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Posted by: AKIRA

Ok, here goes...

A few years ago this black girl worked at my...work and I gotta tell ya, juices would rush to my balls when I thought about fucking her. Even right now.

In any case, this has happened before with other women, but they are few and far between, however, I still find many other women attractive.

Ever found a woman beautiful, but didnt care to fuck her? Now thats an odd feeling...

Anyway, Ive dated a couple of these girls that I couldnt wait to fuck every day! Id say I was the happiest with them, but the need to fuck them drove me mad. However, if I dont have that thirst with someone, I wonder...whats the point keeping them around? Wheres the value?

Posted by: Yanick

I know exactly what you mean. Typically when that happens i think its because i genuinely like the girl for who she is vs. i just want to bang her out.

There's a girl like that right now in my class that i'm chummy with. She's not the hottest girl around, cute face but a little chubby in the midsection. Nevertheless, there is just 'something' about her that attracts me to her, and not in a 'i need to stick my dick in her' type of way.

Posted by: Brachiisaurus

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

Ok, here goes...

A few years ago this black girl worked at my...work and I gotta tell ya, juices would rush to my balls when I thought about fucking her. Even right now.

I know exactly what you mean.
I'm not sure, maybe it's a chemical thing?

Like last semester there was this fucking hot ass girl, maybe a 9.5/10.
I knew she was beautiful (so did the other guys aparently), but I simply was not attracted to her. I never really thought about banging her.

Yet a few weeks ago, I met this chick at my friend's place.
She's probably about an 8 or so. I instantly wanted to fuck the shit out of her. I mean I was thinking about her for over a week.

Posted by: AKIRA

I kind of like the animalistic urge, but they really are rare. Most of the time, when it strikes, its from a girl that has a curvy, hour glass body with huge tits. Posture and the way a girl walks can do it too.

Posted by: Plateau_Max

There could be primortial reasons behind it when you think about it. We see wide hips and large breasts and perfect for child bearing, we also see a fit girl as more healthy and better apt for survival... etc

I think we see beauty from symmetry and flawlessness and this could occur in girls that don't have the traits that necessarily trigger our animal desire to pump her full of our seed. See what I mean? The beauty of symmetry and flawlessness may be on a girl with more narrow hips, or who's not as fit, or with smaller breasts... etc.

That's how I see it. I'm a victim just like you guys.

Posted by: Nate K

I like how there is no mention of hot blondes. Not being sarcastic.

Posted by: Gazhole

Lol, this thread is so true.

A girl can have all the qualities you would look for to have a relationship with her, but not have that certain something that makes you think "GOD I WANT TO FUCK YOU TILL MY DICK FALLS OFF" three seconds after you meet them.

It can happen the other way round obviously. I think everybody has met a girl that they could happily fuck the shit out of for a night and a day, but probably wouldnt be able to hold a conversation with without punching her in the fucking mouth.

Somewhere out there is a girl with both qualities, and when you find her itll probably be a photograph of your mother when she was your age.

Posted by: iMan323

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

I kind of like the animalistic urge, but they really are rare. Most of the time, when it strikes, its from a girl that has a curvy, hour glass body with huge tits. Posture and the way a girl walks can do it too.

^^AMEN!!! Nothing turns me on like some fat on a girl. Oh, that juicy neck mmmmmmmmmm

Posted by: fUnc17

Its the eyes, its ALWAYS the eyes.

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by fUnc17

Its the eyes, its ALWAYS the eyes.

You dont fuck her eyes. A fat girl can have great eyes....yet my animalistic urge wont even be purring.

Posted by: fUnc17

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

You dont fuck her eyes. A fat girl can have great eyes....yet my animalistic urge wont even be purring.

"She just eye fucked the shit out of me" - Vince vaughn

Its the intention behind the eyes thats hot.

Posted by: shiznit2169

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

You dont fuck her eyes. A fat girl can have great eyes....yet my animalistic urge wont even be purring.

I think you're missing the point ...

In general, the difference between a hot girl and a cute girl is that it's always the cute girls who have amazing eyes. And i'm not talking about just any cute girl (meaning they are fat or ugly), but the ones who still have a decent body that could pass off as a 7 or an 8. In my opinion, the hot girls i meet are the ones i just want to bang but there is no communication between us ... meaning they're just dumb most of the time. The cute girls usually have great eyes and a smile as well as intelligence that really sends chills down my spine and i usually develop a deeper attraction to them.

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by iMan323

^^AMEN!!! Nothing turns me on like some fat on a girl. Oh, that juicy neck mmmmmmmmmm

Yeah thats what "curvy" means. It means lard. Maybe for you, but to me, it means some meat on the bones. Salma Hayek and Jenna Jameson (in her day) is what I mean. Go on my Myspace and look at the pic of her.....thats curvy.

However, sometimes this urge can be surpressed.. My first girlfriend, for example, could turn me into a barbarian with a blue steel hard on when she wore certain bathing suits, but most of the time, she was just fuckable.

On the other hand, this one girl who I was friends with had such perfect fucking tits, that I just had to fuck her. Then it didnt end. This girl responded to every move and every stroke. This girl was made for sex. The kind of girl that would wrap her legs around me that wouldnt interfere with the sex, make the right moans, use the right amount of nail usage. Shes the only one Ive ever fucked like a champ with only cuz of how great she was in bed. And the memory of that makes me sexually attracted to her more than all my exs.

This also brings up another question...the last girl i described, I really banged out. I mean, this, THIS is the type of girl you fuck and then brag about later..only not cuz of how great she was, but how great YOU were. I seriously can fuck a girl and beleive that I am half way decent. However, this girl...and any other girl that Ive been so sexually attracted to, would make me want to do acrobats in bed.

Sadly though, the girls I mostly get, hot or not, get the usual pumps, 2-3 positions and some elmer's glue. I never feel like fucking harder than I would with a sexually attractive girl.

Posted by: DontStop

fucking hard is the only way too fuck. i hate sensual with a burning passion

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by fUnc17

"She just eye fucked the shit out of me" - Vince vaughn

Its the intention behind the eyes thats hot.

No, i understand. I am a sucker for "cat eyes," but it only goes so far.

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Originally Posted by shiznit2169

I think you're missing the point ...

Not for me. Cuteness buys relationship. Beauty earns the title. "Hotness, Fine," or whatever word to describe the sexual thirst, wouldnt be found in a "cute" girl. It just doesnt fit.

What I am describing in this thread is different from cute AND beautiful. I am talking about something you may go to jail for, its that desired.

Posted by: DontStop

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

Not for me. Cuteness buys relationship. Beauty earns the title. "Hotness, Fine," or whatever word to describe the sexual thirst, wouldnt be found in a "cute" girl. It just doesnt fit.

What I am describing in this thread is different from cute AND beautiful. I am talking about something you may go to jail for, its that desired.

reminds me of me and 19inchpump

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by DontStop

fucking hard is the only way too fuck. i hate sensual with a burning passion

After having it, Id agree, but not everyone wants to be thrown against a wall.

AND...I wont feel like throwing just anybody against a wall.

To tell you the truth, I, 95% off the time, do not find any girls out n about sexually attractive. Id fuck them..and then I actually do, but my desire isnt as large as it is other the rare 5%.

Theres this one girl at chilis thats got it. My balls would be the size of BigDyls after I was done with her. BUT! She destroyed that image when I discovered she fucked a friend of mine...then blew him off for a FAT BLACK GUY. FAT=300lbs 5'9. However...even still....Id still fuck her. Yeah, THATS what I am talking about!

Posted by: DontStop

sensual is just too boring. i like the agressive thrown against the wall things. i hate guys who are just like "oo lets cuddle"
I'd rather fuck and then roll over and sleep.
There are ofcourse people i have a desire for and would fuck them if i had the oppurtunity. but for me there is not "hot or cute"
a cute guy would be a gay one
A guy for me is either hot or he isnt.

Posted by: AKIRA

There in lies the difference between a man and a woman. A man can fuck almost anything if he is willing to. Really. I dont know how I went 'hog hunting' one night, but I know I got it up and I sprayed it out, so something worked that night.

However, the type of hot girl that I want to fuck, I may or may not cuddle with, but if I have the entire night, I WILL fuck her more than twice. A perfect "fucking night" would be fuck, sleep, then repeat until dawn. Along with that "perfect" night, no one, at anytime, got bad breath from all the sleeping and sweating. Now thats a good fucking night.

Posted by: Plateau_Max

Has to be rough, that's why I love a fit girl who can keep up with me. I want to slam her against the wall, throw her on the bed... grab her and force her into any position I want... I just gotta.

Posted by: DontStop

I've only had the pleasure of an all nighter once when i still lived in Lethbridge.
We fucked. Rested, then he like woke me up and did it again and again...

oh my god it was a delight.

I've had all nighters of messing around but they are not the same

Posted by: iMan323

Jenna Jameson is not fucking curvy! Without those plastic titties she'd be flat. I'd show u what I mean by curvy, but I'm at work

Posted by: DontStop

I'm curvy
but that could also be called fat.

Posted by: iMan323

^^u r fishing for compliments, that's what u r

Posted by: DontStop

no I'm not actually.
I had a girl call me fat once because I have big hips.
I was like "yah i naturally have big hips"
and shes like
"or your just fat"

Posted by: Prince

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Originally Posted by DontStop

fucking hard is the only way too fuck. i hate sensual with a burning passion

based on all of your comments I think you should consider a career in porn.

Posted by: DontStop

It's funny you bring that up Prince
Haha I doubt I'd ever do porn, but the other day I was actually approached by someone doing a show for penthouse thats supposed to air next year.
It's called the boy next door about an up and coming producer and i got offered $500 per scene
Like I said, I'd never do it but still.

Posted by: iMan323

I think you should.

Posted by: iMan323

Come on think about it, built guys, big dicks, huge facials, no cuddling...

Posted by: DontStop

No no
I like sex alot, and I like to talk about it (with you guys)
But i dont think i'd put myself infront of a camera and have sex so creepy old men can sit at home on their staind couches and wank to it.
I just turned 18 too. What if my parents founf out? they have high expectations for me and I've set high expectations for myself. Porn just seems like something a scummy girl would do.
I'm like a little sex fiend behind the scene. No one i know personally knows it...and if i did porn i wouldnt be as mysterious

Posted by: Prince

from what I understand (if you're good) you can say who you will and won't "partner up" with in a porn flick.

Posted by: DontStop

I'd only want to partner with my BF, and we havent even had sex yet.
plus he'd be way too shy.

Posted by: juggernaut

I cant understand what kind of psyche goes making the decision to do porn. I just dont get. I dont mind it (hell no) I just dont get it.

Posted by: Prince

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Originally Posted by juggernaut

I cant understand what kind of psyche goes making the decision to do porn. I just dont get. I dont mind it (hell no) I just dont get it.

nympho and/or a lot of easy money to be made.

Posted by: DontStop

i just read this on a site lololol

Plenty of women see the penis as intimidating, or even scary. Sexual slang for penetration, such as ‘screw’, ‘poke’ and ‘nail’ sound aggressive and intrusive, and much is made of the pain and blood of first-time sex, so it’s not hard to see why some women grow up with a negative idea of the penis.

It is in fact a soft, fragile and sensitive organ. In a recent European study, the majority of women questioned compared it to “a cute little animal which likes cuddles”!

Posted by: Gazhole

This is my new favourite thread.

Posted by: Malley

I fuckin love your threads! They are killer!!!

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by iMan323

Jenna Jameson is not fucking curvy! Without those plastic titties she'd be flat. I'd show u what I mean by curvy, but I'm at work

Not curvy? I did say "in her day," did you not read it?

Posted by: goob

By the time you are 8-12 years old, you have formed a sort of template of who you are attracted to in your subconcious. This relates to what features are most important to you, and a combination of differing variables of importance make up your template structure. This is what REAL sexual attraction is. This is why 6-8's can be so much hotter than 8-10's.

This is not just defined to asthetic features, but also to personality traits and to an extent even movement. Ever felt hot about the way that elegant girl carries herself?

Posted by: AKIRA

I actually do agree. Some people that I would find as a 10, others would not.

Posted by: AKIRA

Hows this not curvy?

Holy christ..

Posted by: goob

Common phrases:

"Why do I always go for the same type of girl?"

For the girls..
"Why do I always end up with losers?"

Easy:- Attraction template. But it's not infalable. You're template is only formed through early experience, but it dose'nt mean good experience resulting in a good template.....

Posted by: goob

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

Hows this not curvy?

Holy christ..

Hell fucking yes......

Posted by: AKIRA

These are curves...

Posted by: Blooming Lotus

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Originally Posted by DontStop

fucking hard is the only way too fuck. i hate sensual with a burning passion

You caan have both you know.. In fact , if that thirst thing is reeally there.. it can be pretty deliciously yum tooo fuck hard and do walls.. or the same thing but no wall.. or from just about anywhere and stiill have it be passionate beautiful sex!!.
Imo sex shOuld be like that.. thirsty and hot ..every single time .. maybe touching and actually liiking the person kind of contributes to that..particularly if it's mutually lighthearted and playful ly thirsty.
It's how to hold onto and what you'd do keep it in your life when you find it that 's the sweet bitch about it!..
Not everyone evver gets to experience it like that.. even if they think they did

.. What would yous do to put and keep that in your life ?
I want to still be fucking like that when I'm 70!.. sick but true.

Posted by: juggernaut

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Originally Posted by goob

By the time you are 8-12 years old, you have formed a sort of template of who you are attracted to in your subconcious. This relates to what features are most important to you, and a combination of differing variables of importance make up your template structure. This is what REAL sexual attraction is. This is why 6-8's can be so much hotter than 8-10's.

This is not just defined to asthetic features, but also to personality traits and to an extent even movement. Ever felt hot about the way that elegant girl carries herself?

its true. I remember being a young lad and admiring the huge cans my mom's friend Marie had. I wanted to climb those mountains and hang off like a monkey. Every girl I ever dated had to have big boobies. She also had to have a great ass...no fatties though...

Posted by: juggernaut

yes. yes they are.

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

These are curves...

Posted by: AKIRA

I brin gup the "curby" body pics cuz they are the ones that make my juices rush to my pelvis and thus, sexual attraction is created and maintained.

Paris Hilton...now theres a girl that I would fuck...but I am not sexually attracted to her. Get it now?

Posted by: Gazhole

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

These are curves...

Now theres a chick i wouldnt be able NOT to fuck the shit out of.

Jesus christ.

Who is that? Tera Patrick?

Posted by: juggernaut

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

Paris Hilton...now theres a girl that I would fuck...but I am not sexually attracted to her. Get it now?

dude I wouldnt fuck her with your dick. I fucking hate her.

Posted by: Gazhole

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Originally Posted by juggernaut

dude I wouldnt fuck her with your dick. I fucking hate her.

Id fuck her, but only because she deserves a beating for being so goddamned irritating.

Same with that other one she hangs around with, except i wouldnt fuck her. She just needs a bullet.

Posted by: goob

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Originally Posted by Gazhole

Id fuck her, but only because she deserves a beating for being so goddamned irritating.

Same with that other one she hangs around with, except i wouldnt fuck her. She just needs a bullet.

Donkey punch????

She'd probably love it....

Posted by: AKIRA

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Originally Posted by Gazhole

Now theres a chick i wouldnt be able NOT to fuck the shit out of.

Jesus christ.

Who is that? Tera Patrick?

Her name is the name on the lower right. Find some porn of her on LimeWire.

Posted by: Gazhole

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Originally Posted by goob

Donkey punch????

She'd probably love it....

I wouldnt donkey punch her. Her brain would start rattling around in her skull and itd put me off.

Posted by: Gazhole

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

Her name is the name on the lower right. Find some porn of her on LimeWire.

Thats my evening planned

Better break out the WD40...

Posted by: DiGiTaL

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No no
I like sex alot, and I like to talk about it (with you guys)
But i dont think i'd put myself infront of a camera and have sex so creepy old men can sit at home on their staind couches and wank to it.
I just turned 18 too. What if my parents founf out? they have high expectations for me and I've set high expectations for myself. Porn just seems like something a scummy girl would do.
I'm like a little sex fiend behind the scene. No one i know personally knows it...and if i did porn i wouldnt be as mysterious

sex fiend eh...hehe wait till i see you in the city

and see what you can really do..

lol jk

Posted by: Hialeahchico

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originally posted by DontStop
No no
I like sex alot, and I like to talk about it (with you guys)
But i dont think i'd put myself infront of a camera and have sex so creepy old men can sit at home on their staind couches and wank to it.
I just turned 18 too. What if my parents founf out? they have high expectations for me and I've set high expectations for myself. Porn just seems like something a scummy girl would do.
I'm like a little sex fiend behind the scene. No one i know personally knows it...and if i did porn i wouldnt be as mysterious

If you where my lil sister i would probably slap you

but since your not do your thang gurl !!!!!!!

Posted by: juggernaut

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Originally Posted by Hialeahchico

If you where my lil sister i would probably slap you

but since your not do your thang gurl !!!!!!!

eh slap her anyway-she likes it.

Posted by: Hialeahchico

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Originally Posted by juggernaut
eh slap her anyway-she likes it

its suppose to teach her to behave, she is not suppose to enjoy it......well nothing wrong with learning a lesson while havin an orgasm

Posted by: Blooming Lotus

I remember sevveral egotistical bastards who thought they might like to give me a spanking or hot ass paddling .. they didn't get far...on.. any score

. lol

Posted by: Hialeahchico

Posted by: maniclion

Pheromones...

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