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Posted by: Island Roots

I've been dating my girlfriend for over a year and in the past 2 or 3 weeks we've started to have sex; pretty regularly. Both of us were virgins beforehand. However, the last few times we've done it either she or myself has had to stimulate myself a little bit to keep it up after we take off our clothes.

I don't know what the problem is; I always have a hardon when I'm around her; hell just hugging her or kissing her usually gives me a hardon. But when we take our clothes off, I go soft unless myself or she is stimulating me.

I've never had this problem in the year that we've been going out until a few weeks after we've started to have sex.

I thought it might have been because we were doing it so often, but she was away for the weekend (4 days or so) and when she came back, we did it and it started to happen again.

I've never had this problem before - what the hell is the deal?

Posted by: TJ Cline

You are just new to this, give you're body and mind time to kick into gear. Don't over think it, you will be ok .

Posted by: Vieope

Do you get too nervous before sex?

Posted by: goandykid

it's the chronic masturbation

jk, you're probably just not used to bareing it all in front of her, you'll get used to it eventually

Posted by: Island Roots

No I don't get nervous; my girlfriend and I are very comfortable and relaxed around each other. It's usually the time between getting naked and puting the condom on where I go soft. Once we're in the act, I don't have any problem keeping a hardon.

I hope it just takes time to get use to because it's embarrassing for both me and her.

Posted by: Vieope

Maybe she takes her clothes too slow? Are you attracted to her when she is naked? Can I see a picture of her? Does it take too long to put the condom? Can I see a picture of her?

I can´t understand too because when something like that happens to me, it is because I am nervous and unconfortable.

Posted by: Crono1000

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Originally Posted by Island Roots

Both of us were virgins beforehand.

I was a virgin before hand also, if you know what I mean.

Posted by: Vieope

Quote:

Originally Posted by Crono1000

I was a virgin before hand also, if you know what I mean.

Everybody knows what you mean chronic masturbator. We know, don´t worry about that.

Posted by: Crono1000

anyway, maybe your girlfriend's ugly?

ahahahhaha I'm just kidding, you're alright.

Posted by: Vieope

Did you just anyway me?

Anyway, maybe you should have sex with your clothes on.

Posted by: MillerMan

Only time I had a problem like that was when I was drunk once and I was havin some major problems stayin hard, it was quite embarrasing, I never did get him up and runnin that night.

Posted by: Island Roots

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Originally Posted by goandykid

jk, you're probably just not used to bareing it all in front of her, you'll get used to it eventually

It isn't that because we've been completely naked together many times before we started having sex.

Vieope: We get our clothes off pretty fast; it's when we're naked and kissing right before the act that I go soft.

Posted by: PreMier

How old are you? use any PS/PH/gear?

Posted by: CRASHMAN

you are seeing her naked......turn the lights off .....

Posted by: Island Roots

I'm 18 and not using anything.

Posted by: SPIKE1257

Lucky for me I never had that problem with your girlfreind. Just kidding..

Posted by: John H.

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Originally Posted by ForemanRules

You are just new to this, give you're body and mind time to kick into gear. Don't over think it, you will be ok .

Hi Foreman,

EXACTLY.

And learn to relax - your body and your mind - learn to be comfortable.

Take Care, John H.

Posted by: TriZZle305

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Originally Posted by Crono1000

I was a virgin before hand also, if you know what I mean.

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