was I being hit on by a gay guy?

zl214 · 11-06-2009, 06:22 AM

so i was at my local coin laundry just waiting for my clothes to dry. this guy came up and chatted to me, he asked me about where i train and what my routine was and all that . he seems quite friendly we chatted a little, then he suggested that i should take him through a workout and asked for my number. I am new to the area, don't really mind one more friend and I didn't really think much at the time and said we can work out together tomorrow. then i went back home and told my sister (who happens to be a faghag) what happened, she just burst out laughing that i was hit on by a gay guy. I am not very good at this, but his guy seems to be normal and i thought he was just being friendly, but my sister keeps tell me that he was gay and wanted to get into my pants. Now i am not even sure i should go? but it could just be my sister bullshitting me. what do you guys think?

Little Wing · 11-06-2009, 09:18 AM

your sister is an idiot. men need friends too.

Big Smoothy · 11-06-2009, 09:46 AM

Sounds gay, but you cannot be sure.

Who cares?

I never give my number out to a guy on the street. (Pretty women, that's a different story).

**I Are Baboon** · 11-06-2009, 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Little Wing

your sister is an idiot.

That wasn't very nice.

Little Wing · 11-06-2009, 10:26 AM

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Originally Posted by I Are Baboon

That wasn't very nice.

what she did wasn't very nice either. like no one can just want to be friends with her brother or think bodybuilding is worth getting into. i make friends by talking to strangers very easily and no they aren't just lesbians trying to get in my pants. it would be terrible if men were scared to talk to each other for fear of looking gay.

bio-chem · 11-06-2009, 11:15 AM

or if by not being very nice you mean his sister attempted to save him and the other guy of a potentially embarrassing moment for the both of them. I'm not saying that the guy is or isn't gay, but it's something you take into consideration. I'm not afraid of looking gay. thats not an issue, and im not worried about having a gay friend or two either, but im not down with getting hit on by a guy. there is an angle here LW that im not sure your able to understand by being a woman.

**Prince** · 11-06-2009, 11:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Little Wing

what she did wasn't very nice either. like no one can just want to be friends with her brother or think bodybuilding is worth getting into. i make friends by talking to strangers very easily and no they aren't just lesbians trying to get in my pants. it would be terrible if men were scared to talk to each other for fear of looking gay.

I agree, jumping to the conclusion that he is gay is stupid.

JonPiven · 11-06-2009, 11:28 AM

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Originally Posted by zl214

so i was at my local coin laundry just waiting for my clothes to dry. this guy came up and chatted to me, he asked me about where i train and what my routine was and all that . he seems quite friendly we chatted a little, then he suggested that i should take him through a workout and asked for my number. I am new to the area, don't really mind one more friend and I didn't really think much at the time and said we can work out together tomorrow. then i went back home and told my sister (who happens to be a faghag) what happened, she just burst out laughing that i was hit on by a gay guy. I am not very good at this, but his guy seems to be normal and i thought he was just being friendly, but my sister keeps tell me that he was gay and wanted to get into my pants. Now i am not even sure i should go? but it could just be my sister bullshitting me. what do you guys think?

lol man he can be gay, but he can be just freindly looking for a freind! you cant know. probbly just looking someone to go to gym with ;] and not a gay...

bio-chem · 11-06-2009, 01:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Prince

I agree, jumping to the conclusion that he is gay is stupid.

we all jump to conclusions. especially here at IM with less than all the information. Im sure the sister got a much better, more detailed version of the story than we did.

Little Wing · 11-06-2009, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by bio-chem

we all jump to conclusions. especially here at IM with less than all the information. Im sure the sister got a much better, more detailed version of the story than we did.

Faghag - Encyclopedia Dramatica

she wasn't there first of all and secondly her judgment is clouded.

* link nsfw

maniclion · 11-06-2009, 02:02 PM

Was he checking out your package? Did he ask to feel your muscles?

zl214 · 11-06-2009, 05:17 PM

yep, he did touch my arms, but not a full-on grab and feel. he is asian, dont know whats it like in asia?

min0 lee · 11-06-2009, 05:44 PM

You can try this the next time you see this, but just try to do it casually.

min0 lee · 11-06-2009, 05:48 PM

1) I paid ______ for my last haircut.
A---Over $40
B---$25 to $40
C---- $10 to $25
D----- Under $10

2) Who makes the best messenger bag for men?
A---- Prada
B---- Cole Haan
C---- Timbuk2
D----- What's a messenger bag?

min0 lee · 11-06-2009, 05:54 PM

9) I wish I had:
A---- Brad Pitt's face
B---- Brad Pitt's body
C---- Brad Pitt's money
D---- Brad Pitt's wife

min0 lee · 11-06-2009, 05:55 PM

You know he's gay if he is a fan of the Red Sox and Patriots.

rahaas · 11-06-2009, 06:03 PM

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Originally Posted by Little Wing

what she did wasn't very nice either. like no one can just want to be friends with her brother or think bodybuilding is worth getting into. i make friends by talking to strangers very easily and no they aren't just lesbians trying to get in my pants. it would be terrible if men were scared to talk to each other for fear of looking gay.

I agree as well. Even if the guy was gay who cares? If your not gay and something like that bothers you then you're a homophobic asshole.

lnvanry · 11-06-2009, 06:39 PM

I lived with two gay dudes for summer and the gym was always a hang out spot for them. If you do take him through a workout, you can always just drop in a line about your GF or something...its not like a straight guy can't work out with a gay dude...but I guess it depends on your comfort level.

I'm kinda with your sister on this one bro

Are you a trainer? If so, its just business, right? The only time I ever asked a dude to work out with me that I didn't know it was a trainer when I first started out lifting...and I paid him.

Didn't your gaydar let you know? Even straight acting gay guys still have tells

jmorrison · 11-06-2009, 07:07 PM

Even if he is gay, it's not like he is going to knock you down and rape you. I wouldn't be afraid to meet up with the guy, he may just be a friendly dude. Just casually drop some lines abotu your girlfriend, or ask him where a good spot is to meet chicks, and he will get the message if he is gay.

KelJu · 11-07-2009, 08:57 AM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

9) I wish I had:
A---- Brad Pitt's face
B---- Brad Pitt's body
C---- Brad Pitt's money
D---- Brad Pitt's wife

This is a trick question. You can't go wrong with any of those.

danzik17 · 11-07-2009, 10:44 AM

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Originally Posted by KelJu

This is a trick question. You can't go wrong with any of those.

Correct, but the proper answers are C or D.

maniclion · 11-07-2009, 04:23 PM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

9) I wish I had:
A---- Brad Pitt's face
B---- Brad Pitt's body
C---- Brad Pitt's money
D---- Brad Pitt's wife
E---- Brad Pitt

You forgot the Tall Call option E

HialeahChico305 · 11-08-2009, 12:46 AM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

You know he's gay if he is a fan of the Red Sox and Patriots.

Fag all the way........

**Gazhole** · 11-08-2009, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

You can try this the next time you see this, but just try to do it casually.

My left hand is macho, and my right is gay...i guess that makes sense actually.

Little Wing · 11-08-2009, 09:44 AM

all guys have a gay hand.

T_man · 11-08-2009, 09:46 AM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

You can try this the next time you see this, but just try to do it casually.

Oh wow so thats why I have so many girl problems. Acording to this I was gay all along!

bio-chem · 11-08-2009, 10:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Little Wing

all guys have a gay hand.

that appears to be a myth. my hands are both the same and neither fits the criteria shown in that picture for being gay

Little Wing · 11-08-2009, 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by bio-chem

that appears to be a myth. my hands are both the same and neither fits the criteria shown in that picture for being gay

does one hand like your penis a lot?

bio-chem · 11-08-2009, 12:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Little Wing

does one hand like your penis a lot?

LOL. i thought that might have been where you were going with this.

Little Wing · 11-08-2009, 01:46 PM

i know a guy that swears he's straight but he's totally addicted to porn.... he once said to me "sometimes you see a cock so perfect it's like marble" and i know he didn't mean his own. i figure every orgasm he's had for the last 5 years he's getting off staring at some other guys big penis. makes you wonder

11-06-2009, 06:22 AM	#1
zl214 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 152	was I being hit on by a gay guy? so i was at my local coin laundry just waiting for my clothes to dry. this guy came up and chatted to me, he asked me about where i train and what my routine was and all that . he seems quite friendly we chatted a little, then he suggested that i should take him through a workout and asked for my number. I am new to the area, don't really mind one more friend and I didn't really think much at the time and said we can work out together tomorrow. then i went back home and told my sister (who happens to be a faghag) what happened, she just burst out laughing that i was hit on by a gay guy. I am not very good at this, but his guy seems to be normal and i thought he was just being friendly, but my sister keeps tell me that he was gay and wanted to get into my pants. Now i am not even sure i should go? but it could just be my sister bullshitting me. what do you guys think?

11-06-2009, 09:18 AM	#2
Little Wing Mommmmmm, turn it down!!! Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: United States Posts: 23,757 Photos: 191	your sister is an idiot. men need friends too. "MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST - GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!! Take Care, John H."

11-06-2009, 09:46 AM	#3
Big Smoothy Windy City Elite Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Location: Chicago Posts: 3,266	Sounds gay, but you cannot be sure. Who cares? I never give my number out to a guy on the street. (Pretty women, that's a different story). Military men are dumb, stupid animals, to be used as pawns for foreign policy – Henry Kissinger (January-February 2003 edition of Eagle Newsletter)

11-06-2009, 02:02 PM	#11
maniclion Cartographer of the Mind Elite Member Join Date: Aug 2003 Location: Mens Incognita Posts: 20,432 Photos: 10	Was he checking out your package? Did he ask to feel your muscles? "We are like tenant farmers chopping down the fence around our house for fuel when we should be using Natures inexhaustible sources of energy — sun, wind and tide. ... I'd put my money on the sun and solar energy. What a source of power! I hope we don't have to wait until oil and coal run out before we tackle that." Thomas Edison: In conversation with Henry Ford and Harvey Firestone

11-06-2009, 05:44 PM	#13
min0 lee Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: The Bronx, NYC Posts: 38,792 Photos: 542	You can try this the next time you see this, but just try to do it casually. How To Do The Perfect Bench Press Rep Bodybuilding and Lifting Weights, the Difference ironmagazine-frapper

11-06-2009, 05:17 PM	#12
zl214 Registered User Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 152	yep, he did touch my arms, but not a full-on grab and feel. he is asian, dont know whats it like in asia?

11-06-2009, 05:48 PM	#14
min0 lee Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: The Bronx, NYC Posts: 38,792 Photos: 542	Here are a few questions you can ask him to find out. 1) I paid ______ for my last haircut. A---Over $40 B---$25 to $40 C---- $10 to $25 D----- Under $10 2) Who makes the best messenger bag for men? A---- Prada B---- Cole Haan C---- Timbuk2 D----- What's a messenger bag? How To Do The Perfect Bench Press Rep Bodybuilding and Lifting Weights, the Difference ironmagazine-frapper

11-06-2009, 05:54 PM	#15
min0 lee Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: The Bronx, NYC Posts: 38,792 Photos: 542	9) I wish I had: A---- Brad Pitt's face B---- Brad Pitt's body C---- Brad Pitt's money D---- Brad Pitt's wife How To Do The Perfect Bench Press Rep Bodybuilding and Lifting Weights, the Difference ironmagazine-frapper

11-06-2009, 05:55 PM	#16
min0 lee Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: The Bronx, NYC Posts: 38,792 Photos: 542	You know he's gay if he is a fan of the Red Sox and Patriots. How To Do The Perfect Bench Press Rep Bodybuilding and Lifting Weights, the Difference ironmagazine-frapper

11-06-2009, 06:39 PM	#18
lnvanry primeau Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Tucson Posts: 3,436 Photos: 16	I lived with two gay dudes for summer and the gym was always a hang out spot for them. If you do take him through a workout, you can always just drop in a line about your GF or something...its not like a straight guy can't work out with a gay dude...but I guess it depends on your comfort level. I'm kinda with your sister on this one bro Are you a trainer? If so, its just business, right? The only time I ever asked a dude to work out with me that I didn't know it was a trainer when I first started out lifting...and I paid him. Didn't your gaydar let you know? Even straight acting gay guys still have tells

11-06-2009, 07:07 PM	#19
jmorrison Registered User Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Alabama Posts: 325	Even if he is gay, it's not like he is going to knock you down and rape you. I wouldn't be afraid to meet up with the guy, he may just be a friendly dude. Just casually drop some lines abotu your girlfriend, or ask him where a good spot is to meet chicks, and he will get the message if he is gay. You should bang this chick like a mountain gorilla ~ ROID

11-08-2009, 09:44 AM	#25
Little Wing Mommmmmm, turn it down!!! Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: United States Posts: 23,757 Photos: 191	all guys have a gay hand. "MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST - GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!! Take Care, John H."

11-08-2009, 01:46 PM	#30
Little Wing Mommmmmm, turn it down!!! Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: United States Posts: 23,757 Photos: 191	i know a guy that swears he's straight but he's totally addicted to porn.... he once said to me "sometimes you see a cock so perfect it's like marble" and i know he didn't mean his own. i figure every orgasm he's had for the last 5 years he's getting off staring at some other guys big penis. makes you wonder "MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST - GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!! Take Care, John H."

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