No, they're not. That's the beauty of mathematics. Right or wrong isn't a matter of opinion; it's a matter of logic.
You've heard from at least two former math tutors already - me, and ihateschool.
My first degree was in Mathematics. I broke it down for you earlier in this thread.
Would this make it easier?
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I'll get rid of the (9+3) by simplifying it down to 12.
Like subtraction, division must not be performed in just any order - barring parentheses, it must be performed from left to right.
However, multiplication may be performed in any order.
As correctly noted by others, division by 2 is simply multiplication by its reciprocal, ½:
Thus
48 ÷ 2 × 12
becomes
48 × ½ × 12
Which may be evaluated in whatever order you like. For example, this one:
48 × 12 × ½
48 × 12 = 576, and 576 × ½ = 288
Or this one, if you prefer:
½ × 12 × 48
½ × 12 = 6, and 6 × 48 = 288