Telling your boss to go fuck themselves.

KelJu · 10-01-2009, 08:32 PM

I'm about one straw away from it. I'm 27 and I have never quite a job in my life without having a better one lined up. Despite my explosive, irrational, irate personality, I have always had the ability to keep my cool when my money was on the line.

The line has been drawn in the sand, and the consequences, financially, will be massive. I might detonate a career atom bomb tomorrow if my director as much as speaks to me.

What is it like? Does it feel great at first and then you spend the next few weeks kicking yourself in the nuts as your bills pile up? That's how I see it, but I think I will regret it on my deathbed if I don't handle this shit KelJu style.

Little Wing · 10-01-2009, 10:00 PM

what crimes of douchebaggery has your boss been committing?

Little Wing · 10-01-2009, 10:01 PM

vent here n you might feel good enough to keep your cool while you line up a job. THEN tell them.

lnvanry · 10-01-2009, 10:48 PM

are piling bills or putting up with hell day after day worse?

I'd only pull an instant quit if the boss was EXTREMELY out of line...ever think about going to his/her superior?...or (I can't believe I'm actually suggesting this part) you could always go to HR.

if the boss is in the wrong and violating company policy, being a prick about it, than report it...the company would be better with out him/her. You'd be saving the company $ and human capital (ie yourself).

If your at a small company....then good luck, you might be stuck

bio-chem · 10-01-2009, 10:57 PM

truthfully it feels amazing. I had already started looking for something else and was pretty confident that I would not be out of work for long, but the look on his face was priceless. He started some shit right in the middle of a shift that that had to be done and he couldn't order anyone else to do it because they were all busy. he realized right away that he was going to have to finish it himself. I savored that moment like a fine steak. when im depressed i relive that moment to make myself feel better.

I tell you this not trying to egg you on. the economy is tough right now and the idea of bills piling up would scare the hell out of me and i would probably not do it today without some sort of safety net, but the rest of the day is like the day that you first have sex.

Big Smoothy · 10-02-2009, 05:10 AM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I'm about one straw away from it. I'm 27 and I have never quite a job in my life without having a better one lined up. Despite my explosive, irrational, irate personality, I have always had the ability to keep my cool when my money was on the line.

The line has been drawn in the sand, and the consequences, financially, will be massive. I might detonate a career atom bomb tomorrow if my director as much as speaks to me.

Up to you, KelJu.

But you know the economy is very slow and unemployment means 6 people on average are competing for one open position.

I don't know what industry you're in, but you might want to wait a year - if you can.

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What is it like? Does it feel great at first and then you spend the next few weeks kicking yourself in the nuts as your bills pile up? That's how I see it, but I think I will regret it on my deathbed if I don't handle this shit KelJu style.

Like you, I've always had another job lined up.

In these times, I think you should do the same. When the bills come in without any income, it can wipe you out quickly, even if you've got money saved.

Good luck, and keep us posted.

ROID · 10-02-2009, 06:40 AM

Give him a big hug and say i understand

Triple Threat · 10-02-2009, 06:41 AM

I'm with Ivanry and Big Smoothy. The satisfaction that you might enjoy from telling off the boss won't pay the bills. Look for another job and then plan your grand departure.

**Prince** · 10-02-2009, 09:12 AM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I'm about one straw away from it. I'm 27 and I have never quite a job in my life without having a better one lined up. Despite my explosive, irrational, irate personality, I have always had the ability to keep my cool when my money was on the line.

The line has been drawn in the sand, and the consequences, financially, will be massive. I might detonate a career atom bomb tomorrow if my director as much as speaks to me.

What is it like? Does it feel great at first and then you spend the next few weeks kicking yourself in the nuts as your bills pile up? That's how I see it, but I think I will regret it on my deathbed if I don't handle this shit KelJu style.

I don't believe in burning bridges, so I have never done something like that. If you are that unhappy look for a new job, once you get one then put in your two weeks notice.

**IainDaniel** · 10-02-2009, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Prince

I don't believe in burning bridges, so I have never done something like that. If you are that unhappy look for a new job, once you get one then put in your two weeks notice.

That is my thoughts.

Your boss will get his eventually. What goes around comes around.

**Dale Mabry** · 10-02-2009, 09:21 AM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I'm about one straw away from it. I'm 27 and I have never quite a job in my life without having a better one lined up. Despite my explosive, irrational, irate personality, I have always had the ability to keep my cool when my money was on the line.

The line has been drawn in the sand, and the consequences, financially, will be massive. I might detonate a career atom bomb tomorrow if my director as much as speaks to me.

What is it like? Does it feel great at first and then you spend the next few weeks kicking yourself in the nuts as your bills pile up? That's how I see it, but I think I will regret it on my deathbed if I don't handle this shit KelJu style.

Burger King will never be the same.

KelJu · 10-02-2009, 09:45 AM

I'm cool today. Last night I was piss drunk and pissed off.
I am going to stay here until my apartment lease is up, that way I will have my year's experience in a cooperate environment, and I can move to wherever I like.

**I Are Baboon** · 10-02-2009, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I'm cool today. Last night I was piss drunk and pissed off.

I am impressed with how well written your first post is while you were piss drunk. That ain't easy.

KelJu · 10-02-2009, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

I am impressed with how well written your first post is while you were piss drunk. That ain't easy.

I have a very strong drug maturity. I am actually a lot more stable and much better communicator when I'm fucked up as opposed to being sober.

I feel like shit today, though. Stress causes me to have vivid dreams and nightmares. I dreamed I was being stabbed to death all night. I awoke this morning feeling like I had been hit by a train.

ROID · 10-02-2009, 08:19 PM

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Originally Posted by IainDaniel

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What goes around comes around.

no it doesn't

sara · 10-02-2009, 08:42 PM

I agree with prince and Iain ..

sara · 10-02-2009, 08:42 PM

I agree with prince and Iain ..

maniclion · 10-02-2009, 09:23 PM

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Originally Posted by sara

I agree with prince and Iain ..

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Originally Posted by sara

I agree with prince and Iain ..

Damn, you must really agree to post twice!!!

Big Smoothy · 10-03-2009, 03:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Dale Mabry

Burger King will never be the same.

Ouch.

rahaas · 10-03-2009, 06:16 AM

Being a boss myself i can say I've never had anyone ever tell me off then quit. I've had guys come into my office and say they've been offered a great job opportunity wanting to know what to do. I've had to tell them "are you nuts, take it, I would".

I did have a guy come back a year later after being let go ask for more money the one week he worked. He did everything wrong, wouldn't listen to simple directions, needed "a personal day" whatever that is mid week. After being terminated he ended up throwing a chair at his employment counselor and is in prison now.

Moral of the story:
1) don't go to work drunk & pissed off.
2) don't throw objects at boss or anyone else at work or trying to find a new job after quitting or being fired while being drunk & pissed off
3) don't represent yourself in court even if you are not drunk & pissed off.

KelJu · 10-03-2009, 09:29 AM

I suppose I took a good life lesson out of this. The nest day my boss was easier going than she had ever been.

In hindsight, the whole thing sounded like a spat between siblings. I swear its high school all over again.

bio-chem · 10-03-2009, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I suppose I took a good life lesson out of this. The nest day my boss was easier going than she had ever been.

In hindsight, the whole thing sounded like a spat between siblings. I swear its high school all over again.

you banged her, didn't you?

rahaas · 10-03-2009, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by bio-chem

you banged her, didn't you?

ALBOB · 10-05-2009, 09:43 AM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I suppose I took a good life lesson out of this. The nest day my boss was easier going than she had ever been.

In hindsight, the whole thing sounded like a spat between siblings. I swear its high school all over again.

Your boss is a woman?!?!? Oh shit, no wonder you two are having problems, you've reached the point where you get your periods at the same time.

**Prince** · 10-05-2009, 09:51 AM

I had a female boss for a few years and I had a hard time with her on a work level (not personal though), not sure if it was just her or because I had an issue with a female being my boss.

min0 lee · 10-05-2009, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by ALBOB

Your boss is a woman?!?!? Oh shit, no wonder you two are having problems, you've reached the point where you get your periods at the same time.

maniclion · 10-05-2009, 02:42 PM

I like having women bosses, they tend to fall for my bullshit more often.......

sara · 10-05-2009, 07:43 PM

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Originally Posted by maniclion

Damn, you must really agree to post twice!!!

I sure do

KelJu · 10-05-2009, 08:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Prince

I had a female boss for a few years and I had a hard time with her on a work level (not personal though), not sure if it was just her or because I had an issue with a female being my boss.

I would by lying if I said her being a woman had no part in it. It wasn't a big part, but it made it sting a little more. I have never been talked down to by a women since those super religious nut job teachers from elementary school. You know the kind I am talking about. Massive echos and a chip on the shoulder. She is ex military, and by far the ugliest mountain ogre I have ever seen.

It was funny as shit for the past year watching her talk down to grown men like they were little kids, and they had to take it because their jobs were on the line. When it was my turn it wasn't funny anymore. All I could do was give her mean looks. I't was the gheyest moment of my life.

ALBOB · 10-05-2009, 09:22 PM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

I't was the gheyest moment of my life.

Alright, I've already kicked you once while you were down so I'm gonna let this one slide. But the next time you leave yourself open like this I'm giving you both barrels.

10-01-2009, 08:32 PM	#1
KelJu Thats Dr. Keke to you! Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: In my imagination. Posts: 10,162 Photos: 2	Telling your boss to go fuck themselves. I'm about one straw away from it. I'm 27 and I have never quite a job in my life without having a better one lined up. Despite my explosive, irrational, irate personality, I have always had the ability to keep my cool when my money was on the line. The line has been drawn in the sand, and the consequences, financially, will be massive. I might detonate a career atom bomb tomorrow if my director as much as speaks to me. What is it like? Does it feel great at first and then you spend the next few weeks kicking yourself in the nuts as your bills pile up? That's how I see it, but I think I will regret it on my deathbed if I don't handle this shit KelJu style.

10-01-2009, 10:00 PM	#2
Little Wing Mommmmmm, turn it down!!! Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: United States Posts: 23,758 Photos: 191	what crimes of douchebaggery has your boss been committing? "MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST - GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!! Take Care, John H."

10-01-2009, 10:01 PM	#3
Little Wing Mommmmmm, turn it down!!! Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: United States Posts: 23,758 Photos: 191	vent here n you might feel good enough to keep your cool while you line up a job. THEN tell them. "MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST - GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!! Take Care, John H."

10-02-2009, 06:40 AM	#7
ROID Cracker Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: sweet home alabama Posts: 734	Give him a big hug and say i understand " A cookie without sugar is just a cracker" ~ ancient voodoo proverb "A man with infinite patience is never left waiting."~ROID's past incarnation

10-03-2009, 06:16 AM	#20
rahaas Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Delaware Posts: 880 Photos: 1	Being a boss myself i can say I've never had anyone ever tell me off then quit. I've had guys come into my office and say they've been offered a great job opportunity wanting to know what to do. I've had to tell them "are you nuts, take it, I would". I did have a guy come back a year later after being let go ask for more money the one week he worked. He did everything wrong, wouldn't listen to simple directions, needed "a personal day" whatever that is mid week. After being terminated he ended up throwing a chair at his employment counselor and is in prison now. Moral of the story: 1) don't go to work drunk & pissed off. 2) don't throw objects at boss or anyone else at work or trying to find a new job after quitting or being fired while being drunk & pissed off 3) don't represent yourself in court even if you are not drunk & pissed off. *No trees were killed in the sending of this message. However a large number of electrons were terribly inconvenienced.*

10-01-2009, 10:48 PM	#4
lnvanry primeau Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Tucson Posts: 3,438 Photos: 16	are piling bills or putting up with hell day after day worse? I'd only pull an instant quit if the boss was EXTREMELY out of line...ever think about going to his/her superior?...or (I can't believe I'm actually suggesting this part) you could always go to HR. if the boss is in the wrong and violating company policy, being a prick about it, than report it...the company would be better with out him/her. You'd be saving the company $ and human capital (ie yourself). If your at a small company....then good luck, you might be stuck

10-02-2009, 06:41 AM	#8
Triple Threat End of the world Elite Member Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Lost Posts: 10,444 Photos: 6	I'm with Ivanry and Big Smoothy. The satisfaction that you might enjoy from telling off the boss won't pay the bills. Look for another job and then plan your grand departure.

10-02-2009, 09:45 AM	#12
KelJu Thats Dr. Keke to you! Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: In my imagination. Posts: 10,162 Photos: 2	I'm cool today. Last night I was piss drunk and pissed off. I am going to stay here until my apartment lease is up, that way I will have my year's experience in a cooperate environment, and I can move to wherever I like.

10-02-2009, 08:42 PM	#16
sara INK NOT MINK Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Earth Posts: 7,005 Photos: 5	I agree with prince and Iain ..

10-03-2009, 09:29 AM	#21
KelJu Thats Dr. Keke to you! Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: In my imagination. Posts: 10,162 Photos: 2	I suppose I took a good life lesson out of this. The nest day my boss was easier going than she had ever been. In hindsight, the whole thing sounded like a spat between siblings. I swear its high school all over again.

10-05-2009, 09:51 AM	#25
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10-05-2009, 02:42 PM	#27
maniclion Cartographer of the Mind Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Mens Incognita Posts: 20,438 Photos: 10	I like having women bosses, they tend to fall for my bullshit more often....... "We are like tenant farmers chopping down the fence around our house for fuel when we should be using Natures inexhaustible sources of energy — sun, wind and tide. ... I'd put my money on the sun and solar energy. What a source of power! I hope we don't have to wait until oil and coal run out before we tackle that." Thomas Edison: In conversation with Henry Ford and Harvey Firestone

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