Side note:
As soon as I stopped obsessing over every single calorie I started losing weight. I tried using "the book" and counting every single thing I ate, and it took far too much of my time.
My keys:
- Portion control. Don't eat until you're full, eat the meal you've planned out.
- Eat your six meals/day, and eat them 2.5-3 hours apart. No meals should be "make up meals" for when you've skipped one by mistake
- No bread, even whole grain. Too much yeast can wreak havoc on your digestive system, and could get in the way of nutrient absorption. I'm getting along fine with brown rice, steel cut oats and sweet potatoes.
- As many fresh fruit and veggies as you can. I've learned those calories don't really count, as you're subsituting it for less healthy choices. I eat several pounds of fruit/veggies per day and I'm still losing
- Water. Up your intake to as much as you can stand. Everyone talks about "water poisoning" like it's common, but it's tough to do. Just drink as much as you can.
- No processed drinks. Sure, Gatorade/Powerade is great for hardcore endurance athletes, but you don't really need it. Drink some more water. Diet sodas are NOT an okay subsititute. Take a caffeine pill or FOOSH energy mints.
- When you get tired of brown rice, try a lil' hot sauce.

Spices don't have calories that count.
Just a few tips from my vault of "what works for me". It may not work for you, or anyone that wants to flame me for not counting every calorie, but it does for some and I suggest everyone try it.