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Posted by: AnnaDTX

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??


Posted by: oaktownboy

u should prolly be able to tell by his attitude or the way he acts..there isn't a one size fits all model for that type of situation..gotta go with ur gut instinct


Posted by: kicka19

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
hahahaha, no guy would say that, or maybe like 3% of the population would


Posted by: TJ Cline

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
All men want is to bang a hot chick, if you really think he likes your personality think again....gain 100Lbs and see how many dates you get.


Posted by: mustangdan

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Originally Posted by ForemanRules
All men want is to bang a hot chick, if you really think he likes your personality think again....gain 100Lbs and see how many dates you get.

WRONG! not all of us guys just want to bang a hot chick. some of us are still respectful, well-manered gentlemen who actually want more then sex, or sex is the last thing on our list. there are some of us who want a long term relationship, and not for sex. that is the problem with the world today sex, sex, sex. only to "get some" or "get laid" that is so stupid sex makes money so that is pushed so much in society. gain 100 lbs? yeah its called childbirth/ pregnancy.
"hey did you get some... man that is so dumb"-DC

so please do not speak for "all" or "any" guy(s) when you are mistaken. thanx


Posted by: mustangdan

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
so your answer to your question is no, anna. NOT all of us are like that. maybe most of the guys are, but there are still a few real nice guys left. and we are dieing off because most women any more only want a "bad boy" or a "tough guy".


Posted by: TJ Cline

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Originally Posted by mustangdan
WRONG! not all of us guys just want to bang a hot chick. some of us are still respectful, well-manered gentlemen who actually want more then sex, or sex is the last thing on our list. there are some of us who want a long term relationship, and not for sex. that is the problem with the world today sex, sex, sex. only to "get some" or "get laid" that is so stupid sex makes money so that is pushed so much in society. gain 100 lbs? yeah its called childbirth/ pregnancy.
"hey did you get some... man that is so dumb"-DC

so please do not speak for "all" or "any" guy(s) when you are mistaken. thanx
Homo


Posted by: AnnaDTX

thanks mustangdan! Where are all these good guys?? Sorry to post another dumb question but hey, my 2 interests are the gym and men!!!


Posted by: NEW_IN_THE_GAME

I am a respectful man, well except for those one times. anyway. lol

I am a man no way round it, but I am respectful, and have the up most respect for women. I grew up with , my aunt, mom, gramma, sister, and 7 girl cousins around . And an uncle that was working all the time. I am glad I aint gay. But I have learned to respect females.


Posted by: nsimmons

Foreman is right. I treat them like queens, but all men want the same thing. They're full of shit if they say otherwise. Now if you were married for many years and your wife blew up 100 lbs thats different. But no one goes looking for pie wagons unless they have a fetish.

Nice guy= passive aggressive controller. No woman wants a nice guy. Especially a hot woman, they will get bored FAST! There is a huge difference between a respectful man and a nice guy.

If a guy really really means that shit, then he's a pussy and you'll end up dumping him anyway. Ask me how I know. Im a little older and wiser now, but my heart had to take a beating to stop the programming my mother instilled in me when i was younger.
Go Leykis!


Posted by: kicka19

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Originally Posted by mustangdan
WRONG! not all of us guys just want to bang a hot chick. some of us are still respectful, well-manered gentlemen who actually want more then sex, or sex is the last thing on our list. there are some of us who want a long term relationship, and not for sex. that is the problem with the world today sex, sex, sex. only to "get some" or "get laid" that is so stupid sex makes money so that is pushed so much in society. gain 100 lbs? yeah its called childbirth/ pregnancy.
"hey did you get some... man that is so dumb"-DC

so please do not speak for "all" or "any" guy(s) when you are mistaken. thanx
gay


Posted by: NeilPearson

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Originally Posted by nsimmons
Foreman is right. I treat them like queens, but all men want the same thing. They're full of shit if they say otherwise. Now if you were married for many years and your wife blew up 100 lbs thats different. But no one goes looking for pie wagons unless they have a fetish.

Nice guy= passive aggressive controller. No woman wants a nice guy. Especially a hot woman, they will get bored FAST! There is a huge difference between a respectful man and a nice guy.

If a guy really really means that shit, then he's a pussy and you'll end up dumping him anyway. Ask me how I know. Im a little older and wiser now, but my heart had to take a beating to stop the programming my mother instilled in me when i was younger.
Go Leykis!
TRUE STORY


Posted by: NeilPearson

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
What's not nice about trying to have sex with you? It just means he likes you.


Posted by: mustangdan

i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.


Posted by: kicka19

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Originally Posted by mustangdan
i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.
queer


Posted by: AnnaDTX

people quit HATIN'


Posted by: oaktownboy

if all the man wants is sex, he must be very shallow and one-dimensional...


Posted by: kicka19

dam anna, how the hell do you have a hard time gettn guys, u look like a shorty in your pics


Posted by: LexusGS

sHIT, i SEE THIS PIECE LIKE THIS YO...
iF you like the boy and he like you back, I dont see what the problem is when it comes to sex. If you dont want to have sex with him, then you should'nt be with him in the first place. Now what you think guys are gonna think bout you? Dressing in tightass clothes and shit... You know what you're doing and you're doing it for a reason so quit that fucking crying yo.


Posted by: cappo5150

Word yo.


Posted by: TJ Cline

Quote:
Originally Posted by mustangdan
i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.
This post = 0 pussy gained....
True story


Posted by: AnnaDTX

maybe they just lose interest ine?? or they decide they just cant keep up with me?? or they cant handle my friends, most of them are guys? could be a lot of things, but I will just keep asking questions.


Posted by: kicka19

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
maybe they just lose interest ine?? or they decide they just cant keep up with me?? or they cant handle my friends, most of them are guys? could be a lot of things, but I will just keep asking questions.
or you can come to RI and get some love put in ya


Posted by: TJ Cline

When a girl/woman has only "guys" for friends....that is = to 0 friends.


Posted by: AnnaDTX

i have 2 girlfriends, the rest are guys. Right now, BOTH my gal pals have bf's.


Posted by: Kal

just my 2 cents worth.. some guys are dicks, some aren't. If you think a guy is just tying to be nice, give him a chance, he probably is. There are still a few of us nice guys left out there. And I'll agree, in the long run, we probably don't get laid as much as the "bad boys" but I bet we have much better relationships with women, either as friends or lovers.


Posted by: The Monkey Man

If a person is really interested in you he will ask direct questions
not "softball" date questions...

And if he is really interested in you, he wont bring up sex... and neither
will you because you will have so much else to talk about first


Posted by: Witmaster

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster?
SHort answer = HELL YES


Posted by: Witmaster

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
...how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
he's not talking about sex.


Posted by: NeilPearson

Just because a guy is interested in sex, it doesn't mean he's not interested in you as a person too. He can like you, want to get to know you better and try to bang you all at the same time.


Posted by: nsimmons

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Originally Posted by NeilPearson
Just because a guy is interested in sex, it doesn't mean he's not interested in you as a person too. He can like you, want to get to know you better and try to bang you all at the same time.



Posted by: ST240

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Originally Posted by ForemanRules
When a girl/woman has only "guys" for friends....that is = to 0 friends.


Ive noticed they're usually sluts too.


Posted by: Jodi

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Originally Posted by mustangdan
i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.
Now that's respectful!

Some of us nice women still seek nice guys too Wish I knew where to find them

I date plenty - well I was anyway - and I rarely found a guy I would go on a 2nd date with. Most of them are assholes, bad attitudes, pushy, demanding, shows offs etc............ I'm picky though.


Posted by: MyK

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
just fuck him, and then go make him a sandwich!


Posted by: gr81

Quote:
Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

well Anna, here is your answer baby doll...asking what all men do or think is waaayyyy too vague, and despite what is believed, we are all different. Yes we all love having sex with beautiful women, but thats about where it ends. There ARE guys out there that would say those things and mean them, and there are other guys that say those things b/c thats what they think you want to hear (not necessarily maliciously, but sometimes thats how you have to play things), then there are guys who would say things like that to a girl he wants a future with and not to others. Bottom line is that sleeping with a guy is not going to get him to like you anymore, and if you like this guy then make him wait a little bit. On the other hand, making him wait too long is a recipe for him looking elsewhere. If I were you however I would seriously worry and question if a guy did say that he didn't want to sleep with you each and every time he sees you and that theres plent of time for that b/c either A) that means he's not very sexual and things will be bleak in the future, or B) he's bullshiting you b/c he thinks thats what you want to hear which is actually the better of the two. it seems like we just can't win with you gals thou, b/c if we say these things then you question our motives, and if we don't then we're not sensitive enough or whatever. You all need to stop acting like wanting to sleep with a women is a sinister intention and realize its a good thing if he wants to sleep with you, that means he's attracted to you.


Posted by: TJ Cline

Quote:
Originally Posted by MyK
just fuck him, and then go make him a sandwich!
and bring him a cold beer......then go do the laundry.


Posted by: AnnaDTX

thanks gr81. btw I am giving up asking questions about the subject. I am curious and I love reading people's answers, even if they are WHACK sometimes but I dont want to bother anyone either.


Posted by: gr81

my pleasure, but you shouldn't give up with the questions, and I bet every guy here will assure you that you are no bother.. We love it when beautiful women are vocal about these things. Its just hard to answer when we know nothing about the guy. ok seriously, 1 last piece of advice and I'll shut up, and I know its gonna sound corny, but just be upfront and honest with your fellas, it much less confusing for all sides and thats also usually will open some avenues of dialogue from his end. ya never know...


Posted by: nsimmons

Serious problem here anna is your only responding to the 'nice' answeres that enforce what you want to hear...

The other ones may be rude but theres is a lot of wisdom all around. We have no interest in bull shitting you, we'll never meet.


Posted by: AnnaDTX

I read all the answers and they are great! Myk answer was insane! I know the wisdom is around, thats why i like posting in this section, i get honest answers.


Posted by: nsimmons

Fair enough.


Posted by: Steele20

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Originally Posted by AnnaDTX
Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??
Yes, a lot of men do say things like that. Just don't sleep with him until you are 100 percent sure he's a nice guy if that's what you desire. A nice guy wont care if he doesn't have sex 2 weeks into the relationship.


Posted by: Steele20

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Originally Posted by Kal
just my 2 cents worth.. some guys are dicks, some aren't. If you think a guy is just tying to be nice, give him a chance, he probably is. There are still a few of us nice guys left out there. And I'll agree, in the long run, we probably don't get laid as much as the "bad boys" but I bet we have much better relationships with women, either as friends or lovers.
Some of us nice guys do, I haven't had much luck in the past but my current girlfriend seems different from the others so who knows. I'm in my third year of college and seems to me most educated people are nice, or put on a good front.


Posted by: ST240





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