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12-15-2011, 12:31 AM #1Yahweh MODERATOR
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Just got some very sad news.
I normally don't post serous stuff online but today, just an hour ago I found out a friend of mine killed himself. What makes this hard is he was one of the strongest people I knew, everyone loved him and he was just a great guy. I am devastated, I feel guilty for not seeing it coming, I am mad that he did this, I am confused about it all.
The last time we spoke he told me some horrible shit that had happened to him. He had fallen on hard times financially, just went through a brutal divorce and the last thing I wont mention was just horrible and worse of all it was unjust. I feel like I should have known something bad was going to happen, I should have said something, fuck I don't know.
Anyway this is more of a vent for me, I just am not sure how to deal with this horrible news.
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12-15-2011, 12:33 AM #2Senior Member ELITE MEMBER
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12-15-2011, 12:41 AM #3CHEMICALLY ENGINEERED BOARD REP
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Sorry for your loss bro and vent as much as you need.
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12-15-2011, 12:57 AM #4Registered User
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Crying helps (scientifically proven). No shame in it at all. Just don't let it bottle up inside. My condolence for your lost.
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12-15-2011, 04:15 AM #5Moderator MODERATOR
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That sucks, sorry man.
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12-15-2011, 04:21 AM #6Voodoo Doll ELITE MEMBER
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i'm really sorry. not sure how you could have known or what you can really say to help when someone's hurting that bad. maybe you could help him by consoling his loved ones.
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12-15-2011, 04:30 AM #7Senior Member BOARD REP
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Don't blame yourself it's not your fault. You couldn't have possibly seen it coming, you just never know with these kind of things. I'm sorry for your loss...
Try to get out and enjoy the upcoming weekend or something or reflect on the "good times". I know what it's like to lose someone unexpectedly, it is a very difficult to deal with.
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12-15-2011, 04:58 AM #8Registered User
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Sorry for your loss.
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12-15-2011, 05:01 AM #9Senior Member ELITE MEMBER
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Sorry for your loss, brother
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12-15-2011, 05:26 AM #10more u eat,more u grow
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Dang bro., I hate this.. I'm very sorry it happen & really u shouldn't blame urself. It's gonna be hard for you, I know. Very sorry about your bro.
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12-15-2011, 05:31 AM #11Registered User
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Sorry to hear this bro, just don't put the blame on yourself. I'm sure he wouldn't want you to feel like that. It was beyond your control and you couldn't have seen it coming since it seems like he wasn't the type to do this. Again, sorry for your loss. Hang in there bro.
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12-15-2011, 07:33 AM #12Registered User
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You can't take responsibility for something beyond your control. Use the experience to get the most out of every day of your life and your interactions with other friends/family members. Tomorrow is not guaranteed for any of us.
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12-15-2011, 07:54 AM #13We Will Rise BOARD REP
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Sorry to hear that bro.
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12-15-2011, 08:31 AM #14Registered User
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Im sorry.. You and his family are in my prayers.
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Sorry for your loss. Dont allow yourself to get over run with guilt, it is not your fault one bit. Don't try to find the bottom of the bottle either, let it out on some wights or a nice easy walk in a calm peaceful place. Take it ez man...
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12-15-2011, 08:36 AM #16YOU ME WE ELITE MEMBER
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Dude, sorry about the news, that's horrible. But like many have said here, try not to blame yourself, it wasn't your fault. Nobody could see something like that coming.
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Sorry to hear this buddy...
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12-15-2011, 09:12 AM #18Senior Member ELITE MEMBER
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My prayers and thoughts are with you dude. I know how it feels. Many years ago someone I knew killed himself as well. I felt the same "guilt" for a long time but finally learned it is not our fault. Sometimes there is just no warning and other times the warning signs can be so subtle as to be missed even by trained professionals.
It was not your fault and in time you will feel better. Hang in there!
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GFR, Sorry to hear about your loss, My prayers for you and the ones he left behind.
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12-15-2011, 12:30 PM #20IDIOT SAVANT
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Others have already said it but I'll repeat it, this was NOT YOUR FAULT!!! He may not have been able to control the bad things that happened to him but, he's the one who chose the final option. YOU had nothing to do with that so don't ever blame yourself in any way.
Having said that, I'm truely sorry for your loss. My best friend was taken from me in a car accident fifteen years ago and I still miss him. It does get better though.Rules? You mean we have RULES for that???
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12-15-2011, 12:34 PM #21Creator of Chaos MODERATOR
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Sorry for your loss. A guy who was like a brother to me was killed in a car accident and of course I miss him, as do my brothers.
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12-15-2011, 12:39 PM #22Registered User
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Sorry for your loss bro...
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12-15-2011, 01:11 PM #23I'm CEO, Bitch! ADMINISTRATOR
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sorry to hear that, we went thru the same thing recently except is was one of Gena's immediate family members that committed suicide.
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12-15-2011, 01:36 PM #24Metrosexual ELITE MEMBER
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Sorry to hear that, man.
Like the others said, you had nothing to do with it. The guy was doing a "cry for help" thing, it was the real deal. There was nothing you or any of his family or friends could do. He needed professional help.
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bummer bro
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12-15-2011, 01:44 PM #26Senior Member BOARD REP
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GFR - Nothing to say that has not already been said. Just know that before you go to the bottle for solace, there is surely some people to talk to or a meeting you can go to and let it out there. Stay strong and be there for his family and friends if you can; he would like that.
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That's gotta be difficult but try not to beat yourself up. You and everybody else who cared for your friend will be feeling the same regretful emotions Id imagine.
Suicide is such a tragedy for everybody involved.
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12-15-2011, 01:55 PM #28IDIOT POLICE
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Get together with mutual friends, get drunk and celebrate his life. It likely would have happened help or no help. I've been around this sort of thing in highschool...
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The statistics show these types of things always increase durring the Holidays...
Very sad...
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12-15-2011, 02:25 PM #30Yahweh MODERATOR
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His life was truly fucked, I don't blame him for what he did, I just never thought he was the type to kill himself. I talked to a few mutual friends today, it made it much better to talk with other people who knew him. Originally Posted by DOMS
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