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Originally posted by Randy Nobody can answer this question but you. You can sit hear and listen to peoples bs, but the bottom line is you must make the decision. |
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Originally posted by gr81 This is your time to find out what you like and don't like, to experiment and experience. you can't do that when you are tied down. .. have fuin now, settle later. |
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If I asked mine that question I would get my throat cut
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Originally posted by TheGreatSatan Get the other girl. Screw as many as you can, becuase once you're married you'll hate yourself for not doing just that. I promise. |
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Originally posted by Randy KataMaStEr, I say you drop both girls and go for Babsie... After all, she lined the pavement for you already
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He's a youngen. I go for the older more settled type
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Originally posted by KataMaStEr Guys and gals I really need your help. Believe or it this is probably the most serious question I have ever asked here. My girl friend and I have been together for almost a year, she is the sweetest thing I have ever been with. The last thing I would ever like to do is to hurt her. But I have known a girl in one of my classes for the past two-three months and I really feel attracted to her, something about her that I just don’t feel with my girl. This has been bothering me for the last few days; I don’t know what to do. I can’t go to sleep without thinking about it. I say to myself I’m going to stay with my girl but next day when I’m around the other girl it softens me. I have felt like this before but not to this extent, this is that felling of before x 100. I don’t know if I have a face to be able to end my relationship, doing that to her hurts. Maybe some you have been in the same spot I’m drowning right now, I don’t know if you can understand me but please take this seriously I really need your opinion on what would you do it you where me. |
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Originally posted by P-funk I say go for the other gril, you are to young to be in a such a serious relationship and becoming complacent with your realtionship is going to lead to problems in the future. get out and experience new things and new women. Just my opinion. |
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Originally posted by KataMaStEr You know I made up my mind after a lot of headaches and I’m not going to change anything, I didn’t tell her anything. I think this is better if I keep it to myself. It’s not everyday you find a person like my girl, ending what we have would be plain stupid from my part and that’s FINAL. Again that you all for the input I really appreciate it |
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Originally posted by KataMaStEr You know I made up my mind after a lot of headaches and I’m not going to change anything, I didn’t tell her anything. I think this is better if I keep it to myself. It’s not everyday you find a person like my girl, ending what we have would be plain stupid from my part and that’s FINAL. Again that you all for the input I really appreciate it |
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Originally posted by gr81 P put it perfectly here my man. Tell your GF that you are too damn young to be in a serious relationship and that you still wanna date, but you wanna see others too. You are only 18 man. I am telling you, don't get in a relationship like that until you are like 25. I guarantee you will regret it dude. How do you know theren't are other girls out there like her if your experiences are limited? Too young......
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, but just remember- The grass isn't always greener on the other side. Maybe your attracted to the other girl, but you can always be attracted to someone else and still love the person you are with. Your always going to look, it's human nature. But whether or not you act on your "attraction" is up to you. You just need to ask yourself- is this girl worth ending your relationship with your current girlfriend? Keep in mind though, it's not fair to your girlfriend to think she's the "only one" if there is someone else you really want. Good Luck! I hope it all works out for you!
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Originally posted by KataMaStEr This has been bothering me for the last few days; I don’t know what to do. I can’t go to sleep without thinking about it. I say to myself I’m going to stay with my girl but next day when I’m around the other girl it softens me. |
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Originally posted by Randy Very simple ..... Just follow your heart. |
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Originally posted by Mudge Not so simple when your heart is in two places, I have been there. I decided to stick who I was with, but it was almost 4 years. Now that we are split though I feel as if I should have listened closer, I avoided the "other girl" on purpose because things were so strong, it was crazy. The way she looked at me just made everything around me stop. Anyway, that girl has since quit her job and it was a couple months after I split with the "ex" (I hate that word) that I went looking for her. I asked someone at her work and she ran me around in circles "not knowing who I was talking about." I never knew how honest she was being with me because I knew she had a thing for me too, damn life is rough Anyway, ultimately I wish I looked at things closer, maybe it was a sign that I should have evaluated where I was at in my relationship at the time. Ultimately we all want to be with someone that fits us 100%, I dont want to be with someone who I argue with or etc so I dont see how some people settle for that. That wasn't the reason my relationship "failed" and I wont go into why, but it did and really I probably should have moved on if I wasn't such a puzzy. Now I am left wondering WHAT IF, and that bothered me for months. I haven't seen her for probably 9 months but I still remember her eyes and the way she looked at me, I swear it was as Romeo and Juliet as I've ever experienced in my life, she was litterally 'perfect' it seemed, but again I will never know now. Her physical body language was exactly the same as mine, I knew right away what was going on, for the few times that I saw her it really made me think. Anyhow, good luck man, and yes I agree that only you can figure this out. Even if it means not calling your girlfriend for a couple days to see how you really feel, sometimes life has hard decisions to make. Just know that whichever one you do choose probably means there is no going back, so make it the right one. Sometimes if its only physical attraction, the rest may be dissapointing, and I dont know how well you know this other girl... |
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Originally posted by Crono1000 Here are a few things that I can't help but put emphasis on in this situation: This is the bottom line. The truth is no matter how right, or how much sense we make, you're still going to do what you're going to do. So don't think anyone can give you the answer, but maybe we can help you figure this out yourself. Now let me place a disclaimer here before I say anything, especially since Tit frequents the boards sometimes. I absolutely love my gf 100% and nothing can change that, I've never been tempted or even thought about it, we've had a strong healthy faithful relationship that has been based on the most amazing display of trust, honesty, and respect. And she has an amazing rack honestI'm only a few years older than you, but as I've discussed with my single friends, being single in college must be the coolest feeling in the world. It's like hunting while all of the deer in the woods are surrounding you, grazing feet away from you oblivious of your threat, exposing their meaty flesh while you scope them tirelessly, brushing up against you in the bus... being naked in your dreams... haha kidding! But these are experiences I will never get to partake in. Of course I'm forced to say here that I don't miss it, and in truth I don't regret it at all and certainly wouldn't change my circumstances for anything. But I certainly don't recommend it. (In the same way I don't recommend a long distance relationship, which I have also successfully gotten through) In a sense, it takes a certain amount of discipline and assurance, which is something you won't get until you have gone out and explored your dating oppurtunities. Anyway, things will change in your future and like gr81 said you'll be missing out if you don't take advantage of this oppurtunity. I'm not saying that you're too young to fall in love, (although I must say on MY timeline you're still able to see other girls since u guys haven't been dating too long) but you haven't had the oppurtunity to know what you're looking for and what you like/dislike- and these are developing emotions you won't have until you see what's out there. Because when you leave Momma's doors, a whole world of oppurtunities (and pussy) will be throwing themselves at you. So what do I mean by all this? Well for me being single and, in your case I'm assuming in high school, means learning who you are and what you like/dislike. It's time to have fun as gr81 said: break a few hearts, crash a few parties, and (although being smart about it) meeting a few women. But enough with the Horny-version-of- Dr. Phil- crap, let me ask you the questions you want to hear. First of all, what does the new girl have to offer. You say your gf is sweet (and I'm a sucker for sweet- sweet face, sweet personality, sweet morals, big titties, sweet manners), is this new girl not? Is she "spicier?" Is she simply something new? If you maybe stopped seeing the new girl altogether, do you think you'd still miss her after, say, two weeks? Same question for current gf. (this would be a lot easier with names) And of course it all comes down to this one deciding factor: Is either Asian? Pick that one
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Originally Posted by ebn2002
dude you're advice is 7 years too late and he already made a decision did you read anything
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Originally Posted by ebn2002
dude you're advice is 7 years too late and he already made a decision did you read anything
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Originally Posted by big60235
How in gods name did a thead from 7 years ago get found and then replied to??? |
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Originally Posted by rippedunit
take the new girl for a test run and see what it is like, then if she no good go back to the other. win win
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Originally Posted by metalmayhem
O.M.G. I was wondering who in the hell bumped a 7 yr. old thread.
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