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Posted by: ladybuilder

Would you or have you ever?
How many times have you?



Posted by: shutupntra1n

NO
and
NO...

I would like to stay HIV Free



Posted by: ladybuilder

Sounds good!



Posted by: pmech

I am overly jealous. Rules in my house about the sex with other people thing:

My wife can, while still with me:
Have sex with another woman
Leave me for another man

My wife can NOT, while still with me:
Have sex with another man
Leave me for a woman

My wifes rules are much simpler.

Do any of the above and she relieves me of body parts



Posted by: BoneCrusher

LOL ... interesting rules pmech. Ladybuilder I have had some fun and in the right relationship I'd do it again. IF the other half could seporate sex from her emotions and not get all wierd afterwords. No doubt we all have those lil' thoughts in the backs of our minds, but being with a secure person that can handle it afterwords is the deal maker or breaker.



Posted by: BoneCrusher

I expect NaturalTan to wonder in here as soon as he sees the thread ...



Posted by: ladybuilder

I am in one of those relationships where it doesn't matter if we are to swing. We are both very secure in our relationship and I have no problem with the seperation of emotions w/ sex. It can be a real relationship booster or a relationship breaker, very true.

I have seen it and met people who do it all the time. Do I? Well that is something I will tell if anyone asks. If curiosity kills the cat, so to say.

I cannot go with any man behind my old mans back. Its just cheating. But if it were another woman he doesn't care. If I was into it and he thought I wanted it he would just ask me to share.



Posted by: pmech

I dont even need to share, I will hold the camera



Posted by: ladybuilder

That is an option with him as well.



Posted by: pmech

Good man



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally Posted by BoneCrusher
I expect NaturalTan to wonder in here as soon as he sees the thread ...




Posted by: BoneCrusher

How ya been dude? LOL ... still swinging away out there mayn?



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally Posted by ladybuilder
I am in one of those relationships where it doesn't matter if we are to swing. We are both very secure in our relationship and I have no problem with the seperation of emotions w/ sex. It can be a real relationship booster or a relationship breaker, very true.

I have seen it and met people who do it all the time. Do I? Well that is something I will tell if anyone asks. If curiosity kills the cat, so to say.

I cannot go with any man behind my old mans back. Its just cheating. But if it were another woman he doesn't care. If I was into it and he thought I wanted it he would just ask me to share.
Ok ... I shall ask, do you?



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally Posted by BoneCrusher
How ya been dude? LOL ... still swinging away out there mayn?
... nope ... when the time is right, perhaps. We did go to a small club here ... but it hasn't changed for years. Still the same old couples hanging with their friends ... it's a scary scene.



Posted by: bulletproof1





Posted by: ladybuilder

Quote:
Originally Posted by naturaltan
Ok ... I shall ask, do you?
Yup! Such a shock???

We have On Premises parties we go to. FUN!!!



Posted by: david

Yes (I'd have to KNOW them REALLY well!!!!)
No

None



Posted by: bulletproof1

ladybuilder...heres a thread i started a while back

http://www.ironmagazineforums.com/sh...light=swinging



Posted by: ladybuilder

Thanks BP I will have to read all of it when I have time. Good to see people's thoughts on the lifestyle. It is true that it can be dangerous though, I met someone who was cheating on her old man that way. But you should have met him, ugggh! That still does not make it right. They had insecurities waaaaaaaay before they tried swinging. Just uhappy people do not make good secure swingers and being honest that you are done with it helps as well. Just mt opinion.



Posted by: BoneCrusher

Why marry an "Uggh" unless the "uggh" is gonna keep you happy?



Posted by: ladybuilder

Exactally my thinking. I want a WOW and for it to stay WOW all the time. I need to stay satisfied.



Posted by: Pitboss

gee tough subject.... hmm uhm yep I'd do it.



Posted by: Pirate!

Not if I was married. It would ruin it for good. If it was a casual girlfriend, and we had an understanding, bring it on.



Posted by: Jeanie

I have never and would never. I could possibly fantasize about it but my Christian morals keep me in check.



Posted by: naturaltan

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jeanie
I have never and would never. I could possibly fantasize about it but my Christian morals keep me in check.
some it works for, most it doesn't ... it's all good.




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