Working at astrip club has ruined me!!!

**Pitboss** · 06-11-2003, 10:55 PM

Day in and day out I work with women and only women. On any given day there are flirtatious gestures, comments or even gropes towards me. Of course being the gentleman that I am I kindly give them back

But today I came to a very, very scary realization. I can't tell who is and who isn't coming on to me!!! I can't tell if a girl actually has any interest in me or not. Sure some of you may say so what it's just work but hey this can extend past work. Maybe when I'm out an about and meet some hottie I won't be able to tell if she is flirting or not.

OMG This is too much for me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I need to not be around women. Yeah that's it. No wait I can't quit work. I need the work, kind of like the work. I know I'll ignore them all. No more flirting. No more spankings.. okay maybe I'll let them do that to me once a week. But just ignore them. They aren't women running around with near nothing on, pushing my face into their cleavage. No they are my co-workers and that is all they are.... but damn the legs on some of them.. and those asses. What asses?? No such thing. I can do it. Totally remove myself mentally for a little while at work and outside of work. Okay this ain't gonna work... there is no way I can do this. Dammit I'm such a loser.

**lean_n_76er** · 06-11-2003, 11:00 PM

Here's the answer! You go work in a MALE strip club and then you'll know!

and I'll take your place at the club you work in now.

Deal?

**Pitboss** · 06-11-2003, 11:02 PM

Originally posted by lean_n_76er
Here's the answer! You go work in a MALE strip club and then you'll know!

and I'll take your place at the club you work in now.

Deal?

Dude that has got to be the sickest suggestion I have ever heard!!! Eeeeewwwww!!!!!!!!!!!

**forciano** · 06-11-2003, 11:33 PM

i say you just date a bunch of women, and see waht kind of conection you can make. in my experience i can see if i girl likes me, but some girls can hide it pretty well. Or some just need to know you a little better.

**Mudge** · 06-12-2003, 12:05 AM

If you assume all women love you, it must be a nice self esteem booster

**Pitboss** · 06-12-2003, 12:07 AM

Originally posted by Mudge
If you assume all women love you, it must be a nice self esteem booster

They don't????

**Mudge** · 06-12-2003, 12:15 AM

Are you asking me or telling me

**Pitboss** · 06-12-2003, 12:16 AM

Damn trick questions!!!

**Mudge** · 06-12-2003, 12:23 AM

LoL... seriously, the attention is nice now and again, although if I was stared at constantly like many women I'm sure it would bother me.

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-12-2003, 01:20 AM

Originally posted by Pitboss
They don't????

Yes! They do

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-12-2003, 09:44 PM

Originally posted by buff_tat2d_chick
Yes! They do

When do you geet of woik?

hmmmm..I need anothe ridrink

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-12-2003, 09:49 PM

I am fucked up

Just need to talkt to someone

**Pitboss** · 06-12-2003, 10:15 PM

Originally posted by buff_tat2d_chick
I am fucked up

Just need to talkt to someone

Seems like you were carrying that conversationwith yourself quite nicely

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-12-2003, 10:27 PM

Originally posted by Pitboss
Seems like you were carrying that conversationwith yourself quite nicely

**lean_n_76er** · 06-12-2003, 11:07 PM

Buff? are you drunk? Been hanging with Kuso?

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-12-2003, 11:11 PM

trunk...yes

where is that damn Kuso??? he left me to drink yb myself

**lean_n_76er** · 06-12-2003, 11:16 PM

That inconsiderate BASTARD! If I wasn't working... I'd join ya! OK, how's this... I'll have one for you when I get home? OK?

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-12-2003, 11:23 PM

Originally posted by lean_n_76er
That inconsiderate BASTARD! If I wasn't working... I'd join ya! OK, how's this... I'll have one for you when I get home? OK?

Ok, cool!! Enjoy that dirnk. Maybe we can have one together sometime whe n you do'nt have to work.

**lean_n_76er** · 06-12-2003, 11:28 PM

Cool! I plan on having a few this weekend. Been to long! Sit down on the back porch, grab a glass, JD and .... hmmmm, maybe a Captain Morgan weekend or even Crown Royal... hmmmm. What to do?

**Dreadlox** · 06-13-2003, 03:08 AM

I work in a Gentlemen¡¦s club (only on weekends now) I have experienced the employees flirting, the comments... etc. Now I never had the problem you described. It seems that your Male Radar has been confused

We have to separate ourselves. We are male and sex is our weakness no matter what some may say. Most females know this (most if not all of them do that work in this line of work)

Ways I look at it that helps me:

1. This is Business nothing more
2. "This person is doing this because they want something out of me" (I admit this one can be very Harsh so I leave this way of thinking at the work place)
3. Play Mildly (Always giving the cold shoulder is not always good)

Managing and working in a club is very difficult. Since the girls pay the club to dance there its can be very hard to manage the staff. Most feel they deserve more and will try anyway to get it. So you have to be stern at sometimes.

Pitboss, work is work. Try not to let it get to you like this. Think of your female associates as nothing more than associates even if they don¡¦t feel the same about you.

My friends and I, where in our teens when we entered in this business. since We knew the owner all our lives. We had our expectations about the perks in working at a club of this sort. Not saying we didn¡¦t have fun but we learned quickly. Another rule is we don¡¦t date anyone that works with us. If we want to date a dancer we try to find one at another location and rarely telling them that we work at the one 5 miles away. Nowadays this is just work and a place to get some quick cash over the weekend.

**buff_tat2d_chic** · 06-13-2003, 07:02 AM

Dreadlox...don't take PB so seriously

He loves his job and loves the women...read his tag by his name - "recovering sexaholic" - that should tell you a little about him. Go read some of his other posts and you will see....that is just PB

He is not really complaining....he knows it makes for a great thread.

**Blieb** · 06-13-2003, 09:07 AM

PB, if you make a move and they give you the finger, send 'em my way ... some of us aren't fortunate enough to work for strip clubs!

**Pitboss** · 06-13-2003, 12:12 PM

Thanks Dread!! But Buff is correct... I just like to start threads about stuff..

and Blieb go get your own damn strippers!! These girls are all mine!! All 60 of them!! That's 2 girls a night and I'd have more if I could but then I'd have to get a King size bed.

**naturaltan** · 06-13-2003, 12:19 PM

the strip club has ruined me as well ... but me financially. The missus sits right up front and I see the twenties being exchange too frequently.

**Burner02** · 06-14-2003, 10:56 AM

well hell...NT-
ow 'bout have the mrs go up as a 'guest' dance once a month..and earn some of the $$ back??

**Badger** · 06-15-2003, 08:40 AM

Never having worked at a strip club I can only imagine how much fun that could be. Realistically though I bet it could also be a pain in the ass also. But damn if I wouldn't give it a try.

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