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Posted by: KentDog

Lately, I have been having a problem keeping my erection after pulling out. When I say pulling out, I don’t mean to ejaculate, but to switch positions. The thing is, this has never happened before with previous girlfriends, just this one.

I just starting having sex with my girlfriend last week. We’ve had sex three times so far, twice at night and once during the daytime. This problem has only happened those two times at night. I don’t know what it is. I tried to think of reasons why it happened after the first night, and I ended up blaming it on being too tired, because as soon as she left, I literally fell asleep right there. Another possibility I came up with was that I was taking ephedrine with caffeine (sometimes with an aspirin, sometimes without) for a little over a month, but stopped over three weeks ago. This was the first time I had used EC/A.

It happened again tonight

. But I should note that the problem isn’t getting hard, but keeping it hard after taking it out to switch positions, so I don’t think it can be classified as ED. And it’s not something that happens quick, because I had sex with her in missionary until she came twice, and I had made her orgasm before sex with oral, so a total of three times before having any problem, and it was to switch positions.

I have no idea why it happened again tonight. I have nothing to blame it on, other than I had like half a glass of wine with dinner, but I highly doubt that was it as I don’t have a problem holding my alcohol. I have also been wearing a condom while having sex every time, so I thought maybe that could be it as well because I don’t like wearing them. But again, I haven’t had that problem in the past, and she is not on birth control yet so having sex with her without a condom on is not a possibility right now in my eyes.

I don’t know what to do, and I’m really worried it will happen again. I am reluctant to see a doctor because I am thinking they may just try to push an RX drug on me. I talked to a friend of mine and he suggested trying a natural test booster and recommend “Activate” from Designer Supplements, but to be honest, I don’t want to spend money.

She is coming over again tomorrow morning and I’m pretty sure we will have sex again sometime while she is over, so for now I just plan to keep trying, but I would appreciate any suggestions or thoughts on this matter.

Posted by: TJ Cline

1. ephedrine is very bad for boners
2. its new and you might just be getting use to it with her
3. dont worry about it....that will just make it worse

Posted by: gococksDJS

Bro you don't have ED, you've got the gay.

Posted by: KentDog

Quote:

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

1. ephedrine is very bad for boners
2. its new and you might just be getting use to it with her
3. dont worry about it....that will just make it worse

Hey thanks for the advice, Foreman. I felt maybe the problem the first night could have been due to worry since I did think a lot about it because I knew we were going to get together that night. I'm going to keep at it and hopefully it won't happen again.

Is #1, "ephedrine is very bad for boners," true? As in, other people have found the same thing? I have been off of ephedrine for about three weeks now, but was not cycling it at all when on it.. it may have messed with my CNS since it did really throw off my sleeping habit at times, but sleeping has been normal since discontinuing usage.

Posted by: KentDog

She in on the rag

. Looks like it'll be another 5 days till I find out.

Posted by: joesmooth20

ephedrine has caused the same exact problem for me everytime I've been on it. Just try and not to harp on it too much man.

Posted by: KentDog

If it was the ephedrine, can I expect this problem to go away soon? Will it go away with time, or do I need to do something to remedy it?

Posted by: The Monkey Man

- "You're gay!"..............

- ROFLMFAO!

Seriously, I wouldn't worry about it...

If she complains, tell her, its her fault for not talking dirty enough! -

Posted by: Stu

yes problem is solved when you stop the ephedrine, i had the same problem, didnt realise it was a side effect of eph.

Posted by: KentDog

Well here is the thing.. I have been off ephedrine for close to a month now. I did notice that my libido went to shit while I was on it as I was much less horny than usual, but since I have been off ephedrine I don't feel my libido has completely returned to normal yet. Should it be taking this long (close to a month)?

Posted by: GYM GURU

ephedrine will cause this. This also happens in relationships where people have been together for many years. Remember, in the future your mind has to b really into your girl because u will eventually get really used to her. If u appreciate your girl & in your mind you find good things about her body while you look at her naked, this will keep u harder longer & keep things more interesting. Good luck

Posted by: KentDog

Thanks. The problem has been less and less apparent lately and it helps to have a day or so between sex (without masturbating in between). I had awesome sex with her a couple days ago in the afternoon and then tried to have sex with her again at night and the problem kind of came back at night. I might try a test booster sometime in the future if this doesn't go away fully and is still bothering me. I think it may help once she finally gets on birth control too, because I hate condoms and I think they might be adding to the problem.

Posted by: Prince

try some L-Arginine prior to sex, or better yet AKG.

Posted by: The Monkey Man

whatever you take..

The key ingredient should be Nitric Oxide -

Posted by: boilermaker

Man, if it's a problem now, I fear for you after marriage.

Posted by: KentDog

Thanks for the advice guys. Hey Rob, L-Arginine and AKG is used for pumps right? You think this will help the overall "blood flow?" Boilermaker, I know what you mean.. I get sick of the same girl so quick. I've been dodging the long-relationship thing for a while now and don't plan to be married for at least another decade.

Posted by: Prince

Quote:

Originally Posted by KentDog

Hey Rob, L-Arginine and AKG is used for pumps right?

yes, Anabolic-Matrix Rx and Maximum Pump are a great libido/sexual enhancer stack!

Posted by: Pirate!

I believe the problem is being nervous and thinking too much about what you are doing, what she is thinking, etc. If you want to take a supplement for it, don't fool around with exotic herb stuff. Get some Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra from www.ag-guys.com. Works everytime.

Posted by: luke69duke69

Just got some of the liquid V for insurance after my cycle. Tested it out after taking two sominex because that is another boner killer (any sleeping pills) and had no problems. I have insomnia and it's nice to have somethin in case of a late night suprise after I've already taken my sleeping pills.

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