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Posted by: OceanDude

Here is one of those hypothetical situations that might not be so hypothetical. If your best friend’s wife or girlfriend was coming on to you and flirting on a regular basis would you have sexual relations with her?

-OD



Posted by: Pitboss

Uhm no. Unless of course he said I could



Posted by: LAM

Quote:
Originally posted by OceanDude
If your best friend’s wife or girlfriend was coming on to you and flirting on a regular basis would you have sexual relations with her?

-OD
that's not even an option in my book...



Posted by: PreMier

Fuck no. Someone who "cheats" has major character flaws IMO.



Posted by: david

I wanna say no but things happen.... I would regret it though.



Posted by: KataMaStEr

I would have to be placed into that situation. I can’t really tell you for sure without that. But I tell you what, I rather be with my buddy girl than die. Easy to say you rather die before you sleep with your friend woman, but it’s a whole different story when you face it.



Posted by: cheesegrater

i've done it....apparently she had been with him for 3 years but wanted me the whole time. I hated her so i fucked her....she couldn't get the blunt signals i was telling her that i didn't want to be with her, so i had to be rather ornery about it. No regrets, he was a jerk.

Lately tho, i've been talking to my cousins ex a lot and thinking about trying the plunge again, but decided i probably couldn't do it to my cousin because i'd want to date this girl and it would get messy quick.

problem might become that my friends will think i'm doing this on purpose.....the first one it was completely innocuous that she wanted me. I never flirted with her and never liked her, tho i could tell she liked me. This latest one, i always had a thing for her and i think she liked me when she was with my cousin, and when i started calling her, i was gonna maybe just try for a lil action and then get out, but i started wanting to date her, so i backed off.



Posted by: V Player

Not even.


But that does bring up an interesting dilema. One of my best friend's wives is hitting on me.

I think.

I do not much have experience with girls hitting on me so I really cant tell. Besides which she is so subtle about it. I have maybe 5 people in all the world that I call friend. All the rest are aquaintances. I dont get so much as a hello from women for more than ten years and now this. Huh...go figure.



Posted by: gr81

Bros before hoes maYn



Posted by: J'Bo

cheese...sounds like you have some issues from what your saying...chicks and getting laid shouldnt come before friends and you really shouldnt sacrafice your dignity just to get laid good way to disrespect the women though (insert eye rolling here)



Posted by: Pepper

I married my roommate's girlfriend. Been married almost 15 years.

You wanna know something else that's weird, he married my girlfriend at the time a couple of years later.



Posted by: J'Bo

pepper...thats classic

what do you guys think about dating your ex'es friend?



Posted by: david

Quote:
Originally posted by J'Bo
cheese...sounds like you have some issues from what your saying...chicks and getting laid shouldnt come before friends and you really shouldnt sacrafice your dignity just to get laid good way to disrespect the women though (insert eye rolling here)





Posted by: BUSTINOUT

Quote:
Originally posted by KataMaStEr
I would have to be placed into that situation. I can’t really tell you for sure without that.
Therein lies the problem. If you don't lay down the rules/boundaries BEFORE it happens, I'll bet a dollar to a dog turd you will take the low road. I know what you are saying though, but decisions are much easier to make when they have been made in advance. I've been faced with this situation too, and all I can say is, "it sucks". lol



Posted by: bulletproof1

Quote:
Originally posted by Pitboss
Uhm no. Unless of course he said I could
pitboss, i believe your statement takes us back to the sharing/swapping poll lol.



Posted by: Pitboss

Quote:
Originally posted by bulletproof1
pitboss, i believe your statement takes us back to the sharing/swapping poll lol.
Oh yeah silly me.



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by Pitboss
Uhm no. Unless of course he said I could
this answer makes me laugh



Posted by: cheesegrater

Quote:
Originally posted by J'Bo
cheese...sounds like you have some issues from what your saying...chicks and getting laid shouldnt come before friends and you really shouldnt sacrafice your dignity just to get laid good way to disrespect the women though (insert eye rolling here)
the friend wasn't really a good friend, at least he didn't treat me like a good friend. The girl was a bitch, plain and simple. She wouldn't take no for an answer, so she had to have it made plain to her. The other incident with my cousin's ex, i didn't go for it because i couldn't go for her for just sex and i couldn't do it to my cousin.

if it means anything, i've been abstinent since august and will be until i'm with a girl i want to have a relationship with. Meaningless sex became a waste of time; i didn't even enjoy it on a purely sexual level.



Posted by: rockcrest

karma is a bitch!



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by OceanDude
Here is one of those hypothetical situations that might not be so hypothetical. If your best friend’s wife or girlfriend was coming on to you and flirting on a regular basis would you have sexual relations with her?

-OD
... but it wouldn't be behind his back



Posted by: irontime

No way I've seen way too many friendships screwed over by this happening. Hell I won't even touch a girl if my friend was with her and not any more. An ejaculation is definitely not worth a friendship...........that could almost be made into a famous quote



Posted by: Vieope

What type of ejaculation do you have ?



Posted by: Var

My best friend and I traded gf's once. I dont mean we were "swinging". I mean he broke up with his gf, I broke up with mine, and we both agreed that it was cool to pursue them. Interesting situation to say the least.



Posted by: OceanDude

Quote:
Originally posted by Var
My best friend and I traded gf's once. I dont mean we were "swinging". I mean he broke up with his gf, I broke up with mine, and we both agreed that it was cool to pursue them. Interesting situation to say the least.
Ah, that explains why you and IT have the same peculiar mental “idiosyncrasies” - must be the same STD chewing away on both of your frontal lobes...

Just kidding (ducking)…
OD



Posted by: Var



I was always sure to wear my "raincoat". No worries there.



Posted by: Randy

Quote:
Originally posted by Vieope
What type of ejaculation do you have ?
Vieope....I'm convinced now that you must be smoking something



Posted by: Vieope

Quote:
Originally posted by Randy
Vieope....I'm convinced now that you must be smoking something
That was just an answer to Irontime post..
Quote:
Originally posted by irontime
An ejaculation is definitely not worth ..
Although I agree with him. I will not loose a friend because of a women but sometimes when love is involved in the equation ..




Posted by: Randy

Ok Vieope... I will let you off the hook this time then



Posted by: Vieope





Posted by: myCATpowerlifts

oh thats right

you never told us about that "love bug"
that you caught Vieope



Posted by: Vieope

It is just a very nice women that I am seeing almost everyday. Love? I guess so, it is always hard to tell. The problem is that I met two new very nice women recently.

How about you? I saw a pretty friend of yours in your gallery a few months ago. How about her?




Posted by: Randy

Love Bug



Posted by: Randy

Quote:
Originally posted by Vieope
It is just a very nice women that I am seeing almost everyday. Love? I guess so, it is always hard to tell. The problem is that I met two new very nice women recently.

How about you? I saw a pretty friend of yours in your gallery a few months ago. How about her?
The dog doesn't count Vieope <Just kidding>



Posted by: Vieope





Posted by: OceanDude

Well, I'm the one that started this thread and my intention was not really to find out about peoples libido's etc. It was really to find out about relational honor and values. If I just look at the numbers and not some of the comments I must say I am impressed with you guys. Kind of fooled me really since I expected about half here would say "do the wench and tell your buddy to get a new one". Instead, my take here is that most of you think that another pretty face and sexual gratification are insufficient reward to betray a friend. That's OK in my book.

Now I wonder what would happen if we upped the ante. What if your buddy’s woman was filthy rich and would give you all the affection in the world and buy everything you wanted as long as you stopped working and kept her satisfied.

OD



Posted by: PreMier

Quote:
Originally posted by OceanDude
Now I wonder what would happen if we upped the ante. What if your buddy’s woman was filthy rich and would give you all the affection in the world and buy everything you wanted as long as you stopped working and kept her satisfied.

OD
This definately makes me think. But what will keep her from dumping me for someone else? Probably nothing. So NO!



Posted by: Randy

Quote:
Originally posted by OceanDude
Well, I'm the one that started this thread and my intention was not really to find out about peoples libido's etc. It was really to find out about relationional honor and values. If I jsut look at the numbers and not some of the comments I must say I am impressed with you guys. Kind of fooled me really since I expected about half here would say "do the wench and tell your buddy to get a new one". Instead, my take here is taht most of you think that another pretty face and sexual gratification are insufficient reward to betray a friend. That's OK in my book.

Now I wonder what would happen if we upped the ante. What if your buddie's woman was filthy rich and would give you all the affection in the world and buy everything you wanted as long as you stopped working and kept her satisfied.

OD
Is this really the case OD or are people just telling you want you want to hear I think that everyone knows right from wrong. We all know the correct answer. The real question is how someone would react if they where actually put into this type of situation. One person I believe stated just that. It is hard to be honest and say how you will react unless you are put in the situation. And each situation can be different. Nobody would try to steal there friends girlfriend intentionally. But I think if she was drop down georgeous and was continuously hitting on you, coupled by other circumstances, some may react differently. Add some alcohol to the equation and things could spin yet another direction. .

I like everyone else here have morals, and would like to say I would never even consider coming on to a friends girlfriend. There are just to many girls out there for that.

Now what really made you ask such a question OD? Is there something going on your not telling us?



Posted by: OceanDude

Quote:
Originally posted by Randy
...Now what really made you ask such a question OD? Is there something going on your not telling us?
Nah, in my junior year of college I turned down for principal a woman who brought the promise of a rich and bountiful dowry and many millions more to be inherited from a rich father. We can be foolish and idealistic in our youth. Instead, I waited for the “right lady” and now have a woman who has made me wealthy by working and struggling at my side for over 10 years. I wouldn’t put that relationship at risk for anything. We are best friends, eternal partners and lovers. It’s the best of all things and in my case the ideals of youth were right on target.

I was just doing the poll thing to get some insight on what makes some of you all “tick”. My working theory was that a lot of you, contrary to the apparent ostentatious and usually exaggerated disregard for traditional morality, many of you from this poll result seem to have an overt code of behavior lurking in the inner works. Bottom line, I think that a lot of you all are really closet conservatives and just haven’t explored your true inner selves yet. Time to come out guys. You can run but you can’t hide.

-OD



Posted by: Randy

Quote:
Originally posted by OceanDude
I waited for the “right lady” and now have a woman who has made me wealthy by working and struggling at my side for over 10 years.
Congratulations OD, finding your soul mate can sometimes be a very difficult task

I think that a lot of you all are really closet conservatives and just haven’t explored your true inner selves yet. Time to come out guys. You can run but you can’t hide.

Has that been my problem? Will someone please open the door and let me out?

-OD




Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally posted by Randy
... One person I believe stated just that. It is hard to be honest and say how you will react unless you are put in the situation. And each situation can be different.
I believe that's the best answer. Everyone has an idea of how they may react, but until they've been put in the circumstance, it's a different ball game.



Posted by: Fit Freak

NEVER.....and I mean it...NEVER. regardless of the circumstances...doing this behind a friend's back speaks of poor integrity, lack of good judgement...and most off...you make for a SAD-ASS friend.



Posted by: Randy

Weren't you on Jerry Springer the other night Fit Freak
Something about hittin on a friends girl <just kiddin>



Posted by: PreMier

Quote:
Originally posted by Fit Freak
NEVER.....and I mean it...NEVER. regardless of the circumstances...doing this behind a friend's back speaks of poor integrity, lack of good judgement...and most off...you make for a SAD-ASS friend.
There are major character flaws in someone who does, same with cheating.

Its just a piece of ass for christ sake. Its not like you cant go out to a club or whatever and get one.



Posted by: Randy

Agreed Premier



Posted by: irontime

Quote:
Originally posted by Vieope
What type of ejaculation do you have ?
It was white the last time i checked. Did you want a picture?



Posted by: Randy





Posted by: busyLivin

can you really call yourself a "buddy" if you bag the guy's g/f ???



Posted by: Randy

Quote:
Originally posted by busyLivin
can you really call yourself a "buddy" if you bag the guy's g/f ???
You could, but it wouldn't be true



Posted by: OceanDude

Hey - I know guys that have done their buddies favors by showing them how sleezy their GF was.

Years ago I had a friend that had to go out of the country for a long time on business (4 months) and leave his GF home. He told me to keep an eye on her and to "take care" of her (in the fullest sense) till he got back. But that's a different story.

But jokingly, on the other hand I have seen some guys with some pretty homely GFs and it wouldn't surprise me that they felt positively reinforced when someone else took notice.

OD



Posted by: busyLivin

Well, personally I'd rather my friend told me what a sleeze she was rather than giving me a demonstration.

If he did tell me this, I wouldn't buy that for a second. It would be his way of getting his kicks off on my girl, and convincing himself he was helping me out... trying to sleep better at night.

I see your point, though.



Posted by: OceanDude

Well, some of this is "tounge in cheek too". I understand where you are coming from.

-OD



Posted by: Randy

Quote:
Originally posted by OceanDude
Hey - I know guys that have done their buddies favors by showing them how sleezy their GF was.

Years ago I had a friend that had to go out of the country for a long time on business (4 months) and leave his GF home. He told me to keep an eye on her and to "take care" of her (in the fullest sense) till he got back. But that's a different story.

But jokingly, on the other hand I have seen some guys with some pretty homely GFs and it wouldn't surprise me that they felt positively reinforced when someone else took notice.

OD
Yes OD, I suppose there is always an exception to the rule



Posted by: buff_tat2d_chic

Quote:
Originally posted by bulletproof1
pitboss, i believe your statement takes us back to the sharing/swapping poll lol.
...damn

I missed that one.



Posted by: buff_tat2d_chic

There not a good response for me.

I have done a buddy's girl... both behind his back and with permission.



Posted by: OceanDude

That's ok buffy, you qualify as one of the "guys" here.

OD



Posted by: Randy

I was waiting for this response from OD



Posted by: Johnnny

I could never do that to a good friend.


The only thing that I think could drive me to do such a thing is if a friend did it to me first.

But otherwise I would never do such a thing.



Posted by: I Are Baboon

I would NEVER do a buddy's girl behind his back! That is just wrong.

I'd do his mom though.



Posted by: busyLivin

Quote:
Originally Posted by I Are Baboon
I would NEVER do a buddy's girl behind his back! That is just wrong.

I'd do his mom though.




Posted by: Var

Quote:
Originally Posted by I Are Baboon
I would NEVER do a buddy's girl behind his back! That is just wrong.

I'd do his mom though.
I knew someone who did this in high school. Nailed his friends mom.



Posted by: DFINEST

NEVER, I would ALWAYS regret it if I did



Posted by: Johnnny

OceanDude

Very interesting story. I have a musician buddy who I've know since highschool.

In 1999 one of his Mom's friends introduced him to her 19yr old daughter. They went out several times & also had sex on more than one occasion.

But he was more attracted to her mother (his mom's friend). So he got together with her mom & he ended up living with her for almost 5yrs.



Posted by: wkirby

Ocean Dude,
YOU are my hero. Thanks for keeping the dream alive for all of us!

-Will



Posted by: slim

It's kind of nice that most of you guys (hopefully tellin the truth) wouldn't "bag" the buddy's girlfriend. I was starting to think that most men thought when it comes to sex....anything goes . Maybe i was wrong.....thankfully.

slim



Posted by: slim

Excluding of course.....wkirby...johnnny...and especially ocean dude.....ewww...



Posted by: OceanDude

Well I had a wee bit too much vino last night when I got back in from TGIF and posted that story. Now I feel guilty since it sets the wrong example. It was also too personal so I deleted it. That all happened in a short time of my life where I just ignored my conscious because I was angry about a woman. I got all rebellious because she threw away a very promising relationship in a terrible way. She purposely did something very morally offensive to make it clear to me that her priorities where her career goals and I was second to that. So I just tossed all my values to the wind and rebelled for about 1 year of my life. That’s all behind me now.

Sorry slim.

OD



Posted by: Johnnny

OceanDude

[quote] Well I had a wee bit too much vino last night when I got back in from TGIF and posted that story. Now I feel guilty since it sets the wrong example. It was also too personal so I deleted it. That all happened in a short time of my life where I just ignored my conscious because I was angry about a woman. I got all rebellious because she threw away a very promising relationship in a terrible way. She purposely did something very morally offensive to make it clear to me that her priorities where her career goals and I was second to that. So I just tossed all my values to the wind and rebelled for about 1 year of my life. That’s all behind me now.

Sorry slim.

OD[quote]

That really sucks. Yes career is important, but if you are with someone, your partner should also be just as important.



Posted by: slim

I tell you what OD.....I will forgive your comments if you answer me how i weight train....deal? Because i have yet anyone to answer my questions and i want answers now.....kind of impatient to get results ...lol..

What ya say?



Posted by: OceanDude

Quote:
Originally Posted by slim
I tell you what OD.....I will forgive your comments if you answer me how i weight train....deal? Because i have yet anyone to answer my questions and i want answers now.....kind of impatient to get results ...lol..

What ya say?
OK Slim - what forum are you posting your questions in? I''ll search.
OD



Posted by: Big Smoothy

Doing a friend's girlfriend is one thing I would never even consider. Assuming that they are in a serious relationship, and he cares/has feeflings about her.

Once it happens, then there is (or needs to be) a secret. The stress of knowing that sooner or later, he may find out. And what would be the consequences? Depends on the situation.

If you can't trust your friends, then what is the point of having them, or them having you....



Posted by: sawheet

Easy to say no here, I have been in that situation before and can proudly say I did not do anything!!!, Friends first always



Posted by: Rich46yo

When I was overseas I had a buddy who was afraid for his wife "they both lived off-base" and he asked me once If I'd stay with her one night,"I was off an he was on duty". I told him "yeah I'll keep an eye on her". What are friends for right? That night she came into the front room wearing a nightgown and she had nothing on underneath. She propped her feet on a coffee table and aimed that cuz right at my eyes. She was very good looking and that was probably the closest Ive come to betraying a friend, "no I didnt fuck her".

Anyway she was a whore and he was a limpdick. Not a good combination for a successful marriage. She ended up screwing half that base but I kept my honor. Ive always lived a simple life. A life where codes are followed. Ive never catted around on my wife either. I mean you do raise your hand and make an oath when you get married.

But I have been tempted to toss the codes in the trash and just screw the hell out of the girl. I just havnt done it...........take care........Rich



Posted by: Johnnny

Rich46yo
Pretty crazy story.



Posted by: madden player

I wouldn't do my buddies girl, and if my buddy ever did my woman I would KILL them both... 4 real!!



Posted by: Flex

NO way.

Bros before hoes.........always.

and sadly i'm learning that most of 'em are hoes (no offense to all you good girls out there)



Posted by: gr81

^^



Posted by: NEW_IN_THE_GAME

I Tell You What Bro. A Good Friend Is Hard To Come By Especially Now A Day. I Wouldnt Do Anything To Mess It Up. You Are Bro's Then Your Bros 4ever. I Have Been In This Situation A Few Times. And At 17 My Hormones Wanna Rumble But I Just Keep It In. But U Best Believe The Minute They Break Up I Am At Her House. Lol



Posted by: Deadly13

Yea,,, I would if she was too hot to handle It'z my natural I only have a couple of friendz I would not think of backstabbing and maybe if they was a good guy one you could trust I proable wouldn't But, I would so fuck all that if she'z Ashanti, or J-lo fine, foreal.



Posted by: BoneCrusher

Quote:
Originally Posted by gr81
Bros before hoes maYn
Great one ... gr81. I is all about it. I am 44 and have only kept a few friends because the second one hit on my ex-wife (just split up after 22 years) I whooped his ass and sent him packing. Doing another man's wife is lowdown, but a bro's wife is just outta the question.



Posted by: gr81

^exactly. it just makes clear a persons priorities when they have to go after someone you were so close with and had history with. If they cant' respect that then they aren't respecting you and you don't need to surround yorself with people like that. There are so many women in the world for gods sake. thats some grimey shit right there. Good for you Bone



Posted by: myCATpowerlifts

but you have to stop and think about why they do it gr81

You said
Quote:
There are so many women in the world for gods sake
obviously they can go find some one else but
if they are really your bro then they have been around that girl for so long that they've become attracted to them

so to say there are so many more is kinda redundant...



though im not at all for cheating on your friend...



Posted by: gr81

Quote:
obviously they can go find some one else but
if they are really your bro then they have been around that girl for so long that they've become attracted to them
yeah but the longer they are around, the more they should know thats wrong. I look at it this way, basically if you are in a long relationship and YOU are the dumper, as in you broke up with the chick, then its fair game since you chose to get rid of her. Now if you are the DUMPEE as in she let you go, then she's off limits. Other than its just a matter of respect and if your friend can't respect those boundaries he's no friend of mine!



Posted by: myCATpowerlifts

Quote:
Originally Posted by gr81
yeah but the longer they are around, the more they should know thats wrong. I look at it this way, basically if you are in a long relationship and YOU are the dumper, as in you broke up with the chick, then its fair game since you chose to get rid of her. Now if you are the DUMPEE as in she let you go, then she's off limits. Other than its just a matter of respect and if your friend can't respect those boundaries he's no friend of mine!

i understand

all i was saying is that
That is the reason why they cheat, instead of just going and finding their own girl

they've been around them so long they've become attracted to them


thats all im saying



Posted by: gr81

I feel ya man



Posted by: oaktownboy

Quote:
Originally Posted by gr81
yeah but the longer they are around, the more they should know thats wrong. I look at it this way, basically if you are in a long relationship and YOU are the dumper, as in you broke up with the chick, then its fair game since you chose to get rid of her. Now if you are the DUMPEE as in she let you go, then she's off limits. Other than its just a matter of respect and if your friend can't respect those boundaries he's no friend of mine!
yeah it's about respecting ya homies in that case mayne



Posted by: BoneCrusher

Quote:
Originally Posted by myCATpowerlifts
i understand

all i was saying is that
That is the reason why they cheat, instead of just going and finding their own girl

they've been around them so long they've become attracted to them


thats all im saying
Hiya myCATpowerlifts. We have posted on some of the same issues before and I like ya so I am not gonna call ya on what you are not saying here.

Er ... uh ... well fuck it. OK so I am gonna call ya on what you're not saying. You sound like you have boned a friends girl before. The attraction always existed ... time allowed you to redraw the lines and get to the unspoken parts. Maybe knowing her for a while just made you two more comfortable with each other. It sounds like you are trying to explain why you did it to yourself Cat. Maybe I'm wrong mayn but it looks that way on paper ... and I still like ya anyway.

Last time a "friend" did a girl I was in a realationship with I threw a big ass party. I had my girl there and she was all dressed up and lookin' fine. I called her on it right there in front of everybody (since most of them knew anyway) and told her to fuck off ... threw her screw my friends lil ho ass outta my house. Then I threw my boy a beatin' right there in front of God and everyone. A real nice ass-whoopin'.

I never had any trouble like that again till my ex-wife ... but that's a whole new thread.



Posted by: SPIKE1257

If you're doing somebody's girl behind their back, I wouldn't call him a buddy, I would call him "someone I don't give 2 shits about and I'm going to screw his girlfriend"



Posted by: fantasma62

Years ago I had a chance to do my buddy's girl behind his back and decided not to. The girl back then really wanted to badly (yeah, I didn't look this bad 12 years ago) because she told me. I told her no way in hell would I do that to my buddy. After they broke up, she tried it again (what was she, blind?) and I balked again. I consider that to be kinda' like robbing the grave after someone has died. Let the body rest in peace.

Now, this buddy, is one of my oldest and closest friends, but I waited almost a decade to tell him the story....



Posted by: Crono1000

when you see this thread on the main page, it cuts off some of the title, so it just says "Would you do your Buddies"

haha... this is a gay thread



Posted by: Lurker

I find this interesting because I got to agree if they are really your buddies they won't sleep with your girlfriend/Wife, but the thing is I think men have a hard time making good personal relationships with women. So wives/girlfriends are a woman who trust you and is convienent. I know in my life my husband's buddies and my ex-husbands buddies have always hit on me at one time or another. We were friends and they trusted me and loved me in some sort of sick way. And you have got to look at them again. How is this for a crappy situation. Yesterday one of my husband's buddies came over, the last time I saw him he was drunk and trying to grope me and whispering in my ear, "It's all good" Intimidated me so bad I left my house and went to the gym for 2 hours hoping he would pass out while I was gone. I told my husband, who apparently had a "talk" with him. So here he is yesterday sitting in my house and he is still looking at me like I am an appetizer. I went and stayed in my bedroom, these are buddies? To top it off me and this guy use to go out clubbing together and stuff. He was great to talk to, and now that relationship is gone. He ruined it with hormones. So my question is have you ever hit on your buddies wives/gf? and why?

-C



Posted by: PreMier

If some 'buddie' hit on my girl, I would be hitting on him literally.

I cant understand why your husband would let this guy hang around?



Posted by: naturaltan

I have dated a girl that a friend dated in HS. The three of us were very good friends and discussed it like ............... gulp ............ adults. He was ok with it as was she. If either of them had said it wasn't cool, then it would have ended there. Personally, if a friend wanted to date someone I had dated, more power to ya. Just because a relationship didn't work out for me, shouldn't mean I should have some influence on who you date. I'm way to casual to have any kind of dislike for someone trying to find a workable relationship. Life's too short to worry about things I can't control.



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally Posted by PreMier
If some 'buddie' hit on my girl, I would be hitting on him literally.

I cant understand why your husband would let this guy hang around?
In Lurker's case I agree with you. The guy who have to step back. I have friends who kid around as they know a bit about our relationship, but it's just that and it's always done with me around. If I found out someone was hitting on my wife while I wasn't around and meant what he was saying, we'd be having a 'conversation' for sure.



Posted by: chronic

dependz wich buddy it wuz, not if they were in a relationship but if he's jus tryin 2 get laid thats a different story, i dont mind givin my cuzinz sum numbas, but i make sure i tap dat first, then they can go 2 town on her, i mean its not like i'm makin her do nuttin, i jus supply my cuzinz wit tha numbas, how hard is it 2 say "NO" my one cuzin asked me to mack his chick cuz tha gurl wouldnt give it up right away, family should always help each other out



Posted by: CowPimp

I would never do that to a friend. That doesn't mean I won't look at their girl's ass though.



Posted by: MaxMirkin

I did. But I don't know if I can consider Mino a real "buddy."



Posted by: mino lee

Quote:
Originally Posted by MaxMirkin
I did. But I don't know if I can consider Mino a real "buddy."
u sick fuck. so your the dipshit who made the nickname min0 lee.

guyz, this guy has got some serious serious mental issues. look at the info on the nick he created.

and then he posts like 20+ times "i see" on all threads i have posted in.

fucking son of a bitch......



Posted by: BoneCrusher

Ya know Mino I warned ya to keep a strong chin or you'd be getting you're ass kicked all over the place. You think that Max has not fucked with me too? I fucked with him back but didn't get ugly about it. I had fun with the dude and he poked back ... we both laughed and went on with life. Now you are here in this thread after your other one was closed getting into another brawl with Max. None of us want to deal with your bad language, insultive attacks, or inability to take a knock.

Lighten up, get some humor from this, and your life in this forum will improve greatly.

Max may be a prick ... but his is a funny ass prick and we like him. Please try to get along Mino.



Posted by: mino lee

bonecrusher:
ass kicked all over the place? have you read the norm to what i type in a thread? have you read my responses to the majority of the threads on this site?

what are you talking about???? insultive attacks? inability to take a knock? lighten up? are u ok? u better re-read the threads i was mouthy in and what lead up to it. and i am able to take a knock.

it's a values issue. if you were to post a thread for example and said your mom is in the hospital and you feel sad, you'd be one mad guy if someone made any form of smart ass remarks related to. one should know what is a joke and what is not.



Posted by: bulletproof1

i see



Posted by: BoneCrusher

I see



Posted by: HARD_Right

It would appear sir that unintelligent responses to simple requests have resulted in your falling into disfavor with the locals. Are you brain-dead? You should probably consider a frontal lobotomy to ease the strain on the under sized cranial mass you call a brain. A sharp tongue is no indication of a keen mind mino lee. All that you are you owe to your parents. Why don't you send them a penny and square the account? The more you post the more one must wonder … are your parents siblings? After reading your posts, I've decided I am in favor of abortion in cases of incest. In fact I believe that all of your ancestors must number in the millions; it's hard to believe that many people are to blame for producing you. I would further suggest that any similarity between you and a human is purely coincidental! People have given you advise here as to how to act mino lee: however, anyone who told you to be yourself couldn't have given you worse advice. Do you always conduct yourself in such a stupid manor or is today a special occasion?



Posted by: MaxMirkin

Mino, do you really think I fucked your girl? Then why do you get so pissed? It's a fucking joke, laugh it off. Don't get me wrong, I like it when you overreact, it's amusing. But you keep this shit up, and you'll have a coronary soon. We all joke about each other's girls, or anything else for that matter. Get used to it, if you're gonna hang out around here.

Oh, and i didn't make that Min0 Lee account. Not sure who did, but I hope they'll put it to good use.



Posted by: mino lee

Quote:
Originally Posted by HARD_Right
It would appear sir that unintelligent responses to simple requests have resulted in your falling into disfavor with the locals. Are you brain-dead? You should probably consider a frontal lobotomy to ease the strain on the under sized cranial mass you call a brain. A sharp tongue is no indication of a keen mind mino lee. All that you are you owe to your parents. Why don't you send them a penny and square the account? The more you post the more one must wonder … are your parents siblings? After reading your posts, I've decided I am in favor of abortion in cases of incest. In fact I believe that all of your ancestors must number in the millions; it's hard to believe that many people are to blame for producing you. I would further suggest that any similarity between you and a human is purely coincidental! People have given you advise here as to how to act mino lee: however, anyone who told you to be yourself couldn't have given you worse advice. Do you always conduct yourself in such a stupid manor or is today a special occasion?
wtf? all i get from this is that you are trying to prove you don't have a sharp tongue and therefore have a keen mind by spending some time putting together that incest abortion green light shit. ?? wtf? just cuz you spend 15 minutes on how to type out a wordy attack makes you have a keen mind? wtf. let me do the same, but since i don't want to waste time, i'll make it simple see.
1)your mom, she is a whore, who has aids, and now, you are infected.
2) your dad, ever since finding this out, has turned gay. and now has aids due to.


see? no need to waste time typing what u did. btw, thinking fast, and talking slowly is what differentiates the men from the boys jackshit, not like what you did: think slowly, type slowly, and then turn everything to bold.



Posted by: RexStunnahH

I thought this whole "mino's girl" Thing was on another thread,Keep your arguments in the same thread,this shit is starting to become contagious.
oh..
The answer is No, my bros and their familes have my respect,I would not trade it for a piece of cheap pussy,any woman cheatin on their man,is just trouble lookin to happen.



Posted by: min0 lee

I see



Posted by: min0 lee

Quote:
Originally Posted by mino lee
u sick fuck. so your the dipshit who made the nickname min0 lee.

guyz, this guy has got some serious serious mental issues. look at the info on the nick he created.

and then he posts like 20+ times "i see" on all threads i have posted in.

fucking son of a bitch......
Mino lee baby, please be nice to Maxie, he father of our baby.
Love you long time.
I see



Posted by: min0 lee

Oh wait is MaxMirkin really the father of our baby? Or is it BoneCrusher?

Too much men.

I see.



Posted by: RexStunnahH

Quote:
Originally Posted by min0 lee
Mino lee baby, please be nice to Maxie, he father of our baby.
Love you long time.
I see

I guess it aint all that bad,It does give a little fun to the thread after all



Posted by: SuperFlex

I have unfortunately and have been on the other end as well... Payback often come by a bitch... At this point that's a definite hell no I wouldn't. Not cool...



Posted by: 419Para_Dice

im no buddy f@#$er!



Posted by: Newt

I've had my chances and you just don't do it.



Posted by: The Monkey Man

You can't break the unwritten GUY code!?!?

I had the opportunity to F-this one A-hole trainer @ my gym 2yrs ago...

He was Cheating on this sweetheart of a girl, and was such a complete cock about it...

But I still didn't tell her... Eventually (months) later she figured it out...

KARMA



Posted by: musclepump

Buddies first.



Posted by: MuscleM4n

never buddies for life

girls aren't worth it

friends are always their for you women are not



Posted by: TJ Cline

Quote:
Originally Posted by MuscleM4n
never buddies for life




Posted by: The Monkey Man

Quote:
Originally Posted by MuscleM4n
friends are always their for you women are not
I have found the opposite most of the time!?!?

MY women have always been more trustworthy and loyal...

My criteria for selecting women has always been more stringent though

My buddies are... well... were mostly just drunken fools



Posted by: MyK

my friends usually have their cocks in there girls mouth while I do their girl!



Posted by: min0 lee

Quote:
Originally Posted by MaxMirkin
Oh, and i didn't make that Min0 Lee account. Not sure who did, but I hope they'll put it to good use.
I've managed to do OK.



Posted by: The Monkey Man

Min0 "is" my buddy's girl -



Posted by: UK'er

hell yeh
the mate should have treated her right and not tempted me with her
buildingup



Posted by: nvr2L8

i would bang her, then go tell my buddy he is married to a slut. I would be doing him a favor



Posted by: 1xDeatHsHeaDx3

ahhhh you guys would would are fucked up , I would however do my friend's ex, infact I have, haha, because she became my current. but is not currently my current.

Quote:
Originally Posted by The Monkey Man
MY women have always been more trustworthy and loyal...

My criteria for selecting women has always been more stringent though

My buddies are... well... were mostly just drunken fools
That's the way to do it, at least thats how I do it.



Posted by: juggernaut

I actually did this once years ago. I felt bad afterwards. But I did it twice just to make sure.



Posted by: JordanMang

Bros b4 Hoes!



Posted by: skaterdude

I just relized im a shity friend.



Posted by: viet_jon

bro's before hoe's.



Posted by: jsundeep

Been there, done that several times over. The buddy in question was a dumb nut. And she spread it like an eagle. Pumped her till she fainted, every single time. I took a lot of time off work in the noons to stuff her with my jizz. Eventually, got the sack. End of story.



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