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Posted by: fishface

how do i stop myself cumming too quickly? I haven't always had this problem but it's been getting on my girlfriends nerves for the past couple of weeks. It's like I can go slowly, but my girlfriend wants me to hurry up, so i do, and...you get the idea. How do you men get around this problem?

Posted by: kuso

Nice way to introduce yourself

Posted by: fishface

hi folks, my name's fishface and i cum too quickly!

Posted by: MAX

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Originally posted by fishface
hi folks, my name's fishface and i cum too quickly!

Welcum to the board....

OK.... Now the problem at hand... you say this was not always a problem???? so what has changed?

Posted by: Fade

Hey welcome...or should I say not so well-cum.

Ok ok corny I know.

The answer to all your questions is.......bite your lip real hard and think of dead kittens or puppies.

Posted by: craig777

My suggestion would be that no matter how much she begs stick with the foreplay until she is going to burst. I don't even get undressed for a while. Use some of the things that w8 put in her Women's Erogenous zones thread. Then let her be on top so that she can control what she likes. Think about work or something. When she is screaming, yes yes then you can think about her.

Posted by: #1 stunner

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Originally posted by Fade99

The answer to all your questions is.......bite your lip real hard

just dont bite all the way through!!!!!!!!

Posted by: hurtyhair4u

The day you know you're going to have sex with her , rub one out before hand . Or a few drinks could help , not too many though or you'll get wiskey dick .

Posted by: Burner02

You're from Wyoming? Can't you just practice on a sheep or something?
Just kidding.
Well...one way NOT to try is to watch TV while 'working'....they do not much like that. Even thought you say yu are watching ESPN for their benifit...(not that I know about this..)
Another way....tell her the more often you two 'do the deed'....you will stop being so 'anxious' and calm down and take longer.
Also, rubbing one out prior cannot hurt either..

oh yeah, and welcome aboard!

Posted by: Scotty the Body

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Originally posted by fishface
hi folks, my name's fishface and i cum too quickly!

Sounds like one of the lines Mule uses on women at the bar.

Welcome to IM Fishface!!!

Posted by: bubbasr

WOW !!!!!! WELCUM fishface LMAO

Posted by: mia mia

Easy answer...foreplay for the girl is a good way to work her up to your level & she'll come alot quicker. Make her squirm, but it might take a while. By the time she's ready she'll probably orgasm with you or before you

Or if you don't have the time to play around...do you use a condom?? Those are not only for protection ya know

Nowadays they have climax control lubricated ones. Works like a charm

Oh & welcome fishface who comes too fast!!

Posted by: seyone

why not do what kuso does. you know take a practice shot, that way when its time to do your shooting for real you don't pull the trigger to soon.

Posted by: kuso

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Originally posted by seyone
why not do what kuso does. you know take a practice shot, that way when its time to do your shooting for real you don't pull the trigger to soon.

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Posted by: dhbiker

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Posted by: kuso

dhbiker

What a great post buddy, you leave us with a great first impression of you.

Posted by: ALBOB

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Originally posted by seyone
why not do what kuso does. you know take a practice shot

Yeah but Kuso's on the RECEIVING end of the shot and I really don't think that's the kind of advice fish face is looking for. But who am I to judge?

Hi ya' fishface.

Posted by: kuso

Um....ALBOB....

Posted by: Rusty

Kuso, I don't think you can recover from this one........

Posted by: kuso

Thats why I didn`t really even try.........

Oh well, you win many, and lose one or two

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

Jack it a few hours before, to calm your self down, this will definelty help, unless he just does it that good for you.

And as the pro's said above, foreplay, oral, get her really wanting you

Use different postions, to move around, this will give u a few seconds to calm your nerves to keep u going for a while longer, i go fast, then slow down, and tease, this seems to help alot, as well gets her a bit more excited form my past experience, (what little i have) but some girls cna get frustarted by this aswell. so be careful.

Posted by: Robboe

Why worry? Hey, even Alicia Keys says "a real man always comes first"...

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

^^^^ ahahahahaa

if only all women thought that! then we wouldn't be having this conversation

Posted by: mp5man1

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Originally posted by fishface
how do i stop myself cumming too quickly? I haven't always had this problem but it's been getting on my girlfriends nerves for the past couple of weeks. It's like I can go slowly, but my girlfriend wants me to hurry up, so i do, and...you get the idea. How do you men get around this problem?

Don't move your hand up and down so fast

Posted by: Ironguy

You could also try two condoms at once. Reduces sensitivity.

Posted by: Robboe

That can increase the chance of them splitting.

Condoms are designed to be used one at a time.

Posted by: budo

Try pulling out for a few seconds every time. It'll get her even hotter and prolong it for you.

Posted by: CRASHMAN

Pactise Practise Practise

(masturbate) it'll give you more stamina, two rubber was also a good idea guys and theres was that one technique where you empty a load outa the chamber then go do your bissness

Posted by: robbm

Here's something to ponder..... I have read of some guys complaining that they can't cum while having sex. It usually stems from very aggressive (fast) masterbation which has desensitized (sp?) their member. They are advised to ease up on the solo and when they become more sensitive, things will be back to normal.

Sooooo, if a guy wants to last longer.... should he try masterbating more often and with more speed/pressure in order to desensitize things???? Wonder if you could walk the line between problem and paradise??

Posted by: Mik

Stick with a lot of foreplay and give her the big o before you start pomping

Posted by: Jodi

So why not try a cock ring! They come in all sorts of styles at any local porn store. They help you last longer and with the right ring they can very pleasurable for your girlfriend too.

Posted by: ZECH

Careful......you might tell on yourself!!!

Posted by: Jodi

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Originally posted by dg806
Careful......you might tell on yourself!!!

huh?

Posted by: ZECH

I'm just picking on you sweetie!!! Do you know from experience???

Posted by: Jodi

You bet! Had to teach the new BF a few tricks. He's 2 years younger than me. Train him the way I like it!

Posted by: ZECH

I hear ya!!!! Where are girls like you when I'm looking???

Posted by: lina

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Originally posted by mochy
So why not try a cock ring! They come in all sorts of styles at any local porn store. They help you last longer and with the right ring they can very pleasurable for your girlfriend too.

Hmmm...I wonder how one gets fitted for those?

interesting things they sell nowadays!

Posted by: ZECH

Could you imagine that??? (Ok...i have a size large here...stick out your penis and let's give it a try!)LOL!

Especially if it is a woman!!

Posted by: Jodi

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Originally posted by dg806
Could you imagine that??? (Ok...i have a size large here...stick out your penis and let's give it a try!)LOL!

Especially if it is a woman!!

LMFAO I am pretty sure they come as one size fits most

Posted by: TRD

Do the "Something About Marry" trick, if not then try anti depressants. (Heard that one on the radio)

Posted by: themoviecapo

You should take care of her first. After that she wont complain anymore, even if you are done quickly after.

Posted by: GYM GURU

Try the extended pleasure condoms from trogan. Put it on & wait for about two min. (forplay etc) & then put it in slowly, thrust slowly for a couple min. until you can see it in her face that she wants more. Then thrust faster until you get close then ... change positions & start a little quicker this time. D o this a couple times while singing a song in your head or counting sheep (OR SOMETHING) to keep your mind of the good stuff. Once you see she has gotten hers a couple times then BAMB. Start spashing at your will. Remember , some women like to be played with or held after having sex. Especially if your good. Don't just get jump out the sack & leave for a midnight snack. The snack thats in your bed still needs to be finished off. I hope this helps !!! Welcome to Ironmag. I am sure you will enjoy it here.

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

<--- just had the best 2 weeks of his life!

anyways, this has to do with, i learned to make it wait.. well like a little longer

u go fast, slow, pull it out, tease her with it, this lets u relax it a bit, but if she is ready to kill u if u dont give it to her, then give it to her!!

pending on the position, use your fingers as well to keep her going, while u slow down the thrusting.

to me it was teasing. Also, with the woman i just had the best 2 weeks of my life with, she would flex herself around my c**k, and that seemed to make it easier for me to go longer, it was new to me, but dam it felt great! it was like a built in cock ring...lol

Anyways, enough from the amateur

Posted by: david

Jack it a few hours....? Wasn't that suggested on the movie, "There's something about Mary?" Practice on sheep is even funnier! You guys are too funny with these replys! Kuso, those pictures are funny as hell!

Posted by: bigss75

this is bumped for man smoke to see what a person how really got ragged on looks like

Posted by: david

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Originally posted by bigss75
this is bumped for man smoke to see what a person how really got ragged on looks like

Not a good example their, jerky! (Bigss!) <--------- there is your EXAMPLE!

Just teasing ya, Bigss!

Posted by: MyK

P-funk doesn't seem to have a problem!!!

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

WOW old thread!! deummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Posted by: Pepper

Yes, very old. Make you wonder what he was searching for to have found it. hmmmm.

Posted by: AKIRA

Old or not, I went ahead and read it.

Sometimes, if I concentrate too long on something else to hold my cum back, it works TOO well. If you catch my limp drift.

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

ahaha have had that happen!! when i start to lose it, yeah, well, back to oral for a while :d

Posted by: MCx2

Unless I'm real horny to begin with, I basically have to concentrate just to go. If there is a weird sound or my mind starts drifting I'm back to square one. I don't cum about 1/4 of the time.

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by Mr.Guvernment

ahaha have had that happen!! when i start to lose it, yeah, well, back to oral for a while :d

YEAH. Its quite embarrassing, yet frustrating. However, I was told if 'she' was good, that would never happen. I asked for them to explain.

AKIRA: Define "good."
Mathews: Well, you know when you fuck a girl for a short time, long time, doesnt matter, but at some time, you feel your knees hurting from the floor, or your pelvis is burning from moving so much, or you run out of breath, whatever, a girl that is GOOD at sex, will be so good that you ignore or just simply not care about those suttle yet repetitive pains.
AKIRA: ....Ive never had one of those.
Mathews: fag.

Posted by: aceshigh

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Originally Posted by fishface

how do i stop myself cumming too quickly? I haven't always had this problem but it's been getting on my girlfriends nerves for the past couple of weeks. It's like I can go slowly, but my girlfriend wants me to hurry up, so i do, and...you get the idea. How do you men get around this problem?

fake fake fake

Posted by: Gazhole

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Originally Posted by FatCatMC

Unless I'm real horny to begin with, I basically have to concentrate just to go. If there is a weird sound or my mind starts drifting I'm back to square one. I don't cum about 1/4 of the time.

I know what you mean there...for some (annoying) reason my girlfriend usually comes about 3 times before i do. It makes me look good, but dammit i want to come TOO!!

I think ive over-conditioned myself not to come early.

Posted by: MyK

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Originally Posted by mochy

So why not try a cock ring! They come in all sorts of styles at any local porn store. They help you last longer and with the right ring they can very pleasurable for your girlfriend too.

what kind of style do you recommend???

are there any I should stay away from??

Posted by: poloblue22

If you know you are getting laid just bust a nut couple of hours before that way you will be ready to go at it for a decent time until she is ready to go and then you can make her suck you goods out

Posted by: Sexybeast777

I'm the opposite, I last a long time. The good thing about me is that I can perform all night long, I mean, I can go several rounds in one night

Posted by: teetUX

w0w.

i am shooting too quickly and i want to know if there is a way to last again.

reply

Posted by: TrojanMan60563

I like to control my breathing and not allow my mind to get focused on the task at hand....or when you get close switch positions.

Posted by: the other half

i just usually switch hands, that way you get a different feeling and it prolongs it longer.

this is about yanking one out right.
no really, i just like to get the first one out of the way, and enjoy the rest of the night taking care of her in what ever ways she may like. if i come agian great, if i go for the next hour and she gets hers and i dont, then we just go to self pleasuring.

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