Thread: My Wife is Fucking with my Head

Excuse me? Month without her giving up any punani ? Let the games begin I say

Why torture yourself? She just wants to feel special, hot, sexy. Make her feel like that and she will literally throw the vag at you. and Thennnnn you

act not remotely interested in her sexually

dead girls can't say no. just saying.

tell her you can't take the time to romance her AND post hot babes for the guys on ironmagazine. jeeze women. maybe you can compromise... you be mr romance one night a she has to be ms porn star another night.

Not quite sure what the thread is about. You have an apparent problem, you know the solution.. but you would rather mind fuck. She is trying to entice you into wanting to please her, hardly screwing with you. Man up and rise to the occasion.

You can do thoughtful things for her while she is at work, leave her a surprise when she gets home. Its not so much about the physical, the mental can really get her worked up over an extended period of time.

I do all the cleaning, I do all the laundry, I do all the dishes, I bring home random treats and flowers and I work more hours than her. I have one day off every eight and she has three day weekends every other week.

If that's not enough.....

those are awesome but it's also awesome she's telling you what she wants not turning away from you to get her needs met. i think you could both have fun if you used this to explore both your fantasies some. she wants to be romanced work something out where you get sex how you want it some too. doing the dishes doesn't mean you can ignore her sexually and just jump on her and pretend she's some babe you been looking at online. if you ignore her needs she'll get them met elsewhere and vice versa. work it out.

you will get a lot more by setting your stubbornness aside. you know how many guys get to look at some chick in sweats or a dirty robe not sexy bras n panties? you sound kinda lucky.

She's trolling for trouser trout for sure. Does she wear the lacy things to work? Hmm....

My wife holds out sometimes to. She always comes around when i start feelin on her friends when they come over.

Give her what she wants before she gets it from someone else!!!

I can see how this is a problem for you, though. When your at work she is at home, and then when you're done she is at work. It's tough to find time for romance and sex, amongst many other things!!!

Originally Posted by TheGreatSatan

I do all the cleaning, I do all the laundry, I do all the dishes, I bring home random treats and flowers and I work more hours than her. I have one day off every eight and she has three day weekends every other week.

If that's not enough.....

I was on the side of Little Wing and Muscle Girl until I read this. It sure seems to me you have more of a problem than just sex. There's a serious imbalance in the division of labor in your house and she's STILL bitching that you don't "romance her"? Dude, you need to sit down and have some serious discussions about your relationship.

Originally Posted by TheGreatSatan

She's said that if I don't romance her, I'm not getting any.

You need to correct her: You won't be having sex with her.

Joking aside, if you are still attracted to her, you'll find the time to wine and dine her.

How much time do you spend playing video games? Watching TV? A lot of people say they don't have the time for this or than. What they're really saying is that they don't want to make the time for this or that.

Granted, some people really don't have the time, but most do.

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Originally Posted by TheGreatSatan

I do all the cleaning, I do all the laundry, I do all the dishes, I bring home random treats and flowers and I work more hours than her. I have one day off every eight and she has three day weekends every other week.

If that's not enough.....

If you don't have children and you're doing all the work, you need to man up. Split that shit evenly. It's no wonder you don't want to wine and dine her; you probably resent her deep down. Until you fix the underlying problem, the symptoms aren't going to go away.

If you do all the household chores, as well as bring home random treats and flowers & whatnot, she should be more than receptive, in my opinion. It's not like you guys get to spend all kinds of time together.

I don't know what your approach is, but if you're just basically walking uo to her, trying to jerk her panties down, thats not gonna work either. You also shouldn't have to spend twentg minutes rubbing her feet though either.

N b4 rape.

Originally Posted by TheGreatSatan

So, I've been married for nearly 15 years. We haven't had sex in about a month and she's withholding on purpose. Apparently she wants me to romance her. I work 50 hours a week on days and she works 40 hours on nights. Needless to say, I don't see her enough, at least I think, for delayed romancing. She's said that if I don't romance her, I'm not getting any. And by romancing she really means that she wants lots of attention without me going for her goods right away.

To make it even more annoying she's been wearing lacy panties and bras to accentuate her chest line. She even makes comments like "wet" or "hot".

What she doesn't know is that I can fuck with her head too. I can turn it off and act not remotely interested in her sexually. I'll just rub a couple extra loads off and make her want it more than me.

I can definitely relate what you are talking and it worked out ok in the end form me as I was sin the same boar at one point. I am not a guy into the romance thing but I did remember that she is my wife and best friend and so buying flowers every once in a while and going the distance with foreplay seemed to work out great.

I am assuming that you are looking for advice hence the thread so I would say, don't fuck with her back or she will find attention from someone else. I don't look at it like satisfying her entirely, I look at it like I am trying to protect myself from going to jail. I will kill a motherfucker for sleeping with my wife.

I don't see my wife because I work internationally for months at a time so it is like putting in double the effort on my end. I always have to be on my toes ecause if shit goes bad over the phone then all kinds of shitgoes through my head.

Originally Posted by Killermonkey

I will kill a motherfucker for sleeping with my wife.

What if I let you sleep with my wife? Fair?

Do you guys love your wives?

More than anything! I would do anything but give up my AAS addiction. But if she begged hard enough I probably would consider it but probably still no?

You married chubbs?

Btw, bigmoe- you are a crazy man!

Originally Posted by TheGreatSatan

I do all the cleaning, I do all the laundry, I do all the dishes, I bring home random treats and flowers and I work more hours than her. I have one day off every eight and she has three day weekends every other week.

If that's not enough.....

You're a dumby.

Make a pact with her.
She will do ALL of those chores for a solid WEEK.
and then you will do what she wants.

Rub her feet, caress her body for half an hour, and then get it on.

Why is everyone who is married so un-happy? Makes me never want to get married.

Originally Posted by SloppyJ

Why is everyone who is married so un-happy? Makes me never want to get married.

It does seem that way doesnt it? I can see why though, things get old after a while. But that is where the true test of fidelity comes into play, I don't look at cheating on my wife as just immoral but fucking over your best friend. I never fucked anyone and I certainly wouldn't start with her.

Originally Posted by SloppyJ

Why is everyone who is married so un-happy? Makes me never want to get married.

Thats why its called marriage. You try eating the same soup everyday.

I think you should want to do that. Sorry bro, but its all about getting there. So you get to spend time with here every 8th day. That day should be full nothing but pleasure for you both. Book her into a spa, or both of you's. Make her feel like the queen again. A nice afternoon at the beach, or walking, women love nature. A romantic dinner, bottle or 2 of wine, and she will be doing the things you are looking for.

If you decide to play back, I can guarantee someone else wont mind doing it.

Originally Posted by SloppyJ

Why is everyone who is married so un-happy? Makes me never want to get married.

It is wise to look for more than just an appearance when you look for a life partner. Life is a long journey. You need more than just a sex to travel the ups and down of this life.

Bigmoe, nice analogy.

Red rocket has solid advice, do exactly that and you can go wrong. I especially like the part where he said some other dude will probably end up pleasuring your wife if you don't do something now.

Times awasting!

Originally Posted by Chubby

It is wise to look for more than just an appearance when you look for a life partner. Life is a long journey. You need more than just a sex to travel the ups and down of this life.

For me I can stretch a relationship on looks for about 3 months. After that it's all downhill. I learned that lesson a long time ago. I'm more about being with someone who makes me happy. But they have to be hot too.