Thread: Immature Men....

I am the height of immaturity, and none of those apply to me.

Well those are the issues that i have with immature men....well not all of the issues but the ones that bother me today

But most of all immature boys are fun to play with cause they are too stupid to realize whats going on

Originally posted by The_Chicken_Daddy
I am the height of immaturity, and none of those apply to me.

so you tell a women straight to her face that you just want to screw?

Originally posted by J'Bo
[FONT=century gothic]I know that i may have just started WWW Immature men dont express their true feelings.....if you want to just screw say so

yeah that is how it works ...

guy eyes a lovely in the bar and calmly walks up to her and says,
"Hi there good looking, wanna screw?"

well i would appreciate the honestly....really i would

you know what i mean NT....if you are going on a date and one person just knows that a relationship isnt going to happen...just say you want a night of sex instead...i have used this approach and it works

Originally posted by J'Bo
Immature men feel a need to make women suffer when they are the ones with the issues
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Originally posted by J'Bo

But most of all immature boys are fun to play with cause they are too stupid to realize whats going on [/FONT]

I am not immature, im not, im not, im not!!!!!!!!! so there

Heh, good catch MTB

Originally posted by J'Bo
well i would appreciate the honestly....really i would

...just say you want a night of sex instead...i have used this approach and it works

Of course it works for you, not many guys turn down a beautiful chick! If a guy did it, It wouldn't always work, unless he's famous or rich.

Did someone have a bad weekend???

J'Bo...couldn't agree more....immature guys are everywhere and that's exactly what they do...play games and hide behind their true feelings. As for a night of sex...I think you hit it right on...sooo many more people...guys and gals...would appreciate the honesty of.."why don't we just fuck"...rather than acting like there's something there and playing head games.

Boys at IM...don't flame me...I agree with her on this one

Know what works..."I'm totally into you...find you really attractive but I'm not looking for a relationship at all...just looking for a good time...so what are you doing later tonight??...wanna come back to my place"

It works and there are no hard feelings either way!

BTW...I don't do this...I'm a goodie

Originally posted by J'Bo
so you tell a women straight to her face that you just want to screw?

This just happened to me Sat night and you just look at them absolutely stunned and do all you can from punching them in the face.

Originally posted by PB&J
Of course it works for you, not many guys turn down a beautiful chick! If a guy did it, It wouldn't always work, unless he's famous or rich.

Did someone have a bad weekend???

PB&J= well how could you tell? not really a bad weekend...just a little fed up with men at bars that cant keep their hands to themselves.

FF= glad someone agrees with me...and another point i need to make is that some females do play immature games sometimes as well...i just dont come across them

ummm FF.....can i use your line? it may come in handy.

Jodi= well at first i would be shocked but then i would have to admit that the balls that guy had are pretty big so therefore derserves to at least be intoduced to your female enemy

This thread should be titled immature "boys", because "men" do not behave like that.

Originally posted by Mudge
Heh, good catch MTB

ah- thank you!

Originally posted by I Are Baboon
This thread should be titled immature "boys", because "men" do not behave like that.

sorry...you are right.

Originally posted by J'Bo
I know that i may have just started WWW X on IM but this is a place to express so here it goes

Immature men run when there are problems

Immature men feel a need to make women suffer when they are the ones with the issues

Immature men feel that its nessesary to physically touch a women in the bar because they feel as though their personality isnt good enough to attract a female

Immatur.....if you want to just screw say soe men feel that its neesesary to use corny pickup lines to try to get a womens number when really all we want is sincerity

Immature men would rather ignore women when they are mad rather than dealing with problems

Immature men dont express their true feelings.....if you want to just screw say so

Ok i am done for now

J'bo. I'm sorry that you are having a bad day. I hope that I don't get blasted for this reply, but I do have a few comments. As unfortunate as it is Men are just different from women. I, as most other men, do fit into some of the area's of your issues with men but I know that I certainly don't fit into all of them. Men just are not ones that "open up" easily. It is just not in our nature. Most times we don't even "open up" with our closest friends, but instead will try to work it out ourselves. (Stupid I know, but that is how we are). We all have issues but some men feel it's better to just get away from certain issues than to complicate their life with seemingly "useless" discussions and arguements. It's easier to "run" from a problem than to work through it.

It is NEVER OK to touch someone else, no matter what the situation, without the other person's permission. Those guys are just assholes and need the shit kicked out of them. As for pick up lines, they have been around for ever. Some people, both men and women, just concider it "part of the game". I don't like them, and have never used them, but there are women out there that can come up with some real "winners" in this catagory too.

Some men, myself included, tend to "shy away" from saying what is truely on their minds so that they don't hurt someone's feelings. This is truely one of my greatest "problems", I just can't do that, especially with a woman.

Men can really be assholes and a lot of them don't mind being that way. I haven't been in the "game" for a long time but I can't imagine that things have changed all that much. I know guys that would lie, cheat, steal, etc.. to get in some girls pants but to just come out and say "let's screw" I haven't come across that very often. I am by far the agressor in a relationship, and would rather let the woman find me. I have been truely blessed so far. Who know's, it could all change tomorrow and I don't think I'd be any different.

Good luck in the future with immature men. I doubt you'll go a day without encountering one.

On the lighter side of this:



".....if you want to just screw say so"

Originally posted by Badger
J'bo. I'm sorry that you are having a bad day. I hope that I don't get blasted for this reply, i wouldnt do thatbut I do have a few comments. As unfortunate as it is Men are just different from women. I, as most other men, do fit into some of the area's of your issues with men but I know that I certainly don't fit into all of them. Men just are not ones that "open up" easily. It is just not in our nature. Most times we don't even "open up" with our closest friends, but instead will try to work it out ourselves. yes but when two people are in a relationship then they need to communicate with eachother about what is going on....hiding feelings leads only to messy situations....nothing good comes from running or hiding (Stupid I know, but that is how we are). We all have issues but some men feel it's better to just get away from certain issues than to complicate their life with seemingly "useless" discussions and arguements. what may be useless to some men is not useless to women.....if the women is upset about something then its not useless. period. men should respect the fact that although they may think it is trivial that it bothers them and thus is a big dealIt's easier to "run" from a problem than to work through it.

It is NEVER OK to touch someone else, no matter what the situation, without the other person's permission. Those guys are just assholes and need the shit kicked out of them. and thus why my fist is sore As for pick up lines, they have been around for ever. Some people, both men and women, just concider it "part of the game". I don't like them, and have never used them, but there are women out there that can come up with some real "winners" in this catagory too.

Some men, myself included, tend to "shy away" from saying what is truely on their minds so that they don't hurt someone's feelings. This is truely one of my greatest "problems", I just can't do that, especially with a woman. in the long run who is really being hurt? if you are honest...yet tactful then most women would appreciate that...you have to judge for yourself how blunt you can be...all depends upon the women

Men can really be assholes and a lot of them don't mind being that way. I haven't been in the "game" for a long time but I can't imagine that things have changed all that much. I know guys that would lie, cheat, steal, etc.. to get in some girls pants but to just come out and say "let's screw" I haven't come across that very often. I am by far the agressor in a relationship, and would rather let the woman find me. I have been truely blessed so far. Who know's, it could all change tomorrow and I don't think I'd be any different.

Good luck in the future with immature men. I doubt you'll go a day without encountering one.no there will not be a day...however ignorance is everywhere and its not just men that are immature

On the lighter side of this:



".....if you want to just screw say so"
i do say so

Originally posted by J'Bo
But most of all immature boys are fun to play with cause they are too stupid to realize whats going on

Now that's something that applies to me.

so you tell a women straight to her face that you just want to screw?

I try not to, but i have in the past.

Originally posted by J'Bo
PB&J= well how could you tell? not really a bad weekend...just a little fed up with men at bars that cant keep their hands to themselves.

Your buffed, kick their ass! Don't go to bars to find a nice guy, it most likely won't work. I doubt that you have a hard time with guys anyway.

Good luck anyway. I wouldn't worry about it.

I wish I knew how you put your comments into my post. I haven't figured that one out yet. Anyway, here goes:

1. "yes but when two people are in a relationship then they need to communicate with eachother about what is going on....hiding feelings leads only to messy situations....nothing good comes from running or hiding"

Your are so right. It's not fair for either side to hide but their are a lot of people that can't for some reason do this. It is human nature to not want to hurt someone, especially when that someone means a lot.

2. "what may be useless to some men is not useless to women.....if the women is upset about something then its not useless. period. men should respect the fact that although they may think it is trivial that it bothers them and thus is a big deal"

I used "useless" as a general term and meant no harm. In getting to the point that a lot of men, and some women, tend to "take the easy way out" and that would be the nonconfrontational way. Whether it is just being quiet or packing up and leaving, either way it is the "easy" way. Everyone's feelings are important, no matter what that feeling may be.

3. "and thus why my fist is sore"

GOOD FOR YOU. I HOPE THAT YOUR FIST GETS BETTER SOON.

4. "in the long run who is really being hurt? if you are honest...yet tactful then most women would appreciate that...you have to judge for yourself how blunt you can be...all depends upon the women"



This is where each person's personality should come into play. Although it's human nature to not want to hurt someone, especially someone who means a lot to you, in each relationship one should concider the other's personality. I know in my situation I am one that would rather not say a lot and work it out from there. On the other hand, my sig. other would rather analyze every comment, thought, right down to specific details. This can take weeks to satisfy her, and what LONG weeks they can be. Women tend to want to work everything out to the finest detail no matter what the consequences. At least that is what I have experienced so far.

5. ".....if you want to just screw say so"
i do say so



Let's go!!!!!!

Originally posted by Badger
It is NEVER OK to touch someone else, no matter what the situation, without the other person's permission.

I'd probably get sick and discusted if I was getting grabbed 20 times a night too, some people either dont think or dont care.

J'Bo...go ahead and use the line anytime.....it may be blunt but at least you'll be being honest...that's gotta count for something...think about it...the worst thing that'll happen is you get shutdown and besides if you're not interested in the guy who cares really

You forgot one, we also make up fake names and jobs and credentials to see what you chicks will believe. I actually used Dale Mabry this weekend for real, Duncan Barnes being my other alias. I don't do it for sex, the ones I want sex with generally get told up front and get my real name, if they get my name at all. I generally give the fake name for funnsies and the girls never really find out I was joshing them, I don't wanna hurt any feelings ya know.

Originally posted by J'Bo
I know that i may have just started WWW X on IM but this is a place to express so here it goes

Immature men run when there are problems

Immature men feel a need to make women suffer when they are the ones with the issues

Immature men feel that its nessesary to physically touch a women in the bar because they feel as though their personality isnt good enough to attract a female

Immature men feel that its neesesary to use corny pickup lines to try to get a womens number when really all we want is sincerity

Immature men would rather ignore women when they are mad rather than dealing with problems

Immature men dont express their true feelings.....if you want to just screw say so

Ok i am done for now

I think you're making an unjust generalization. Not all of these would be due to immaturity, in fact some would be cause by insecurity.

PB&J= thats my point i dont go to bars to find nice men....i go to dance and have fun with my friends and be left the F%&* alone.

Mudge= yes its the touching that really gets to me.....when i call it quits and tell them to back off they just call me a BITCH

FF= i will let you know how the line goes. lol. pssst you wanta jj

Dale= thats funny i was actually talking about you through this whole thread...so next time i see you in the club keep your hands to yourself...hows the bloody nose

Prince= unjust? how is that? insecure, ignorant, immature they are all the same in my books....can't have one without the other

Originally posted by J'Bo
Prince= unjust? how is that? insecure, ignorant, immature they are all the same in my books....can't have one without the other

You had better get a new book then!


Insecure: Not sure or certain; doubtful: unemployed and facing an insecure future.

Ignorant: Lacking education or knowledge. Unaware or uninformed.

Immature: Not fully grown or developed. Marked by or suggesting a lack of normal maturity: silly, immature behavior.

Oh J'bo, I don't grab, that is a no-no. Besides, I would probably put my hand down on a chair and you would keep trying to sit on it just to see what it would be like...