Originally Posted by thefutureisnow

Right now I don't have show much of a problem with dishonest people, just not loyal friends. Which I guess could be considered dishonesty in a way.

Originally Posted by Trouble

You'd better explain the circumstances of this particular situation, if you want constructive feedback.

We need to talk about reading bodylanguage as a clue to intentions.

Originally Posted by Trouble

So you're dissapointed because you misread the signals and you got snubbed when you acted on an incorrect intepretation of the situation?

Or were you deliberately misled?

Originally Posted by sword-

Deliberately misled. I made it clear that the person had no obligations to me but I am interested in you at the moment. If you are not into me, that's fine. Simple concept.

Originally Posted by Trouble

So you got taken for a ride, briefly, ditched, and now you're licking your wounded pride.

You misread the person, which can happen to anybody.

Chalk it up to experience. Try to figure out which character traits attracted you to this person. Maybe do a little reconnoiter of your own behavior. Could it be you send out conflicting signals as well?

Originally Posted by sword-

Haha ForemanRules.

Anyways trouble, no I was deliberately misled, Usually she is the one that is trying to talk to me, not the other way around. I stay preety honest so it's no skin off my nose really, I just don't like being decieved.

Good thing all I gave her was attention.

Originally Posted by sword-

Haha..half of those are garbage.

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

That opinion is why women walk all over you son

Originally Posted by Trouble

Sword, just because a woman talks to you, doens't mean she'ws interested in a relationship with you.

Originally Posted by sword-

Okay here's an example:



That is complete garbage if you really want to talk seduction theory and whatnot. Seriously, do you think most people who go to the club go alone?

Originally Posted by Trouble

Agreed, Sword, half the recommendations are worthless.

My reading comprehension isn't the problem, Foreman. Whether you call it "misreading the person" or situational misread, or misunderstanding their intent, it boils to the same thing...a misread.

Sword, just because a woman talks to you, doens't mean she'ws interested in a relationship with you.

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

Deliberately misled and misreading are two completly different things.

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

You need to read this


Leykis 101 ( a must read)
NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!


Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.


Don't ask a women what she wants to do.


Never tell a women how much money you make.


Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.


Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.


Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.


NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.

If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.


No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!


Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.


NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.


Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't date them. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

You need to read this


Leykis 101 ( a must read)
NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!


Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.


Don't ask a women what she wants to do.


Never tell a women how much money you make.


Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.


Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.


Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.


NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.

If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.


No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!


Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.


NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.


Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't date them. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.

Originally Posted by david

Dishonesty (or, not revealing income) and selfishness. Well, with those two characteristics, I guess you could rule out any quality or a woman with substance.

Originally Posted by VanessaNicole

I wouldn't take that kind of crap from any guy.

VanessaNicole

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

Yes you would and yes you have

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

You need to read this


Leykis 101 ( a must read)
NEVER, EVER date a single mother. You already know her stance on abortion, she wont have one. Don't risk paying vaginamoney! PLUS, her kids will always come before you! Why would you want to be second place to some spoiled little brat!?!


Never do what you don't want to do. You make the money, you decide where you are going and what you are doing.


Don't ask a women what she wants to do.


Never tell a women how much money you make.


Don't EVER date co-workers! Unless you don't give a rats ass about your job, stay away from people you work with! It's always asking for trouble.


Never answer the phone, or go out on the weekend. Even if you really don't, you have to make it appear as though you have better things to do than be with her on the weekends.


Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. This includes buying gifts, flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. It does NOT help in getting laid. It's a waste of money. If anything, buy alcohol and get her drunk.


NEVER approach a woman in a club who has her girlfriends with her. There is NO point, you will NOT get laid when women are in groups.

If you are not getting laid by the 3rd date, dump her and move on.


No spooning, no cuddling, no staying over. Get in, get out!


Never be in a committed relationship UNTIL you are really ready to settle down.


NEVER answer the phone on the weekends. It makes you look like you have nothing better to do. Weekends should be reserved for hanging out with your buddies or for guaranteed sex. Even if you really have nothing to do, let the answering machine take the call. You're busy.


Don't speak to women you work with unless it's related directly to work. Don't date them. Don't tell them they look nice. Don't comment on anything except whatever work needs you have, because you're a walking lawsuit waiting to happen.

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

First off this is for young guys looking to have fun not find wives. Secondly where is the Dishonest part??? A persons income is personal and should not be shouted from the mountain tops son. Lastly at 16-25 who wants a "quality" woman? All guys that age want is quality sex and fun.

Originally Posted by warriorofpeace

I been there bro, and yea on the surface it seems as though its great to be heartless. But its actually a bigger rush to care about people. It also gives back alot too. Everyone likes you and trusts you, and would be there for you. I have also found that everyone deserves a chance. As built attactive bodybuilders its really easy to have whatever we want, but the game gets old real fast when your life has an upset and you need people to count on. So even though when we can take advantage of people, maybe it is better to try to do whats right. It feels good and its what sjows what true strength is. Its real easy to talk the talk and be ruthless, but to stand in the face of anger and react back with kindness shows what your made of. Especially when you could easily be an ass at any time too.

Peace