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Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

hey, i have a question thats open to both genders.

i am 15 years old and me and my gf have been getting pretty intimate, and i almost know for a fact that its going to turn into sex. i am a virgin, and i was wondering, how do u "please" a girl?? sure i know all the technicals and what not but any advice would be great. and please if your going to help me, dont candy coat it, just straight up tell me. and please know that by answering my question and helping me with my "problem" ur not promoting underage sex, i am fully responsible for any consequence that might occur, im just looking for advice.
thanx in advance



Posted by: rockgazer69

with your mouth.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

ive done my homework and have found that oral is very stimulating for the girl and i plan to do alot of it, any other more in-depth tips??



Posted by: rockgazer69

make love to her. don't just dive in the sexy bits. kiss her face , neck, shoulders.... be romantic. think about the setting, any music should be low enough to not be distracting. and the next day do something to show her you feel the same. most young guys fail miserably on this one. if you aren't going to like her just as much after as before then leave her alone.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

yeah ive thought alot about this and i wanted this to be a night she wont forget. i thought about heavy foreplay and kissing for atleast an hour, just teasing, i want it to be a night for her, not me.



Posted by: rockgazer69

teasing is good. sounds like things will go well but i hope she is at least your age. there are a lot of ways you could please each other without going all the way. it's just something to think about.



Posted by: shiznit2169

first start off with a romantic dinner if you're in the mood. Set some candles and low romantic music with the lights dimmed if possible and maybe you guys should wear nice clothes. Have someone drop her off at your place and surprise her. Have dinner and just talk..after that have some dessert and then start playing around a little bit. undress and start kissing gently and feeling each other up. Hell throw some chocolate syrup on her and whip cream (if its ok with her) and take it from there. You guys will have a great night if all goes well and make sure you call her the next day and talk to her about how great the night before was and show some interest that u still love her. Most guys just ditch them the next day and dont call til 3 days later desperate for more sex and its uncomfortable for the girl thinking she is being "used"

Good luck

By the way, make sure you wear condoms. If she is younger than 18 years old and something happens such as pregancy or her parents finding out...you could get in trouble and may be charged with statutory rape even if she consented. Thats the law and once again...good luck!

Let us know how it goes



Posted by: gococksDJS

slip your pinkie into her butt, chicks dig that.



Posted by: LW83

If you are my little sisters' boyfreind, I will tear you apart



Posted by: 000

Quote:
Originally Posted by gococksDJS
slip your pinkie into her butt, chicks dig that.
..lol



Posted by: primus_122

i agree with gococksDJS



Posted by: Twigz

How old is the girl?



Posted by: drew.haynes

Not an answer, and definately not a response you wanna hear, but I'm 19... not too far off. Consider all pros and cons... emotional, spiritual, physical... don't just let ur dick do the thinking. Nothing wrong with being a virgin.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

shes 14, and i have thought about everything that goes along with sex. to me its not just for plesure, im hoping to connect with this girl, even tho i know im not going to go out with her forever, i just wanna have a emotional connection with her, becouse thats what i need right now, becouse ive been going thru alot.



Posted by: gococksDJS

watch out, she might have cooties!!!



Posted by: naturaltan

how about waiting till you're ready



Posted by: largepkg

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Originally Posted by naturaltan
how about waiting till you're ready
That's an interesting concept NT and it could be applied to so many things.



Posted by: naturaltan

it could be for sure. I think I'm only thinking that way because I have an 11 year old daughter and she'll be going to a jr/sr high school this coming fall.



Posted by: naturaltan

Viva ... not knocking your decision to have sex, but what if you get this girl pregnant, are you prepared to stand by her side and help raise a baby? If you can honestly answer yes, then you might be ready, but at 15, I'm betting that raising a baby would be a very stressful way of life.



Posted by: largepkg

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Originally Posted by naturaltan
it could be for sure. I think I'm only thinking that way because I have an 11 year old daughter and she'll be going to a jr/sr high school this coming fall.
Good luck with your daughter. I understand completely. I have two nieces 11/12 that I consider my own. The fun is about to begin! I heard the analogy raising a teenager is like nailing jello to a tree.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.



Posted by: largepkg

To be 15 again...



Posted by: crazy_enough

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.
I think ure smart enough to understand the conscequences of your actions, sexual or not, thats obvious. But I wonder if u fully grasp the extent of what U just typed!!
If u know u are not gonna be dating this girl forever, then perhaps U shouldnt be considering actions that may have "forever" conscequences, like a child!!! I planned my first pregnancy at the age of 16 and I can pretty much guarantee you than theres no way that u can raise an "unplanned baby "the way it deserves to be raised" at your age, with your ressources...(not just talking finances here!!) Im not trying to put u down, Im only 25, but speaking form experience here!
The emotional bond between the two of youn should actually happen prior to sex...Sex is (usually!!lol) a result or "side effect" of an emotional bond. Remember, chicks are emotional beings, and by having sex with you SHE thinks it means forever!!
Fool around, kiss, play, have fun, if u know ure both clean and healthy, introduce foreplay (hands, mouth ...) but consider holding out on the intercourse part....I hope this doesnt sound like a lecture, it wasnt meant to be one....Just things to think about....



Posted by: MTN WARRIOR

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
hey, i have a question thats open to both genders.

i am 15 years old and me and my gf have been getting pretty intimate, and i almost know for a fact that its going to turn into sex. i am a virgin, and i was wondering, how do u "please" a girl?? sure i know all the technicals and what not but any advice would be great. and please if your going to help me, dont candy coat it, just straight up tell me. and please know that by answering my question and helping me with my "problem" ur not promoting underage sex, i am fully responsible for any consequence that might occur, im just looking for advice.
thanx in advance
Just buy her the big house in the suburbs and a Volvo. Thats where its headed anyway. Might as well skip all the other BULLSHIT!



Posted by: largepkg

Volvo? Does any lady really want a Volvo?



Posted by: crazy_enough

Quote:
Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR
Just buy her the big house in the suburbs and a Volvo. Thats where its headed anyway. Might as well skip all the other BULLSHIT!
LOL

Are u perhaps still in a "bitter" mood buddy?





Posted by: gococksDJS

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.
You can say this now, but you won't think the same thing if your in the situation. Go buy a puppy and raise it on your own. I bought a 5 week old pitbull last summer, and I love him to death but having a puppy is complete hell, they require 24 hour attention, and I imagine raising a child is only abou 10,000 times harder.



Posted by: drew.haynes

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
belive it or not im a pretty smart 15 year old, ive thought about this consequence more then any other and i am positive, if that happens then i will raise the baby the way it deserves to be raised and to help my gf anyway i can. im not saying it woulndt be stressful, i know it would be very difficult, emotionally and physically exhausting, but im willing to sacrifice it.
For being so smart.. I don't think you really even realize what you are saying. Think about it, you don't even expect to be with her forever. I mean, even if you did, there's a good chance it would NOT happen, but you don't even EXPECT TO BE TOGETHER. You DEFINATELY don't wanna risk forming a permanent bond with someone you are not wanting to be with FOREVER. On top of that, you are 15 man, you've got too much else to do, because you have probably lived 1/4 of your life tops. Just play it safe dude, you do not NEED sex. That's bullshit. Even if you were gonna be with her forever, you have all the time in the world, just chill out and be fifteen while you can, you are probably missing out on alot less than you think.

I mean read what you are saying. Think about it. I've been there man, I know where those words and feelings are coming from. Sometimes your hormones speak so loud you can hardly even think straight, but you just gotta keep that under control. I've had times when I came so close to making the dumbest mistakes ever, and what sucks is that even WHILE my hormones were telling me to do it, I still KNEW I shouldn't.



Posted by: rockgazer69

my daughter is 13. i'd be very sad if i thought her life was going to involve sex next year. she hates girls that age at her school that are having sex. they are commonly referred to by the other school kids as skanks. you might want to give that some thought. i asked her what a skank is and she said "someone who doesn't know enough to want more out of life than some guy on top of them, skanks are the next generation of welfare mothers". i'm raising one smart girlie.



Posted by: drew.haynes

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Originally Posted by rockgazer69
my daughter is 13. i'd be very sad if i thought her life was going to involve sex next year. she hates girls that age at her school that are having sex. they are commonly referred to by the other school kids as skanks. you might want to give that some thought. i asked her what a skank is and she said "someone who doesn't know enough to want more out of life than some guy on top of them, skanks are the next generation of welfare mothers". i'm raising one smart girlie.
Viva, even if you disagree with me, at least be open minded enough to read this and think about things:

That's right. I mean I am freshman Pre-med right now. If I slipped up and got a girl pregnant, I'd be done. Young people just need to start looking at a bigger picture. Someone I know used to always say, discipline is not denying the things you want, it's only delaying them until they are at their best.

People think they should just have sex with someone, that it will bring them together. Those people should not need sex for that. Yeah, for that moment, YOU WILL feel closer to that person, but do you REALLY understand the spiritual/emotional repercussions of the whole thing? You don't know who you will be with forever until you have a ring on their finger, and you don't wanna rush that, not at your age. Think about after you and her are split up. What about the next girl? What about when you do get married to someone you want to be with forever? Do you really want flashbacks of every thing that went on between you and previous girls when you are with your wife? Maybe I am the only one that sees it this way, but it just isn't worth it. Being impulsive rarely gets you anything worth having. If you want the best, you work for it, and you wait for it. That applies in all areas of life: in relationships, in things like lifting, in school, in a career, in a family.



Posted by: Crono1000

stick it in the hole on the bottom. She'll like it



Posted by: Crono1000

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Posted by: Crono1000

seriously, I loved that thread



Posted by: MTN WARRIOR

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Originally Posted by crazy_enough
LOL

Are u perhaps still in a "bitter" mood buddy?

You talking to me? What, you fucking want one to?




Posted by: crazy_enough

Quote:
Originally Posted by MTN WARRIOR
You talking to me? What, you fucking want one to?
Bring it Biatch!





Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

wow, i knew it would come to this. listen i appreciate everyones "constructive" criticism, and meaningful lectures, but this is something i really need to do. its not just becouse its sex or how much i want it or w/e, its alot more then that, and its alot more then i can explain or type on a forum, i was just looking for tips not a life lesson, but i knew it would come to this. its good to know that you guys atleast care for w/e consequence might (or might not) happen, and i thank you for that.....now on another note i do not appreciate the subtle way of calling my gf a skank just becouse shes willing to have sex. wtf?? thats a little immature. me and my gf are very old for our age, so i'd appreciate it if we kept the name calling to a minimum. but im not typing this to start a flame war, just expressing my view.. and your views and opinions have been taking to heart, youve got me thinking alot about this. your words will not be wasted.....but thats a bit off-track, so if anyone has any answers to my original question, please answer...



Posted by: naturaltan

It's not going to happen Viva. You've responded to the questions as we all have I imagine. I'm different, I'm older than 15, I understand ... I said the same things, but it was about whether I was old enough to walk home in the dark. At your age, I was still running rampant with my friends after dark playing frisbee.

We all know you're going to have sex regardless of what you read here. And hopefully, there won't be another child born that can't be cared for as it should be. Good luck with your choice my friend.



Posted by: rockgazer69

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
wow, i knew it would come to this. listen i appreciate everyones "constructive" criticism, and meaningful lectures, but this is something i really need to do. its not just becouse its sex or how much i want it or w/e, its alot more then that, and its alot more then i can explain or type on a forum, i was just looking for tips not a life lesson, but i knew it would come to this. its good to know that you guys atleast care for w/e consequence might (or might not) happen, and i thank you for that.....now on another note i do not appreciate the subtle way of calling my gf a skank just becouse shes willing to have sex. wtf?? thats a little immature. me and my gf are very old for our age, so i'd appreciate it if we kept the name calling to a minimum. but im not typing this to start a flame war, just expressing my view.. and your views and opinions have been taking to heart, youve got me thinking alot about this. your words will not be wasted.....but thats a bit off-track, so if anyone has any answers to my original question, please answer...
i'm not calling her a skank but the people around her are essentially still children and you can rest assured they will. you are changing this girls life with far more thought of what you need than what she does.



Posted by: craig777

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81

shes 14

im hoping to connect with this girl, even tho i know im not going to go out with her forever

i just wanna have a emotional connection with her, becouse thats what i need right now, becouse ive been going thru alot.
This has nothing to do at all with pleasing her, you are a horny 15 year old boy that is trying to convince yourself and her that this is right. Well it is not right and I will not say that it is right.

My ex 16 year old step son asked over 30 girls for blowjobs because he wanted an emotional connection with them.



Posted by: drew.haynes

There are people who are middle-aged and not "old enough" for their age. You say you guys are old for your ages? It sure as hell does not look like it. I think you be old for your age maybe if you had already learned to do the right/best thing regardless of how you feel, but it's obvious you have not.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

Quote:
Originally Posted by craig777
This has nothing to do at all with pleasing her, you are a horny 15 year old boy that is trying to convince yourself and her that this is right. Well it is not right and I will not say that it is right.

My ex 16 year old step son asked over 30 girls for blowjobs because he wanted an emotional connection with them.

man fuck you. u dont know shit, u dont even know me dude, its not even me thats been pressuring it to come to this, its HER, not me. a horny 15 year old?? man fuck all of yall, ive tried to stay civilised with this but yall have gone to far, forget i even asked, can we PLEASE have a moniter close this thread.



Posted by: rockgazer69

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
dont candy coat it
we didn't.



Posted by: craig777

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
man fuck you. u dont know shit, u dont even know me dude, its not even me thats been pressuring it to come to this, its HER, not me. a horny 15 year old?? man fuck all of yall, ive tried to stay civilised with this but yall have gone to far, forget i even asked, can we PLEASE have a moniter close this thread.
You are wrong there, I know teenage boys very very well.



Posted by: craig777

Quote:
Originally Posted by rockgazer69
we didn't.




Posted by: shiznit2169

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You are wrong there, I know teenage boys very very well
I hope you dont work for michael jackson



Posted by: craig777

Quote:
Originally Posted by shiznit2169
I hope you dont work for michael jackson
He fired me and hired John H



Posted by: mrguy

Wow! 15 year old having sex with a 14 year old~!

I pity the fool who tries to slip a pinkie up my daughters butt when she's 14!!!

He won't miss that pinkie very much!

Arizona has a big desert, I have a big shovel and know a lot of remote places!!!

Here are my simple rules for dating my daughter when she is old enough:

1. If you pull into the driveway and honk, you better be delivering a package because your sure not picking anything up.

2. Do not touch my daughter in front of me. You may glance at her, so long as you do not peer at anything below the neck line. If you cannot keep you hands or eyes off of my daughters body, I will remove them.

3. I know the fashion for boys these days is to wear their pants so loose they almost fall off. If you come to my door with your underwear showing and your pants is ten sizes to big, to ensure that your clothes do not fall off during the date, I will take my electric staple and fasten them securely to your waist.

4. I know you have been told about utilizing the barrier (condoms) method when it comes to sex. When it comes to sex with my daughter, I am the barrier and I will kill you.

Hope your girlfriends Dad's rules are not as strict as mine are going to be!

Have a great date



Posted by: Deezus


"jue dunt wan that mane, I'll have Ceasar and Romone staple jour tounge to jour fuckin' chin"



Posted by: crazy_enough

Quote:
Originally Posted by mrguy
Wow! 15 year old having sex with a 14 year old~!

I pity the fool who tries to slip a pinkie up my daughters butt when she's 14!!!

He won't miss that pinkie very much!

Arizona has a big desert, I have a big shovel and know a lot of remote places!!!

Here are my simple rules for dating my daughter when she is old enough:

1. If you pull into the driveway and honk, you better be delivering a package because your sure not picking anything up.

2. Do not touch my daughter in front of me. You may glance at her, so long as you do not peer at anything below the neck line. If you cannot keep you hands or eyes off of my daughters body, I will remove them.

3. I know the fashion for boys these days is to wear their pants so loose they almost fall off. If you come to my door with your underwear showing and your pants is ten sizes to big, to ensure that your clothes do not fall off during the date, I will take my electric staple and fasten them securely to your waist.

4. I know you have been told about utilizing the barrier (condoms) method when it comes to sex. When it comes to sex with my daughter, I am the barrier and I will kill you.

Hope your girlfriends Dad's rules are not as strict as mine are going to be!

Have a great date


I would add a tiny comment:

I told my daughter that she requires a license to have sex, and cannot acquire that license until she is 30!



Posted by: WilliamB

Yea someone made a comment about getting her pregnant. She might not be even old enough to get pregnant, but with today’s society she probably would get pregnant even if her body wasn’t supposed to some how. I agree about that whole I I I think that Craig777 was talking about.

Buddy if you are trying to have sex with this girl ENTIRLY for her I would say your trying to obtain the wrong thing. I am not a shrink but I have take some Psych classes and there is some under lying stuff going on there. You are the type of guy who loves to suffocate girls arent you? The type of guy who doesnt let girlfriends have friends right? I dispise people who value relationships like this. Two lost souls a guy trying to replace his emptiness with a girl and a girl thinking this guy will fill hers. It might seem like the "nice guy" thing to do to do everything for her but there are issues behind having a mind set like that. It really sounds like you want to take her innocence and not lose your virginity.



Posted by: Island Roots

After reading what the topic starter has said in this thread, it definitely sounds like you're not ready. You said that you're "hoping to connect" with her by way of sex; it should be the other way around. You should already have a connection with her.

I'm almost 18 and I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year (mid-May). We haven't had sex yet; both of us are virgins.

Do a little growing up (no pun intended) before making such a big decision. Right now you're thinking with the wrong head which is perfectly understandable given your age and the environment you're in. It isn't worth it at such a young age just to get that pleasure for a minute and to say you've done it. Wait.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

Quote:
Originally Posted by WilliamB
Yea someone made a comment about getting her pregnant. She might not be even old enough to get pregnant, but with today’s society she probably would get pregnant even if her body wasn’t supposed to some how. I agree about that whole I I I think that Craig777 was talking about.

Buddy if you are trying to have sex with this girl ENTIRLY for her I would say your trying to obtain the wrong thing. I am not a shrink but I have take some Psych classes and there is some under lying stuff going on there. You are the type of guy who loves to suffocate girls arent you? The type of guy who doesnt let girlfriends have friends right? I dispise people who value relationships like this. Two lost souls a guy trying to replace his emptiness with a girl and a girl thinking this guy will fill hers. It might seem like the "nice guy" thing to do to do everything for her but there are issues behind having a mind set like that. It really sounds like you want to take her innocence and not lose your virginity.
u dont know one fucking thing about me and now your saying i have issues?? wtf?? ive never been the way youve depicted me of being, you are dead wrong.



Posted by: Stallions05

I know this type of situation from experience. Say you do have sex you will most likely walk away from the expereince fine but in her head yall will be together forever. A year down the road you are dating other girls and having a good time, she is still stuck on you and will most likely have problems with all her relationships because she wants to be with you. I have female friends who have become suicidal over situations like yours, They think there is something wrong with them because the male who took their virginity in middle school doesnt want to be with them anymore. If anything this action will effect her very much so think about that.



Posted by: mrguy

There are a lot of emotions that go with sex the first time.

Especially at yours and hers age.

Girls mature quicker than guys and you never know, she just may really enjoy and it and decide she would like to try it with other people.

Are you ready for that?

When I was your age, I was one jealous person and I even waited until I was 17. I thought for sure the first girl was the girl I was going to marry because that was the way I was brought up. Little did I know the wicked ways of the world. I found out though after a complete heartbreak and even at one point had a gun to my head, cocked and ready to go because if couldn't have her to myself, then I didn't want to be here.

Now that I'm older and look back, I really see things in a whole new perspective. I had a older brother who tried to help me out but I only saw what I wanted to see.

You obviously have brains and do care other wise would of never posted here asking for advice.

Before you "go for it", think about what kind of person you want to become. Are you going to want to hop around with a bunch of people or are you going to want to stay with one person as long as possible. Then think about what she wants. If it is the opposite of what you want, then perhaps you shouldn't have sex.

To many people in this world don't take sex seriously. It is a major step in a persons life and does have consequences emotionally that could last a lifetime.

On another note, what if her parents find out? Are you ready to deal with an angry father or mother? I would be pretty pissed off if I found out my 14 year old daughter was having sex.

Your so young and have plenty of time for sex. Don't rush into something you may regret later.

Good luck and I hope you make the decision that is right for both of you.



Posted by: drew.haynes

Culturally you kinda get conditioned to think NOT having sex is horrible. You know how it is, every movie you see people have sex if they find out they both like the same band or a certain brand of coffee... pretty much for any reason. Also, pop culture makes a big deal out of not having sex often enough... "i haven't been laid in a month ." I know you have heard all of this stuff.

Ya know what? I am turning 19 in less than a month. I have had plenty of opportunity and come very close, but I have NO problem saying I am a virgin. I am and it really doesn't embarrass me or anything. I'm proud of it, because when I get married, I plan on staying married, contrary to many people these days, and for that to happen, that person needs to mean a whole lot to me. The more I share with her, that I have not shared with someone else, the better. There are probably alot of people who would agree, that if they could undo sexual experiences that happened pre-marriage, they would... and there are some who will disagree alot, but I somehow doubt they have the most functional marriages now anyway.



Posted by: chronic

DAMMM jus let tha lil dude poonch!!! WOW, u guys are severe cock blockers dont worry bout kidz n marrage n all that bullshit, jus wear a rubber wut u think they make them 4, if its ur first time it prob wont last 2 long anywayz, no offence



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

lmao



Posted by: clemson357

Quote:
Originally Posted by VivaLaRocket81
ive done my homework and have found that oral is very stimulating for the girl...



that is just funny. You did your homework?


let me give you some advice bro, munch the box all you want, but don't do the dirty for a long time. I lost it when I was 16 and she was 17; I was the first one of my friends. Before you go trying to fuck some 14 year old chick, you might want to think twice. Other kids your age who say they have are bluffing. seriously.

plus, if I had a 14 year old daughter, and found out some little 15 year old punk was trying to fuck her, I would beat his fucking ass.



Posted by: gococksDJS

Quote:
Originally Posted by clemson357


that is just funny. You did your homework?


let me give you some advice bro, munch the box all you want, but don't do the dirty for a long time. I lost it when I was 16 and she was 17; I was the first one of my friends.
So is that 17 in sheep years? I bet the wool was itchy, but being a clemson fan, your probably used to it by now.



Posted by: kraziplaya

viva, try not to lose your tempers... a lot of these guys forgot what it was like to be a kid and especially in this day and age a lot more shit is happeneing to you guys...i understand taht your interested in sex and its cool and understandable....if your really gonna go thru with it make sure your protected...also..this girl is really young...15 or 16 might be acceptable for a guy but 14 for a gurl looks really bad...if people were to find out(like her parents for instance) it could be a very bad situation for you and your family...its hard for young people like yourselves to keep secrets like sex,etc from friends,etc...its even hard for full grown adults,even married ones....be safe..use a rubber...and trust me...dont think your ready for a kid...i had one at 20 and whoo ee...you arent ready...i still get waken up at nite with my girlfriend screaming at me about my sons crying...its a real nightmare,lol....good times....take care



Posted by: Muscle_Girl

Just plainly think about what she might feel afterwards... will she regret it.. how will that effect you? I am all for young people exploring their bodies, but you really really need to think of EVERYTHING that involves sex at the age of 15.. you can barely get a job yet, if she was to get pregnant you WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO SUPPORT HER, PERIOD, not to mention that your life would come to a stand still and everything you have planned for your future would come to an end.. school, post secondary. Everyone will look at her a different way, can you imagine the stares, comments? You can do what you feel you are ready to do, but I would suggest thinking more deeply about it as you have no clue as to the consequences.



Posted by: gr81

Damm folkz, the kid wanted sexual advice on how to better accommodate the vagina he will soon be rubbin, he didn't ask for a dear abby thread on responsibility for gods sake. Obviously whether to have sex or not is your decision and you have to face that responsibility head on, but as long as you prepare and strap up you will be fine. Don't listen to all these people, especially musclegirl... lol the fact of the matter is this, is that clearly there are responsibilities but there are positive things that come from this experience as well. so don't do swaet it, just simply be responsibile. as for the original Q.... no matter what you do, you can't think of female pleasure the way a guy experiences it. Guys are like dogs, dogs you can run up to, rough house, throw around on the groud, slap in the face and wrestle with and they love it, thats their thing.. Women are like dumb cats in the sense that you can't run up to a cat and throw it around, your gonna get clawed real quick. With cats, it wants to think that IT chose to come over to you. First its gonna walk by, possibly brush the shin of the new person in the room, and maybe if your not giving off some crazy vibe, it will LET you pet it. No rubbin it the wrong way like a dogs fur. Ya dig? Too many guys think that theres an orgasm in that vagina to be had, and I am gonna rub it out of her come hell or highwater, just the way that guys work, no no. You gotta be gentle, Tease her, pay attention to all of her body like Rg said. Feel out the situation, sense what she likes by how she responds, let her guide you, just like that cat! lol. you'll be fine and good luck mayn



Posted by: greekblondechic





Posted by: Crono1000

Quote:
Originally Posted by clemson357


that is just funny. You did your homework?


let me give you some advice bro, munch the box all you want, but don't do the dirty for a long time. I lost it when I was 16 and she was 17; I was the first one of my friends. Before you go trying to fuck some 14 year old chick, you might want to think twice. Other kids your age who say they have are bluffing. seriously.

plus, if I had a 14 year old daughter, and found out some little 15 year old punk was trying to fuck her, I would beat his fucking ass.
agreed, good post



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

THANK YOU gr81, finally someone who dosent waste there time posting shit that now has no impact on me, im going to have sex and theres not a damn thing anyone on this forum is going to do about it. and wtf?? your acting like shes 10, shes only a year younger then me, fuck i know half of yall here have had bf's/gf's with alot bigger age gap. and yall keep playing that "worst case scenerio" shit, shes not going to fuckin get pregnant, jeez.............................well, now that thats out, any other advice??



Posted by: shiznit2169

viva just drop it, you're not going to get any more advice. You started this trouble here by posting in the first place. Just have a good night with her and i wish you luck that everything goes smoothly. WEAR A CONDOM



Posted by: gr81

Quote:
THANK YOU gr81, finally someone who dosent waste there time posting shit that now has no impact on me, im going to have sex and theres not a damn thing anyone on this forum is going to do about it. and wtf?? your acting like shes 10, shes only a year younger then me, fuck i know half of yall here have had bf's/gf's with alot bigger age gap. and yall keep playing that "worst case scenerio" shit, shes not going to fuckin get pregnant, jeez.............................well, now that thats out, any other advice??
yup, everyone sittin on there high horse like they didn't try to sneak in tha pink at that age w/ your gf's, all you fellas, please. Stop judging for gods sake. Yes he absolutely needs to be responsible, thats is a given, but I don't see why wanting to sleep with his girl makes him a little punk. How soon we forget. If you parents are really that worried then you need to do a better job parenting your girls so she is responsible b/c ultimately its her choice, her responsibility. If she is mature and responsible she will make the right choice!



Posted by: Flex

Make sure you have some good doing music. I prefer Metallica.

If you REALLY wanna please her, throw it in her but.

Then as soon as you bust, run like hell.



Posted by: Shae

Quote:
Originally Posted by Flex
Make sure you have some good doing music. I prefer Metallica.
No, like Pitboss said, "If you and her would like to make sweet love, have a little wine and somthin slow and nice." Like Sade and shit! And if you really wanna screw, now down some hard ass liquor and then put in some Metalica!



Posted by: gococksDJS

Quote:
Originally Posted by Flex
Make sure you have some good doing music. I prefer Metallica.

If you REALLY wanna please her, throw it in her but.

Then as soon as you bust, run like hell.
Actually I prefer the Avalanche. You take her to the top of some stairs, make her get on all fours facing the stairs. Put it in her pie hole and get to thrusting, then when your about to bust, spit on her back. When she turns around, you bust in her face and kick her down the stairs. All chicks like that one.



Posted by: gr81

ha ha, I am sure they love that



Posted by: clemson357

Quote:
Originally Posted by gococksDJS
So is that 17 in sheep years? I bet the wool was itchy, but being a clemson fan, your probably used to it by now.
...your the one who's mascot is a fucking farm animal. why don't you go cheer on the "cocks" instead of harassing me.



Posted by: RoCk79

I have to agree with Gr81, you all forget what you were like at 15? I was a virgin till I was 18. I thought I was going to marry her, but it turned out, it didn't work out that way. But I was one of the LAST of my friends to have sex, and I got lots of crap about waiting so long.

I will give you this advice tho, listen to me carefully. Sex is like a drug, very VERY addicting. Once you have it, you will want it more and more. And that might lead you to doing it with not so high of standards in women. Alot of respectable highschool girls are not having sex, some are, but most are not. So remember that. I told my younger brother this too, you dont know what your missing, until you have it. I was able to wait until I was 18, but I tell you this, if I had it at 15, i would of had a hell of a lot more sex before I was 18.



Posted by: RoCk79

Oh, and as far as tips go for your first time? you wont really need any. If she is truely a virgin, she will probably feel VERY uncomfortable for her first time. And you will be LUCKY if you can last more then 5 minutes. When your on your 5th time of having it with the same girl, then you can look at how to please her, but chances are, it wont last that long the first time.



Posted by: CRASHMAN

Dam..... and here i thought i was finally going to be able to please a girl dammit!..... guess i have to wait a little longer till i fully complete pubery dam you cruel world!!



Posted by: TriZZle305

How old is this thread? he probably already did it by now..



Posted by: Island Roots

Quote:
Originally Posted by TriZZle305
How old is this thread? he probably already did it by now..
It doesn't mean we can still make fun of him.



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

no i havent yet. and shes not a virgin. shes had sex before but she told me that the guy was to "small" to do anything. i dunno, she might just be saying that but ive heard it from a few ppl. i know its not going to last long, but im going to try to make it last as long as possible. as long as i get her to cum first then its mission accomplished.



Posted by: CRASHMAN

lol she's not a virgin an complaining about penis size? lol you are gonna get the clap



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

the clap??



Posted by: CRASHMAN

lol if you do not know what that is DO NOT have sex, you need some more education!!!



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

ummm.......riiiiiiiiight.......ooook.......



Posted by: Todd_

after i piss all over her face i dont wanna fathom what shes thinkin



Posted by: Maynard Keenan

be a sexual master like myself



Posted by: gr81

Quote:
as long as i get her to cum first then its mission accomplished.
don't hold your breath son, and if she says she did then chances are she is bullshitting you



Posted by: VivaLaRocket81

damn i heard it was tuff but i dont think its that hard. i mean i can get her wet just by kissing her, im sure i could get her to orgasm. and isnt there ways that u can tell shes not lying to me??



Posted by: Hawkin

Thanks you guys just so you know. I'm 15 also and I've been thinkin about stuff like this with this one girl and I've heard not to do it from sex ed teachers, and my parents, but of course, I don't really pay attention to them. This kinda stuff means a lot more coming from real people.



Posted by: gr81

you mean teaching abstinence doesn't really reach adolescents??? SHOCKING!!!!!!




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