Thread: The Dating Scale

Originally Posted by HouseMusicDiva

Hi everyone. Recently I was searching the internet in hopes of finding people's perspective when it comes to finding a mate. Unfortunately, the
majority of the population's opinions revolve around "love is blind," or, "you might see them as 2, but their partners see them as a 10." Apparently, not many people out there want to...how should I say this...keep it real.


Personally, I have always been attracted to lean, muscular men. However, I must admit that this has went from a "must" to a "priority" ever since I began seriously training again. I mean let's face it - I can only picture myself with someone who shares a similar lifestyle. Chances are, if he follows the same regimine I do, he will also have a physically pleasing physique. Now obvioulsly this person must also be respectful, have a fun personality, etc. What I'm trying to say is that I'd never go out with a douchbag no matter how good he looked. And if someone gave me the option to be with an unattractive man who treated me "good" then guess what? I'd rather be alone. I'm absolutely happy by myself - having a partner I truly desire would only be a cherry on top.

So now that I've shared my opinion, my bodybuilding acquaintances, I'd like you to share yours too. What is important to you in a partner? Do looks matter? Do you prefer a fit physique as well? Tell us - no one is here to judge. Every person is unique, and don't let anyone sway your opinion no matter what. It's your life, your body. Tell us who you'd like to share it with.

Sorry to tell you this, but Im already in love, with Mino, but if i wasnt babe, FYI .. i fit you to the T..... i wouldnt date a pompuss prude like yourself, you need help bad !

are you down with some AP'ing on the first date? or do you just give head?

do you swallow or can I spray all over your face??

You'll start datin' fat-fucks and like it!

LOL. You guys are hilarious. And I see someone even gave me a "bad" reputation. Oh no, my life is now ruined because I've been outcasted in this excuse for an internet community! Serves me right for trying to have an intellectual post with a bunch of maturity-challenged human (or should I say cyber) beings. Thanks for giving me my laugh of the day...losers.

Wow, you guys are all harsh!!! Whatever happened to, "hello and welcome"? Everyone is entitled to their opinions, desires and needs.

I'm going to turn this around to the guys who replied and ask them, if they were single... the question is....................... "what do you prefer in your mate personality and physical charcteristics?" See? It's an easy question to answer!

PS. I'm not taking sides or anything but merely restating a question without any of my personal opinion. =)

I use the 0 to 7 scale. 0 is a whore/prostitute, somebody than any one can nail. 7 would be someone like Megan Fox, super hot with no hope in hell of ever getting her. Me personally I'll take whatever I can get

From my experience with women most of them are great in the beginning. As the relationship "grows"... I find myself wanting to stab myself in the eye with a fork!

Crono1000 Scale 1-5
0- Not interested
1- Not interested
2- Not interested
4- Not interested
5- Pee in her butt

Originally Posted by HouseMusicDiva

Hi everyone. Recently I was searching the internet in hopes of finding people's perspective when it comes to finding a mate. Unfortunately, the
majority of the population's opinions revolve around "love is blind," or, "you might see them as 2, but their partners see them as a 10." Apparently, not many people out there want to...how should I say this...keep it real.


Personally, I have always been attracted to lean, muscular men. However, I must admit that this has went from a "must" to a "priority" ever since I began seriously training again. I mean let's face it - I can only picture myself with someone who shares a similar lifestyle. Chances are, if he follows the same regimine I do, he will also have a physically pleasing physique. Now obvioulsly this person must also be respectful, have a fun personality, etc. What I'm trying to say is that I'd never go out with a douchbag no matter how good he looked. And if someone gave me the option to be with an unattractive man who treated me "good" then guess what? I'd rather be alone. I'm absolutely happy by myself - having a partner I truly desire would only be a cherry on top.

So now that I've shared my opinion, my bodybuilding acquaintances, I'd like you to share yours too. What is important to you in a partner? Do looks matter? Do you prefer a fit physique as well? Tell us - no one is here to judge. Every person is unique, and don't let anyone sway your opinion no matter what. It's your life, your body. Tell us who you'd like to share it with.

Maybe this sounds a little narcissistic, but I share my body with myself. My wife gets the left overs.

Originally Posted by Crono1000

Crono1000 Scale 1-5
0- Not interested
1- Not interested
2- Not interested
4- Not interested
5- Pee in her butt

Is that all you can think of to do to them?

Originally Posted by HouseMusicDiva

Hi everyone. Recently I was searching the internet in hopes of finding people's perspective when it comes to finding a mate. Unfortunately, the
majority of the population's opinions revolve around "love is blind," or, "you might see them as 2, but their partners see them as a 10." Apparently, not many people out there want to...how should I say this...keep it real.


Personally, I have always been attracted to lean, muscular men. However, I must admit that this has went from a "must" to a "priority" ever since I began seriously training again. I mean let's face it - I can only picture myself with someone who shares a similar lifestyle. Chances are, if he follows the same regimine I do, he will also have a physically pleasing physique. Now obvioulsly this person must also be respectful, have a fun personality, etc. What I'm trying to say is that I'd never go out with a douchbag no matter how good he looked. And if someone gave me the option to be with an unattractive man who treated me "good" then guess what? I'd rather be alone. I'm absolutely happy by myself - having a partner I truly desire would only be a cherry on top.

So now that I've shared my opinion, my bodybuilding acquaintances, I'd like you to share yours too. What is important to you in a partner? Do looks matter? Do you prefer a fit physique as well? Tell us - no one is here to judge. Every person is unique, and don't let anyone sway your opinion no matter what. It's your life, your body. Tell us who you'd like to share it with.

Sounds shallow Diva. One day your going to fall in love with a fat manbear that showers you with love and flowers and you'll be trapped in manbear hell.