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) I have also noticed that even with this small change, more and more women seem to be sneaking a "secong glance". Now I am by no means huge or even big for that matter. My question is, what have been your experiences with the opposite sex as you grow and get into better shape? I want to hear your stories as you morphed from a "normal smooth" person into having a stellar body and the effects it had with the ladies....hell, even other people in general! I have personally used it for my own motivation and it keeps me going on the days where I just feel like giving it all up and cant wait until the day I walk into the gym and every eye turns to ME intead of the shredded guy working out next to me. 
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Originally Posted by ponyboy
One thing that being in better shape brings you is SELF-CONFIDENCE which is what attracts women the most. Also things like better posture and your clothes fit a lot better which they also notice.
And if a girl looks twice, make eye contact and smile. |
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Originally Posted by min0 lee
Took the words right out of my mouth.
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Originally Posted by ForemanRules
I think you are imagining things
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Originally Posted by ponyboy
One thing that being in better shape brings you is SELF-CONFIDENCE which is what attracts women the most. Also things like better posture and your clothes fit a lot better which they also notice.
And if a girl looks twice, make eye contact and smile. |
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Originally Posted by viet_jon
listen to the man, that's experience talking. but instead of looking and smiling, pretend you don't notice them. That will make them nuts for you. |
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Originally Posted by fUnc17
you usually come off as arrogant when you do something like that. just make eye contact + smile a little bit and hold it longer than she does, whats the big deal?
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Originally Posted by ponyboy
See, in my experience, women don't chase. Maybe it's because I'm older, but at this point in my life, women appreciate confidence a lot more. That's the confidence to be able to walk up to someone you think is attractive and say hi and introduce yourself.
However, I do find with young hot things they are used to getting nothing but attention, in which case the ignoring thing or even a smirk and laugh works in getting their attention. One of my favourites is to catch a girl looking at me, smirk, look away and shake my head like I can't believe they were looking at me. Then inevitably you get them curious enough to try to get closer and you can open them. |
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Originally Posted by fUnc17
correct, women don't chase. it is a mans job to pick what he likes, women just stare, admire, and talk about you with their friends. eye contact is more of an invitation to show you they are interested and that they want you to go over and talk to them.
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Originally Posted by Jodi
Do you guys actually believe you know what women are really thinking?
All seriousness, Ponyboy and fUnc17 are by far the closest. That thread by a little boy named Godhand is truly pathetic. |
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Originally Posted by viet_jon
I do.
That thread by Godhand is bad. But the three points I pointed out are true. Everything ponyboy and func said are true, except I don't agree with how women don't chase. |
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Originally Posted by Jodi
No, those points are not true. Not in the slightest and after seeing your posts, I can honestly say you do not know what women are thinking.
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Originally Posted by min0 lee
Took the words right out of my mouth.
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Originally Posted by BigDyl
I got something to put in that mouth.
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Originally Posted by Jodi
No, those points are not true. Not in the slightest and after seeing your posts, I can honestly say you do not know what women are thinking.
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Originally Posted by Double D
No honesty the things that women care about are
1.honesty 2.sincerity 3.simply listening 4.able to carry on a good conversation 5.and I suppose being good looking is a plus also. 6.I about forgot, probably the most important, confidence, not cocky, confident. You got all of those you are good to go. |
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Originally Posted by Double D
No honesty the things that women care about are
1.honesty 2.sincerity 3.simply listening 4.able to carry on a good conversation 5.and I suppose being good looking is a plus also. 6.I about forgot, probably the most important, confidence, not cocky, confident. You got all of those you are good to go. |
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