For those who rememeber me from the MM board

david · 11-18-2002, 09:02 PM

Hello again, Urso.... funny you mention MM.com because while their was problems here loggin in yesterday, I decided to venture over to see how Venus! was doing and gave her a "hello" and I saw your old posts over there!

It's good to see that your looking up and the gym has been very postitive! Keep up the good work!

irontime · 11-19-2002, 09:54 AM

Damn, shitty story bro

But I'm glad to see that you have found a positive outlet (hitting the weights) it's a lot more commendable then what most people do to cheer themselves up. On a personal note, I'd say skip sending the flowers. If she's fucked you over does she really deserve them?

bekahleigh23 · 11-19-2002, 10:28 AM

I'm glad you found the gym to be your sanctuary...keep your head up! It's so cool to see a Dad being a Father to his kid.

Duncan · 11-19-2002, 10:51 AM

That chick is like a wart, just cuyt her off and hope she never comes back.

I know it's harsh, but it's for the best.

Duncan · 11-19-2002, 10:52 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Duncan
That chick is like a wart, just cut her off and hope she never comes back.

I know it's harsh, but it's for the best.

**Jodi** · 11-19-2002, 11:42 AM

OMG! That sounds similar to my divorce that I just went through.

urso8up, I feel and KNOW your pain. I don't have kids but it still hurts. My ex and I was suppose to get back together and work things out and I actually moved a 1000 miles and left my job and everything for him and within a week he changed his mind as well. I moved back with him in the beginning of September and was divorced 3 weeks later. He didn't even give it a shot!

Now he is living with some hoochie in less than 2 months. I know this is sad but I just think of how much I would love to kick her ass when I need a good pick me up at the gym. Works well with squats! LOL!

Well at least I have a better body than her. LOL!

Sorry, now you've all had to listen to my rant again.

Anyway, welcome to IM!

**dg806** · 11-19-2002, 11:55 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by mochy

Now he is living with some hoochie in less than 2 months. I know this is sad but I just think of how much I would love to kick her ass when I need a good pick me up at the gym.

LMAO!! Not at you Mochy cause it's not funny but I would love to see that! Would pay good money too! Maybe we can get up a pool!!

dvlmn666 · 11-19-2002, 12:13 PM

Hey dude, congrats on finding the gym as an outlet and getting your priorities straight. I'd skip the flowers, like you said you still love her. You'd be better off to not let her know that, because sounds like she seems to want to use that to her advantage whenever she needs something. And you love her so you'd be there all the time, but it might be better for you in the long run to not let her know you'll always be there. That way she doesn't use you as a crutch, and end up hurting you more.

urso8up · 12-02-2002, 06:40 PM

urso8up · 12-02-2002, 06:42 PM

22inchpump · 12-03-2002, 11:25 AM

Gotta get in on this. First off, sorry to hear about the situation.Secondly, you gotta stay away from her.If she knows you still will do anything for her then she will use that. Also , down the line you are going to be wanting to eventually meet other women and if you are still wanting your ex it will make keeping someone you want to get to know very hard. Hell, she might only be nice and good to you when she hears about another woman. You are a person though, and she can't be making nice with you one minute and gone the next. If shes hanging out with her ex.... let it go. It sounds harsh, but there is nothing good to come of you being nice to her etc. You are allowed to treat her as a person but I urge you to think about what is facilitating everything she is saying or doing.Make sure you handle it all very thoroughly because you sound like a nice guy who might get used, and I hate seeing that .Keep going to the gym and even try to do more hobbies if you can to keep your mind fresh and unstressed.She obviously wants it over, you should just quit it so that she doesnt gain power over the situation and start trying to control your life, when things start to go well for you. This is all just my opinion ,but I have seen guys make this mistake time and time again. Probably for thousands of years sh#t like this has been going on. Good luck buddy and be smart.

urso8up · 12-09-2002, 06:16 PM

firestorm · 12-09-2002, 06:34 PM

A smoken gal like you? He must be gay. Come to NJ dear I'll show you how to treat a lady.

Quote:

Originally posted by mochy
OMG! That sounds similar to my divorce that I just went through.

urso8up, I feel and KNOW your pain. I don't have kids but it still hurts. My ex and I was suppose to get back together and work things out and I actually moved a 1000 miles and left my job and everything for him and within a week he changed his mind as well. I moved back with him in the beginning of September and was divorced 3 weeks later. He didn't even give it a shot!

Now he is living with some hoochie in less than 2 months. I know this is sad but I just think of how much I would love to kick her ass when I need a good pick me up at the gym. Works well with squats! LOL!

Well at least I have a better body than her. LOL!

Sorry, now you've all had to listen to my rant again.

Anyway, welcome to IM!

urso8up · 12-11-2002, 03:39 AM

Some men just know how to treat a woman. With respect they are just not there for one thing.

Quote:

Originally posted by firestorm
A smoken gal like you? He must be gay. Come to NJ dear I'll show you how to treat a lady.

firestorm · 12-11-2002, 03:44 AM

I'm not talking about you urso8, I'm sure your a great guy and I'm sorry to hear of your situation. I was speaking of Mochys relationship. She was married to a jerk.

firestorm · 12-11-2002, 03:46 AM

On a serious note, I'm happily married and have been for 12 years. I have 2 sons and I always put my family before my needs. Which is why all my FREEKEN LIFTS SUCK AGAIN!! I can't seem to stay consistent due to family obligations. hehehehe

urso8up · 12-11-2002, 12:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by firestorm
I'm not talking about you urso8, I'm sure your a great guy and I'm sorry to hear of your situation. I was speaking of Mochys relationship. She was married to a jerk.

Firstorm I was not refering my note to you i was just replying on the reply sorry if you thought i directed it to you

esmerelda · 12-11-2002, 12:37 PM

Hey there honey.......good to hear your hitting the gym again!!! Hope that boy of yours is getting to be a honey like his daddy!!! As for his mummy...........let it go........let it go.......you have the right to live a happy and furfilling life...make your boy the center and enjoy that till you find the real Ms Right!!!

urso8up · 12-12-2002, 03:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by esmerelda
Hey there honey.......good to hear your hitting the gym again!!! Hope that boy of yours is getting to be a honey like his daddy!!! As for his mummy...........let it go........let it go.......you have the right to live a happy and furfilling life...make your boy the center and enjoy that till you find the real Ms Right!!!

That is what i just decided to do it took me a little while to figure things really out. But i started yes by not talking to her when she called me i wouldn't answer the phone. Thank you all for your replies and advice. it is very appreciated

Hammerlynn · 12-12-2002, 07:43 AM

Hi! I'm not divorced but I too have given up the gym too many times for someone else! My ex-bf here in Vegas started getting upset saying that I spent too much time there! WTF ever! lol

I wised up for once and got rid of him and not the gym! It is an amazing place to find yourself....it's definitely helped me learn who I really am!

You sound like a great father...take that time to focus on yourself and your son! Let her go.....I know it will be very difficult but in the end the best thing to do. Do not let her continue to control you okay?

Take care

11-18-2002, 07:16 PM	#1
urso8up Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Sarasota, Florida Posts: 252	For those who rememeber me from the MM board Last edited by urso8up : 01-06-2003 at 03:39 AM.

11-19-2002, 09:54 AM	#3
irontime The Original Jackass Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: If not here, then on some porn site. Posts: 5,101 Photos: 1	Damn, shitty story bro But I'm glad to see that you have found a positive outlet (hitting the weights) it's a lot more commendable then what most people do to cheer themselves up. On a personal note, I'd say skip sending the flowers. If she's fucked you over does she really deserve them?
	If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself. - Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)

11-19-2002, 10:28 AM	#4
bekahleigh23 Leading a Charmed Life! Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: back to the tundra of WI Posts: 608	I'm glad you found the gym to be your sanctuary...keep your head up! It's so cool to see a Dad being a Father to his kid.
	"Our destiny changes with our thoughts; we shall become what we wish to become, do what we wish to do, when our habitual thought corresponds with our desire." -Orison S. Marder-

11-19-2002, 10:51 AM	#5
Duncan Registered User Join Date: Mar 2002 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 372	That chick is like a wart, just cuyt her off and hope she never comes back. I know it's harsh, but it's for the best.
	Man on a mission!

11-19-2002, 12:13 PM	#9
dvlmn666 Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Dec 2001 Location: Fremont, CA Posts: 3,233	Hey dude, congrats on finding the gym as an outlet and getting your priorities straight. I'd skip the flowers, like you said you still love her. You'd be better off to not let her know that, because sounds like she seems to want to use that to her advantage whenever she needs something. And you love her so you'd be there all the time, but it might be better for you in the long run to not let her know you'll always be there. That way she doesn't use you as a crutch, and end up hurting you more.
	"When I use the word intensity I mean the ability to continue past and through the pain barrier where your mind pleads to stop and in fact convinces your body that you have hit failure, but you push through. How far you push through that barrier is the level of intensity with which you train." -- Twin Peak

11-18-2002, 09:02 PM	#2
david EAST COAST BRAT Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Location: Waterworld, FL Posts: 25,420 Photos: 2	Hello again, Urso.... funny you mention MM.com because while their was problems here loggin in yesterday, I decided to venture over to see how Venus! was doing and gave her a "hello" and I saw your old posts over there! It's good to see that your looking up and the gym has been very postitive! Keep up the good work!

11-19-2002, 11:42 AM	#7
Jodi Super Moderator Super Moderator Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 22,265 Photos: 1	OMG! That sounds similar to my divorce that I just went through. urso8up, I feel and KNOW your pain. I don't have kids but it still hurts. My ex and I was suppose to get back together and work things out and I actually moved a 1000 miles and left my job and everything for him and within a week he changed his mind as well. I moved back with him in the beginning of September and was divorced 3 weeks later. He didn't even give it a shot! Now he is living with some hoochie in less than 2 months. I know this is sad but I just think of how much I would love to kick her ass when I need a good pick me up at the gym. Works well with squats! LOL! Well at least I have a better body than her. LOL! Sorry, now you've all had to listen to my rant again. Anyway, welcome to IM!

12-02-2002, 06:40 PM	#10
urso8up Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Sarasota, Florida Posts: 252	Last edited by urso8up : 01-06-2003 at 03:40 AM.

12-02-2002, 06:42 PM	#11
urso8up Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Sarasota, Florida Posts: 252	Last edited by urso8up : 01-06-2003 at 03:40 AM.

12-03-2002, 11:25 AM	#12
22inchpump Playboy Millionaire Elite Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: In my girlfriend. Posts: 646 Photos: 40	Gotta get in on this. First off, sorry to hear about the situation.Secondly, you gotta stay away from her.If she knows you still will do anything for her then she will use that. Also , down the line you are going to be wanting to eventually meet other women and if you are still wanting your ex it will make keeping someone you want to get to know very hard. Hell, she might only be nice and good to you when she hears about another woman. You are a person though, and she can't be making nice with you one minute and gone the next. If shes hanging out with her ex.... let it go. It sounds harsh, but there is nothing good to come of you being nice to her etc. You are allowed to treat her as a person but I urge you to think about what is facilitating everything she is saying or doing.Make sure you handle it all very thoroughly because you sound like a nice guy who might get used, and I hate seeing that .Keep going to the gym and even try to do more hobbies if you can to keep your mind fresh and unstressed.She obviously wants it over, you should just quit it so that she doesnt gain power over the situation and start trying to control your life, when things start to go well for you. This is all just my opinion ,but I have seen guys make this mistake time and time again. Probably for thousands of years sh#t like this has been going on. Good luck buddy and be smart.
	Height: 6 ft. Weight: 260 ish. Arms: 21.5" ("shooting" for 22's...) Chest: 52 inches Waist: 34 inches Good times.

12-09-2002, 06:16 PM	#13
urso8up Registered User Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Sarasota, Florida Posts: 252	Last edited by urso8up : 01-06-2003 at 03:41 AM.

12-11-2002, 03:44 AM	#16
firestorm P/RR/S Advisor Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: New Jersey Posts: 7,765 Photos: 3	I'm not talking about you urso8, I'm sure your a great guy and I'm sorry to hear of your situation. I was speaking of Mochys relationship. She was married to a jerk.

12-11-2002, 03:46 AM	#17
firestorm P/RR/S Advisor Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: New Jersey Posts: 7,765 Photos: 3	On a serious note, I'm happily married and have been for 12 years. I have 2 sons and I always put my family before my needs. Which is why all my FREEKEN LIFTS SUCK AGAIN!! I can't seem to stay consistent due to family obligations. hehehehe

12-11-2002, 12:37 PM	#19
esmerelda Registered User Join Date: Feb 2002 Location: Playing in the sun!!!! Posts: 767	Hey there honey.......good to hear your hitting the gym again!!! Hope that boy of yours is getting to be a honey like his daddy!!! As for his mummy...........let it go........let it go.......you have the right to live a happy and furfilling life...make your boy the center and enjoy that till you find the real Ms Right!!!
	Smile at your enemies, it'll drive them crazy.........'cos that twinkle in your eye means your up to something!!!!

12-12-2002, 07:43 AM	#21
Hammerlynn Former Fat Girl Elite Member Join Date: Jun 2002 Location: NW Indiana Posts: 1,376	Hi! I'm not divorced but I too have given up the gym too many times for someone else! My ex-bf here in Vegas started getting upset saying that I spent too much time there! WTF ever! lol I wised up for once and got rid of him and not the gym! It is an amazing place to find yourself....it's definitely helped me learn who I really am! You sound like a great father...take that time to focus on yourself and your son! Let her go.....I know it will be very difficult but in the end the best thing to do. Do not let her continue to control you okay? Take care
	Completed: Indianapolis Mini Marathon 2004 and 2005 Valparaiso Mini Marathon 2006 Chicago Marathon 2004 and 2006 www.myspace.com/fitness_runner

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