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Posted by: nayalbugs

Hi all

I am a 24/m and had sex for the first time a few months ago. The problem is I have never ejaculated inside my girlfriend, I have only ejaculated a few time when she stimulates me with her hand. The first few times of intercourse were fun but I found it hard to keep an erection during intercourse. Now during foreplay she can get me very hard (erect) but once I move or try to have penetrative sex with her I go all soft. I am not sure if this is fear because sometime I think that because I failed to ejaculate before I have a lot of pressure to finish properly this time round. Sometimes I think it could be the thought of wearing a condom and it just gets me out of the mood completely. I think my penis works fine because when I masturbate everything seems normal. I love my girlfriend and I don't want to lose her, she say it doesn't matter everytime but I feel I am dissappointing her and giving her the feeling i dont want her or need her. I think this problem is driving her away and I am scared I will lose her. She knows she is my first love and I know she has only been with one man before me and she said she never had problems like this before, I know she feels like that I don't love her or need her. What shold i do now ??? Should i go for viagra

Posted by: maniclion

Don't masturbate or have any other sexual contact for a week. Distance may make the heart grow fonder but it's time that makes the dick grow harder (and pussies wetter).

Posted by: gr81

no Viagra is not the answer bro. Think about it this way, you know for a fact that its not a physiological problem b/c you are able to get hard other times, so its obviously a mental problem. the pressure and stress in eth back of your mind is what is giving you a problem. you need to focus on relieving the pressure. Its you thats feeling like your dissapointing her by "underperforming". you need to just let her help you, that its not about performance, its about the love you two have. its not about teh end result, its about sharing the experience, if can put yourself past the performance anxiety than you will be fine. ya dig. good luck, and enjoy

Posted by: musclepump

Relax!

Posted by: Crono1000

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Originally Posted by gr81

no Viagra is not the answer bro. Think about it this way, you know for a fact that its not a physiological problem b/c you are able to get hard other times, so its obviously a mental problem. the pressure and stress in eth back of your mind is what is giving you a problem. you need to focus on relieving the pressure. Its you thats feeling like your dissapointing her by "underperforming". you need to just let her help you, that its not about performance, its about the love you two have. its not about teh end result, its about sharing the experience, if can put yourself past the performance anxiety than you will be fine. ya dig. good luck, and enjoy

completely agree

just relax, and don't be afraid to just let her help you. Try having a few sessions where sex isn't the intent: Just have fun with each other, don't worry about having sex for a while. Then maybe in the middle of the "fun" you'll think that it'll be a good time to pop it in and do it.

Ok, so maybe I'm not the biggest romantic but I betcha it'll work

Posted by: Crono1000

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Originally Posted by Crono1000

Then maybe in the middle of the "fun" you'll think that it'll be a good time to pop it in and do it.

this is also good advice for the guy whose girlfriend doesn't want to have sex yet, where "fun" = "sleep"

Posted by: gr81

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completely agree

are we on the same page lately or what..lol.. good times

Posted by: min0 lee

Posted by: maniclion

Put it in her butt.

Posted by: Little Wing

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

another winner.

Posted by: SPIKE1257

Great 1st post... John H feel free to jump right in.

Posted by: god hand

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Originally Posted by maniclion

Put it in her butt.

Put it in her mouth!

Posted by: The Monkey Man

I'm thinking your problem is 100% psychological

You need to have sex more often...
Practice makes Perfect...

Answer this...

How long have you dated this girl...
How long did she make you wait, since you have known her?

Have you had other GF's with whom you have come close?

How long have you been waiting to have sex?
(IE when did you have to start masturbating so you could sleep at night)

Does she put the condom on, or you?

Posted by: Crono1000

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Originally Posted by The Monkey Man

How long did she make you wait,

funny how we automatically assume it's cuz she made him wait

Posted by: Prince

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Originally Posted by gr81

no Viagra is not the answer bro.

I agree, Cialis is much better!

Posted by: maniclion

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Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio

I agree, Cialis is much better!

Posted by: cappo5150

watch a porno together

Posted by: gr81

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I agree, Cialis is much better!

well I gotta say that even better than thpse meds, 2000 mgs of test a week will definately do the trick! lol

Posted by: irontime

I'm not so sure that Viagra isn't the answer. A friend of mine had a shitty relationship experience and was having trouble getting an erection after the break up, he went to the doctor took one pill and he never had trouble with it again

I didn't ask him why he thought that was, guess it's just something guys don't get into detail with

Posted by: maniclion

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Originally Posted by Robert DiMaggio

I agree, Cialis is much better!

Taken in conjunction with Anabolic-Matrix Rx right?

Posted by: maniclion

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Originally Posted by irontime

I'm not so sure that Viagra isn't the answer. A friend of mine had a shitty relationship experience and was having trouble getting an erection after the break up, he went to the doctor took one pill and he never had trouble with it again

I didn't ask him why he thought that was, guess it's just something guys don't get into detail with

Maybe he taped a picture of your sphincter to the headboard of his bed?

Posted by: irontime

Hey, friends have to help friends, right?

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