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Originally Posted by CRASHMAN
Do nothing; its up to her. You can't make her love you. A word of advice dont be all insecure and begging and if i were you, id act like it didnt bother me or even bring it up. It'd bother her more and girls want what they cant have just blow it off and act like nothing
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Originally Posted by MAC33
Hey everyone, what am I suppose to do? My girlfriend, of like 2 years, all the sudden (after actin less-caring for the past few days and me questioning) tells me that she's not sure if she likes/loves me still. I love the girl, and she knows that. What am I suppose to do here? I'd prefer a reply from a female cause they're usually better with this stuff but a reply from anyone is appreciated.
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Originally Posted by CRASHMAN
Do nothing; its up to her. You can't make her love you. A word of advice dont be all insecure and begging and if i were you, id act like it didnt bother me or even bring it up. It'd bother her more and girls want what they cant have just blow it off and act like nothing. It makes her wonder.
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Originally Posted by ForemanRules
#1. Do not take femal advice on this question ever!!!
I would just go on with my life, do not call her and do not give her the third degree. Just forget it and spend more time with your friends and family....and much less time with her. If you cry and keep asking questions you will lose her fast.....Just do other things that do not include her, be happy and enjoy life...this will make her insecure and once she knows she doest not own you she will probably want you back. |
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Originally Posted by ForemanRules
At only 16 you should not have a girlfriend!!!, you should go out and date lost of people and have fun.....I do not know of one person still with their high school girlfriend...it will end ugly so dump her now and enjoy your youth while you can.
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Originally Posted by MAC33
This forum is honestly the only place i can go to for advice on literally everything. Thanks guys, it's kinda what i thought to begin with but its alot more reasurring hearing it from others. lol and foreman, your 2 replies have completely different attitudes to them but nevertheless they're still good advice. So thanks to you and everyone else that replied... I just won't worry about it.... it screwed up my whole work-out motivation today... can't let that happen again
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Originally Posted by NeilPearson
At 16 girls are never looking for a serious long term relationship. A lot of guys are though... they want to settle down and be all serious and find their soul mate. They think they are going to find the love of their life at 16 and eventually get married. They always hear girls complain (in the media) that guys aren't serious and don't want to settle down... so they think that is what girls at that age want... but they simply don't at that age.
Eventually, sometime later in their 20s, girls change their minds and decide they want to settle down... By then most guys are jaded by their experiences with 16-21 year old girls that they have changed their attitude. This is where the whole idea that guys don't want to settle down came from originally. They did... just a lot younger. And by the time the girls are ready, the guys have said screw it. |
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Originally Posted by ForemanRules
If you cry and keep asking questions you will lose her fast......
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| I would just go on with my life, do not call her and do not give her the third degree. Just forget it and spend more time with your friends and family....and much less time with her. If you cry and keep asking questions you will lose her fast.....Just do other things that do not include her, be happy and enjoy life...this will make her insecure and once she knows she doest not own you she will probably want you back. |
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Originally Posted by CRASHMAN
Do nothing; its up to her. You can't make her love you. A word of advice dont be all insecure and begging and if i were you, id act like it didnt bother me or even bring it up. It'd bother her more and girls want what they cant have just blow it off and act like nothing. It makes her wonder.
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Originally Posted by NeilPearson
At 16 girls are never looking for a serious long term relationship. A lot of guys are though... they want to settle down and be all serious and find their soul mate. They think they are going to find the love of their life at 16 and eventually get married. They always hear girls complain (in the media) that guys aren't serious and don't want to settle down... so they think that is what girls at that age want... but they simply don't at that age.
Eventually, sometime later in their 20s, girls change their minds and decide they want to settle down... By then most guys are jaded by their experiences with 16-21 year old girls that they have changed their attitude. This is where the whole idea that guys don't want to settle down came from originally. They did... just a lot younger. And by the time the girls are ready, the guys have said screw it. |
Thats exactly how my teenage life went.