Thread: Need first date ideas!!!

Dinner. Putt putt. Roofie. Never call her again. Do it in that order, live with no regrets son!

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Forget that it is your first date. Act normal and honestly. Don't try to impress her too much.

Originally Posted by Chubby

Forget that it is your first date. Act normal and honestly. Don't try to impress her too much.

Thanks for the suggestion bro! I'll def be myself and I'm not the kind to try to impress girls with stuff. We have talked on the phone several times and it's weird how easy it is to talk to her. I just want a good idea that puts us in a good atmosphere where it is easy to just relax and get to know eachother.

Compliment her on her appearance, be sincere, & remember that if she asks: "does my butt look big?" The answer is a definate no!! Good luck!!

One finger not two.

Thanks for the replies so far fellas! I'm getting some good laughs out of a couple of them! Anymore ideas though???

comedy club....improv shows are best since it's audience participation.....you get a good idea if the person you're with is fun or not

Take her to the ramada and fuck her senseless.

I dunno, the comedy club sounds like a good idea. And maybe I could take her to dinner before. I'm thinking that an environment where we can talk and laugh a little while not having to feel like we have to talk the whole time is a good idea. Hopefully that last sentence didn't sound too weird. While I'm not sure if the local comedy club has something this wkend, i'll check. Thanks Irish for the idea! And c'mon Swagger!! With a name like that, you should be throwing some awesome ideas at me! haha jk ya bro.. but please keep the ideas coming!

Man take her ridin on some back roads. Talk, hang out... If it's awkward an quiet then you have nothin in common. If you dO then it should be a fun interesting night with aloe if opportunities.
Bring some rolls in case it's awkward

Originally Posted by Swagger

Long as you don't pressure her to hop on stage and try telling jokes, then I guess its fine.

lol won't have to worry about any of that bc the only comedy place around is closed I guess which sucks. So far tho I know that I will for sure take her to dinner. I'd hate to say go to a movie after that bc it's so predictable. There is supposed to be nice weather out this wkend for where i'm at.. any ideas of stuff to do outside.. besides "that" of course haha

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IMO get her out of that one horse town because she has already done everything there is to do there twice. Take her to the big city for the evening. You'll get major style points for this.

Plus, you get a 45 minute car ride to break the ice, make small talk and even discuss what your tastes in music are.

Just don't drive like an asshat on the first date.

Originally Posted by Big Pimpin

IMO get her out of that one horse town because she has already done everything there is to do there twice. Take her to the big city for the evening. You'll get major style points for this.

Plus, you get a 45 minute car ride to break the ice, make small talk and even discuss what your tastes in music are.

Just don't drive like an asshat on the first date.

I found out what her favorite place to eat is and there is one where I live so I would have to drive the 45 min. There is also putt putt??? Also, if things go well, do you guys think it'd be a good idea to take her out to a club or bar in the city for a few drinks?

Originally Posted by fray5

I found out what her favorite place to eat is and there is one where I live so I would have to drive the 45 min. There is also putt putt??? Also, if things go well, do you guys think it'd be a good idea to take her out to a club or bar in the city for a few drinks?

I ass-sume the club/bar is in your city? I still say take her to the big city for a night out away from every gotdamn gomer in town that knows her by first name. You know her favorite restaurant? That means you can figure out what she likes to eat and take her to that type of joint in your town.

Why not go out for a few drinks?

Originally Posted by SloppyJ

Why not go out for a few drinks?

I was thinking of doing that after dinner or whatever. I just want to be careful to not make her think I'm trying to get her drunk lol.

How old are you and her?

Google it. I did. lol

No.10 Bowling

Bowling is an old-school date idea with a great casual vibe. The two of you can have a beer or a slice of pizza while engaging in a friendly competition. Just about every town has a bowling alley. It’s a low-stress environment, so your date is guaranteed to feel relaxed and comfortable, which is important. If she’s comfortable, she’ll have more fun, and if she’s having fun, you’ll get a second date.

No.9 Hiking

Exploring the great outdoors and getting some physical activity is a terrific first date idea, provided your date is up to the task. You need to check first to ensure that she’s the outdoorsy type. A high-maintenance woman does not want to go on a hike (you know, that martini-sipping girl with the perfectly manicured nails probably isn’t up for it). But for the cute surfer girl you met at the pub, it’s perfect.

No.8 Aquarium

Aquariums aren't just for fourth-grade field trips; they're also a great place for a first date. You can walk leisurely with your lady friend as the two of you survey all of the sea life. And underwater creatures are colorful, slimy, toothy, and weird enough to keep things interesting.

No.7 The theater

The theater is another one of our favorite first date ideas. It’s more original than a movie, plus it’s a little classier. The two of you can get dressed up and enjoy yourselves. Plus, there’s typically an intermission during which you’ll have a chance to chat, unlike a movie, where you’ll spend the entire time sitting in the dark. The theater is a good date for just about any type of woman, but it’s particularly well-suited to bibliophiles and art lovers.

No.6 Driving range

Taking a date to the driving range is another fun outdoors activity. It’s not particularly strenuous, though, so your date doesn’t need to be athletic to have a good time. The driving range makes a great daytime date. It’s also a good first date idea because if she’s not a golfer, helping her with her swing is a great opportunity to get up close and personal. Alternatively, if she’s a little more experienced, it’s a chance for some playful competition.

No.5 Art gallery

A trip to the local art gallery is a great first date for the artsy girl. It’s not a bad idea to do a little research on the exhibit beforehand, though. Not just because it’s good to seem at least a little knowledgeable, but also because you don’t want to accidentally take her to an exhibit on the horrors of meat-processing plants or the atrocities of war.

No.4 Local music show

Remember that conversation is probably the most important part of a first date. However, the right music in the right venue can provide the perfect ratio of conversation to pleasant distraction. You don’t want a stadium show. You don’t want heavy metal or techno -- the emphasis there is more on dancing than listening. But if you can find a more mellow act in a smaller venue, you’re golden.

No.3 Play tourist

We sometimes take our hometowns for granted. Think about it: Every year, scores of people probably travel to your city on vacation. Try to see your hometown from a tourist’s perspective. Check out the local tourism office; it will have guides and information on all kinds of festivals, events and sights worth seeing. Take your date on a touristy excursion around your hometown and see the city from a different perspective.

No.2 Ice-skating

Ice-skating is innocent fun. That’s why it makes this list of our favorite first date ideas. It’s a great date for women who love to be active. And if she doesn’t know how to skate, so what? Holding hands as you help her stay on her feet is a fun way to spend an afternoon and an excellent opportunity to get to know each other.

No.1 Try new cuisine

Sharing new experiences together is a great way to build a connection with someone. That’s why if you’re going to take her out to a restaurant, you should try taking her somewhere a little more adventurous. Check out a new ethnic cuisine -- something neither of you have tried before. The element of adventure will add some excitement to your date, and, who knows, maybe the two of you will find a new favorite.

More info @ Top 10: First Date Ideas - AskMen

Originally Posted by SloppyJ

Why not go out for a few drinks?

There's a coffee shop near my place that had Scrabble there. The girl was a law student and that was a decent quick date. Coffee and a board game.

And, yeah.

Never dismiss board games!

Originally Posted by Big Pimpin

How old are you and her?

^^^ 40 rear old virgin

Take her to a Nascar race.

I gather that you're not the most experienced bloke. Here's what you do. Take her to your place, order a pizza, and throw a good skin flick in the DVD player. That will get her all worked up. If things don't move fast enough, use the ole popcorn box trick. Never fails!

GICH!

Im 24 and she is 27. Hey Curt, I did google it my man and did you happen to find that top ten list from askmen.com?! That's an awesome site! I wouldn't say i'm the smoothest guy out there but I got out of an 9 month relationship several months ago and this is kinda the first serious date I'm going on since then. I've hooked up with a couple girls since then but this girl is actually pretty cool so I want to do it right. But so far here is what I'm thinking... Dinner at the restaraunt she likes, driving range (there is also a putt putt course at the same place), and then if things are going well maybe we head out for a few drinks. What do ya bros think??

Seems to me that your over thinking it man or atleast focusing on the wrong crap. For women it's about the connection not he activity. Just take her to dinner be polite to every one around you not just her talk your ass off be hilarious and by the time dinner is done you should both be tipsy heading to one of your houses...oh don't forget to flirt and touch you don't want the first time you touch her to be at the end of the date trying to get laid.

Originally Posted by Chubby

Forget that it is your first date. Act normal and honestly. Don't try to impress her too much.

Correct. Never put a show on you cant afford to support. It's a lie, and she'll find out. The first date is the feel out date. Do something fun. Boardwalk or carnivals are good icebreakers too. I still love taking my sweetheart to Italian street fairs. I win her some hokey shit and she adores me for trying.

No offense man but have you ever been on a first date? Just be yourself and enjoy it, you'll know of you guys click pretty quickly just by small talk. Good luck.

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Originally Posted by GymRat4Life

No offense man but have you ever been on a first date? Just be yourself and enjoy it, you'll know of you guys click pretty quickly just by small talk. Good luck.

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Lol yeah man but it's an interesting topic and I just like to see ideas bc it never hurts!