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Posted by: mmafiter

I can't remember if this question has been posed on this forum or not, if it has.........oooops.

Do you consider cyber sex cheating?

Posted by: Cynic

I say no. It's like fantasizing.

Posted by: I Are Baboon

Yes, it's cheating to some extent.

Posted by: Rob_NC

Damn, then I'm guilty of adultry.

Posted by: cornfed

MMa, I say it all depends on the motives. if it's in fun or nonserious then no. Either that or I'm screwed

. However, this may discredit or agree w/ me, but as it infers in "the good book", sins of the mind are no less evil than those acted upon. But I still say it's all in the reason. Oh, and btw, that sig ain't helpin' the feline population.

Peace

Posted by: Eggs

I think so... its all about motives.

When your walking down the street its one thing to check out the rear of a passing hot chick, and completely another to grab it and ask her if she wants to get it on.

When your on the internet its one thing to flirt and joke around, and another to cyber.

Obviously if your asking this question though you've thought about it and come to one answer or another... so lets cut to the chase and ask this in a truer form:

"Do you really care?" or "If there was a no chance of getting caught cheating would you do it?"

Of course, its an entirely different subject if your partner wants you to/joins in

Eggs

Posted by: Ginni

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Originally posted by Eggs

When your on the internet its one thing to flirt and joke around, and another to cyber.

Eggs

I agree with that...

Posted by: esmerelda

For me...cyber is just like watching a good porn flick...or reading a supposed letter in a stick mag!!!! Only this way you get to choose whether you in it or not!!!! The motto that runs with cyber is...... You can look in the shop window...but it doesnt mean you have to go in and buy!!!! Its harmless as long as boundaries are set right from the word go....other wise there is no one to blam but yourself!!!! That and the delete button!!!!

Posted by: IPMC

I think MissD could answer this one.........she is a pro. he he

Posted by: CRASHMAN

i know my girlfriend would be mad as hell if she found out i was doing it, but if she doesn't find out i don't see anything wrong with it

wait if cyber sex counts as cheating would it count as getting some?

Posted by: Michael Marx

According to my wife...If it feels goo and is fun...Then it's cheating...

Posted by: mmafiter

Quote:

Originally posted by Eggs
I think so... its all about motives.

"Do you really care?" or "If there was a no chance of getting caught cheating would you do it?"

Eggs

I agree it's about motives. Do I really care? Well if my mate kept doing it with the same person then yes, I'm gonna be extremely pissed. I think it's pretty disrespectful, beause it's not like porn, where you have no real interaction and you are basically using the porn as an objetc. Cybersex, is more intimate and personal.

Would I do it? No.....it's not my thing, I don't really understand what guys "get" out of it. Men are more visually sexually oriented, we like to see what were fukin'. Women, on the other hand like the intimacy and mental connection, you know the whole "I found a soul mate and he makes me feel like a whole person" crap.

Here's a follow-up question; If you found out your mate was continually engaging in this type of behaviour with one person, would it be a relationship "breaker"?

Posted by: Dr. Pain

Depends who YOU are having Cybersex with! Say Pam Anderson in this instance....

Well for one, she's unobtainable, and secondly w8 is hot for her, so I would say that would be OK. (Wear a body condom)

Now if you were having something going on with Mule, or Albob, I would say that's OK too, because she can't compete, unless she brings a strap-on or something

However, if the someone is in your town, maybe that you know or work with, is addressing you on the PC, then I would have to say NO!

DP

Posted by: Prince

Yes, it is, no doubt. Does not matter who it is or where they live.

A "mental affair" is just as bad, if not worse, than a physical affair in my opinion.

Posted by: ALBOB

Quote:

Originally posted by Dr. Pain Now if you were having something going on with Mule, or Albob

Did I just get slammed?

CRASHMAN I'm gonna have to disagree. You're sole criteria is whether or not you get CAUGHT. By that logic you can do anything under the sun and it's not cheating unless your mate finds out. Sorry, I just can't see that.

My answer to the original question: No. And I'm gonna use mmafiter's logic here. Men are "physical" creatures. It's not cheating unless there's PHYSICAL contact. I know what cornfed quoted from "the good book" but still don't buy that. I'm more in tune with Esmerelda; window shopping is fine as long as you don't BUY anything. In this case you're not even allowed to try something on. DAMN, I was looking forward to the dressing room too.

Posted by: Prince

It's cheating whether it's a male or female. It's probably worse if a female is doing it since they are more emotionally driven rather than physical.

Yes, it would be a relationship breaker.

Albob, that logic is wacked!

Posted by: Mike51

I dont know if its cheating or not....but I do know I gotta stop going to those web cam sites

Posted by: ALBOB

Quote:

Originally posted by Prince Albob, that logic is wacked!

Why do ya' think I blamed it on mmafiter?

Posted by: irontime

Well I for one do not do the cyber sex thing, but I think it is a lot like pornography. When you watch a porno and are aroused by it, is that cheating? Is it really that different from cyber sex?

Posted by: hurtyhair4u

Definetly cheating . Mental and no physical doesn't matter . You're mind is still cheating . Ask yourself this " Would i do this if my girlfriend or boyfriend , wife or husband was around ?" .
If you feel slightly guilty or even have to ask if it's cheating then i think you already know .

Posted by: Prince

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime
Well I for one do not do the cyber sex thing, but I think it is a lot like pornography. When you watch a porno and are aroused by it, is that cheating? Is it really that different from cyber sex?

I think there is a definite difference between looking at porn and having a cyber relationship. Yes, it is very different there is another person (a real person) involved with you.

Posted by: irontime

True, but you are still getting aroused by another human who is not your wife, so it that's the case wouldn't porn be considered cheating too?

Posted by: cornfed

It's the complete annonymity issue that he's gettin' at Iron. The no 2way action. However, a person could take a picture just as seriously and obsessively as a conversationional relationship, so where would that leave you? Just a thought. But I think it swings both ways. I'll leave the theological side out...for now. hehehe...just when you thought I'd never climb back on my soap box

Peace

Posted by: CRASHMAN

Quote:

Originally posted by ALBOB

Did I just get slammed?

yeah i see your point i agree pretty much with you see if i turned the situation around and my girl was doing that with some one on the internet i would be really mad and if was with someone i knew i would concider it cheating and probably break up with her over the stupid thing. It puts the thought in your head like am i not interesting enough, does she not like me anymore, does she not find me attractive, why wouldn't she do it with me, just a bunch of stuff that really mind fuks you and i would have to agree that it's cheating all the way if you get caught or not

Posted by: Dr. Pain

Quote:

Originally posted by ALBOB

Did I just get slammed?

Sorry ALBOB, please don't feel violated, it was just in jest! No HARD feelings? That's right, blame MMAFITER, he started it!

Posted by: w8lifter

Posted by: esmerelda

Trust W8 to be lurking in the background!!!! Lmao at your little faces!!!

As for this topic....it amazes me that some on this site see it as a black and white subject.....its not!!!! This is a personal opinion and I stand by it....cyber sex is only a written form of pornography....you take out of it what you put into it...if you feel so threatened by it...then dont do it...if you however have a broad enough mind to see it for what it is...then so be it!!!! Its all a matter of personal taste...no one is right or wrong!!!

If your relationship is one where you feel the need to hide the fact that you do it...then your relationship needs some work!!! My hubby often stands behind me and laughs his head off at some of the things I type...even suggests some comments!!!! Ours has never been threatened by what I type or read....again its down to the personal side of things.......

It makes me sad to think that there is soooo many one-eyed comments based on misconceptions!!!!

Posted by: Eggs

Well, now that you mention it... scoping out porn is cheating.

Not always though... cheating is basically defined as "acting dishonestly" or "to mislead."

So being defined as above, it would be cheating on your mate if you have a little porn fetish and are always checking it out behind her back (and without her knowledge :P ) because something about your relationship isnt fulfilling enough to satisfy you.

On the other hand, its not cheating if you spouse knows about it and either condones or atleast accepts you making use of porn.

Either way, if when the wife leaves the house you turn the lights off and spank flick on... on a regular basis... I think that you've got a problem.

But if you're the type of couple that likes to get geared up for action by watching a porn for a bit, then its certainly not cheating because your spouse obviously knows about and likes it.

This perception of cheating has nothing to do with religion, but with a simple widely accepted definition.

Eggs

Posted by: Eggs

btw, Esmerelda... I'm not knocking anybody whose actions I would consider cheating.

Just saying that if you are, dont try to pussy foot around it and grow some balls and call it what it is (or not for you ladies).

Oh, and if your spouse knows about it... then your not hiding it from him, and certainly not cheating.

Eggs

Disclaimer: This is just my opinion guys... if you dont agree with it, post or just roll your eyes

And by all means, spank away.

Posted by: w8lifter

This is getting a bit much...porn is cheating now?

Posted by: Eggs

If its something you are purposefully hiding then yeah, I believe it is.

Cheating has nothing to do with porn or sex. It has to do with misleading or being untruthful to somebody else.

In that way, if porn is something that would freak your squeeze out, and you didnt tell them about it, hid your mags so they wouldnt find them, etc... its cheating.

Like I said before though, who really gives a shit? I've cheated, I'm not proud of it... but who really cares.

Do labels mean so much to you guys?

Eggs

Posted by: ALBOB

Quote:

Originally posted by Dr. Pain Sorry ALBOB, please don't feel violated, it was just in jest! No HARD feelings? That's right, blame MMAFITER, he started it! DP

Violated? Me? Only if you pay me first.

((And after seeing your pic, I don't think you can afford me.

)

Just in jest? Goes without saying.

Hard feelings? NEVER!!! (We're talking emotions here Irontime, something you have no clue about so don't try to butt in.

)

Blame mmafiter? Oh hell yes!!!

Posted by: Tank316

ok, so you put peanut butter on your balls and have your dog lick it off, its not cheating cause its your dog......quote Kyle from the movie Road Trip.

Posted by: ALBOB

HEY...........LEAVE MY DAUGHTER OUT OF THIS!!!!

I knew you were a sick bastard but I had no idea you were THAT bad.

(Did I mention my dog's really cute?

)

Posted by: esmerelda

And isnt she allergic to peanuts?????

Posted by: ALBOB

PEAnuts or........................nevermind.

Posted by: esmerelda

Lol.....but does she like salted or unsalted ones???

Posted by: Prince

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime
True, but you are still getting aroused by another human who is not your wife, so it that's the case wouldn't porn be considered cheating too?

No.

With that logic you could say that looking at an attractive female in the grocery store is cheating because you got aroused.

Cheating requires two real people engaged in a relationship, it can be mental or physical.

Posted by: Tank316

hey, just repeating a quote.but put some creamy peanut butter on esy and watch out...

Posted by: esmerelda

Hmmmmmmmmm...you know its the second best thing to keep your skin soft and silky!!!!! Thats what you ment...wasnt it Tank............

Posted by: Tank316

Quote:

Originally posted by esmerelda
Hmmmmmmmmm...you know its the second best thing to keep your skin soft and silky!!!!! Thats what you ment...wasnt it Tank............

yes, thats what i meant.

Posted by: sharkfin2001

no. people watching porno's aren't cheating are they? Your sharing a fantasy with someone in a inpersonal way. If you make it personal, then it's cheating.

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

Quote:

Originally posted by irontime
True, but you are still getting aroused by another human who is not your wife, so it that's the case wouldn't porn be considered cheating too?

It is a touchy subject, i guess then any thought of anything which gets you arroused would eb cheating? in that case, everyone cheats.

With cyber, you are 'interacting' directly with a person of the opposie sex, or in todays age, the same sex for some, same as phone sex, you are both particpating with a 'live' person, as opposed to interacting with yourself and a pre-recorded image.

If your relationship is good enough you shouldn't need either,and if you do, perhaps it is time to sit down and have a talk to spice up that sex life!

Now, if found out if your wife or g/f was cybering, how would you feel?

thas all from me, u know, i am only 22, so what do i know...

Posted by: DomH

Not a chance

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

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Originally posted by DomH
Not a chance

not a chance it is, or isn't?

if it isn't, then go down the street, grab any woman, and start talking dirty, whip it out, and start jacking, then ask your wife...

am i cheating?

So cause computers are in the way, it is not cheating? haha

Posted by: tiger

This is a tough question???
Any sexual behaviour engaged in secretively with a person other than your partner is cheating ,especially if it would make them feel betrayed if discovered.
So if you ask yourself the question ...would my partner feel betrayed?? If it is yes...then thats cheating.
If you can't answer the question...ask them! If you don't want to ask them then thats an answer in itself.
I would like to know what was there before the net?
Tiger

Posted by: mmafiter

Quote:

Originally posted by tiger

I would like to know what was there before the net?
Tiger

Snail mail and the telegram.........it was so frustrating cause it would take months to get to the dirty parts.

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

Quote:

Originally posted by mmafiter

Snail mail and the telegram.........it was so frustrating cause it would take months to get to the dirty parts.

ROTFLMAO!!!!!!!

Posted by: h_townraider

Depends on your significant other. If you would be upset if he or she was "getting off" by means other than yourself, then it is cheating. If you don't care, then go for it. Just watch out for the mouse cord!!!

Posted by: mmafiter

Thought I'd reveve this topic for something to do.

Here's an great insight into my feelings on cyber-cheating, let's turn the tables a little:

1) say your husband is fantasizing about a particular woman at work. He never approaches her and only keeps the fantasy in his head and never acts on it or let the woman know of his fantasy about her. Maybe he masturbates by himself while thinking about her, but still does nothing with her or even let her know about it. Perhaps she may even fantasize about him, but again never says anything or does anything about it.

2) now consider your husband starts talking to that same woman about his fantasies about her and then she about him, perhaps they even have a mutual private masturbation session or two, but do not touch each other.

Which do you think is more threatening to the spouse? Which do you think has a significantly higher risk of turning into something else? I say it is number 2.

Why is that? I say it is because they are touching each others minds in a mutual and cooperative way that silent fantasy does not permit.

Yes, cybersex is cheating and is very threatening to the spouse of the cheater.

Posted by: davidjasondean

It's a very debatable subject. I'd have to say, "no" until there is a physical encounter with that person. However, if it starts overridding your personal life with your spouse leading to conflict, it's not the greatest thing in the world!

Posted by: mmafiter

Also to those that don't think it's cheating, do you hide it from your spouse/girlfriend? If so, why? If you don't think you're doing something wrong, why the secrecy?

Posted by: Mudge

Everyone can have thier own opinion, for me it would be, but cyber has NEVER INTERESTED ME, I want the real thing, not "oh baby, rub me rub me", yawn!

I don't read love novels for the same reason(s).

I think though if its going to be ok then it better be agreed upon by the two parties.

I grew up in the old fashioned kind of household though were my dad wanted one woman and yada yada, and who I'm with now is willing to be interested and do things with me no matter what it is hobby wise, and we think in such similar ways that soulmate is a word that does come to mind, although those slight differnces arise once in awhile that make for fun debates, definately nice to have those once in awhile. Basically I'm happy with one woman and do not believe that I could ever think about someone to that extent (cyber or actual cheating, etc) without feeling so bad that I just couldn't do it, so in other words it would never happen.

So anywho, thats my opinion. If I talked like some folks talk on the board here, and she knew about it, there would be problems! This is with her being much more a sex maniac than myself, she can go ALL DAY LONG and I can't, 4 times a day is plenty enough for me, 7 at the most, and thats not an every day thing. So somehow self control is still there, yada yada.

Yes, I do have fantasies, we both watch porn, I think those things at least for us keep it fresh and interesting enough.

Posted by: Mudge

Quote:

Originally posted by Prince

No.

With that logic you could say that looking at an attractive female in the grocery store is cheating because you got aroused.

Cheating requires two real people engaged in a relationship, it can be mental or physical.

There was a woman, and a time in my life where I was completely absorbed by her, I didn't look or think about any other female, took me months to realize and was intrigued by it, but its the truth. After that relationship fell apart though, dealing with depression for about 11 months, I became a pig pretty much like every other guy, I grew eyeballs you could say.

Posted by: mmafiter

Quote:

Originally posted by davidjasondean
It's a very debatable subject. I'd have to say, "no" until there is a physical encounter with that person. However, if it starts overridding your personal life with your spouse leading to conflict, it's not the greatest thing in the world!

So, as long as there'e no touching it's ok? How about if your girlfriend and I sat across from each other on the couch and masterbated while talking dirty to each other and expressing our undying love for each other? Still ok with that? There's no touching.

To me, cybersex is the same as the above scenario. And it gets even worse when the two people start giving out personal information, such as home phone numbers, addresses, etc. What do you need that info for? Are you gonna call each other? Meet? If you meet, what are you meeting for? Usually people will say "I just want to talk face to face." I doubt it. You've been talking to this guy for months, and masterbating like a champ. And you expect me to believe you are going through with the expense/time of meeting in person just to talk? Yeah right.

I wouldn't mind cybersex so much if it was just that. Like porn. But it invariably becomes more. The two start saying they "love" each other. The guy starts writing shitty loser poetry, professing how she is his soul mate, she tells him all her problems, He says he wished he wasn't married and wasn't an old man, etc.

Both people are putting on thier best "face" when they are online, and more and more the real relationships seem inadequate. How the fuck can you compete with a person who sits on thier ass all day thinking up bullshit to make themselves seem interesting? The answer is you can't

The only solace you can takke is if your real relationship is destroyed by cybersex cheating, the two people that destroyed so much are so fucked up in the head, thier relationship is bound to screw up eventually. In which case your spouse comes looking for you again because they see what they threw away, and you get to give them the big "FUCK YOU! Have a nice life."

Posted by: mmafiter

I guess I went off on a little rant there. Sorry to all who witnessed the ugly side of lack of sleep.

Posted by: davidjasondean

Quote:

Originally posted by mmafiter

So, as long as there'e no touching it's ok? How about if your girlfriend and I sat across from each other on the couch and masterbated while talking dirty to each other and expressing our undying love for each other? Still ok with that? There's no touching.
Well, it's not OK I guess since you put it that way. As for two people sitting across each other masterbating...... lmfao!

To me, cybersex is the same as the above scenario. And it gets even worse when the two people start giving out personal information, such as home phone numbers, addresses, etc. What do you need that info for? Are you gonna call each other? Meet? If you meet, what are you meeting for? Usually people will say "I just want to talk face to face." I doubt it. You've been talking to this guy for months, and masterbating like a champ. And you expect me to believe you are going through with the expense/time of meeting in person just to talk? Yeah right.

You never know though... talk is cheap and 50% one of them is going to chicken out and that IS a good thing!

The two start saying they "love" each other. The guy starts writing shitty loser poetry, professing how she is his soul mate, she tells him all her problems, He says he wished he wasn't married and wasn't an old man, etc.

Both people are putting on thier best "face" when they are online, and more and more the real relationships seem inadequate. How the fuck can you compete with a person who sits on thier ass all day thinking up bullshit to make themselves seem interesting? The answer is you can't

It's funny you mention that because anyone can cyber (even the nastiest-dirtiest-filthiest Mutha Fuka in the world!) and to know that he screwed with your wife or GF's mind is a clear insult to the other! I try to stay far away from it and/or just NOT believe 98% of what he/she is saying!

The only solace you can takke is if your real relationship is destroyed by cybersex cheating, the two people that destroyed so much are so fucked up in the head, thier relationship is bound to screw up eventually. In which case your spouse comes looking for you again because they see what they threw away, and you get to give them the big "FUCK YOU! Have a nice life."

AGREED!

Posted by: davidjasondean

Quote:

Originally posted by mmafiter
I guess I went off on a little rant there. Sorry to all who witnessed the ugly side of lack of sleep.

shocking!?!? I was waiting for the punch lines in there and I see there wasn't really any.

Posted by: kuso

Quote:

Originally posted by mmafiter
I guess I went off on a little rant there. Sorry to all who witnessed the ugly side of lack of sleep.

ROTFLMAO!!!

Posted by: Badger

Quote:

Originally posted by w8lifter
This is getting a bit much...porn is cheating now?

Please tell me that this is not true. I'll surely be single if it is. Damn the bad luck

Posted by: Mudge

Shitty loser poetry?

Posted by: mmafiter

Quote:

Originally posted by Mudge
Shitty loser poetry?

Hey what can I say?

Posted by: bigss75

Cyber sex isnt cheating untill physical contact is made. I think of it in the same caterogy as porn, or masterbating. Your girlfriend/wife/etc. does what to see it or know it is happening.

Posted by: davidjasondean

Quote:

Originally posted by bigss75
Cyber sex isnt cheating untill physical contact is made. I think of it in the same caterogy as porn, or masterbating. Your girlfriend/wife/etc. does what to see it or know it is happening.

Uh Oh Bigss! MMAFITER is gonna rip you apart! I said the same thing and he ended up writing a "NOVEL" Anyone have a titled for his book below?? KUSO? Dero?

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Originally posted by davidjasondean
It's a very debatable subject. I'd have to say, "no" until there is a physical encounter with that person. However, if it starts overridding your personal life with your spouse leading to conflict, it's not the greatest thing in the world!
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So, as long as there'e no touching it's ok? How about if your girlfriend and I sat across from each other on the couch and masterbated while talking dirty to each other and expressing our undying love for each other? Still ok with that? There's no touching.

To me, cybersex is the same as the above scenario. And it gets even worse when the two people start giving out personal information, such as home phone numbers, addresses, etc. What do you need that info for? Are you gonna call each other? Meet? If you meet, what are you meeting for? Usually people will say "I just want to talk face to face." I doubt it. You've been talking to this guy for months, and masterbating like a champ. And you expect me to believe you are going through with the expense/time of meeting in person just to talk? Yeah right.

I wouldn't mind cybersex so much if it was just that. Like porn. But it invariably becomes more. The two start saying they "love" each other. The guy starts writing shitty loser poetry, professing how she is his soul mate, she tells him all her problems, He says he wished he wasn't married and wasn't an old man, etc.

Both people are putting on thier best "face" when they are online, and more and more the real relationships seem inadequate. How the fuck can you compete with a person who sits on thier ass all day thinking up bullshit to make themselves seem interesting? The answer is you can't

The only solace you can takke is if your real relationship is destroyed by cybersex cheating, the two people that destroyed so much are so fucked up in the head, thier relationship is bound to screw up eventually. In which case your spouse comes looking for you again because they see what they threw away, and you get to give them the big "FUCK YOU! Have a nice life."

Posted by: Leslie2196

i think the bottom line is you need to put yourself in your significant others/spouses shoes. How would you feel if they were communicatiing the way you are online. If you would be ok with it, then all is good, if you would be pissed, then maybe you should change the tone of your conversations.

Posted by: davidjasondean

Quote:

Originally posted by Leslie2196
i think the bottom line is you need to put yourself in your significant others/spouses shoes. How would you feel if they were communicatiing the way you are online. If you would be ok with it, then all is good, if you would be pissed, then maybe you should change the tone of your conversations.

Hence that thought, I must add that if your partner is ignoring you or uh, masterbating night in and night out etc. then it becomes VERY bothersome! I guess, once it starts stealing time from the other who truly loves you then, that's when it should stop.

Posted by: rockgazer69

here's a good rule to follow. when you are in a relationship don't do anything that it would hurt you to have your significant other do. it's called respect. not only should you respect your mate but self respect is not such a bad thing to have. i really doubt there are a lot of people out there who would want their lover sexually involved with another person in any way. now if there were a chat engine like robot cyber maybe it'd be different but come on, there is a person on the other end of cyber n if it isn't your partner it's sleazy.

Posted by: Vince2005

I think it's cheating but it's okay

Posted by: Mr.Guvernment

If it is something you can not tell your spouse you are doing - it is cheating period.

Posted by: YourallIwant

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vince2005

I think it's cheating but it's okay

yer...

Its fine, if your getting what you want instead of what you cant get out of your own relationship... Ive done it with someone who was married, mind you they were only just married.. so I guess in that sense its bad- why the hell did he marry her???!?! But I think it can be cheating, my even just thoughts is cheating, so if you do that, then talk dirty, then visualise and make some sort of contact... then why not go all the way. Its a waste if you dont.. you get nowhere but fricken more hornier.... mmmmm... like I am now...

Posted by: CRASHMAN

i agree with MMA but i dont really care she'll get 5 across the eye if she pulls that

jk!

Posted by: ChrisROCK

Quote:

Originally Posted by YourallIwant

yer...

My dreamgirl!

Posted by: drickanderson

I think the concept of 'cheating' depends entirely upon the people in the relationship. I've been married to my wife for almost 13 years, and we've defined cheating as "Anything that you'r partner can't deal with you doing" ... so in a nutshell, if you're wife would freak out about it, then it's most likely cheating.

There are couples who actually have sex with other people, and if they're all OK with it, then I don't see anything wrong with it, but if you're wife has a problem with you looking at porn, then that's cheating.

To wrap it up, I think that anything you would have to hide from your spouse, would be considered cheating .. but then again .. that's just me ..

Posted by: ChrisROCK

i agree completely. If you can't share it with your spouse or sig. other...then there is clearly something wrong with what you're doing. Simple as that really!

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