!

Dang.. I just made a batch this past friday...and gave them all away.. I'll make more this friday, mail them saturday to you...



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by naturaltan
I think she meant to say, when she makes some for Shortstuff and Nt. :giggle:

hahahahaha





Posted by: shortstuff

he he I think NT is on a bulking cycle

Yeah read my new journal babe it explains everything.



Posted by: naturaltan





Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
he he I think NT is on a bulking cycle

Yeah read my new journal babe it explains everything.
LoL no kidding.. hes trying to make us chubby.. I can't make cookies with out having a tablespoon or two of the dough


okay babe..I'll go read your journal



Posted by: Stacey

SS-- I wish you the best!! Your going to look sooooo badass (not that you don't already) come May!!!!!!!!! I bet you are sick of strict dieting since APRIL.. I don't know how you did it.... I know its going to be so hard for me to eat clean..perfect..24/7.. but I'm gonna give it my all.

OH And my cookies are semi healthy..
I make them with Whole wheat (from the farmers market),
all natural penut butter, and then of course oats...



Posted by: naturaltan

so I am doing a good thing then ... since you feel compelled to make them, the more you have to send to friends, the less you'll eat and help you along your way to modelling stardom.

the things I will do for my IM friends



Posted by: Stacey

YOUR SOOO FUNNY NT!!



Posted by: shortstuff

OK NT, you are gonna get it, I am making you some snickers cookies



Posted by: Stacey

Meals today: (really you guys don't have to look..haha)

9-16-03

1. 1/3c oats, 5 eggwhites, 10 saltfree peanuts

a nibble of SS's cookies
2. 2 cups lettuce, 5 oz. baked chicken, 1 tbsp barbeque sauce
the rest of that cookie..

3. 1.5 whey w/ water

4. (will be at 6:15pm)
6 oz. baked chicken
1 cup greenbeans
1/2 cucumber
1 tbsp pb

5. 1 scoop whey w/ water



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
OK NT, you are gonna get it, I am making you some snickers cookies
LMAO!!!!




Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
OK NT, you are gonna get it, I am making you some snickers cookies
yeah ... I mean, I couldn't possibly eat a snicker's cookie ... unless you are making them and thinking about eating too many, in which case, I'll again sacrifice my body and eat as many as you send to further the cause.



Posted by: Stacey

Your hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

I'm sooooooooooo ready to leave work!!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Workout last night- 9-16-03
45 minutes of rollerblading with my friend. It was great.. going Up lots of Hard hills~
plus 10 minutes of abs: 2 sets of 30 regular crunches
2 sets of 25 reverse curls
2 sets of 25 twist crunches
2 sets of Planque holds for 40sec. (puke)



Posted by: Jenny

Hey Stace!

Wow, you really do a lot of ab work! How many days a week?



Posted by: naturaltan

Good morning Stacey!!



Posted by: shortstuff

Morning Stacey



Posted by: hikerchick

Good morning babe!



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by Jenny
Hey Stace!

Wow, you really do a lot of ab work! How many days a week?
Hey JennY!
well I'm trying for 5 days a week... trying.. haha!!!
how are ya honey?



Posted by: Stacey

Good morning SS & Hikerchick!!!! how are you two hotties today????



Posted by: shortstuff

I AM ON SUGAR OVER LOAD!!!!! But I am good, ready to stat the new diet, going grocery shopping tonight.



Posted by: Stacey

awesome!!!!! LMAO!! Whatcha eating??? Details..hahahaha!



Posted by: shortstuff

Oh no you so don't want to know. Ok well lets see, I had a bacon burger with fries last night, with ice cream then 3 slices of pizza for dinner. Then this morning I had some Krispey Kreme's.......I am done eating crap!!!!



Posted by: Stacey

OMG~ YUM YUM YUM!!!! I bet you are STUFFED!!!!!

hope you enjoyed it though!



Posted by: shortstuff

I did but I am DONE!!!!!!! How are you doing???? Work going ok??????



Posted by: Stacey

I'm glad you gotta that cheat outta your system But when I make my cookies for you -- you have to cheat one more time.. I'm allowing it!

I'm going nuts..... work is SO crazy!!!!!! I'm about to step out for lunch-- I brough me a shake but I'm thinking of going and getting a salad from Subway--what should I do??? Help!!





Posted by: shortstuff

go get a salad, go get some fresh air and relax babe and then come back and work some more, that is prognoses



Posted by: Stacey

HAHA!! Thanks.. I'll save the shake to eat around 4pm.. then I can't eat dinner till 8pm-which works out good!! I think..lol..


Okay off I go.. thanks for the tip!!! Hope your doing good over there...
OHH and MATT LOVES YOUR COOKIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He called and asked me about them.. and tried one... he loves them!! I brought half of one with me to work.. for a dessert! half a bad, right???



Posted by: shortstuff

LOL You are so cute Stacey!!!! ZI have had enough bad for the next year......... Going to do some cardio and maybe a light arm workout, not sure.



Posted by: butterfly

This is good SS... now Matt knows that at least two of her "imaginary internet friends" really do exist



Posted by: shortstuff





Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
go get a salad, go get some fresh air and relax babe and then come back and work some more, that is prognoses
now it's Dr.SS



Posted by: shortstuff

hey now that all of my brain is back and a little bloated, I can think again



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by shortstuff
LOL You are so cute Stacey!!!! ZI have had enough bad for the next year......... Going to do some cardio and maybe a light arm workout, not sure.
ohhh noooo..YOU are TOOOOO CUTE!!!

I hear ya on that eating enough bad food for a year...
so your good to go..

Enjoy Your Cardio!!



Posted by: shortstuff

so how was lunch hottie????



Posted by: Stacey

Quote:
Originally posted by butterfly
This is good SS... now Matt knows that at least two of her "imaginary internet friends" really do exist
NO KIDDING!!!!!!!!!! This is SO True!!

I have a friend In Oregon tooo..actually TWO-- SS & Hikerchick!!! LoL





Posted by: hikerchick

That's right! Don't forget about meeeee!!



Posted by: Stacey

I didn't!!! NEVER!!



Posted by: dvlmn666

wohoooo I get cookies.

How are you today?



Posted by: Stacey

Lmao @ D!!
I'm good.. crazybusy at work..but hey its almost 5pm and I'll be home by 6:30pm... to do cardio (jogging tonight w/ Cody)

And how are you doing hottie????



Posted by: Stacey

Meals today:
6am-- handful of peanuts (shared w/ Cody) when I woke up

1. Leanbody low carb bar
2g carbs, 8g fat, 280 calories, 30g. protein

2. Salad-- 6 slices of turkeybreast, 2cups+ of lettuce, about a cup of cucumbers, 4 slices of pickles, half cup greenpeppers,
2 tbsp of honeymustard.

3. 6 oz. chicken breast, 1 cup greenbeans, 15saltfree peanuts

4. 2 scoops whey w/ water



Posted by: dvlmn666

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
Lmao @ D!!
I'm good.. crazybusy at work..but hey its almost 5pm and I'll be home by 6:30pm... to do cardio (jogging tonight w/ Cody)

And how are you doing hottie????
Me? Well made it to the gym 2 days in a row, and workin like crazy. They didn't do anything on this project so it's up to me to get it done and done quick. Then I can start purchasing and building video cards.

Other than that we got a place move in on Oct 1. hopefully earlier but we'll see about that.

Glad to be back in San Jose, feels more like home.



Posted by: Stacey

Dvlmn-- honey you sound busy!!
Thats awesome you guys are getting a place~ I bet your excited!!
I'm glad your feeling like you can call a place home finally!! I know thats a nice feeling!

hope you have a wonderful weekend honey!



Posted by: shortstuff

Morning hottie



Posted by: Stacey

Workout last night: 9/18/03

35 minutes of jogging/speedwalking w/ Cody

bicep/shoulder/back workout

Step ups on fanny lifter holding 2 10lb. dumbbells. 3 sets of 20

Abs- 2 sets of 25 reg. crunches
2 sets of 25 oblique crunches
3 sets of 20 crunches using my ab roller
2 sets of 15 Reverse curls

total workout was an hour and 10 minutes--felt great!



Posted by: Stacey

Ummm I had a whole wheat (medium size) bagel this morning.. its what I use to do EVERY morning.. but I haven't had one in 2-3 wks...and was craving it! YUM!

I am having a protein shake for lunch- 2 scoops whey w/ water

and the rest of the day will be healthy as well..



Posted by: J'Bo

i love hows life.

so you still practicing

when i was at the gym yesterday a beautiful family of 8 walked in all blonde haired and blue eyed. I was ahhhhhing the whole time and thought of how georgous your family is gonna be



Posted by: Stacey

Hey honey!!!

I'm great--Its FRIDAY!
How are you??
Awwwwwwwwww thats soooo cute & Sweet that you thought of me when you saw that family (omg of 8--no thanks..lol)
Your SOOO SWEET!!



Posted by: Stacey

ohh we are not Trying to have a baby-- just didn't know if you thought that or not...
Not yet..



Posted by: J'Bo

no i know that you are just practicing



Posted by: Stacey

ohhhh ya..lots of practicing



Posted by: Stacey

Diet was good & Clean over the weekend (besides 4 budlights I had with the girls saturday night)

Workout friday night 9-19 was jogging fot 35 minutes, and then leg workout (lunges, Piles, squats, leg extentions, leg curls, and this hip machine)



Posted by: Stacey

Todays meals 9-22

Meal one: zone bar

Meal two: 1.5 whey, 10 salted ( ) cashews

Meal three: will be- 5 oz. chicken & Green beans

Meal four: will be-- 5 oz. chicken & 1 cup greenbeans,1 tbsp pb



Posted by: butterfly

Quote:
Originally posted by Stacey
Diet was good & Clean over the weekend (besides 4 budlights I had with the girls saturday night)
Oh I love girl's night out!!! Glad you got to go!



Posted by: Stacey

Me toooo!! It was a well needed one!!!
Me and two of my good friends went out dancing--and saw lots of other friends I hadn't seen in a long time! We were on the dance floor the entire night (I was dancing w/ the girls--) I do not country or dance fast with guys that I don't know..just don't believe in it!!! I'm married! I had to tell soooo many guys "I'm Married" that night--which was kinda funny~ But they all thought that I was great and respecting my hubby!

We did have a blast though!!!!!



Posted by: hikerchick

Hey girl! Glad you had a fun weekend. How's everything going?



Posted by: Stacey

Hey honey~~ everythings okay I guess--fighting w/ my shithead husband--acutally now we are ignoring each other.

How are you?



Posted by: shortstuff

Oh hun what happened???????? I hpe everything works out



Posted by: Stacey

Thanks so much sweetie!! I was so depressed last night & Upset (& tired from the weekend) All I did was lay on the couch for an hour after work, then took a long hot bath in lavender Then went to bed.. we haven't talked since yesterday at 1:30pm. And all morning yesterday were fights- & hanging up on each other.

All because I want a baby-- then it started ~ and he wanted me to go to some dr. for a 2nd opinion ( because of my endometreiosis--and results from last surgery) sooo he wanted me to go to this dr. HIS Mom referred me tooo.. said shes great (his mom is a nurse) and SO I did call the dr. And shes a regular GYNO.. and Matt said she was a fertiltiy specialist right.. well I found out she wasn't and I told Matt that I wasn't going to her.. that I TRUST my dr. And If I go To anyone it would be someone who knew more than my dr. now..not less.
Anyway.. he was pissed -very pissed. Said I'm being immuture --called me A "STUBBORN BITCH" and sooo thats when I got super mad. He said that his mom knows this dr. is great.. and I said well this is my Body.. I'm not going to her.. maybe your mom knows another dr. AND I'm gonna ask around for others to.
But he was pissed...
said that hes just trying to help b/c I said he didn't care about me.

(Oh And This all started sunday night b/c I didn't want to have sex b/c I hurt from my endo..and that it would go away if I was pregnant...and He wouldn't have to hear me complain about it...)

anyway.. sooo thats whats going on. Horrible!!!



Posted by: Stacey

Meals today: (and I'm working out tonight at the gym-- bicep/tricep & 35min. cardio, & Abs)

M1: 1.5 whey w/ water, 1 tbsp nat. pb

M2: 10 cashews, 5 oz. chicken, 1 cup greenbeans

M3: 5 cashews, 5 oz. chicken, 1 c. greenbeans

M4: protein pancakes, (7eggwhites, 1 yolk, 1/3c oats)



Posted by: shortstuff

And I bet you will be lifting heavy due to some frustration and am thinking good thoughts for you babe



Posted by: hikerchick

Morning sweetie! I am so sorry your husband is being a butthead! We have had those "ignore each other all day" fights too, they are so frustrating! I hope you have a better day.



Posted by: Stacey

Thank you so much SS-- YES I will be lifting Heavy!!!! I always have a great workout when I'm pissed!!!




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