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Posted by: dnale48

hey i just have a question about my partner. Everytime we have sex she hurts really bad inside of her. We cant figure out why and its not cause of dick size because mine is average. She describes it as a burning sensation half way through sex and i can tell when it hurts her by her face. she always feel disapointed in her self because she can have sex for that long without pain. Just looking for anything that can fix this if any of you are farmiliar with this kinda thing.

Posted by: rockgazer69

see a doctor. are you using condoms? is she allergic to latex or the lube or spermicide on the condom? it could be an std even a reaction to deodorant tampons. make an appt.

Posted by: jphess2

You could also try a lubricant for dryness. They are usually in the same aisle as condoms. Brothers ex-girlfriend had a similar problem with dryness. It is an excellent idea to see a gynocologist though. Hope it all works out.

Posted by: gococksDJS

awww shit, thats herpes.

Posted by: Crono1000

see a doc. It could be an allergic reaction, some kind of vaginal tightening (vaginitis?), dryness (in which case a good lube may fix it), or perhaps a shortage of foreplay

could also be psychological. Are you her first? Does she have moral/ religious problems with it?

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by dnale48

hey i just have a question about my partner. Everytime we have sex she hurts really bad inside of her. We cant figure out why and its not cause of dick size because mine is average. She describes it as a burning sensation half way through sex and i can tell when it hurts her by her face. she always feel disapointed in her self because she can have sex for that long without pain. Just looking for anything that can fix this if any of you are farmiliar with this kinda thing.

Hi Dnale,

I am not a Physician. You really should have her checked out by one that is competent. I say this NOT to worry you or her but as a help to both of you.

It sounds like she may be just "dry" - that is, not enough natural lubrication. But it could be something else that can be taken care of and understood.
I have had this problem with some females but it has been because of my size and most can not take much of me (physically speaking I am 10 5/8" long and 6 1/2" thick when hard so most women find me difficult to take at all - I say this by way of explanation NOT bragging). If she is a small lady you could be too big for her even though you say you are average. Some ladies can not take very much and are delicate and hurt easily. It could be that she also needs to "adjust" to your size too.

Make sure by having a checkup.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

Posted by: david

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Originally Posted by devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

I agree with the getting checked and also, the possible allergy/irritation of the condom.

Posted by: BritChick

See a doctor, see a doctor, see a doctor!!!

Posted by: bio-chem

i love how john finds away in every thread he posts in to tell us he has a 10 inch dick. ha ha john. no one believes you.

Posted by: Volume

try polyurathane condoms

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

Hi Devil,

No, inches - actually. Truthfully. All mine.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: Celtic Bhoy

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Originally Posted by John H.

(physically speaking I am 10 5/8" long and 6 1/2" thick when hard so most women find me difficult to take at all

WTF?!?!?!?!!?!?Is that physically possible?

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by bio-chem

i love how john finds away in every thread he posts in to tell us he has a 10 inch dick. ha ha john. no one believes you.

Bio boy,

I said 'By way of explanation" and when it is discussed I have said that BY WAY OF EXPLANATION - as to what is being discussed. Now if you want, I can arrange for you at your expense to come visit me and pull my jeans down and jack me off and measure it for yourself to see for yourself.

You can even find out using a metric tape measure if you want a really accurate measurement and take as long as you want

As a statistician I feel you would believe in what you can see

FOR YOURSELF and I will even let you touch it to see if it is real for yourself. And I say this as an adult Male who has had other "doubters" and when they checked FOR THEMSELVES then believed. It is kinda like seeing a "vision" only IT IS A FACT. I make this "offer" so you will become a "believer" for yourself you being a "doubting thomas".

John H.

Posted by: bio-chem

ewwwwwww

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by devildog88

I think John has penis envy. John now tell everyone that those measurments are milimeters not inches, and we will believe you!

Hi Devil,

I have no reason to lie about it. I have had others question me on it. I wear jeans that are 30" waist x 36 length, am 6' 2" tall and weigh 190 and it "shows" all the time naturally so even when "soft" I do get a lot of people - Men AND Women - wanting to know for themselves. I do not get "upset" by people wanting to "know" for themselves I understand the natural "curiosity" of wanting to 'know' and depending on who it is and what kind of person they are - whether mature or not - they can "find out" for themselves and have....

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by Celtic Bhoy

WTF?!?!?!?!!?!?Is that physically possible?

Hi Celtic,

Yes, absolutely true and all me. Period. People that know me personally know I get this question all the time. I just "answer" it. I understand people's natural curiousity...

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: Muscle_Girl

Lol, in no way will I ever believe those statements about the size of your penis John, sorry, just can't believe it.

I am not sure whether its from too much sex or from certain lubes or condoms, but if I have a certain amount of sex over the course of a few days I usually get raw and it hurts quite a bit, then turning itchy and well, that doesn't help! I just wait it out and it takes about a week to clear up. It's almost as if it swells/bruises down there.. weird stuff.. is it just me.. (this does not regard John H or any of the other guys, asking other females this question!)

Posted by: MTN WARRIOR

I'm not a doctor, but I would suggest more attempts at anal and oral sex instead. It also helps prevent pregnancy.

Posted by: david

When I hear about John's size...........

So whose up to bat?

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by Muscle_Girl

Lol, in no way will I ever believe those statements about the size of your penis John, sorry, just can't believe it.

I am not sure whether its from too much sex or from certain lubes or condoms, but if I have a certain amount of sex over the course of a few days I usually get raw and it hurts quite a bit, then turning itchy and well, that doesn't help! I just wait it out and it takes about a week to clear up. It's almost as if it swells/bruises down there.. weird stuff.. is it just me.. (this does not regard John H or any of the other guys, asking other females this question!)

Hi Muscle,

You are free to believe what you want - or not.

I have no reason to lie about myself or my "qualifications". I have had others "question me" and they find out "for themselves"...

Hell anything a person does to excess will cause problems. Nothing was made to "take it all the time" - but I try though in my area of "expertise"...

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR

I'm not a doctor, but I would suggest more attempts at anal and oral sex instead. It also helps prevent pregnancy.

Hi Mtn,

FOR SURE!!!

My wife WHO I LOVE IMMENSELY AND KNOWS IT FOR SURE says there is NO WAY she is going to have another child by me - we now have 8 and I TOLD HER BEFORE we married I was not going to "tie myself in a knot" so she had better be ready for the ride of a lifetime. She is glad for the rest sometimes but we DO LOVE EACH OTHER - COMPLETELY AND THOROUGHLY - and OUR CHILDREN.

We both wanted children and a big family and got what I told her we were going to DO even before we got married. She KNOWS me and I KNOW her. And we "surprise" each other all the
time...

Variety in life exists because it IS NECESSARY for LIFE.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by david

When I hear about John's size...........

So whose up to bat?

Hi David,

My Buddies at work joke about this aspect of me but also understand - as MEN.

And, it works, as God intended it to. Trust me!

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: MTN WARRIOR

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Originally Posted by John H.

Shut the fuck up you flaming homo. No man has a cock with those proportions. Die already and stop with these stupid, nob Bb related fucking comments. You have never made a BB comment, only gay shit. Fucking jump under a bus.

Posted by: ALBOB

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Originally Posted by John H.

I said 'By way of explanation" and when it is discussed I have said that BY WAY OF EXPLANATION - as to what is being discussed.

John, I'm pretty sure I've never attacked you here, so I'd like you to take this advice from someone who's non-adversarial. You're "explanations" tend to veer into the unneccessary sometimes. Let's look at your original statement:

"It sounds like she may be just "dry" - that is, not enough natural lubrication. But it could be something else that can be taken care of and understood. If she is a small lady you could be too big for her even though you say you are average. Some ladies can not take very much and are delicate and hurt easily. It could be that she also needs to "adjust" to your size too."

I've removed any reference to your size and left only things pertinent to the original question. See, it's just as effective without giving the impression that you're bragging. I'm not saying you ARE braggin, just that you do sometimes give that impression when you unneccessarily give your "qualifications".

Posted by: greekblondechic

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My penis is huge.

Take care, John H.

Posted by: bio-chem

looks like greek understands how to take johns posts. simply a joke

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by ALBOB

Hi ALBOB,

I agree with you AND I said that AND I also wanted to explain my situation as I have found it to happen and IF she also had a Man that was "big" I was sharing the situations I have encountered BY WAY OF EXPLANATION and the reasons.

I made the statement the way I did for a number of reasons. First to explain that some women will be dry naturally so and have difficulty. Second due to a Man's size she can have difficulty especially after being "worked-on" and in my case this has happened which is why I said BY WAY OF EXPLANATION and then my size - I WAS NOT trying brag or boast and never do - people that know me know I don't have to. I was trying to explain that that aspect can be a source of pain as well for some women and that with me because of my size many women have had problems because I can become somewhat forceful when entering and doing the work at hand - I like trying to get completely "in" which is not possible for me with women because they can not accomadate all of me - AGAIN NOT BRAGGING ONLY EXPLAINING as to the facts. It is NOT my intention to have other Guys feel somehow inadequate either - FAR FROM THAT. Each Man has what God gave him and he can utilized it to the very best of his ability and have complete satisificatiion both for himself and his partner. I was explaining from my situation. People tend to complain sometimes about my use of capitals and in this case I used them and those that read it read it wrong EVEN THOUGH I CLEARLY STATED - BY WAY OF EXPLANATION. Yes, women DO need to adjust to a Man's size if that is possible and with some Men as with me that is not very possible and when I am at work I do tend to want to BE INSIDE COMPLETELY and it is difficult for me NOT TO BE and ONLY BE "partly" in and for the women it is difficult for them when I DO try to go all the way in for my satisification and theirs as well. And a drying out can occur from all the friction.

Do you understand what I am saying and why?

I appreciate you being NON-adversarial and DISCUSSING this as mature adults which is what I try to do all the time. But with some...

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR

Mtn,

I can see you can NOT discuss something as a mature adult.

I have no reason to lie about me and how God made me.

I was NOT BRAGGING OR BOASTING - I SAID: BY WAY OF EXPLANATION. To try to help the person solve their problem or understand it and to recommend they get the advice of a Medical Doctor to be sure.

I HAVE written about Bodybuilding subjects and will as time permits me to do so. You are in the "Sexual Health" section which is where all topics relating to Sex are discussed on this IRONMAGAZINE website.

As for the "bus" - maybe you should take your own advice?

John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by bio-chem

looks like greek understands how to take johns posts. simply a joke

Bio,

Do YOU - EVER - plan on becoming a MATURE MALE ADULT?

Is it possible for you to discuss anything as A MATURE PERSON?

The question asked was serious and they wanted answers that COULD HELP THEM and help them understand.

Try YOURSELF to HONESTLY HELP someone instead of your childish slamming and YOUR feeling you can speak for someone else all the time. Let EACH PERSON SPEAK FOR THEMSELVES. You do NOT have to do it FOR THEM. When did you come to feel that you can do that for other people?

You have a very narrow mind and one that is closed tight like a steel trap. You put yourself into a mental and physical prison by your willingness to BE CLOSED-MINDED and bigoted.

There is a hell of a lot MORE to life and living than the "world" YOU HAVE created FOR YOURSELF. WAKE UP!!!

John H.

Posted by: arbntmare

try a different condom.. my ex use to have a reaction to the err.. (meant Spermicide)

sorry was thinking about bugs at the time

Posted by: devildog88

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Originally Posted by arbntmare

try a different condom.. my ex use to have a reaction to the pesticde (sp?)

Dude, you had pesticide on your condom? No wonder she had a reaction. That stuff is used to kill bugs and insects!

Posted by: ALBOB

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Originally Posted by John H.

Do you understand what I am saying and why?

I completely understand "what" you're saying, just not clear on the "why". As I demonstrated, your responses can be just as, if not more, effective without going into minute details about person details. When you get so far down into the weeds with explanations you tend to lose your audience. Absolutely not taking sides here, simply offering food for thought.

Posted by: rockgazer69

omg persticide haha. just wanted to add lambskin condoms offer no protection from the aids virus. they have tiny natural holes that a sperm could not ever fit through but the aids virus can.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by ALBOB

Hi ALBOB,

The question he asked those who saw his thread I felt he wanted an honest and complete answer to. I did not take his question as something that should have jokes or disparaging remarks as responses. Truly helpful information. From all sides of the question. I was merely telling him of a situation I had where my size could very well be a contributing factor in a women's discomfort and and that has been the case and that if he also is big it could be for him as well. He asked for an honest answer and one that would be helpful for him to understand and possibly prevent her from future discomfort. I also recommended and still do that he consider having her see a qualified physician to make a thorough examination and see if there are any real problems or concerns they both need to be aware of.

I did not feel this was a place for anyone to make "light of" - and I did not.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: ALBOB

I think we'll just have to agree to disagree on this one. We saw the original question two different ways. Guess that's what makes the world go round, right? Anyway, no harm - no foul.

Posted by: WilliamB

You dont think its possible to have a 10' long and 6' girth penis?

Posted by: ALBOB

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Originally Posted by WilliamB

You dont think its possible to have a 10' long and 6' girth penis?

10" long? Yeah, that's been done. 6" GIRTH?!?!? "Girth", but my definition, is diameter. That would make him exactly the same size as a coffee can. THAT I have a hard time believing.

Posted by: WATTS

how'd a ligitimate question get transformed into a convo about John's penis size?

Posted by: gococksDJS

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Originally Posted by WATTS

how'd a ligitimate question get transformed into a convo about John's penis size?

Because John finds some way to bring it up in every post.

Posted by: jphess2

Dude, where do you find condoms that fit?

Posted by: WilliamB

Are you sure your putting it in the right hole?

Posted by: John H.

Quote:

Originally Posted by ALBOB

I think we'll just have to agree to disagree on this one. We saw the original question two different ways. Guess that's what makes the world go round, right? Anyway, no harm - no foul.

Hi ALBOB,

No problem.

I was just trying to answer the question completely so he would have good information to go by to try to figure things out. I do feel he asked honestly and sincerely and that that was the type answer he wanted.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by ALBOB

10" long? Yeah, that's been done. 6" GIRTH?!?!? "Girth", but my definition, is diameter. That would make him exactly the same size as a coffee can. THAT I have a hard time believing.

Hi ALBOB,

No, 10 5/8" long when completely hard - and not really much smaller when "soft" and 6 1/2" thick meaning "around" (circumference). (Please don't get "carried away" with this...)

And I have a 30" waist and am 6'2" tall and wear 30x36" jeans so you can probably UNDERSTAND that not much will be "hidden" ever.
And I wish it was a Muscle just as any other in a Man's body and could be worked out to be the very best as with all others and I think God TRULY made a mistake here - here's why: I would like to be able to have ALL MUSCLE EVERYWHERE not just 99% of me and be able to "bench press" say 150 pounds or so here standing up while taking care of things and be able to "lift" the ladies without any fatiguing or lack of strength until everyone is completely and totally happy!

(ZEALOTS AND IMMATURE people - I mean this VERY RESPECTFULLY and HONORABLY here for ALL concerned!!) With regard to my "inability to hide" I just learned a long time ago how to "handle" any situation or question. And I understand people's honest "questioning" from all aspects - Male and Female. AGAIN - IN CAPS - I AM NOT BRAGGING - ONLY SAYING by way of EXPLANATION!!!! (Now the zealots can have their "fun" with damning me)

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by WATTS

how'd a ligitimate question get transformed into a convo about John's penis size?

Hi Watts,

The original poster asked a question I felt he wanted serious helpful answers to so:

I was just trying to explain to the original poster that his lady COULD be having problems being dry from her being "worked on" by a Man that is big and that if he is big he should consider this as a factor and I explained that with my personal situation because I have had that happen (had ladies in that situation) and may be also caused from the friction - I get going and there is a lot of friction and heat which will tend to dry a lady out and I do not like to stop until I am through with the work that is needed for both of us. So I take my time always and make it last and when done, do it again - and continue until there is no more to be done. I do not personally have a problem with providing natural lubrication for those I am with. It could be that she is just naturally dry for some reason or dry because of a problem other than from him or him. Seeing a medical doctor who is knowledgeable is the best way to answer this for him and for her.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by gococksDJS

Because John finds some way to bring it up in every post.

Gococks,

Don't get carried away here - I SAID BY WAY OF EXPLANATION!!!! I DO NOT say this on EVERY POST or even much at all unless I am asked for clarification.

John H.

Posted by: greekblondechic

Girth is not diameter.

John H. please note overusage of capitalization has the opposite than intended effect.

Posted by: david

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Originally Posted by John H.

Hi ALBOB,

No, 10 5/8" long when completely hard - and not really much smaller when "soft" and 6 1/2" thick meaning "around" (circumference). (Please don't get "carried away" with this...)

Not to steal any thunder over my ol' buddy, Albob but I must interject. John, I didn't say inject and it's not a sexual thing, either!

John, what some other are implying is that you are giving detailed visuals of your penis when not neccessary. If your hung... then just say it that way. Oh yeah, without cap locks on, also. (Not that you did) Also, you've given a wonderful image of your overall body structure. OK, cool! The next thing I guess to do is just post your pictures including your face for all of us to see. (privacy-smi-vacy... it's bullshit because I assure you no one is going to hunt you down unless your a wanted man) One thing I do notice is that a man of your description hesitates not to add pictures and I'm surprised you haven't done so.

Makes sense? Probably not but then again, 26,000 posts and never ever did my posts makes sense but my picture is up and some have met me and some have not. I do believe this though, once your picture is up, then your willingness of being descriptive will diminish and also, the less *heckle* you'll get from the crowd at IM.com. Or maybe, you like the attention?

hmmnn... problem solved? Probably not!

Posted by: Chain Link

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Originally Posted by greekblondechic

Girth is not diameter.

Of course not..

Its radius

wow.. 10x6.. now that would be one fuqed up weiner!(if it was radius)

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by david

Not to steal any thunder over my ol' buddy, Albob but I must interject. John, I didn't say inject and it's not a sexual thing, either!

Hi David,

Oh I understand what you are saying.

The "problem" would not be solved actually it would be created in the minds of some here. If I posted pictures of myself then I would have people saying even more that I am somehow bragging even though I just posted a photograph. Sometimes you can't please anyone.

I chose not to post any photos for many reasons. My family and friends being the first and foremost. I have no interested in adding to the "fodder" of "religious types" and/or bigots and haters. If someone does not believe me that is just as fine as if they do. I make statements that ARE true. And let others make their decisions about whatever. I do not have nor will I take time for bull.

I have posted a photo of a Man - Nick Auger - (on the thread "Which Bodybuilder would you be") that is a real close match as to what I DO look like body-wise. Another Man,, only identified himself as "Reverse" on T-mag.com which I think is no longer on was REALLY close to being exactly like me body-wise. I wish I could bring that photo up. And ONLY to show, NOT to "show-off" or "brag". I am NOT that type - to brag or show off - honestly speaking. (Now I will get those that SAY I am bragging - but like I have tried to explain and say ONLY BY WAY OF EXPLANATION of a topic being discussed.)

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: no1isbigger

Dude sounds like endometrosis (sp) to me. My wife has it and at times it can hurt very much!! Have her go to an OBGYN and have it checked.

Best of luck!!

Posted by: TriZZle305

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Originally Posted by gococksDJS

awww shit, thats herpes.

lol that was my first thought

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