You're right in saying that many children aim to be like their parents as longs as they admire their traits. I've learned loyalty among other things from my parents as they are still together after 40 years of marriage but that's just an example.
Id display these traits in a relationship just as I have done in the past however it would be only with people who I'm attracted to and that comes down to pure instinct. There's no way that somebody could have influenced me into doing something I didn't want to do such as being gay. Hell, my father couldn't even get me to play football!
I grew up in a small homophobic town with homophobic friends, acquaintances and both my brother and my father are homophobic yet I refused to be homophobic and infact spoke out against it at a very young age.
Where I lived is was cool to kick a football, be racist and hate on fags yet my musical idols were often gay so I felt it as being hypocritical to join the fag hating club knowing that many gay musicians have enhanced my life.





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