Thread: anyone care to talk bout how shitty my relationship is

Shucks man, what's going on?

I could tel you storys that would make you cry. Whats fucked up your day?

just this girl weve lived together for like 3 years now and we use to be in love i quess u could say but this last year shes always mad and i mean always she never laughs and is constantly on me bout shit thats no where near my fault, i feel like a kid in trouble and everytime shes home im like fuck wat am i gonna get yelled at for today, but the tough as part i cant just leave i cant pay for this house alone and have no where else to go, now theres this girl that i really like and she for sure likes me but has a bf and doesnt want to break up with him shits just not good im already depressed cause of the holidays shit

Sorry about that bro. I know how the depressed on the holidays goes. I am away from my wife, and have been for over a year an a half. Damn military. That girl who likes you needs to figure out what she wants. She can't lead you on, which is essentially what she's doing. As for the girl you live with; I grew up with a mom who was bi-polar, and had multiple personality disorder. Every time I woke up for a new day I knew it was going to be a crappy day. I got threatened daily, (not joking on this). I had to move out ASAP!!! I moved out young, and struggled like crazy but it was much better for me than the situation I was in. If she is constantly mad and treating you that way, you may want to find out if she's cheating... Seems like she feels guilty and is displacing the blame/guilt.

honestly i hope she is so itll just be over but i really dont think she is but i could be wrong and as for the other girl ur completely right its like shes keeping me around just in case shit doesnt work out for her and her bf so ya i think im gonna call her out

You might have to adjust your way of living, but you'll be so much happier. Happiness is the most important thing.

ull let me stay in ur beach house for awhile wont u lol and ya im gonna have to do something this sucks

Don't lay back and let either of them walk on you. The one your with need to kick rocks! I am a very angry guy, and I mean extremely. Yet I love my wife so much I won't yell at her, or belittle her. Fuck that! I just take a pause, breathe and slowly say what I'm thinking. For your girl to treat you how she is to me is unsat as hell! Call the girl with the BF out and make sure she truly answers your questions with full competent answers. Not bullshit. Adjust your living style. If you need help with building a better budget PM me and I can help.

The girl on the side that’s keeping you around just in case. Drop her like a bad habit. Think about it. That not the kind of chic you grow old with. If you’re the side meat in her relationship. What is to happen when you’re the main dish, and a new appetizer comes by?

Originally Posted by antonoverlord

just this girl weve lived together for like 3 years now and we use to be in love i quess u could say but this last year shes always mad and i mean always she never laughs and is constantly on me bout shit thats no where near my fault, i feel like a kid in trouble and everytime shes home im like fuck wat am i gonna get yelled at for today, but the tough as part i cant just leave i cant pay for this house alone and have no where else to go, now theres this girl that i really like and she for sure likes me but has a bf and doesnt want to break up with him shits just not good im already depressed cause of the holidays shit

I'm sorry Anton, it sounds like a shitty situation but you have to stay strong and get through it the best way you can. Even With what your going through I hope you will have a good new years bc you deserve it. Good luck with everything

Originally Posted by antonoverlord

ull let me stay in ur beach house for awhile wont u lol and ya im gonna have to do something this sucks

LOL, if I had the money for a beach house, I'd build you an addition.

keep ur head up women i will never understand jus remember u gotta look out for u most importantly if thast means u gotta sdplit then u gotta do it jus be rational about it and put emotions and feelings to the side

thing is im such an easy going person i honestly dont want to upset anyone id rather we all just be happy and have fun, i dont ever call her names either not at all shes very smart too but it just seems shes unhappy and just wish shed tell me, trust me ive asked wats wrong why shes constantly mad at me and she says everything is fine and just so everyone knows this other girl didnt come into the picture until months after i started feeling this way and for the other girl well i mean everything in her relationship was going good and shit but then she met me and now she talks about there relationship to me and how the flame went out and shit, so im so damn confused and i get attached easy and i like this girl

thanks miss springsteen ill do my best tonights just me at home alone like usual though so dont know how good its gonna get maybe u can post some more pics lol jk

Stay strong Anton. I am going through relationship crap, but it gets better. Just don't let the live-in walk all over you. If you didn't do anything wrong, you shouldn't feel guilty for anything at all.

Originally Posted by antonoverlord

thing is im such an easy going person i honestly dont want to upset anyone id rather we all just be happy and have fun, i dont ever call her names either not at all shes very smart too but it just seems shes unhappy and just wish shed tell me, trust me ive asked wats wrong why shes constantly mad at me and she says everything is fine and just so everyone knows this other girl didnt come into the picture until months after i started feeling this way and for the other girl well i mean everything in her relationship was going good and shit but then she met me and now she talks about there relationship to me and how the flame went out and shit, so im so damn confused and i get attached easy and i like this girl

If the new girl is talking to you like that then she is just looking for a hook up. she is acting like she's neglected and doesn't have romance anymore hoping you throw some her way.

i would but id get so attached i have trouble just fucking girls especially hot ones and damn is she hot

Originally Posted by antonoverlord

thanks miss springsteen ill do my best tonights just me at home alone like usual though so dont know how good its gonna get maybe u can post some more pics lol jk

Lol well we have plenty of pics to go and some vids that you might enjoy..keep your head up

All relationship problems can be solved by having sex with her friends, sisters, and/or enemies.

Oh wow, Miss Springsteen I didn't even see you here. Welcome aboard

Originally Posted by djlance

Oh wow, Miss Springsteen I didn't even see you here. Welcome aboard

Thanks djlance! Happy to be here

You need to tell her to treat you right or gtfo.

she might be nice for awhile but i just think its who she is some people are just negative and angry people

Originally Posted by Miss Springsteen

Lol well we have plenty of pics to go and some vids that you might enjoy..keep your head up

i seen ur movie and wish i could hear your voice but sound card still down shit

Originally Posted by antonoverlord

i seen ur movie and wish i could hear your voice but sound card still down shit

Oh crap we made that for you, no joke. Well make sure you check it out when you can. I think you'll like it lol

sometimes in a long term relationship you have to eat shit...the reason being is that you/me/guys/anyone....we all suck sometimes...and the thing we need the most is someone to put up with our shit...i was not always mature enough to do what i needed to as a husband...sometimes when you are frustrated about the other person...the thing you really need to do is look in the mirror

love is so awesome until real real life sets in....love isnt really what you like about someone...its about how much you are willing to go thru and put up with out of that person....anything worth having takes work

Originally Posted by antonoverlord

thing is im such an easy going person i honestly dont want to upset anyone id rather we all just be happy and have fun, i dont ever call her names either not at all shes very smart too but it just seems shes unhappy and just wish shed tell me, trust me ive asked wats wrong why shes constantly mad at me and she says everything is fine and just so everyone knows this other girl didnt come into the picture until months after i started feeling this way and for the other girl well i mean everything in her relationship was going good and shit but then she met me and now she talks about there relationship to me and how the flame went out and shit, so im so damn confused and i get attached easy and i like this girl

No way to live your life.

"Love" drives people insane. I'm certain of it.

Have definitely been there and wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Hope you can get out of the situation and eventually into a better one, but if you do pull yourself out of the mess please follow this advice:

Take a break.

No need to jump from the frying pan into the fire as the saying goes.

Relax and just be you. Single is a good place to be for some people.

Wishing you the best.

And X2 on what someone else mentioned -- better to be in a small place than to be upside down on a place and tortured at the same time. Get out while you can, man. Life is too short.

bro u have no idea if her car were to break down it would be my fault and i dont ever drive her car, she got mad this morning cause we had to go to my gmas this morning for christmas, also on way home the pie she placed in the seat spilled and she starts yelling at me, im always at home for this girl im not out drinking and partying with friends or stupid shit like that, i dont drink period, whenever im at walmart or something ill always get her something like a little bear or some shit and this is after 3yrs not many guys keep that up, im telling u i dont know wat i do wrong ive tried everything to make her pleased with me but i just cant do it anymore i guess