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Posted by: GimmEsoMoR

I think my man is losing interest. In your opinion, or experience...what would cause you to cheat on someone? Also....what signs do you look for if you suspect it?

Posted by: shutupntra1n

I don't find the need to cheat. If I lose interest I leave, not cheat. Men don't grow on me anyway. I either feel for them a lot and think highly of them or don't feel romantic at all. There is no in between for myself. I am single 99% of the time and am way too picky to have the opportunity to find 2 guys I like equally at once.

Posted by: BoneCrusher

You cheat on me I am out of here. After we are through I'll replace you on my own terms in my own time. I will not cheat though. I've been betrayed and know the signs. When I see them I'll confront you and confirm my observations, then we're done. I do not have time for kid games and will under no terms accept "players" in my life.

You know when your other is cheating. Believe in your self and go with your instincts.

Posted by: hotbody

You know when your other is cheating. Believe in your self and go with your instincts.[/QUOTE]
Very true....the best thing you can do is to go with your gut

Posted by: SuperFlex

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Originally Posted by shutupntra1n

I don't find the need to cheat. If I lose interest I leave, not cheat. Men don't grow on me anyway. I either feel for them a lot and think highly of them or don't feel romantic at all. There is no in between for myself. I am single 99% of the time and am way too picky to have the opportunity to find 2 guys I like equally at once.

Well said... What's your number again?!?

Posted by: SuperFlex

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Originally Posted by hotbody

You know when your other is cheating. Believe in your self and go with your instincts.

Very true....the best thing you can do is to go with your gut[/QUOTE]
And what a pretty gut it is too...

BTW, I'd NEVER cheat on you.

Posted by: min0 lee

Very good question, I guess if my partner cheated on me I would leave.

I had an ex who played me dirty a while back; I first became suspicious when I saw a very sexy undergarment hanging in the shower. They weren't for me though....

Posted by: GimmEsoMoR

What if you have so much invested in the relationship like kids ..... Thank god Im independent I guess...just in case!!!

Posted by: hotbody

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Originally Posted by GimmEsoMoR

What if you have so much invested in the relationship like kids ..... Thank god Im independent I guess...just in case!!!

well, if I had kids, I would rather my kids be happy and have two parents that love them in separate homes than to put them through hell living with the two parents that fight all the time and doesn't show any love and affection towards each other...I would want my kids to know that is wasn't okay for that to happen and to live with it....just my opinion though.

Posted by: hotbody

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Originally Posted by bkc

Very true....the best thing you can do is to go with your gut

And what a pretty gut it is too...

BTW, I'd NEVER cheat on you.[/QUOTE]
well thanks bkc....i know you wouldn't

Posted by: min0 lee

Now that's the hard part. My parents separated when I was 9, so from a personal experiance from a kid...it hurts.
I stood single for many years before I got married and had kids. I made sure I found the right person.
I promised myself I would never ever put my kids thru that, I am doing my half and hopefully my spouse is too.

Posted by: Stu

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Originally Posted by hotbody

And what a pretty gut it is too...

BTW, I'd NEVER cheat on you.[/.QUOTE]
well thanks bkc....i know you wouldn't

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Originally Posted by bkc

Very true....the best thing you can do is to go with your gut[/.QUOTE]And what a pretty gut it is too...

BTW, I'd NEVER cheat on you

oh look you an your girlfriend both cant use the [/QUOTE] function thats so sweet

Posted by: hotbody

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Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

oh look you an your girlfriend both cant use the

function thats so sweet

[/QUOTE]
shutup now....got buttery fingers....hahahaha

Posted by: Stu

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Originally Posted by hotbody

function thats so sweet

[/.QUOTE]
shutup now....got buttery fingers....hahahaha

still struggling

Posted by: hotbody

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Originally Posted by stu21Ldn

still struggling

is this better.......yeh...still struggling....I NEED HELP!!!! hahaha

Posted by: Flex

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Originally Posted by GimmEsoMoR

I think my man is losing interest. In your opinion, or experience...what would cause you to cheat on someone? Also....what signs do you look for if you suspect it?

honestly, the reason men cheat is purely sexual. if put in certain situations, men will just act on impulse (say at a bar), even if they know they are in a relationship and could be hurting their loved one.

most of my buddies have at one time or another cheated on their girlfriends (*myself included). i think they just get "bored", if thats what you wanna call it. guys need that excitement, spontaniety etc., so when the relationship isnt working, they look somewhere else.

me personally, i cheated b/c i thought my gf was also. we had 0 sex life, and i hardly saw her, so i put 2+2 together, and went out and did it myself. turns out i was dead wrong, and she just had some underlying issues as to our bad sex life. She was hurt, but that was the beginning of the relationship, and turns out we went out for 2.5years after that.

as far as signs, guys will either be two ways.
they will just deny it, or they will act mad when you accuse them. that's what all my friends do, anyways.

hope this helps, i know its a shitty situation...

FLEX

Posted by: min0 lee

BKC, the Internet Ventriloquist, is a seemingly

mild-mannered bodybuilder who chats on the IM open chat along with a sweet-talking dame named Hotbody. A classic case of multiple personality disorder, BKC and Hotbody are two completely separate personalities occupying the same body. Although BKC would like to reform, Hotbody has the more dominating personality. Hotbody has nothing but contempt for the Internet Ventriloquist, always referring to him as " ".

Posted by: GimmEsoMoR

Thanks flex...it does help.....and hotbody you have a good point about the kids. If it turns out to be true though...I will do everything in my power to get passed it, and keep ME..and my daughters happy. I guess the part that freaks me out the most is him having sex with others and me, and catching something from him....YUK!! He accuses me of cheating, and I would never cheat.

Posted by: cman

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Originally Posted by shutupntra1n

But I thought you liked Mino? She is a guy, kinda.LOL
Good Qualities SUT. Stick to em.

Posted by: min0 lee

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Originally Posted by cman

But I thought you liked Mino? She is a guy, kinda.LOL
Good Qualities SUT. Stick to em.

She did until she found out I am carring your child.

Posted by: Little Wing

Posted by: cman

Posted by: Little Wing

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Originally Posted by cman

Posted by: shutupntra1n

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Originally Posted by cman

But I thought you liked Mino? She is a guy, kinda.LOL
Good Qualities SUT. Stick to em.

I do love min0

It helps when you know who min0 is

Yeah I may die being single

Posted by: shutupntra1n

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

She did until she found out I am carring your child.

You're toooo funny

Posted by: crisg555

Personally, I have never cheated, and I will never cheat... If I were in your shoes, I would leave if I found out any cheating was going on. I know you have kids, so it makes it a lot harder, but since you said your independent then you should be ok. It's just your daughters I would be worried about.

just my 2cents... I hope it all works out for you...

Posted by: ZECH

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

You cheat on me I am out of here. After we are through I'll replace you on my own terms in my own time. I will not cheat though. I've been betrayed and know the signs. When I see them I'll confront you and confirm my observations, then we're done. I do not have time for kid games and will under no terms accept "players" in my life.

You know when your other is cheating. Believe in your self and go with your instincts.

Damn, you sound just like me!

Posted by: shutupntra1n

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

The way you posted right after me and kept saying 'You' I thought you were talking to me directly

Posted by: BoneCrusher

I was not trying to imply that I would leave you SNT. You will either want to sleep with me every 2 hours or move on and I know this. When multiple orgasms, unlimited wealth, devastating good looks, a great sense of humor, and a stunning intaleckt

loose their apeal you will drop me like a legal summons and find another. Maybe we can share a protien drink and laugh about it after ...

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Originally Posted by Gimmesomore

... He accuses me of cheating, and I would never cheat.

Someone who blames you for cheating when you KNOW you are not is doing the deed himself ... absolutly without a doubt. Do you check guys out and flirt? If not than you have someone who is overly jealous and is just figuring you'll do what he himself is doing. He is placing you in check. Check 'em back. As far as kids go judge him on his parenting skills and dedication to his daughters and follow your heart. If he is a good dad he will be there for his babbies no matter what. I will not toot my own horn to prove a point but I will say that the single most rewarding thing I've done in my life was to raise my son. If he ruins that for himself he is not worthy of them anyway.

DG we do think alike one most issues my friend. It is just your politics that are messed up ...

Posted by: SuperFlex

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

BKC, the Internet Ventriloquist, is a seemingly

Last time I checked you were the one confused...

I promise you I am not hotbody. Her vagina is much better looking than mine...

I DON'T HAVE ONE. Despite what your parents told you min0 lee. Everyone is NOT born with a foo-foo and a wee-wee...

Posted by: min0 lee

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Originally Posted by bkc

Last time I checked you were the one confused...

I promise you I am not hotbody. Her vagina is much better looking than mine...

I DON'T HAVE ONE. Despite what your parents told you min0 lee. Everyone is NOT born with a foo-foo and a wee-wee...

I'm not the only one who feels this way, well anyway ..I like you.

Posted by: SuperFlex

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

I'm not the only one who feels this way, well anyway ..I like you.

You're super as well.

Posted by: shutupntra1n

If I had me a sweetie pie such as min0 lee I would never cheat

Posted by: min0 lee

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Originally Posted by shutupntra1n

If I had me a sweetie pie such as min0 lee I would never cheat

Awwww.............

Posted by: RexStunnahH

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Originally Posted by GimmEsoMoR

I think my man is losing interest. In your opinion, or experience...what would cause you to cheat on someone? Also....what signs do you look for if you suspect it?

I wouldn't.I know that a change in behavior is a big one to look for.If all of a sudden your mate is listening to music they never listened to before,or likeing certain things...just out of the blue.or talking about another person alot.theres alot

Posted by: gr81

My man Flex hit the nail on the head, Men cheat b/c of sexual need, bottom line if they aren't getting it at home they will get it somewhere else. Plus some guys just are assholes and need it here and there, in which case it their issue and they don't love you, its just that their comfortable with the rest of the relationship. Someone said it thou in here, and its right on, if you feel like something is on 90% of the time you are probably correct so just trust your instincts.

Posted by: Archangel

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Originally Posted by GimmEsoMoR

Thanks flex...it does help.....and hotbody you have a good point about the kids. If it turns out to be true though...I will do everything in my power to get passed it, and keep ME..and my daughters happy. I guess the part that freaks me out the most is him having sex with others and me, and catching something from him....YUK!! He accuses me of cheating, and I would never cheat.

Hate to tell you this, but I have been on the "cheated on" side, and she used to accuse me almost constantly, or ask me if I would ever cheat on her, always questions about would I, what would I do if she cheated, stuff like that. Keep your head up, your heart guarded.

Posted by: Flex

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Someone who blames you for cheating when you KNOW you are not is doing the deed himself ... absolutly without a doubt.

absolutely.

Posted by: perfectbody

cheating 's not as bad as murder

Posted by: gr81

touche

Posted by: BoneCrusher

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Originally Posted by perfectbody

cheating 's not as bad as murder

Why bring up murder here ... we are not talking about killing anyone.

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Originally Posted by gr8test1[color=Blue

To[/color]EverTalkSmack]touche

whadi miss?

Posted by: gr81

I have no clue, its certainly a humerous response. Doesn't seem to have any relevance but I guess he's right..lol.....whassup BoneC, how you doin?

Posted by: BritChick

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Why bring up murder here ... we are not talking about killing anyone.

Ah... but one may lead to another!

Posted by: BoneCrusher

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Originally Posted by BritChick

Ah... but one may lead to another!

It has too Brit. Many people have died for the single reason that he or she picked the wrong spouse. However ... I know that you would not ever kill anyone you chose to be involved with. Unless he died of heart failure during a moment of rapture ...

Posted by: BritChick

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Wow, you know me so well, I could never kill a partner... I prefer to make their torture linger by making them live with me!

Posted by: gr81

oh let me add another thing to my list of causes, b/c I think that its pretty fair to say that most men would be inclined to consider straying if Brit Chicks fine ass happened to stroll on by.... mmhhmmm!

Posted by: BoneCrusher

I'd enjoy you in my mind Brit. I'd have you in as manny ways as a man could be with a woman. But in real life I'd have to keep it in my pants ... if I was involved in a relationship. Again the emotional debris is not worth the physical actions ... however mind blowing the sex would be.

Posted by: Flex

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Unless he died of heart failure during a moment of rapture ...

I could see her going to jail for murder.......actually manslaughter.

Posted by: MaxMirkin

If she ever burns my dinner.

Posted by: TrojanMan60563

Men cheat because they are not getting sexual satisfaction at home...either the sex is old and no longer interesting, or they realize a new hot pussy at the bar is way more fun then the one they have been tapping on for years.

Women cheat because they are not getting the mental stimulation. Women want to feel loved and desired by their partner. They want someone that gives them attention when they need it, and someone to be a good listener when they have a problem. When their partner no longer does this for them and some guy at work is constantly there for them that friendship easily grows into more. Basically anyone that fills the emotional void in their life is going to be tapping that ass.

Most men and women cheat with people they meet at work. Reason being they tend to spend more time with their co-workers then they do their partners.

Second of all sex and love are not related. Women think with emotions so they tend to love the one they are sharing their bodies with. Men have sex for pure physical satisfaction. That is not to say that men don't love who they sleep with, but what I am saying is men can love you and sleep with someone else they have zero feelings for. Women have a harder time separating the two. Don't get me wrong some women can sleep with other men and not think twice or have feelings for them, but that is usually not the case.

Just my 2 cents

Posted by: BoneCrusher

PEOPLE cheat ... this is not agender issue and they do it for a million reasons. Sometimes it is for this lame reason or that lame reason ... a person without a strong sense of morallity can always find a lame ass reason to cheat. Of course that reason is the other person's fault. "I'm not getting any at home and a man needs to be a man" or "He never pays any attention to me and a woman has needs"

. I've seen one person on this board own his fuq-up and accept blame for his actions. He got lucky and his girl seemed to keep him around ... real lucky.

Posted by: Flex

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Originally Posted by TrojanMan60563

Men cheat because they are not getting sexual satisfaction at home...either the sex is old and no longer interesting, or they realize a new hot pussy at the bar is way more fun then the one they have been tapping on for years.

Women cheat because they are not getting the mental stimulation. Women want to feel loved and desired by their partner. They want someone that gives them attention when they need it, and someone to be a good listener when they have a problem. When their partner no longer does this for them and some guy at work is constantly there for them that friendship easily grows into more. Basically anyone that fills the emotional void in their life is going to be tapping that ass.

Most men and women cheat with people they meet at work. Reason being they tend to spend more time with their co-workers then they do their partners.

Second of all sex and love are not related. Women think with emotions so they tend to love the one they are sharing their bodies with. Men have sex for pure physical satisfaction. That is not to say that men don't love who they sleep with, but what I am saying is men can love you and sleep with someone else they have zero feelings for. Women have a harder time separating the two. Don't get me wrong some women can sleep with other men and not think twice or have feelings for them, but that is usually not the case.

Just my 2 cents

A VERY well 2 cents

Posted by: Flex

Quote:

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

I've seen one person on this board own his fuq-up and accept blame for his actions. He got lucky and his girl seemed to keep him around ... real lucky.

Hey, ^that's me^!

With regards to my relationship, I wouldn't even call it luck.

Here's exactly what happened....

We'd been dating for about 2 months in college, then came the summer. I barely talked to her/saw her, even though she lived only 20 min away, and this was NOT my fault. i made all the effort in the world, but her deal was a combo of playing hard to get (even though we were ALREADY dating)/as well as wanting to be with her best friends alot who she rarely ever saw anymore (which was understandable). Since I hardly ever saw her, nevermind even talked to her, we had NO sex life. It's extremely hard to have NO sex life when you do have strong feelings for the girl, and are extremely attracted to her (she was my first REAL gf).

Anyhow, In my mind, since she rarely called, barely ever saw her, and we had no sex life, i concluded she was cheating on me.

Then during the summer after some parties, i had the opportunity to fool around with other chicks. did i like them? absolutely not. in fact, immediately after i fooled around with one chick in her apt (she lived across from my buddy's apt who had a party), i said i was going back to his place to get something and i'd be right back, and i locked my buddy's door behind me and never saw her again.

Did i feel guilty? absolutely. that's why i told her a few months later. call it having a guilty consciious or whatever, but i couldn't take in anymore. I broke down one night and told her everything. I explained how i felt about the summer, why i did what i did (purely sexual) etc. I guess she musta really liked me alot, cuz we went out for another 2+ years after that.

Hope this helps...

FLEX

Posted by: BoneCrusher

Actually bro this particular dude had been with his woman for like 8 years and cheated through out most of it ...

Posted by: Flex

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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

Actually bro this particular dude had been with his woman for like 8 years and cheated through out most of it ...

i see.

but i pleaded guilty, too, your honor

Posted by: Flex

And i don't really agree with teh poll posted at the top.

IMO girls are the only ones who think about cheating ahead of time, for reasons such Trojan suggested (a need feeling wanted etc.).

Guys just do it on complete sexual impulse. If the opportunity presents itself, a guy either succumbs to the pressure, or turns it down. A guy is not thinking to himself before he goes out "okay, if a hot chick is hitting on me tonite and i have the opportunity..."

Posted by: min0 lee

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Originally Posted by Flex

i see.

Posted by: BoneCrusher

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Originally Posted by Flex

i see.

but i pleaded guilty, too, your honor

I think we'd all would have to cop that same plea at one time or another bro ...

Posted by: Crono1000

i saw the avatar and thought this was tit, scared the hell outta me. We're around each other 24/7, I was like "When the hell does she think I'm cheating on her?

Posted by: TrojanMan60563

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Originally Posted by Flex

IMO girls are the only ones who think about cheating ahead of time, for reasons such Trojan suggested (a need feeling wanted etc.).

Guys just do it on complete sexual impulse. If the opportunity presents itself, a guy either succumbs to the pressure, or turns it down. A guy is not thinking to himself before he goes out "okay, if a hot chick is hitting on me tonite and i have the opportunity..."

You've got that right Flex...

A women in a relationship will plot and plan her actions. Most women who are in a relationship do not just run out and screw just anyone. Its usually a pre-meditated and well planned thing. The affair is something that builds up from usually a friendship into sex.

Men they are out having a good time with friends and drink a few beers....a hot girl shows interest in hooking up. The dick gets some extra blood flow and next thing you know your hitting skins. Its not something planned out. And for heavens sake it has NOTHING to do with love.

See the difference everyone.......

Posted by: bio-chem

yeah but what if its your one and only shot with catherine zetta jones. i mean c'mon you gotta take the opportunity right?

Posted by: hotbody

I have lived and learned from this situation and I am still learning everyday. If there is cheating going on and after it all comes out, sometimes they will say whatever they think you want to hear. They will say everything will change and for a while they will change. But always keep your guard up and always stay smart. I am learning this more everyday. Just be careful if it is and think about the rest of your life....that's what I'm doing...you have so much to live for and you want to be happy!

Posted by: GimmEsoMoR

Thanks everyone for being so honest. Sometimes the truth hurts, but you live and learn. What doesn't kill you....can only make you stronger! Thanks again!

Posted by: min0 lee

Whats the story ending? Is it a sad one or a happy one?

Posted by: SuperFlex

but she was just a whore anyway...

I'd most certainly try not to cheat and have no intentions of doing so in the future but if I met a lady as damn sexy as I am it would be near impossible not to. Maybe just hold hands or go out to the movies...lol

j/p I think you should treat someone the way you would want to be treated and should treat a relationship in the manner that it may just last... Not all do but you may regret things down the road if you screw up a good one. If you want to sleep around and/or bang a few other people then fine. Just let the other person know ahead of time that that's what you're looking for out of the relationship. Ya WHORE!

Again j/p. I also think you should tell if you cheat.................................... Hard to do but needs to be done...

Posted by: Gemini_4ur_eyes

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Originally Posted by hotbody

You know when your other is cheating. Believe in your self and go with your instincts.

Very true....the best thing you can do is to go with your gut[/quote]

You are so very close hotbody! Well in my opinions and experience anyways... The way I see it is believe in your self, follow your intuitions and go with your heart.... I was an @$$#0LE in my day with the selfish and inhumane ways of cheating... I felt that 1 man can only eat so many blue M&M's before he is gonna want a green one? And as well I am a Gemini which means that I am constantly craving different things, new toys all the time, always got bored with everything and anything a few weeks after I got it? And I never thought that I would find "the one" but then I did... finally found someone I truly love...and I thought truly loved me back....BUT KARMA had other plans...aborts our child(I forgave n forgot) but now like 2months ago she ran away left her cat that she's had for 19 years and is now a female escort.....sooooo all I am saying is whats ment to happen happens for a reason and that KARMA is a bitch sometimes! But to answer the original question "what would cause you to cheat on your partner?"

Lust, desire, beautiful women like hotbody

4 sure! and selfishness? and occasionally alcohol as it influences some peoples thought process!
Thats all I got...thanks for letting me vent the squats, presses, lifts, curls, stretches, and my favorite the heavybag just weren't doing it for me anymore.....

Posted by: lojasmo

I would not cheat. If my wife cheated on me, I would try to remedy the underlying problem (we too have a child) If we had simply fallen out of love, and she didn't want to reconcile, I would ask for a divorce....I suppose.

Posted by: Blooming Lotus

Being able to be honest about what you can do or better set up in your own life to be a better partner might help... if you want it real

... can reeally want it

...

Posted by: Gemini_4ur_eyes

damn pulled this $#!T out from deep in the forum archives

Posted by: maxpro2

enough said

Posted by: rooptophunny

i actually just read this article about this the other day. i can't find it but it brought up some great points. for example, they spoke about your boyfriend/girlfriend making significant changes in their appearance... haircut, hair color, the way they dress?

supposedly that is a sign they are losing interest.

Posted by: Blooming Lotus

If those are improvements and you know they tried to explain who they were when they looked less . .. improved.. you just better love them while they get there.. then when they do .. that's what you get.
I'm kind of hoping anyway

.

Blooming tianshi lotus.

Posted by: KelJu

Why bother? If someone does something to me that is bad enough for me to want to cheat, I would end the relationship.

I honestly don't plan on ever getting married or having kids, so it keeps life simple.

Posted by: Blooming Lotus

yeh. I was pretty firm on it myself. then i met this scientologist with these craazy freaking expectations ..but sane and reasonable nonetheless - who was really hot in bed and begged me to give him a chance to have me be his girlfriend in 10 yrs if we could each sort our shit out ..and talking about marraige like thaat thought was at all attractive directly prior to meeting him.. wtf do you say to that??.. I said see ya and hung up actually but he rang back and begged .. he was 10 mths out of a split from an 8 yr relationship and drinking heavily and bigg on aanything party pepp and riding his freaking motorbike off bridges and crap and .. the reason ii bother even screening it is because if love exists and he thinks he's down for what Ii'm talking about in life and we can agree on what we want out of it and are prepared to do toward it why, then i wanna be sleeping and hanging out with himm now that I've agreed to hear him out.. Christ - beats doing it alone if he can come through. I'm fussy.. i'm not stupid though.

Posted by: Imaphish03

I generally don't cheat, but at the same time I don't have anyone exclusive in my life. The people I do see know I see other people so I don't consider that cheating. Unfortutanately though I haven't dated anyone exclusively for over 5 years.

Posted by: Little Wing

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Originally Posted by rockgazer69

Posted by: Little Wing

my old sig

i'm over it but that's funny.

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by rooptophunny

i actually just read this article about this the other day. i can't find it but it brought up some great points. for example, they spoke about your boyfriend/girlfriend making significant changes in their appearance... haircut, hair color, the way they dress?

supposedly that is a sign they are losing interest.

I could see that as a possibility. I think the reason people do shit like that is cuz of boredom.

Posted by: ninjagun

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Originally Posted by GimmEsoMoR

I think my man is losing interest. In your opinion, or experience...what would cause you to cheat on someone? Also....what signs do you look for if you suspect it?

If you feel he's cheating, he probably is or is about too...

The last thing you should do is get paranoid and start pressing for answers.. will always make thinsg worse.

Posted by: ninjagun

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Originally Posted by lojasmo

I would not cheat. If my wife cheated on me, I would try to remedy the underlying problem (we too have a child) If we had simply fallen out of love, and she didn't want to reconcile, I would ask for a divorce....I suppose.

Good man..

If it aint working it aint working... EVERYONE SHAKE HANDS AND PASRT WAYS .. DON'T STRUGGLE

I'm done with games, I like to sleep with a good concience at night.. and thankfully I'm too crazy about my lady to see attraction in another woman...

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