And now for something completely different...

Burner02 · 08-28-2006, 09:22 AM

good morning!
Hope you are doing ok.

BritChick · 08-28-2006, 01:43 PM

Thanks guys, still trying sort out this mess the hardest part is know where to start - the range of emotions are vast...

... if only I could fast forward a few months I'm sure it can only get easier.

I have a lot of wonderful people around me but I feel so damn alone.

It will get better though, it has to.

**dg806** · 09-01-2006, 09:56 AM

Can I cum join ya baby?? My gf just dumped me! LOL

BritChick · 09-01-2006, 03:23 PM

LOL!

Sorry to hear that dg.

Wow, a little overwhelmed here, trying to deal with 'everything' by myself, how to split and separate all the ties that bind, where to live, how I will make extra income... the kids now know, one less thing looming, they are being absolutely wonderful, supportive 100%... they know the score and not much gets past them... not to say it's gonna be easy but at least they are in the know and the lines of communication are open.

Busy checking out townhouses right now... that's my first preference for renting... I need more clients!!!

**dg806** · 09-01-2006, 03:53 PM

I'll glady be one if you do massages!

BritChick · 09-01-2006, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by dg806

I'll glady be one if you do massages!

No I can only promise that you're pain is my pleasure... seems to be a motto my clients are attaching to me... definately no massages.

**dg806** · 09-01-2006, 06:37 PM

Crap, my neck is killin me!

**CowPimp** · 09-02-2006, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by BritChick

LOL!

Sorry to hear that dg.

Wow, a little overwhelmed here, trying to deal with 'everything' by myself, how to split and separate all the ties that bind, where to live, how I will make extra income... the kids now know, one less thing looming, they are being absolutely wonderful, supportive 100%... they know the score and not much gets past them... not to say it's gonna be easy but at least they are in the know and the lines of communication are open.

Busy checking out townhouses right now... that's my first preference for renting... I need more clients!!!

What exactly happened? It sounds like your split up with your husband?

BritChick · 09-02-2006, 08:18 PM

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Originally Posted by CowPimp

What exactly happened? It sounds like your split up with your husband?

Yes, we're separating, this only came out the weekend before last... it's a freaking nightmare and I originally posted a lot of the details but then it got really difficult so I deleted my posts... okay, so I'm a little sketchy right now! lol

It's tough because I still really care for him and I know he loves me but there are health issues and communication issues that can't be worked around. I kinda need the moral support but too much 'advice' can be a little overwhelming ya know?!

Just trying to figure everything out.

Plus I am walking away with nothing but my two kids (who of course are priceless) but I have to figure out now how to be a single mum and how to make more money because right now I'm only pulling in $2000 a month (summer slackers) and that simply won't cut it!

There's sooooo freaking much to do and a lot right now is riding on whether Rod can assume the mortgage on his own... if not I will have to force him to sell the house and that's where things I dare say will get ugly.

All I want is a clean break, to keep things amicable and to move on with my life in a forward direction.

Come hell or high water we will be fine, but fuck... this is a shitty place to be.

Rod is out of town right now so that makes life a little easier and the tension a little less.

Hey, it could always be worse right.

**CowPimp** · 09-02-2006, 08:21 PM

Sorry to hear about that. Sometimes no matter how much you love someone, or how good you are with someone at various times, logistically it can't workout too well. I hope you either work things out or make the break as clean as possible. You're resourceful; I'm sure you'll figure it out and do what you must.

BritChick · 09-02-2006, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by CowPimp

Sorry to hear about that. Sometimes no matter how much you love someone, or how good you are with someone at various times, logistically it can't workout too well. I hope you either work things out or make the break as clean as possible. You're resourceful; I'm sure you'll figure it out and do what you must.

Thanks CP, appreciate it... you said what I pretty much what I told my kids too - sometimes loving someone just isn't enough.

Burner02 · 09-06-2006, 01:05 PM

hey lady...well....NT says I should move up North....need a room mate?

Hope you are doing ok. I can't even imagine what you are going thru...

BritChick · 09-06-2006, 05:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Burner02

hey lady...well....NT says I should move up North....need a room mate?

Hope you are doing ok. I can't even imagine what you are going thru...

Yes, I need a room mate! lol Just found a great place but $1240 per month... ouch, I really like this place but not sure I can swing it right now.

I'm sure my cortisol levels are soaring right now and my muscles are just wasting away... at this rate I will likely be able to dress up as a Q-tip for Halloween!

**Dale Mabry** · 09-06-2006, 06:49 PM

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Originally Posted by BritChick

because right now I'm only pulling in $2000 a month (summer slackers) and that simply won't cut it!

That's Canadian too, so it's actually only like $50 a month.

Burner02 · 09-06-2006, 06:55 PM

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Originally Posted by BritChick

Yes, I need a room mate! lol Just found a great place but $1240 per month... ouch, I really like this place but not sure I can swing it right now.

I'm sure my cortisol levels are soaring right now and my muscles are just wasting away... at this rate I will likely be able to dress up as a Q-tip for Halloween!

well...I am gonna be working at the club...so I will be what I am every year I work there: A fat chick magnet.

naturaltan · 09-07-2006, 07:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BritChick

Yes, I need a room mate! lol Just found a great place but $1240 per month... ouch, I really like this place but not sure I can swing it right now.

Wow ... it's expensive in ole BC.

BritChick · 09-07-2006, 08:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

That's Canadian too, so it's actually only like $50 a month.

LOL! Ain't that the truth.

BritChick · 09-07-2006, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by naturaltan

Wow ... it's expensive in ole BC.

Sure is... I have a few money making ideas... any remarkably not one of them involves porn! (Yet!!)

naturaltan · 09-07-2006, 09:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BritChick

Sure is... I have a few money making ideas... any remarkably not one of them involves porn! (Yet!!)

**CowPimp** · 09-07-2006, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by BritChick

Sure is... I have a few money making ideas... any remarkably not one of them involves porn! (Yet!!)

I just wanted to let you know that if one of your money making ideas does eventually include porn, then I am behind you 100%.

Burner02 · 09-07-2006, 10:01 AM

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Originally Posted by BritChick

Sure is... I have a few money making ideas... any remarkably not one of them involves porn! (Yet!!)

hmmm...a woman with options!

BritChick · 09-08-2006, 10:14 PM

So here's where it's at right now - I've basically agreed to let Rod assume the mortgage and all debts and walk away with nothing but be debt free. To me that's a good deal, I want the easy out - I do not want lengthy and costly court battles that only end up lining the pockets of the already wealthy lawyers. I also don't want to 'fight', can't help it, I'm an amicable type of gal who thrives on harmony and life being rift free.
The way I see it - yes, if I were to get a lawyer and do the 50% of everything deal I'd for sure walk away with something but I don't feel it's worth it.
As long as I am debt free I can stay that way and get on with my life with my two kids.
It looks like Rod will be approved, next step getting Rod to sign a separation agreement and all the necessary paperwork.
I have signed a lease for my new townhome rental and will be moving at the end of October.
Vegas is in two weeks and I can't wait for the down time and time away from the constant dealing of this crap.
It's not 'so' bad and I think it will all come together in the end.

The Monkey Man · 09-08-2006, 10:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BritChick

Vegas is in two weeks and I can't wait for the down time and time away from the constant dealing of this crap.
It's not 'so' bad and I think it will all come together in the end.

...

... Vegas???

(PM Please)

**CowPimp** · 09-08-2006, 10:51 PM

Sounds like a very fair deal to me. Damn, that is going to make him realize that he acted a fool, haha!

08-28-2006, 09:22 AM	#1171
Burner02 Super Hero in Training Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Tip of the spear! Posts: 28,316	good morning! Hope you are doing ok.
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09-01-2006, 09:56 AM	#1173
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09-01-2006, 03:53 PM	#1175
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09-01-2006, 06:37 PM	#1177
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09-02-2006, 08:21 PM	#1180
CowPimp Fueled by Testosterone Moderator Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Silver Spring, MD Posts: 15,405	Sorry to hear about that. Sometimes no matter how much you love someone, or how good you are with someone at various times, logistically it can't workout too well. I hope you either work things out or make the break as clean as possible. You're resourceful; I'm sure you'll figure it out and do what you must.
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08-28-2006, 01:43 PM	#1172
BritChick Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: BC Canada Posts: 5,449 Photos: 7	Thanks guys, still trying sort out this mess the hardest part is know where to start - the range of emotions are vast... ... if only I could fast forward a few months I'm sure it can only get easier. I have a lot of wonderful people around me but I feel so damn alone. It will get better though, it has to.

09-01-2006, 03:23 PM	#1174
BritChick Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: BC Canada Posts: 5,449 Photos: 7	LOL! Sorry to hear that dg. Wow, a little overwhelmed here, trying to deal with 'everything' by myself, how to split and separate all the ties that bind, where to live, how I will make extra income... the kids now know, one less thing looming, they are being absolutely wonderful, supportive 100%... they know the score and not much gets past them... not to say it's gonna be easy but at least they are in the know and the lines of communication are open. Busy checking out townhouses right now... that's my first preference for renting... I need more clients!!!

09-06-2006, 01:05 PM	#1182
Burner02 Super Hero in Training Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Tip of the spear! Posts: 28,316	hey lady...well....NT says I should move up North....need a room mate? Hope you are doing ok. I can't even imagine what you are going thru...
	Success leaves clues. People who produce outstanding results do specific things to create those results Nobody cares what you did yesterday or what you are going to do tomorrow. What is important is what you are doing NOW to solve our problem THERE IS NO TOMORROW! - Appollo Creed

09-08-2006, 10:14 PM	#1192
BritChick Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: BC Canada Posts: 5,449 Photos: 7	So here's where it's at right now - I've basically agreed to let Rod assume the mortgage and all debts and walk away with nothing but be debt free. To me that's a good deal, I want the easy out - I do not want lengthy and costly court battles that only end up lining the pockets of the already wealthy lawyers. I also don't want to 'fight', can't help it, I'm an amicable type of gal who thrives on harmony and life being rift free. The way I see it - yes, if I were to get a lawyer and do the 50% of everything deal I'd for sure walk away with something but I don't feel it's worth it. As long as I am debt free I can stay that way and get on with my life with my two kids. It looks like Rod will be approved, next step getting Rod to sign a separation agreement and all the necessary paperwork. I have signed a lease for my new townhome rental and will be moving at the end of October. Vegas is in two weeks and I can't wait for the down time and time away from the constant dealing of this crap. It's not 'so' bad and I think it will all come together in the end.

09-08-2006, 10:51 PM	#1194
CowPimp Fueled by Testosterone Moderator Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Silver Spring, MD Posts: 15,405	Sounds like a very fair deal to me. Damn, that is going to make him realize that he acted a fool, haha!
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