Thread: Understanding women

Perhaps better suited for the Sexual Health forum.

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

1) Why are some women so self-conscious about how they look? When it's time to get naked they are shy. They will only have sex if the light is off and only in certain positions so their body is not too "exposed". Even when they say they completely trust you and are very comfortable with you.

99% of a womans value is in her physical appearance. they know it, you should to.

you need to be more dominant in the sack. take what you want. she will put up a little token resistance, but if you are a man she will gladly let you do what you want.

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

2) What does the phrase "i'm not ready" really mean? They will make out with you, jerk you off, suck you off, let you feel them up, finger them, etc. When it's time for sex she doesn't feel ready. Especially if she's not a virgin and has an active sex life with past boyfriends.

she doesnt want to get pregnant by you. she wants to keep you around until she can meet a man who she does want to get pregnant with. therefore she will do all the other stuff to keep you around so she is not alone, until obviously she meets a guy who she does want to fuck. she will then immediately start fucking him and you will be a memory if she even thinks about you.

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

3) Why is the phrase "i love you" so hard to say to your bf/gf for the first time? How do you know when to say it? Who says it first, the boy or the girl? Is it best said before or after sex? After a long walk? Over dinner?

the fact that you even ask this question shows how much of a pussy you are when it comes to women, and now I understand why you asked question 2.

the answer is that you should avoid saying those three words as long as you live. it is the mans role to get as much sex as possible with as little commitment as possible. it is the womans role to get as much commitment as possible while giving up as little sex (to you) as possible.

the fact that you are not fucking her and wanting to tell her that you love her means that she is winning and will soon destry your soul.

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

4) What are some of the best birthday gifts to get for a woman? When is it the right time to get something really nice..like jewelry?

never buy a women a gift. your companionship is enough. if you have to buy her something, buy her some chewing gum and a dildo. that way if she doesnt like the gum she can go fuck herself.

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

Women are complicated.

not at all. they are amazing.

Originally Posted by MyK 3.0

99% of a womans value is in her physical appearance. they know it, you should to.

you need to be more dominant in the sack. take what you want. she will put up a little token resistance, but if you are a man she will gladly let you do what you want.




she doesnt want to get pregnant by you. she wants to keep you around until she can meet a man who she does want to get pregnant with. therefore she will do all the other stuff to keep you around so she is not alone, until obviously she meets a guy who she does want to fuck. she will then immediately start fucking him and you will be a memory if she even thinks about you.



the fact that you even ask this question shows how much of a pussy you are when it comes to women, and now I understand why you asked question 2.

the answer is that you should avoid saying those three words as long as you live. it is the mans role to get as much sex as possible with as little commitment as possible. it is the womans role to get as much commitment as possible while giving up as little sex (to you) as possible.

the fact that you are not fucking her and wanting to tell her that you love her means that she is winning and will soon destry your soul.



never buy a women a gift. your companionship is enough. if you have to buy her something, buy her some chewing gum and a dildo. that way if she doesnt like the gum she can go fuck herself.



not at all. they are amazing.

AMEN .......TRUE words

Originally Posted by MyK 3.0

99% of a womans value is in her physical appearance. they know it, you should to.

you need to be more dominant in the sack. take what you want. she will put up a little token resistance, but if you are a man she will gladly let you do what you want.




she doesnt want to get pregnant by you. she wants to keep you around until she can meet a man who she does want to get pregnant with. therefore she will do all the other stuff to keep you around so she is not alone, until obviously she meets a guy who she does want to fuck. she will then immediately start fucking him and you will be a memory if she even thinks about you.



the fact that you even ask this question shows how much of a pussy you are when it comes to women, and now I understand why you asked question 2.

the answer is that you should avoid saying those three words as long as you live. it is the mans role to get as much sex as possible with as little commitment as possible. it is the womans role to get as much commitment as possible while giving up as little sex (to you) as possible.

the fact that you are not fucking her and wanting to tell her that you love her means that she is winning and will soon destry your soul.



never buy a women a gift. your companionship is enough. if you have to buy her something, buy her some chewing gum and a dildo. that way if she doesnt like the gum she can go fuck herself.



not at all. they are amazing.

These are hypothetical open-ended questions for discussion. Has nothing to do with me so don't assume.

women are unique and individualistic. What works great with one will fail horribly with another. Only thing to do is listen and learn, and do the best you can to let her know her happiness matters to you. There is no set answer to these questions. The only thing you can be sure of is if you start to think you have it all figured out, you are in for a rude awakening. Hell hath no fury...

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

These are hypothetical open-ended questions for discussion. Has nothing to do with me so don't assume.

nothing to do with you, all you did was ask them. got ya...

well that me know if you require any further clarification on your non questions.

The more you do for them the less they appreciate it and expect it. And God help if you ever get one that is nearing mide life crisis.

Dude, you said a mouthful there.

Women....can't live with 'em, pass the beer nuts.

I understand that all women are stubborn bitches that are never wrong.

^^^^but they sure are fun to play with

Werd. If they didn't have tits and vaginas we wouldn't even associate with them.

Originally Posted by sprayherup

Werd. If they didn't have tits and vaginas we wouldn't even associate with them.

I don't know. I truly believe that the right kind of women teach us things we would likely have trouble learning on our own. Admittedly the wrong woman can destroy your life, but I've had the good fortune to know a handful of women in my life that have made me a far better man than I could have been otherwise. My wife and I have our moments of disagreement like any couple, but I really can't imagine my life without her in it. My own father recently passed on after 85 years, and he and my mother were married for 59 years. Remarkable. Women have the capacity to bring great happiness as well as tremendous sorrow.

Shit, I'd be much more happier with my boys, drinking, playing ball etc if I didn't have the urge to get laid.

Originally Posted by sprayherup

Shit, I'd be much more happier with my boys, drinking, playing ball etc if I didn't have the urge to get laid.

One hardly precludes the other. I still enjoy spending time with friends. I've never understood married couples who stop having friends after getting married. Some of my buddies would bore my wife to tears, and the same is true for a handful of her female friends. We of course have mutual friends too, but having friends independent of your spouse is healthy, IMHO.

Good luck!

Originally Posted by MDR

I don't know. I truly believe that the right kind of women teach us things we would likely have trouble learning on our own. Admittedly the wrong woman can destroy your life, but I've had the good fortune to know a handful of women in my life that have made me a far better man than I could have been otherwise. My wife and I have our moments of disagreement like any couple, but I really can't imagine my life without her in it. My own father recently passed on after 85 years, and he and my mother were married for 59 years. Remarkable. Women have the capacity to bring great happiness as well as tremendous sorrow.

And the wrong one can put you in your grave. knew this guy looked healthy wife was a bitch ..they fought all the times he was 43.. one day while making tea he dropped dead in his kitchen fuck up...i guess to much stress

Originally Posted by Dark Geared God

And the wrong one can put you in your grave. knew this guy looked healthy wife was a bitch ..they fought all the times he was 43.. one day while making tea he dropped dead in his kitchen fuck up...i guess to much stress

No disagreement there. I've seen similar examples with friends. By the way, I'm 43. I'm glad I like my wife!

Originally Posted by dg806

You can't understand women. They change constantly and never know what they want from one minute to the next. One minute they love you and making love to you, and the next they never want to see you again. The more you do for them the less they appreciate it and expect it. And God help if you ever get one that is nearing mid life crisis.

I could not agree more...and it doesn't matter what age they are either. I've tried to date women 10 years up and down from me in age and the results are always the same. I don't think we/men can truly understand a thing that bleeds for a week and doesn't die..

Originally Posted by shiznit2169

1) Why are some women so self-conscious about how they look? When it's time to get naked they are shy. They will only have sex if the light is off and only in certain positions so their body is not too "exposed". Even when they say they completely trust you and are very comfortable with you.
Never had to deal with that problem cause I only dated women who knew they were sexy...
2) What does the phrase "i'm not ready" really mean? They will make out with you, jerk you off, suck you off, let you feel them up, finger them, etc. When it's time for sex she doesn't feel ready. Especially if she's not a virgin and has an active sex life with past boyfriends.
Never had that problem, everytime I met a woman we were ready to ravage each other before we got to the hotel room, my condo or her place....

3) Why is the phrase "i love you" so hard to say to your bf/gf for the first time? How do you know when to say it? Who says it first, the boy or the girl? Is it best said before or after sex? After a long walk? Over dinner?
Only had one and we both knew it before we ever even said it, so I say it's a mutual feeling....but you know sometimes you might have to let her know if the two of you aren't meshing right....
4) What are some of the best birthday gifts to get for a woman? When is it the right time to get something really nice..like jewelry? There is no way of knowing what every woman would want for a gift, my GF loves jewelry, but only stuff she has picked out because she has a peculiar taste, one week she might be all into interlocking hearts, then crowns the next week and abstract shapes the next, some women aren't into jewelry at all....I say pay attention to your woman and stop trying to find an easy way out, women like gifts that show you were paying attention to the little hints they drop...

Women are complicated.

They aren't too complicated if you learn the patterns....

Originally Posted by MDR

No disagreement there. I've seen similar examples with friends. By the way, I'm 43. I'm glad I like my wife!

GICH

"Women are considered deep -- why? Because one can never discover any bottom to them. Women are not even shallow." ~ Nietzsche

Originally Posted by MyK 3.0

never buy a women a gift. your companionship is enough. if you have to buy her something, buy her some chewing gum and a dildo. that way if she doesnt like the gum she can go fuck herself.

Preach on broda MyK.

would've liked to have a psychology sub-forum here.

Originally Posted by proxy10

would've liked to have a psychology sub-forum here.

I'd be the mod fo sho!!!

Originally Posted by Muscle_Girl

Perhaps better suited for the Sexual Health forum.

or maybe the lack of sex-ual health forum.

Originally Posted by sprayherup

Werd. If they didn't have tits and vaginas we wouldn't even associate with them.

We would hunt them and kill them for sport.