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Posted by: KarlW

Arrrggg my wife baked a cake last night and was offended when I declined to have any (probably not the best decision). She says "one slice won't hurt you". I know that is true in the overall scheme of things, but the thing is that these cheat oportunities arise all day long and sooner or later you have to just say a big 'NO' to them all. At least for a while. But, maybe I chose the wrong one to say 'no' too.

Posted by: Warren[BigW]

I woulda had a slice

or 2 or 3

Posted by: BigDyl

I would have had a slice of that ass.

Posted by: crazy_enough

LOLO, thats so funny!!! My wife made this on Sunday...All of it...Its been extremely hard to say no!

Posted by: Velvet

OMG Crazy, I could eat that chocolate cake all in one sitting, yummy!!!!! Bet she's a good cook

Posted by: Mudge

I dont mind a weekly cheat. Some people will diet strictly for months on end, I dont compete so I dont see the need to be like that.

Posted by: Paynne

I have cheats like everyone else but Karl is right. If you said yes to every cheat you'd be blubbery like everyone else. When ppl say "but you don't need to lose any weight" I just say something like "and it's going to stay thay way". Your wife will get used to it.

Posted by: crazy_enough

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Originally Posted by Velvet

OMG Crazy, I could eat that chocolate cake all in one sitting, yummy!!!!! Bet she's a good cook

ya, thats the problem, she's a great cook!!! I prepare meals, but she loves to make desserts and drive me crazy with them. She has very little comprehension of the bulking and cutting phases of my training, but she was enough of a smart ass to tell me I should be able to fiest on her desserts as Ive got a week left of bulking to do! funny!

Posted by: CancerNV

Cake is for pussies.

Posted by: rock4832

You did the right thing Karl. Lisa used to get upset with me as well but now she understands the WHY of it. Maybe you need to sit her down and just communicate the importance of unscheduled cheats to her.

Posted by: shutupntra1n

Yeah that stinks that she doesn't understand. My family understands 100% but other people sometimes don't but I'm used to it. You find you're own way of dealing with it in time. I just don't care what people think of my diet or lifestyle anymore. I just look at them like they are wierd.

Posted by: Kracin

doesnt matter what kind of cheat it is, a cheat is a cheat and if your S/O doesnt understand that you dont want something that is going to ruin an ongoing goal for yourself. then they need to be talked to lol, not a harsh way or anything, but just let them know that if they dont want to eat 200g of protein a day like you do, then you don't need to eat a piece of cake every once in a while like they do. simple as that, its all preference and people should accept everyone else's opinions and preferences in life!

Posted by: stu21Ldn

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Originally Posted by KarlW

Arrrggg my wife baked a cake last night and was offended when I declined to have any (probably not the best decision).

that sounds like reasonable grounds for divorce if you ask me - you should go see your lawyer

Posted by: BritChick

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Originally Posted by KarlW

Arrrggg my wife baked a cake last night and was offended when I declined to have any (probably not the best decision). She says "one slice won't hurt you". I know that is true in the overall scheme of things, but the thing is that these cheat oportunities arise all day long and sooner or later you have to just say a big 'NO' to them all. At least for a while. But, maybe I chose the wrong one to say 'no' too.

Wow, does she not realize how blessed she is, she doesn't have to bake anymore... I'd be all over that!

Posted by: Dale Mabry

I got an easy solution to get her to understand. Say this to her...

"I understand that you like being a fat ass, but I don't want to let my body slide to the point to where I am as sexually unappealing as you."

That should do the trick.

Posted by: BritChick

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Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

I got an easy solution to get her to understand. Say this to her...

"I understand that you like being a fat ass, but I don't want to let my body slide to the point to where I am as sexually unappealing as you."

That should do the trick.

Ouch... then you won't have to worry about cake or sex ever again!

Posted by: shutupntra1n

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Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Well I was thinking that but didn't want to say it

I'm glad BBing came first before any relationships so I know what to look for

Posted by: crazy_enough

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Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

LOL, that is the quickest way to loose a shitload of weight...hers!

Posted by: Dale Mabry

Hey, I'm just saying, that should clear up any misconceptions.

SUNT, you have the order wrong...

Beer
Good Food
Me not being a fatass
A hot chick
A meaningful relationship with that hot chick and Playstation 2 are tied.

Posted by: Dale Mabry

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Originally Posted by crazy_enough

LOL, that is the quickest way to loose a shitload of weight...hers!

you calling his wife fat?

Posted by: shutupntra1n

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Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Hey, I'm just saying, that should clear up any misconceptions.

SUNT, you have the order wrong...

Beer
Good Food
Me not being a fatass
A hot chick
A meaningful relationship with that hot chick and Playstation 2 are tied.

Food
Gym
Food
Sex
Food
Sleep
Food

Posted by: Dale Mabry

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Originally Posted by shutupntra1n

Food
Gym
Food
Sex
Food
Sleep
Food

Sex is actually at the top of my list, beer helps me get it. So long as the woman isa drunk I have some sort of appeal whether it be personality-wise or her beer goggles. I don't really care either way, so long as thesex is gotten.

Posted by: Vieope

Hmmm..cake..

Posted by: reg56

Being 17, and having friends that know absolutely nothing on the subject of dieting and training properly, I get so much shit. I get things like "go eat your tuna" or "here have some pizza, oh wait u can't.." I find it hilarious because I know that none of them would have the discipline that myself, or anyone else on this board has to diet the way we do. It feels good to be apart of that 1%.

Posted by: Kracin

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Originally Posted by reg56

Being 17, and having friends that know absolutely nothing on the subject of dieting and training properly, I get so much shit. I get things like "go eat your tuna" or "here have some pizza, oh wait u can't.." I find it hilarious because I know that none of them would have the discipline that myself, or anyone else on this board has to diet the way we do. It feels good to be apart of that 1%.

yer god damn straight, the rest of the world is ignorant to how it feels to eat right all the time and have nothing but great health.

i was catching shit at work (nash finch, grocery distributer, im an order picker if anyone knows what that means... means i gotta constantly move and pick large heavy cases of things off shelves and put them on pallets to be sent to stores in bulk) because i was eating a salad with mustard and pepper as dressing so it had no calories.... tastes good, along with green beans, salmon, and oats..... lol everyone lookin at me weird, one guy says "damn man. thats some healthy shit!, but mustard??? come on man it just SAYS salad dressing!". at least my friend stuck up for me and says "look at all of you, your all eating pizza, and candy and shit for lunch, then look whats hes got and hes picking twice as fast as everyone else all day long!". so it shows to some people, but everyone else can keep their nasty food!

Posted by: crazy_enough

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Originally Posted by Kracin

U both said it right!! Very few people understand whats involved with this lifestyle. Even fewer are capable of such dedication, hard work and persistency(sp?). I ve plastered my basement with a quote form Arnold in deadbolt's sig. that says: Obsessed is just a word the lazy use to describe the dedicated...This says it all for me. My spouse doesnt get it, my friends and family dont get it, and some even think that I have some sort of obsessive compulsive behaviour issues...I laugh as they chomp & chew on crap 7 days/week, having not the slightest clue what they are doing to their bodies!

Posted by: Kracin

yeah, i truly wish that fast food and unhealthy things like that were outlawed. america would kick ass then

Posted by: MTN WARRIOR

I get the same comments from being a vegetarian, although I may have been straying lately, shhh. They all say," hey want a buffalo wing, oh thats right, YOU'RE a vegetarian, sorry." Then they say that they are going to enjoy life, not be a picky eater. I just say "well, I will just enjoy mine longer".

Posted by: crazy_enough

LOL, much easier to ban steroids than McD's!

Posted by: crazy_enough

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Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR

I get the same comments from being a vegetarian, although I may have been straying lately, shhh. They all say," hey want a buffalo wing, oh thats right, YOU'RE a vegetarian, sorry." Then they say that they are going to enjoy life, not be a picky eater. I just say "well, I will just enjoy mine longer".

How does a big muscled chunk of man like yourself manage to be a vegan??lol

I had no clue!

Posted by: ReelBigFish

Yeah I'm 17 and in the same boat. My family at home has gotten used to it and dont say anything but when people come over and im eating stuff, they have to inspect it and ask 50 questions. ARGHHH i hate hate shit.

Posted by: em28

stop being a pussy and eat one or more slices its not gonna hurt your progress you people are so strict

Posted by: XcelKrush

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Originally Posted by ReelBigFish

Yeah I'm 17 and in the same boat. My family at home has gotten used to it and dont say anything but when people come over and im eating stuff, they have to inspect it and ask 50 questions. ARGHHH i hate hate shit.

I hate that! Im at school eating like rice and chicken and all these fat ugly kids are asking me questions about, "why do you eat healthy?" or "That looks gross." It pisses me off, I just want to say shut up and go stuff your fat face somewhere else .
And last night my mom brought home some chocolates and offered some to me, and when I said no she keeps trying to convince me to eat some and that its not going to hurt my diet. People are real jerks because we find the mental strength to say no to such things and they rub it in our face. Its really rude in my opinion.

Posted by: Seanp156

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Originally Posted by Kracin

yeah, i truly wish that fast food and unhealthy things like that were outlawed. america would kick ass then

Maybe not outlaw fast food, exactly, but force them to make EVERYTHING healthy... That would be nice and convienant. I hate having to make and prepare my own food just to eat healthy all the time... I wish I had a staff of a cook and a servant to make and bring me my food...

Posted by: ReelBigFish

yeah imagine if they used good low fat beef and real cheese and fresh lettuce and stuff. Then it would be worth the money.

Posted by: crazy_enough

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Originally Posted by ReelBigFish

yeah imagine if they used good low fat beef and real cheese and fresh lettuce and stuff. Then it would be worth the money.

But a happy meal would cost $9!!

Posted by: KarlW

Well my wife and I worked it out. I explained to her the path I have chosen (at least for a while - while trying to drop bf) but promised to occasionaly sample a small piece of her cooking. It's not like I don't want it or anything cause she a great cook.

On a side note it is weird how the very people who try to convince you to eat that donut or chocolate or whatever, claiming it won't hurt you, are the ones who then turn round and complain about being overweight, then go searching for miracle diets and supplements and stuff. Even weirder is the way they claim that you can afford to eat crap (because you're already low bf). What sort of logic is this? I'll tell you what, it's the same logic those people use when they point to fit individuals in the gym and say "they don't need to be here".

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