Originally Posted by soxmuscle

She'll always say that our best sex is the first 3 minutes of the first session and it makes sense. It's during those three minutes that I'm not thinking about anything but her... However, in my head there's no way I'm going to nut that fast, so for the final 5-7 minutes or so I'm trying to think about anything and everything other than what I'm actually doing in an attempt to delay my ejaculation.

Originally Posted by IainDaniel

Just blow your load. God.

Originally Posted by Triple Threat

You could imagine she's your grandmother.

Originally Posted by IainDaniel

You should probably move on to another chick.

Originally Posted by soxmuscle

Eh, I really like this one.

Originally Posted by IainDaniel

Just don't tell her..... are you really this new?

Originally Posted by soxmuscle

I wouldn't be able to live like that.

Originally Posted by soxmuscle

I wouldn't be able to live like that.

It would eat me up inside and I'm not just saying that to better my reputation in hopes of knockin' boots with LittleWing one day

Originally Posted by Triple Threat

You could imagine she's your grandmother.

Originally Posted by Little Wing

I have ways of showing up just at the right time it seems.

Seriously lasting a long time isn't what she's after probably. she likes those first three minutes best because you're with her mentally and enjoying yourself. there's a saying

"A man's desire is for the woman, but the woman's desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man"


she'll be happier if you're not off somewhere in your head playing baseball. football whatever.

Originally Posted by soxmuscle

You're 2 for 2 with me today

Thanks again, you're a doll...

Originally Posted by Little Wing

just think about it it's only common sense. don't you want her to cum when she's relaxed and it will be best for her? or for her to think about weird stuff to try n make it some type of ego performance art? she wants the same from you. genuine passion.

Originally Posted by soxmuscle

I'm no 60 second chump, but if I don't masterbate on my own before having sex, I can't make it past ten minutes in the manner I want to.

Usually around 3 minutes of passionate sex, I'll start to feel as if I could bust a nut at any time..

She'll always say that our best sex is the first 3 minutes of the first session and it makes sense. It's during those three minutes that I'm not thinking about anything but her... However, in my head there's no way I'm going to nut that fast, so for the final 5-7 minutes or so I'm trying to think about anything and everything other than what I'm actually doing in an attempt to delay my ejaculation.

Other than masterbating numerous times, what other ways to help you last longer have you found to work?

Originally Posted by Little Wing

just go down on her first then she won't care if you're done in 3 minutes and you can actually enjoy yourself not wander off to i'm thinking of guys while i'm getting my groove on land.

Originally Posted by TrojanMan60563

Sox, I would go downtown before you fuck so she is done before you start. In addition I find rather then thinking about other things to avoid orgasm you can do things like switch postiions. That gives your member time to chill out. Stop for 5-10 second and play with her tits....stop and lick a thumb and rub on her clit and slowly stroke it until the beast calms down a bit. You can do things that calm you down but do not make her think you are not focused on her. Shoot stop and eat her pussy some more!

1. change positions
2. stop or slow your roll and play with her

Those are the things that have worked for me time and time again. There is no need to think about fantasy football or fucking grandma. You can be slick and fool them without them knowing, and they will actually like what you do. (assuming you know what you are doing)

Originally Posted by dg806

You gotta know how to do it. Don't go wide open.....slow down and make her enjoy it. I can make my gf go off several times before I even get ready. Then it is usually several more times during the time I am ready. I can't complain at all. Like others said, oral sex would be good. Make her cum once or twice before you even enter her.

Originally Posted by dg806

And Sox, I'm gonna beat you in Fantasy football!!

Originally Posted by maniclion

When you catch yourself losing focus just pull out and go down on her, there's nothing like mouth to clam resuscitation. If you want to stay in the moment longer then look into her eyes and try to see past your own reflection. I like to imagine our aura's are melding together during a heated love storm, sparks are flying off of us with each pounding of my hammer......

Originally Posted by MeatZatk

Originally Posted by sendit08

Finding another girl is not bad advice but not for why you would think.
It is obvious that the reason that you are coming close so quick is because you are passionate about your partner. (If it were physiological then reverting your thoughts would not help). With this being the case, if you did explore other women you would realize that you could last longer with them because you wont have the emotional connection.

BTW ... Most women are pretty ok with a ten minute session followed by a slightly longer session. I would say that the majority of women will start thinking of something else after 30 minutes.

Originally Posted by TrojanMan60563

Find a girl that is going to be ok with you sleeping with other women to help you last longer with her. If a woman buys that she will buy anything, and who wants to be with a total bobby sucker!?!

I sort of agree with the 30 minutes thing, yet not totally. If it is passionate and foreplay is involved an hour can pass in a blink of an eye. I do agree most women wouldn't care if you came in 10 minutes as long as you have little down time and go again. How long you keep a girl interested is all up to you. I've never felt like the girl I am sleeping with is not into our sex the entire time. Chances are if she is bored then I am too, and wouldn't be wasting our time.