How does your girl handle advances?

**juggernaut** · 05-29-2011, 06:31 AM

Originally Posted by Deity

A very big physical disadvantage, along with the fact that I meant what I said when I threatened him. I'm extremly easy to piss off when it comes to disrespectful shit like that. Especialy when I heard her tell him to leave her alone multiple times. I'm a body builder, I've been doing it for 10 years and I'm not saying I'm a ufc fighter or some street bad ass, but if your engaged you should be ready to stand up for your relationship, and especialy ready to prove the point that no means no when someone doesn't get the message. And personally 9 times out of 10 people never want to screw with the big guy, but not always. If it comes down to it, the day guns were created it made everyone capable of using one equal. I personally don't believe in using guns to solve problems, but I'd be lying if I said I don't think about the possibility of being shot for threating someone who is at a disadvantage. But on topic I'm half asleep and long story short, if your girl doesn't know when to say no to attention she isn't ready for anything long term, chances are if she wants someone elses attention, its giving the guy more of an urge to keep pursueing and eventualy she's gonna cheat on your ass. But then again I'm not Dr. Phil.

Ease off the caffeine. Just because you're a bodybuilder doesn't mean squat (no pun intended). I'm a bodybuilder as well, and I'm pretty certain there are several bbers just as big as you or me. Ever hear of retard rage? I capitalize on it.
I've been a bouncer for well over 15 years, and can probably count the amount of times I've used force. It isnt necessary mostly, especially with dealing with beer muscle. But then you get some asshole who thinks, just because he can bench a house, he's strong. I could probably think of 5 different ways to destroy you and your theory in the midst of a confrontation.

As for threatening me, that shit would only work in movies. I've seen my co-workers dismantle giants with ease and they only stand well under 6 ft.

I don't like violence, in fact, I abhor it. I'm a well read, educated business owner and former teacher. If someone wants to confront me with their hands, that's a very bad move, because we both risk getting arrested, but there also times when someone needs a lesson taught.

Deity, I mean you no disrespect, but you need to remember one very important factor; there will ALWAYS be someone better than you. It's how you handle it that separates you from the asshole.

**Chubby** · 05-29-2011, 12:12 PM

Originally Posted by Deity

A very big physical disadvantage, along with the fact that I meant what I said when I threatened him. I'm extremly easy to piss off when it comes to disrespectful shit like that. Especialy when I heard her tell him to leave her alone multiple times. I'm a body builder, I've been doing it for 10 years and I'm not saying I'm a ufc fighter or some street bad ass, but if your engaged you should be ready to stand up for your relationship, and especialy ready to prove the point that no means no when someone doesn't get the message. And personally 9 times out of 10 people never want to screw with the big guy, but not always. If it comes down to it, the day guns were created it made everyone capable of using one equal. I personally don't believe in using guns to solve problems, but I'd be lying if I said I don't think about the possibility of being shot for threating someone who is at a disadvantage. But on topic I'm half asleep and long story short, if your girl doesn't know when to say no to attention she isn't ready for anything long term, chances are if she wants someone elses attention, its giving the guy more of an urge to keep pursueing and eventualy she's gonna cheat on your ass. But then again I'm not Dr. Phil.

First of all you need to control that men's ego. I thought we live in a society that is run by the rule of law. It wasn't necessary for you to show up at her work and threaten that guy. All she had to do was just tell boss or HR. I think there is sexuall harassment policy at every work place in the UC. It is her employer's responsibility to provide its employees workplace that is free of this kind of shit. Don't feel so powerful just because you are a bodybuilder. sometime some skinny person might beat you up and humiliate you in public.

**Deity** · 05-29-2011, 01:12 PM

I admit I have some issues when it comes to not thinking before I act sometimes. And I know that size doesn't matter at times, I'm not even a fan of violence myself, and no I didn't come to her work just for that. I was already on my way because we were going to have lunch together. But I personally don't care if someone does beat my ass or humiliate me, one day it will probably happen. But I'd fight the terminator if I had to for her, some of you may say you wouldn't do the same or maybe that I'm just some total idiot. But I'm not gonna pretend I'm any different than I am, violence is uncalled for yeah and in todays society it does mean jail. But I've seen multiple times I've been so pissed off that at the time it didn't matter. But hey thats my problem, I'm just being real about some of the choices I've made. Nobodys perfect, and thats one of my many flaws, we all have them. With that said I understand both of your points, but thats how it happened. I'll always be honest about my choices, even if they aren't the best ones.

**Prince** · 05-29-2011, 02:31 PM

Originally Posted by DaMayor

If this is something you have to worry about, I'd consider finding another Gal. Back in the day, I rather enjoyed watching my wife shoot annoying guys down. Never had a worry about her. If your lady isn't shooting....I'd say she enjoys the attention.

yup.

**bigmoe65** · 05-29-2011, 03:47 PM

I usually just let my wife bring him home so I can watch him fuck her, thats what she really wants right?

**blazeftp** · 05-29-2011, 06:33 PM

Originally Posted by bigmoe65

I usually just let my wife bring him home so I can watch him fuck her, thats what she really wants right?

When it comes to my fiancée i don't really care about people hitting on her.
Just goes to show how hot she is

I have only had to intervene a handful of times in our 5 year relationship.

The Way she deals with most is a smile and tell them she isn't interested but thanks for the drink.

Question for you fellow guys out there.
How do you handle advances from other woman ?

**Chubby** · 05-29-2011, 06:51 PM

Originally Posted by blazeftp

Question for you fellow guys out there.
How do you handle advances from other woman ?

That is very good question. And I am waiting for some responds.

**evanps** · 05-29-2011, 09:13 PM

Originally Posted by blazeftp

How do you handle advances from other woman ?

Get this a lot (not being arrogant just true) and prob 9/10 a nice smile and a lil chuckle and quick change of subject keeps me from having to be an ass but gets the point across. Most women aren't as pushy as us but occasionally I'll have to take the next step and say something like "I doubt my girlfriend would like that". All in all I think its best to keep it simple with even the most forward chicks, they don't usually have the boundary issues you see from a man so if you're not advancing they aren't either.... usually lol

**juggernaut** · 05-30-2011, 05:06 AM

Originally Posted by chobby192

That is very good question. And I am waiting for some responds.

I drop my cock to the floor. That usually scares them off.

**blazeftp** · 05-30-2011, 12:48 PM

Originally Posted by evanps

Get this a lot (not being arrogant just true) and prob 9/10 a nice smile and a lil chuckle and quick change of subject keeps me from having to be an ass but gets the point across. Most women aren't as pushy as us but occasionally I'll have to take the next step and say something like "I doubt my girlfriend would like that". All in all I think its best to keep it simple with even the most forward chicks, they don't usually have the boundary issues you see from a man so if you're not advancing they aren't either.... usually lol

Got to say i do the same tbh.
Most of the time i ignore it and change the subject.
When that doesn't work i point to my ring.

Originally Posted by juggernaut

I drop my cock to the floor. That usually scares them off.

Drop your Dildo

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