Thread: Immature Men....

Originally posted by Dale Mabry
Duncan Barnes being my other alias.

I remember Duncan, is that who you are? I dont think I've seen "that guy" around forever!

yes its duncan....i am sitting on him

on another note.....glad to see that i have created such an interesting thread its about time someone stirred up some stuff around here...its been kinda dead lately....anyone else notice?

Great thread J'Bo.

Honestly is the best policy...may get you a slap in the face...but may get ya laid, too

Originally posted by J'Bo
so then answer this....are people that are unsure and underdevelopped not educated or aware of there surroundings?

some may be, yes, certainly not all.

Originally posted by J'Bo
...its been kinda dead lately....anyone else notice?

Definitely!

Its summer

Yeah, that's probably it!

Originally posted by J'Bo
well i would appreciate the honestly....really i would

you know what i mean NT....if you are going on a date and one person just knows that a relationship isnt going to happen...just say you want a night of sex instead...i have used this approach and it works

what sane man would turn that down? Judging from yer pic you look pretty hot, so if you tell a guy that you don't want a relationship, you just want some sex for tonight, what the hell do you think he's gonna say? Hell, i wish every girl would say this because i have met very few girls in my life, like 2, that i'd want a relationship with, but many that i'd bang for a night.

Originally posted by Fit Freak
Know what works..."I'm totally into you...find you really attractive but I'm not looking for a relationship at all...just looking for a good time...so what are you doing later tonight??...wanna come back to my place"

It works and there are no hard feelings either way!

BTW...I don't do this...I'm a goodie

i'm gonna start doing this, dammit. And i used to be a goodie.

Hey J-Bo...!!!!

First I respect your displine/regiment in the health area..

Highly respectfull.........Good on ya........

Second.... are you going to vegas or not..???

Third do you actually have any pics that are just day to day life, normal modes of life like the rest of us???
Like reading a paper, playing with the cat, in stead of all these magizine quality photo's.......

Hey your fans would like to see the real you once in a while..???

(IE: See Butterfly)

JBo's bailing on the Vegas trip ... something about not having enough vacations days ... a friends wedding ... priorities ...

I really think she can't handle the NT party I am bringing ...

Originally posted by J'Bo
I know that i may have just started WWW X on IM but this is a place to express so here it goes

Immature men run when there are problems

Immature men feel a need to make women suffer when they are the ones with the issues

Immature men feel that its nessesary to physically touch a women in the bar because they feel as though their personality isnt good enough to attract a female

Immature men feel that its neesesary to use corny pickup lines to try to get a womens number when really all we want is sincerity

Immature men would rather ignore women when they are mad rather than dealing with problems

Immature men dont express their true feelings.....if you want to just screw say so

Ok i am done for now

I am probably gonna get trashed for responding to this as a newbie but here goes…

Immature men run when there are problems

With women being all “equal” and all these days this is a healthy 50-50 probable outcome and is part of the “fight or flee” instinctive programming (actually it's asexual in nature and not unique to only men). A lot of guys just don’t feel up to the fight and if it happens that her right hook ain’t quite lethal there is always the chance she might be packing a piece. No man wants to take a round over something silly like who mixes the protein-smoothies tonight.

Immature men feel a need to make women suffer when they are the ones with the issues

Can’t relate to this one at all but perhaps some guys reckon that the “stronger” sex has developed an inordinate capacity to endure emotional pain and inappropriately forget to excuse themselves from the dinner table in time when that sudden attack of gas kicks in. Just kidding…

Immature men feel that its nessesary to physically touch a women in the bar because they feel as though their personality isnt good enough to attract a female

I suspect some men are poor communicators and may need the tactile interaction to get your attention away from the other hunk with the terrific personality that’s about to sweet talk you into buying him another drink.

Immature men feel that its neesesary to use corny pickup lines to try to get a womens number when really all we want is sincerity

This is a real problem. I believe this is oftentimes a form of male self deprecation meant to lampoon or make it patently obvious that a guy just would like to talk but has no other available social mechanism (e.g. like a mutual friend) to break the ice. The best response is to (gently and kindly) laugh at him (which I think most usually expect) and come back with an even better one line soft put-down zinger. Then it turns into a test of intelligence, wit and interest. If you are not at all interested in the guy (or it’s not funny anymore) just use your superior intellect to save face for both (the guy’s sweating bullets at this point) by suddenly grabbing your cell phone (as if on vibrate mode). Answer it with something like “ Very anxious for you to get hear sweetheart and take me out where the real men are.” If that don’t work call the bouncer over and hope he don’t repeat the same cycle with you. Failing that – it’s the door, right hook or the packed pistol.

Immature men would rather ignore women when they are mad rather than dealing with problems

See the first response above – fight or flee syndrome. No man desires to be attentive to the honey comb when the queen bee’s all agitated. Watch for a smoke screen tactic if he is really hungry for honey (sorry guys to give away instinctive male tactics #3 here ).

Immature men dont express their true feelings.....if you want to just screw say so

Truth is – a LOT of men (but not all) would like a woman that would be more of a “catch” than that. There is usually no ego gratification in getting a woman in bed if she would do it with any ‘ol stranger on the first night anyway; and the ego usually ends up being the bigger of the two forces working inside a man. The other problem is a lot of men just don’t know their true feelings beyond that first level of physical attraction. With so many beautiful and buff women these days a man can be stunned silly for months when he finally succeeds in getting a beautiful lady's attention.

Originally posted by mtb'er
Hey J-Bo...!!!!

First I respect your displine/regiment in the health area..

Highly respectfull.........Good on ya........

Second.... are you going to vegas or not..???

Third do you actually have any pics that are just day to day life, normal modes of life like the rest of us???
Like reading a paper, playing with the cat, in stead of all these magizine quality photo's.......

Hey your fans would like to see the real you once in a while..???

(IE: See Butterfly)

Man i love this thread too buff...but everytime i turn around i have 30 comments to comment on

Cheesehead= thanks for the compliment....i think...sounds like you are just as picky as i am my friend and i came up with the best line to get a man to leave you alone "but all i want is a relationship"....watch them turn and run within seconds

MTB'R= who are you? do i know you? well i am trying my best to go...really i am....searching all avenues.....btw that is me everyday...i pose half naked on the beach all day well i promise to post what you would call "everyday pics" soon...but i am usually either at work....at the gym or at home....and when i go home i am usually naked....so those wont be posted here....well not again

NT= thats it mr. your gonna get it

Ohocean= first of all i dont run EVER....never would...its pointless in my books....unless i am so pissed that i would rather stick my foot up his ass....i dont know where you live...but we dont pack anything here other than our bags when we are leaving ....

the only line i ever fell for was "hello my name is....." works everytime....how effin hard is that?

but in general ocean i pretty much agree with everything you are saying...i know that people in general have a hard time expressing their emotions

Sawheet has no comment on this, no stimulating conversation. No views or aspirations. Sawheet just wants to get laid and he is not afraid to say so.

Originally posted by sawheet
Sawheet has no comment on this, no stimulating conversation. No views or aspirations. Sawheet just wants to get laid and he is not afraid to say so.

so we hear

Originally posted by J'Bo

NT= thats it mr. your gonna get it

bring it!!

i think you meant.....bring it on......oh its on baby.....booked my flight to come kick your ass

I'll be in the pool 'ing for ya ...

Damn it's like reading a book about me..... not good, not good at all!!!
However in truth this is my response......


Immature men run when there are problems
because we fear hurting someone so close to us and would rather run than cause pain, tears, heartbreak, etc.

Immature men feel a need to make women suffer when they are the ones with the issues
see above. Also women are more vocal and are able to communicate much better than men. Men hide thier feelings and emotions. Spend your life doing that and you'll find it harder and harder to express what needs to be said

Immature men feel that its nessesary to physically touch a women in the bar because they feel as though their personality isnt good enough to attract a female
not sure about this one.... it was an accident??

Immature men feel that its neesesary to use corny pickup lines to try to get a womens number when really all we want is sincerity
For me it's a lack of confidence and intimidation by women. The corny lines just come out.

Immature men would rather ignore women when they are mad rather than dealing with problems
see all of the above. And the obvious, dealing with the issue may cause words to be used that are said in the heat of the moment and cause more problems. We don't think before we speak and therefore say what we really don't mean

Immature men dont express their true feelings.....if you want to just screw say so
if we did express our true feelings we would all be Co-stars in the movie Birdcage!! If we bluntly ask if you want to fuk wouldn't that through out you wanting sincerity instead of corny pick up lines??

Originally posted by J'Bo
i think you meant.....bring it on......oh its on baby.....booked my flight to come kick your ass

don't be ashamed ... many have fallen trying to party with the Natural One.